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Dating a cis girl
>Everything goes well and I've never felt more loved
>She suddenly starts to grow distant after a few months
>"Hey OP, I think I'm not a lesbian, I think I'm just bisexual"
>She proceeds to start treating me like shit, ignoring me, not even saying she loves me anymore no matter how much I do for her
>She starts talking on and on every day about the men she crushes on and gets mad at me when I feel upset over being treated like shit when she's clearly able to show love and attention to men she's never even met.
>She then starts blaming me for her mental health problems and leaves me.
>Keeps trying to get back in contact with me "as friends!" and painting me out to be the bad person when I say no
>"Hey OP I had a dream about you the other night" "Hey OP what are you up toooo have you been goooooddd ;)" "Hey OP are you still single?" All with zero intention to get back together, cause she makes sure to tell me every time how bad our relationship was for her
>Similar pattern had happened with every bi cis woman I've ever been with
Maybe this is a cis woman issue, start dating trans women only a few months after this
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>Start dating a trans woman, the most loving and affectionate and caring woman I've ever met
>Tell her I'm terrified of her leaving me after 5 months, because all of my relationships up to that point lasted almost exactly that
>"Don't worry OP. I love you so much, I'm not leaving you ever, I promise. No matter what happens we are at the very least making it past 5 months. You are my soulmate"
>5 months in she invites her friend over for hugs. We live a bit far from eachother and she is very touch starved so I put my jealousy aside and let her do it. She reassures me this is just her friend and that she is never leaving me for her
>Her friend arrives, for 2 days she won't stop talking about her friend. On the afternoon of the second day I get a message "Hey I need to improve my life and you're kinda the only thing that's keeping me from doing it, I'm ending our relationship, we'll come back together when I'm better I guess but if I find someone in the meantime that I fancy I won't hesitate in going after them and forgetting about you btw"
>After 3 days since she broke up I hit her up, for closure I guess
>"Yeah no I don't really care about your feelings you should be happy that I left you because my life is going to be infinitely better without you, you're a bitch for not being happy about this. BTW I fucked my friend I told you not to worry about"
>She goes from "Hey OP my life is doing great without you btw. Remember all those things you dreamed of getting to do with me someday? I'm doing them with other people, including that friend I'm dating now. I don't regret leaving you at all" to"Hey OP I'm doing terrible I miss you so much but I know that leaving you was the right decision I wouldn't have done it differently" to "Hey OP I need you please come back to me I fucked up so badly leaving you is biggest regret of my life please it all came crashing down on me" (told her this would happen
>similar situations happening with all of the bi trans women I've dated
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2/2 whoops forgot to mention
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because modern women
>now to read the post
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>>43590884
My condolences on you having to experience what dating is like for nonchad men.
Tell the next one that you will now go no contact with your exes out of respect for them and the past relationship. Might dissuade some from being cheating whores.
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bump
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>>43590884
unbelievably cucked mindset jesus



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