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is it over for you, too?
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>>43600562
2 years left to become a gigapassoid and meet my chad husband
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I'm lookmaxxing for my last year, wish me luck
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>>43600562
I feel like this is changing massively with late-millennials and zoomers.
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>>43600562
I'm 37 and I've blown every chance I had at love nobody will ever love me I am dying alone
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this doesnt say much. thats just marrying, many cheat or eventually open their relationship. people that successfully have only one partner during their entire life usually meet them in their late teens for women and early 20s for men
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>>43600603
no, you fucking dumb fuck.. EVERYTHING is still possible for you. And I know, you won't listen, but I still have to say it, just like my parents did or my fucking teachers or random ass old people. DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR LIFE.
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>>43600655
its changing so that no one dates at all lol

>>43600665
a lot of people end up in similar situations and I dont really get it because I just developed moral/perfectionist OCD and got cheated on instead of being the reason my relationships went bad

>>43600693
doing an erm akshully for this by pointing out that a lot of relationships devolve into cheating and losing interest in one another is weird. you realize thats arguably worse than just being alone forever right?
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>>43600562
No cause I decided to stop fucking around at 19.
I found a cuntboy cuck who likes to pretend he's a goth femboy.
Very antisocial but large horny friend group so I can basically just invite whoever I want over and they'll bring drugs and ass.
Almost 3 years together. Have spent maybe 4 weeks apart total, in that time. We keep moving in and out as our needs change, very serious yet sooo casual.

Got pegged in Europe. Rimmed on a plane. DP'd in the pit at a florence + the machine concert. And now we're planning a 3 day orgy/molly-bender with some of his friends.

Seriously, get off the internet. Like all of it.
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>>43600818
>doing an erm akshully for this by pointing out that a lot of relationships devolve into cheating and losing interest in one another is weird. you realize thats arguably worse than just being alone forever right?
what? wdym?
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>>43600826
>I found a cuntboy cuck who likes to pretend he's a goth femboy.
literally the only appealing part of your entire post is an FTM who wants to just be a twink/femboy
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>>43600826
I want true love and companionship, not whatever all of this is
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>>43600818
I got cheated on more than 15 years ago and never recovered
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>>43600939
going on 3 years now and ive given up on everything in life cause I realized even when im perfect im never going to be viewed as the prize
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Was 28 when i first met my 25 year old femboy bf and fast forward 4 years later and she's now my 29 year old wife.

Can't believe I won so hard.
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>>43601066
you should do something horrifically heinous that ruins your life so I can feel better about the fact I deserve this and will never get it
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>>43600562

I just saw a 30 yr old tranner meet the love of her life the other, try again please.
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>>43600562
ig me and my wife are early bloomers. I was 24 and she was 21.
>>43601066
Congrats anon. Me and my wife will turn 10 years together next month.
Tranny wife that you were part of her feminization is indeed winning.
>>43601085
you won't get it if you rot online (and allow your mind to be rotted by brainworms).
there are many men who want this, but you find them online as easily as you can find them IRL.
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>>43601229
after losing a long term relationship where I was basically their parent because I felt I could never do better, I impulsively applied and then immediately went to a school I couldnt really afford. I spent 3 years joining any club that even vaguely aligned with my interests, going to concerts, going to conventions, anything I could think of to "get out there", more shit than all the extroverts I knew would even go to. I met only one person I had any shared interests with that didnt treat me coldly when I tried to "go out of my comfort zone" and, notably, he was from halfway across the country. my area is extremely woke - "femboys" barely exist as a concept because being trans is so socially accepted, and 95% of the trans women I met (and I did meet a lot) were exclusively t4t. I do not have the money or connections to be able to move across the country to somewhere less awful for my specific situation and now I am 29. online is my only option.
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>>43600899
I see, have you ever been in love before? Cause every time I've been truly infatuated I was also terrified.

Limiting yourself to what feels comfortable will ensure that the best partner you find is a suitable stand-in for your mother.
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>>43600562
Nope. Find my life partner around that age.
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>>43600562
>26
FUCK its over
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>>43601318
What a miserable future you've laid out for yourself.
Could have changed it at any point. Still can.
29 is still super young, really concerning that you think it's "too late" the only thing stopping you from finding a partner irl is yourself.

Forgive me if I'm assuming incorrectly, but are you not trans? Like trans-femme at a minimum, no? Unless by femboy you just mean like... twinky? Why do you immediately assume you'd be excluded from T4T relationships. Especially amongst autistic faggots like yourself, it can take years to build the level of trust necessary before something stable can grow. Considering how concrete your vision reality seems to be, it'd be reasonable to assume that you probably shut a lot of those relationships down with your pessimism. I know I'm reaching hard but you sound to me like a textbook BPD headcase.

Have you tried therapy? Perhaps a hero dose? With that mindset, with that attitude? It literally doesn't matter what you've been doing, doesnt matter how good you look, you're unfuckable. Like I want you to know I'm picturing your words coming out the mouth of one of those anime femboys, and im somehow MORE disgusted than if it were coming out of the chud behind the screen.

The idea that anyone could make it to 29 without realizing that nothing matters is baffling to me.
The hottest trans woman (19) I ever met had a fat 52 y/o cis boyfriend, he wasn't rich, he wasn't hot, and he wasn't hung. Like what do you do all day? Cis geriatrics are hosting orgies, but its "over" for you? Women's standards are lower than ever, the "hottest" male celebs are all rapidly aging mousey little rat/cat boys, but it's "over" for 29 y/o femboys?

Get off your ass.
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>>43600873
So you don't like the idea of having a rotating harem of enbies and lesbians? Can you only picture the one vagina at a time?

As I said, the "goth femboy" shtick is an act, a kink. He oversells it for erotic purposes. He's just a trans man with some very specific fetishes that happen to benefit mine. Mainly that he doesn't make a big deal out of group sex, huge turn off.
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>>43602354
anon you are genuinely retarded. I dont know what else would give you such misplaced confidence to concoct a view of who I am, based on next to nothing, and then to also confidently proclaim that everything I have done didnt matter and I was just "not trying hard enough" when the one piece of information you have about me is that I DID try to "lock in" and "do something with my life" only for it to lead to absolutely nothing for me.

giving a more nuanced response was my impulse but I know it doesnt matter. your entire post lives in delusions that dont hold up to anything and half of your demeaning, negging commentary meant to "motivate" fixates solely on access to sex. I am functionally an alien to you by simple virtue of wanting something less shallow.

the ONE thing you were right about is that nothing matters, but you also failed to actually grasp what that truly means, which is that any and all effort is just as pointless as everything else in the "system", and your mention of the fat, broke 52 year old dude getting a hot girl really just cements it all together; if he WAS genuinely just a great guy, you still focused entirely on his looks and how much money he had and implied he was undeserving of his relationship because of those things. and if hes also a shithead, well, even worse, cause that just proves being a decent person and putting effort in will still see you lose to someone who doesnt try at all.
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>>43602493
anon you gotta pull your head out of whoevers ass you're eating and recognize that you're the freak here. if you wanna have orgies and constantly sleep around go right ahead but that was some secret hidden desire of all people then we would already live in a world where thats the standard.

I enjoy sex. I want to have sex with feminine individuals - which includes ftms who want to present as femboys or whatever. but I also want, yknow, every single other thing thats supposed to come with a relationship. getting hole isnt the hard part. even getting hole from someone hot is doable. finding someone you actually have a strong connection with and who wants to stick around in your life and be there for you? THATS the hard part.
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>>43600655
I met my husband when I was 22
12 years together now
>t.cis millenial
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>>43600562
Im settling down with my second partner because i dont believe ill get 3
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>>43600562
Lmao im 33 and i've never even been on a date, a guy asked if i wanted to have lunch with him (not as a date but still) and i couldnt do it, im way to ashamed of how i look so im definitely going to die alone



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