Please, can someone help me?I want to know how I can find a cisf chaser to lose my virginity to. I am a 26 year old transbian who is incredibly socially anxious and autistic. What do I even do? Where do I even look to find one?This has been my dream for a long time and I would appreciate any help! Thank you.
>>43572946Good luck nona I have no idea how to find others cisf chasers either and I am one, so you'll really need good luck
>>43572946in my experience, the only cis women dating trannies are the same cis women and same moids that were dating in high school. your odds (zero) haven't changed at all since your youth have you yet been on the lesbian dating apps? even at 22 every girl on there has children from relationships with men who pumped and dumped them. the idea of a cute cis girl who would be nice to you and help you transition is asinine fantasy. that's why you only ever see anime drawings of it happening and never irl stuff
>>43573016>even at 22 every girl on there has children from relationships with men who pumped and dumped them.I think I will ignore incel speak.
>>43572997I will try my hardest
>>43572946>how to find a cisf chaseri can't give you a step by step, but what i can do is tell you where cisf chasers i have interacted with (as well as trans-neutral lesbians) came from and are at now as a fellow tranny with genital preference>first girlfriendmet in school pre transition. i broke up with her because i was planning on killing myself for being unable to cope with never being a woman. she is an anti-trans lesbian now but thought she was straight at the time>college gfplayed the performative chivalry role with a woman because i had gotten to the point of realizing i would never have anyone if i didn't just accept that cis women require being treated as the gift-receiver (basically, make every advance, pay for the first 10 dates, expect absolutely nothing from it, smile and make jokes without ever bringing up that you are upset about your masculine role in the world because they will call it a privilege to be in those male roles.) she dumped me because she thought it was misogynistic for me to say it sucks being treated like a man all the time. she's now dating a cis man from her dnd group>v-card lossstraight cis female friend group (you have to make this over a long period of time by pinging off of thousands of obligatory-acquaintences to meet people through social events you don't want to go to) introduced a new member who one girl met on roblox. She hated me at first but warmed up to me after a long period of exposure through the friend group. this only works if you pass>long time friend-crush who would have been an option if not for the circumstancesever since she was 16 she's been dating an adult male who moved in with her family during high school. I find the entire thing incredibly inappropriate, but she counts as part of this list because the man, who entered the relationship under the pretenses of being a man, began transitioning after already doing all of the gross-man stuff that has to be done to get into a relationship
>>43573240point of this list: every time i've ever had a cis woman consider dating me, it was because i played into the dating roles these women have been socially conditioned to expect. you have to treat them as the woman in these cases. these women want to be treated the same way you probably want to be treated (based on your picrel) but they are highly desired while you are not a cis woman and therefore have to do all the heavy lifting (since, obviously, nobody is trying hard to get with you)
>>43573279What if I have no masculine bone within me and I am unable to perform this role?
>>43572946i don't believe 26 and virginbut download the HER app and be funny. that's all
>>43573240This entire post is ropefuel
>>43573392>i don't believe 26 and virginwhat do you mean>but download the HER app and be funny. that's allhow do I be funny
>>43573291then you have to date men, detransition a pooner, date trans women, or accept that you'll be a virgin until you die. women do not make the first move especially if they don't see you as someone with the divine right to girlhood>>43573392only works if you were able to charm women by playing the male social role before transition>>43573423my dating life was never a thing of honor. but it does have variety in it. and when there are different types of women in a group all behaving the same way, it is pretty safe to say that the common thing between them will be pretty common among all women (women tend to want to be the object of affection not the givers of affection)
>>43573435>how do i be funnyby acting how an attractive man would act when talking to a woman. if you don't know what that's like, unironically go fuck a hot guy you're not into and copy his moves a cis girl will not respond to shyness or being coy if you want to do PiV. a cis girl will only respond to you displaying positive masculinity (sportive aggression with low reactive aggression)
>>43572946The truth is... if you find one, she will see you as a guy, a "safe guy". She's most likely bisexual or just hetero and will dump you.I'm sorry sis, same shit with gaydens. If they find a "gay boy" it's most likely a hetero man.wake the fuck up, you are AGP. Find another transbian and try to be happy.
>>43576106Some women make the first move>especially if they don't see you as someone with the divine right to girlhoodWell if she doesn't see me as a woman what's the point?>>43576203What if I don't care about PIV>>43576611I can't. I need the cisf validation to be happy.
>>43572946I dated a cisf chaser, she worked at starbucks and pursued me. I just went to get coffee before work each day and that is all. Unfortunately, I realized I just like men and it didn't work out.
>>43576106i didn't talk to women like at all before transitioning
everyone says finding cisf chasers is hard but every lesbian i know is a chaser and wanted to sleep with me
>>43572946same here... im a youngshit and people think im cute but I've never found the infamous cisf chaser before in my life >_>
>>43577473Sure thing bestie, we all believe you
>>43577473I feel like there must be a special combination of traits that lead to this? because I've had a similar experience although I'm not really interested, while everyone here says its impossible.
>>43577510One of them is married to a trans girl now so I'm not even delulu>>43577569Do you have a lot of female friends? Maybe its that because there's not really anything in common with the chasers I know, some are nerdy and some are giganormies
>>43573035ok that was worded very incel-y but wlw dating apps are ridiculously packed with bi women with kids. it's horrific>t.cisbian
>>43576203Is this why lesbian women are always into me?!?? wtfI naturally do the sportive reactive aggression thing but never had the words for it.Everyone saying to fuck a hot guy is correct I only act this way because of my first boyfriend lmfao it's like the easiest way to cheat your way through most social interactions
>>43577569same here only commonality I've noticed is that the women interested are both very conventional attractive and autistic
>>43576891>I can't. I need the cisf validation to be happyso you're saying transwomen aren't real women
>>43576203is this really a good idea that actually works? i suppose if it helps to learn i could do this… not into men but uhi want to learn how to talk to women so badly >sportive aggression with low reactive aggressionwhat do you mean by this?
>>43579261Not falling for it, chaser
>>43579331No, transbians are fem4fem gay men, nta
dating cis women as anything other than a cis man is garbage
I really, really wish I knew. I really want a cis girlfriend. Would do anything for one, and I'm still closeted.
>>43579301posts designed to make me want to kill myself
>>43579741Real
>>43572946rapehon freak
>>43579942I can't be a rapehon. I'm a bottom.
