How do I cope with having to detransition? I never was a woman...
let yourself act really girly but without taking hrt at all
>>43591568it sounds like you dont want to detrans. Are you being forced?
>>43591574I'm not forced by any external factors. I've just arrived at the conclusion that I will never be happy by doing any of this, which obviously sucks
>>43591572I have never in my life "acted girly" nor am I capable to do so
>>43591599will you be more happy repping?
>>43591568Gender identity is tough and I think people are too wrapped up with stereotypes. The range of transgender gender expression is as wide as that of cisgender expression, which is to say, as wide as an ocean. I think that instead of trying to think about these things in terms of affirming some sort of ontological gender, you should really just think about whether you like the effects or not, and base it on that. "Gender" is made up bullshit anyway. So is "Sex".
>>43591568#You don’t want to cope. Coping isn’t a substitute for dealing with the facts. Realize that cross dressing, stereotypical behavior, surgery and poisoning yourself you’ll never change WHO you are or WHAT you are. People make mistakes. You can’t change the past. Don’t dwell on it.
>>43591710I can't really know, but it'll definitely stress me out less
>>43591773is hrtrepping an option?
>>43591777That's pretty much what I'm currently doing, but I really should stop. It's only making my life more difficult
>>43591718I'm literally just a man and always was
>>43591568no refunds
>>43591732based
>>43591710HRT Rep then
>>43591795that sucks big time. what are the main things that are more difficult?
>>43591849that's all mtfs...it's just a question if 1) you like looking feminine regardless and 2) whether your ceiling for looking like a woman meets what's acceptable to you
