>>43566245
Have sex with him behind her back.

Yeah that's an insanely selfish ask.

>>43566245
yeah he's manipulating you to keep you around as his plan B
there are plenty of chasers out there, don't get attached to someone who doesn't want you

>>43566245
you should never talk to him again, unironically

>>43566252
>>43566265
do one of these

>>43566245
Make him promise on video and in writing that he will leave his wife once he uses her for breeding and that you will be the new mother of his kids.

uh nona
how did you even fall in love with this guy?

>>43566245
>be his mistress and poison his brain with hate of his wife until he leaves her for you

Never ever eveeer wait for someone...

>he betrayed me for anachronistic fantasies about his life
>he's using me as a fetish to threaten doing the same thing to his fiance behind her back
>he's asking me to make up for his shit behavior by making up with him despite all of the anguish he is knowingly causing
A fucking surrogate is possible what a piece of shit I fucking hate men

>>43566297
we were together for 5 years, he was my first love. we never fought or had problems so when he told me he wanted to break up, it felt completely out of nowhere. it never felt like i had closure for it because i feel like he was just doing it because his parents want him to have kids. even after we broke up, every time we spoke the chemistry was still there, the love was still there, it never went away. now he says this stuff. i can't move on from him. hes everything to me, maybe im just dumb...

>>43566377
OP is truly a woman because this is some woman moment shit.

nona that man is sinister. he is using some poor woman for reproductive purposes and has plans to leave her in the dust after she produces his offspring. he will screw you over too, in fact he already has! this is an unbelievably cruel thing to do to both you and her, he is selfish. I know your heart is still tender for him and I know how it feels to deeply love a man who left you, but please don't give him the chance to hurt you again and don't be an accomplice in his hurting someone else

the rare femcuck thread

>>43566377
idk i think you should go no contact
he isnt even sorry, he just put you on hold while he pursues his own things lol

>>43566377
You aren’t dumb, but he has been incredibly cruel towards you. You know that getting back with him would be fucked up. There’s no way things can go back to how they were before. He completely disregarded your feelings for his selfish purposes, and even now, he’s still doing it, stringing you along with hopes for a distant future after he has everything he wants.

>>43566245
that’s horrible wtf nona. please find someone who actually cares about you and won’t string you along. just because you’re trans doesn’t mean you can’t be a mom. read medea if u want

>trans women aren't women
This is the most womanbrained shit ive seen today

>>43566245
Never talk to him again. It'll hurt in the short term but you'll be better off for it.

>>43566245
this is fake obviously, but breeders really would throw everything away to selfishly summon their half-clone

>>43566245

He would have gone the surrogate route if he really cared about you or would bring you into his marriage and polycule up.

Get out of there this guy is not in love with you.

Thats a fucking nightmare jesus christ im sorry. You really need to convey how much you love him and what a fucking mistake that is if you can even forgive him.

>>43566245
His bum ass should've adopted or had enough money for surrogacy. He's trying to have his cake and eat it too.

>>43566245
nobody has asked this so i will

why the actual fuck did you not try to get a surrogate? like ik its not "the same" but if you loved each other as much as you say, why wasnt that a compromise?

>>43566245
Wait for him to break up with his wife and then when he asks to come back to you, you say "Sorry but you can't make me pregnant. I'm also lesbian". Then you tell him you are dating his ex.

>>43566245
moidgroids always refer to reproduction as "passing on their genes" or "keeping the bloodline alive" it's entirely narcissistic and he will not love his own children
any man who expects you to raise children who aren't your own should be equally willing to adopt. he's putting you through a terrible emotional situation because he's too much of a narcisist to have just considered surrogacy or adoption

he wouldn't love you if you were a worm, he won't even love you if you're infertile. fuck him

>>43566245
>>he told me that he still loves me and that his fiance doesn't make him feel the same way
>>he said that he doesn't think their relationship will last after they have children
>>he asked me if i would wait for him for when that day comes
>>not sure how to feel about this
it's the ideal scenario
he goes off on the sidequest to find a baby oven, bake 2.5 at once
as soon as she pops em out, they get divorced and she gets moved elsewhere, you get dragged in to fulfill your destiny as a good mother and wife to a good man
you two move to a better place and leave the bad parts of the past behind
ex goes to some african nation to get her vagoober pozzed and live a short slutty life or stays back to be the ultimate victim
it's a win-win-win

>>43568637
>He would have gone the surrogate route
In this economy?!

>>43568866
op's future baby daddy is going the DIY route

>>43566245
they can now turn your skin cells into an egg cell, fertilize it with your BFs sperm, and implant it in a willing surrogate
he no longer has reason to choose the other woman

>>43566245
>>43566377
How do you date someone for 5 years without even trying to work out the children question with him??

>>43566245
>>we decided to remain friends after our breakup
>he admitted to me that he thinks about me everyday and that he misses me
>while recently engaged desu
Larp detected

>>43566245
do it nona! show that clueless cissoid that she is only good for baking babies

>>43566377
I hate your ex for ruining what you had for such a stupid reason

I honestly hope this is a larp after watching the Euphoria wedding episode but even this happens to m/m loving partners. There are "no labels" just how the protagonists of Geography Club have stated, but then you cannot be acknowledged as their best friend bc it would introduce you to their normal friends which will sus out what's so special about the two that make the friendship bond so special.
Op, you're being hot potatoed and wedged into a situation you cannot really reel out of if you wait. The mother will always take priority and will have custody and child support if there is no spousal arrangements which I doubt.
Please find a person that will find a future with you and make it happen.

>>43570654
"I hope" it's a larp obviously

>>43570527
Maybe he didn't want kids before and then realize he did. I didn't want kids until a few years ago, had many relationships prior.

>>43566245
He's being incredibly cruel to his fiancee

>>43570863
So does the OP explicitly not want kids and didn't mention it in the post? Or did the OP's ex start wanting kids but failed to talk about it with his transgender girlfriend to discuss realistic options? Sounds like he was already looking for a reason to leave and this was just a convenient excuse.

>>43570863
Men are always thinking about leaving a legacy. It's mainly the pressure of societal norms that accelerate the feeling of wanting to naturally procreate.