ive been on hrt for over two years now. i pass as a woman (i look pretty average i think)i guess recently ive just been exhausted with trying dating because it just doesnt work and also ive seen so many cool gay guys. and now i dont know if i want to be them or if i just find them cool. please see denmark in eurovision this year for referencesi was so much more happy once i transitioned. now i kinda dont know what to think anymorei believe it may be too late for me because i am fat and my hips have developed to a point where itd be unnatural to try and be a man againidrk what to do
>>43584505yaoi-ing out over gay guys is something every woman does its ok
Try cross dressing as a man and see how you feel.
>>43584505i think ur just going to end up retransitioning if u do
>>43584505you will never be a cool gay guy
>>43584505>i guess recently ive just been exhaustedi’m not sure cis gay dating is something to look forward to if you end up detransing it’s arguably even worse than dating as a tranny if you’re looking for commitment
>>43584515Yea I do this too but still a troon after 10 years, it never passes, but detransting immediately feels like a mistake after trying it
>>43585388Skill issue, I locked down a gaymoid on my third try
definitely detrans because of a eurovision entry. i don't see how that could possibly go wrong.
>>43584505I have fantasize about detransition, but I doubt ever do anything about it. Transitioning for social benefits is highly motivating. No one would respect me, or take this seriously as a man
>>43585388let's not pretend like dating as a straight mtf is easy if that's what op is. it's literally dating at one of the hardest difficulties until you get rly lucky and find your special person who doesn't see you as a sex object and actually views you as a human being and that's only if you get lucky enough to find someone like that. transbian dating is much easier but still far from perfect.
>>43586307If you pass really well and have have SRS you don't need to tell the guy you're transgender. This way you can date any guy who finds you pretty
>>43586342>you don't need to tell the guy you're transgenderthat's debatable
>>43586363How is it debatable? You may disbelieve somebody, but if you will take them at their word, I'll tell you I've done it for years. I never had a boyfriend who knew I was trans
>>43586391i'm talking about the ethical consideration of it not about if you can get away with it
>>43586342who was your surgeon
>>43586447Oh, okay I understand. It felt like a luxury, being able to make a choice, other than to be as a genetic woman, or to consider oneself as unavailable, or asexual and never get involved with any man. I came out transgender when all men believed every female was a born woman. Being anything different would have been a catastrophe.
>>43586470Dr Biber
>>43585297i already dress androgynously>>43585378sadly yeah
>>43586307thisss>>43585653not what i said>>43585871this is probably me
>>43584505I've seen lots of people have a burnout period. Detransitioning doesn't seem to help the majority but taking a step back to like, androgynymode or whatever might help. Cis women get burnt out performing femininity all of the time, and they have way less shit to deal with.
>>43586799i am andromoding alreadyi only wear androgynous clothingi only speak in a comfortable voice range, it just happens to be femalei dont even do makeup
>>43584505Don't throw your whole life away because you had some bad dates idiot. Dating the coolest gay guy ever wouldn't even be enjoyable if you're doing so as a miserable repper.
