cisgirl in love with transbian here. how badly will my heart be broken? trying to mentally prepare myself. pic related
>>43584470It will be fine. Nonexistent hearts don't break.
Does she not love you back?
>read the titleEnd it really. They will eventually want to move their love to a man for security. I've seen it happen in real time with irl friend groups. Everything seems perfect until the sudden click activates their neurons to seek out safety from their partner.
>>43584470>how badly will my heart be broken?it won't because this is larp. have a nice day nona and don't forget your meds.
>>43584579i always find it really funny that when people do not live in queer cities, they believe everything is larp.
>>43584555well she says she does, and i dont have any problem believing her, i just feel on some level i care much more about her than she does for me, and in some ways making a thread like this is proving my point.
>>43584607the biggest problem we have on this site is that the burden of proof is on us to believe that this is verifiably true.
>>43584607what are some queer cities
>>43584573Stop egging OP on lmfao not all trans women are androphilic and women can provide security too
>>43584618This just seems like a communication issue
>>43584659hell, las vegas, sin city, sodom and gomorrah
>>43584659i just use it as a catch all term to mean any city with a prominent, lively, influential queer community. Nothing specific comes off the dome besides where I live
>>43584470Why you want a guy who puts it up men's bholes. This why there's AIDS nowadays baka ya'll weird bishes
>>43584663Nope they all are, but repression is one hell of a drug, so its possible it won't come to the surface
>>43584671Maybe, but the issue is compounded because i do think im one of her first real partners ever? She had not dated seriously before her transition, and is pretty much a totally different person now. How can I approach fixing it without making her feel like she’s being judged for being less experienced.. like that’s not her fault and I know it makes her uncomfortable to talk about it
>>43584573I dated a man for security and it really sucked I always wanted to just be with a woman NGL, not that I wasn't attracted to the dude but idk I don't see myself with a man. It eats you inside slowly if you're doing it just for the safety, plus I kinda wanna be equal or a provider instead because I feel inferior when I'm taken care of. Never left anyone for that purpose though, it's evil.
>>43584470if she's malebrained it'll be like a straight breakup possibly after she cheats on you so it'll suck but you'll be fineif she's fembrained and you don't end up getting married it'll be a lesbian breakup so if you've had a relationship before you already know your soul will be shredded to pieces
>>43584815>tranny>into womenstop deluding yourself, we both know you like men it's okay to be a straight woman <3
>>43585395cheating to end a relationship is fembrained tho
>>43584618>i just feel on some level i care much more about her than she does for megod that's relatable. i feel the same with my tboy
>>43586155Unfortunately being straight had been banned. You have to like girlpussy and girldick now. Thems the breaks.
>>43584470Im a transbian who has been with my cisgf for 7 years now. The fact that shes transbian wont effect your relationship youll just live and die by regular relationship stuff
much higher chance of being a bpdemon or an abuser or secretly extremely malebrained. but if she's not any of those then just prepare yourself for a regular relationship with an ugly awkward avoidant male
>>43587790Lie
>>43586207sure, but that's not what i said. malebrained is cheating at any opportunity for no reason and getting caught doing so therefore ending the relationship.
>>43584618felt
>>43584815Thx for replying. Maybe now I know the reasons why dl boyfriend broke up w me. He never made a clear distinction that we were dating nor that I was his friend so the logical position was I was his cis male proxy boyfriend he could provide for but would get very upset if I tried to pay for anything minimal for myself when he was around. I ultimately threw myself out the window from this bc I had to act like some porcelain prince for him to consider being around him or I would be invalidating his masculinity by being male myself. I never liked being femlooking but after I let my facial hair grow I knew it was over
>>43584663>and women can provide security toonona women feel the "not safe" ick even with average height men, let alone women, don't hugbox op
>>43592122Give hrt to all the xx year old boys before their bar mitzvahs so they can stay youthful for life as God intended.