Should I tell my future GF I had a "bi phase"? I identify as 100% straight nowadays but there are people that know I identified as bi and did gay shit lol. Also I heard most women dislike bi men.
Never disclose. EVER. Have a sob story ready about how and why you fucked around with men. There are NO upsides to being bi, it's the sexuality version of having a tattoo. In the best possible scenario it's only a mild strike against you. In most cases it knocks you down at least several full integers.
>>43609251No, don't.
>>43609251Tell her. If she cannot love the real you, its not worth it
As other anon said, it is the worst possible thing you can disclose to anyone, straight guys will exclude you because they think you're too faggy and duplicitous to be one of the bros, and girls will reject you because they think you're a fag who can't live without cock in ass, either way you're fucked, prepare some kind of story of how you got raped into becoming bi or something similar
>>43609274>Never disclose. EVER. >Have a sob story ready about how and why you fucked around with menIsn't that contradictory?>>43609345>prepare some kind of story of how you got raped into becoming bi or something similarWait, what? That sounds even a worse idea.
>>43609723No, because it makes it look like you were forced into it, not like it was an active choice by you
>>43609748Wouldn't be easier to just lie in some way if being asked about it?
>>43609251>I'm bi but I call myself straightYeah, duh, it's like, gee, we all have to do that to get pussy and delicious GOCK
>>43609338I mean, what's the point of being honest about it if the "lie" only benefits both of us (her not thinking I'm gonna cheat on her with some cock and me not being rejected lol)?I'm a loyal person. Wouldn't cheat ever.
>>43609780gay, very gay anon
>>43609251It's better to tell her now than later. If you wait till later, they WILL get upset, even worse, they'll feel unsafe because you withheld information that puts them at health risk. Because bisexual men have high rates of HIV. You could not even have it, but it's your word, and what good is your word if you withheld your sexuality from them? Because a good person and be open with them. You'll be happier knowing you don't have to hide something from them.
>>43613129>If you wait till laterWhy would someone do that? Just be upfront about it early or just don't say a word ever.
>>43609897Wooooahlet's just take a step backDo I want transwomen for their male features? Sure. Delish.But geez, they said liking them is straight, so... I guess I'm not bi anymore !!Yaaaay!
>>43613192>or just don't say a word ever.Don't fucking do that. You will be lying to yourself and others.
>>43609251Girl if she's leaving you for having identified as bi she's probably not the oneWhy would she hate you for being bi
