The femboy community desperately needs to evolve past this cringe reddit phase its currently in. I dont think we will ever be taken seriously until we are able to move past it. The trans community was able to move past their own embarrasing amazon-basics SiLlY redditor era, and once they moved past it their reputation recovered and the trans community started being taken seriously. Its about time for us femboys to do the sameWe need to make developing your own unique style and fashion sense the norm in the femboy community. We need to start encouraging other femboys to have some dignity and self-respect, while also ostracizing all the crossdressing fetishists from us. We also must push back against egg culture and oppose it and all its forms. Thank you for listening to my Ted-talk
Femboys necessarily must, at least occasionally, pass as womenthat is the essential quality of femboys, and randoms dressing with an eye for 2014 schizo adjacent trans fagposting are making femboys look as antisocial and delusional as otherkin.
>>43566851>Femboys necessarily must, at least occasionally, pass as womenThats not the essential quality of what being a femboy is. Femboys only have to pass as feminine androgynous cute males. >and randoms dressing with an eye for 2014 schizo adjacent trans fagposting are making femboys look as antisocial and delusional as otherkin.genuinely incomprehensible sentence lol
>>43566816Never going to happen. The world's culture is deliberately designed to make sure that feminine people aren't taken seriously.
>>43568044Trvke, unfortunately
>>43566816Serious femboys are so rare it hurts...it's all just face masks and internet posts
>>43566816If you remove all the crossdressing fetishists and eggs there would be no femboys left
>>43566816>The trans community was able to move past their own embarrasing amazon-basics SiLlY redditor eraInto what exactly?A bunch of political activist?
>>43566816can never happen because trannies have their own intrinsic core identity whereas a femboy is functionally no different from a cis man, you are defined by the clothes you wear and not any physiological difference (besides genetic fortune). just troon out alread yits fine you can boymode.
OP is correct on every level
>>43566816>t. Chaser that engages with the community As long as you guys dont take HRT, it will never evolve. Most normies see femboys through the lense of fiction. When actually engaging with it, you have people that want to essentially pass as women with only minimal ways to get to said goal. Usually through fitness, diet, fashion, etc. Obviously that will only do so much so people usually either transition, crossdress, or drop the femboy shtick all together. This is why most people genuinely don't even know what happens to femboys once they hit 30.The only path forward is through true androgynity which is obtained by passing while using gender neutral/fem leaning presentation which is basically just transitioning in all ways except socially (hrt twink). The moment you do that and don't have to rely on reddit fem presentation that you yourself don't even feel comfortable wearing irl, femboys won't be seen as cringe. Cringe in regards to queer spaces at least. Also, stop being racist.
you do realise your entire subculture is just pedophilic fetishists, right?
>>43570671hot take autopedophilia is perfectly fine as long as you look fashionable and cute doing it. women indulge in this constantly with zero backlash and quite frankly its ok to want to be cute and young, just dont age regress in public
oh also kids should not be involved in this hobby
>>43570762alternatively, the term "femboy" (literally feminine boy) shouldn't have become a porn search term.
>>43566816the serious people in the community (if there are any) really need to go their own way, if you keep using that term for yourself and associating with that community nobody is going to see you any differently than them, plus you're outnumbered there massively it'd be impossible for you to socially shame the pervs that basically run it
>>43570842i KNOW RIGHT but now a bunch of slow redditor trucels view it as "hot" so they think if they crossdress it gives them sexual value they dont have otherwise. i fucking hate shitters like that. i want to hang around people that actually understand and like women regardless of whats in their pants esp if theyre emulating wimminfolk.>>43570866ive started calling myself an otokonoko or trap or futa but thats a bandadge solution. maybe we need to reclaim these terms as not being strictly pornbrained
>>43570842You're not wrong but when your whole identity is passing as a girl without hrt, you're gonna get an underage crowd.
>>43570885>otokonoko the Asian communities do tend to be less obnoxious, piggybacking off them may be a good idea even long term, whatever you decide on though i think hard-baking hrt use into the community's identity would be a good way to root out the more unserious people.
>>43566816The "cringe reddit phase" is just "extroverts" (in the sense of "motivated by external factors") chasing attention and affirmation. The people who want that will never move past it, because that's exactly the objective.The difference was that the trans community has a lot of autistic "introverts" (as in, "internally motivated people") who want to transition to accomplish some personal transformation. The "cringe reddit phase" part of the trans community still exists and is out there right now on reddit. They were just the first to break into the public consciousness, but eventually the tidal wave of "autistic introvert" trannies broke the dam and drowned out most of the redditors.So, do you actually have any non-extrovert femboys? Any at all? Because I'm not seeing that many of them...
We probably need a new term for cis men who don't really want to transition but want to have a largely feminine personal aesthetic>>43566851Passing when crossdressing should be a goal, yes, otherwise you're just a boyish twink with maybe some extra flavor
>>43571402You literally just described an attractive crossdresser. The longer you people refuse to evolve your definition of what a femboy is, the longer people refuse to take it seriously.
>>43566816The harsh truth is that femboys will never be seen as anything more than a fetish by normalfags because for most femboys, that's all it is. Femboys who have genuine interest and taste in aesthetics and fashion are rare, for most of them it's just a meme/fetish.>The trans community was able to move past their own embarrasing amazon-basics SiLlY redditor eraWhen? Troons are still the most reddit demographic on the planet.
>>43566816Yuo have a childs understanding of what a subculture is and how it works get off four channel and do something irl to pass the time until you're allowed to post here. People on the internet wearing Amazon basics clothing and face masks shouldn't bother you this much when you could be listening to music on a couch.
>>43571642>The harsh truth is that femboys will never be seen as anything more than a fetish by normalfags because for most femboys, that's all it is.This pretty much. I think that's why they tend to hate trannies the most. The moment they started getting into more serious political conversations (around 2014) they're were no longer just a porn category. Not only are femboys still seen as nothing more than a porn category, but they also don't want the negative connotation with being seen under a serious light like trannies are. It's weird. They want to be taken seriously, but not too seriously to avoid social responsibilities. >Troons are still the most reddit demographic on the planet.In conservative spaces, 100%. But definitely not everywhere.
