So my ex blocked my number my discord etc 6 months ago would it be too much to add him on a second discord just to get closure? I mean unfortunately I do still love him but I just kinda want closure I would probably just get blocked again right? but even if he told me he hated my guts or something I would rather that than the nothing I got and at least then I know
i know how you feel but him completely cutting you off and blocking you on everything is closure enough. he doesnt love you and you have to accept that fact even though its sad
>>43557156i think deep down i probably know that already and i dont know why i keep thinking about him your post made me tear up tbqhwyf
>>43557085>add him on a second discord just to get closureThis would be the opposite of closure and moreso cutting it fresh open, do not recommend
>>43557085It depends. Is he one of those bitches that block partners over nothing or did you push him so far that he has a legitimate reason to hate you now.
>>43557256sorry if what i said was harsh but its an unfortunate truth i had to accept when breaking up with my ex. the more you plan to "fix everything" the deeper you will get into this despair and eventually, youll just have to stop planning for that and accept that they are gone. when i accepted my ex was gone from me i cried a lot and passed out on my bed but that was how i got over it
>>43557290I don't think he should legitimately hate me the day he blocked me and what he blocked me over I think was really minor (it was literally me telling him I scheduled a consult for ffs) but have i done not so great things prior? yeah
>>43557362>not so great things prioris this just an oopsie woopsie or some bpd terror shit
>>435575752 times about 10 months apart I got drunk one was on Thanksgiving because my father had died and it was the first major holiday without him and I called my bf drunk while at work sobbing and scared the shit out of him he didn't talk to me for a few days over that and the second time 10 months later we had a fight I went to work came home drunk asked for a hug he refused and I threatened to kill myself and yeah I think that last one I really fucked up badly Those are by far the 2 worst things I did to him in 2 years of dating everything else was just dumb shit like me fucking up my car or not taking care of it and him having to fix it or well just him helping me with dumb shit around the house I couldn't fix myself not to say I've never said anything dumb I shouldn't have but we didn't get into many fights in those 2 yearsBut yeah I guess that qualifies as some bpd terror shit and the final straw for him was the ffs when my life isn't exactly ideal and I have no support and barely any friends
>>43557672what is the problem with the first one?
