how did you come out to your mom, how did it go and what are youhow should i (6'1 28 y/o fat ugly agp) come out to my mom
>>43611376she flipped out and told me inbarw.>also 6'1
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>>43611376ive come out to my mom at least 10 or so times over the course of 8 years and she still misgenders/deadnames me and says i will always be a boy. i dont see her anymore except for my sisters birthday. she still pays my cellphone bill tho which is proggers so i cant complain too much
I gave her a letter, she thought I was getting groomed(in a gay way before the whole transpanic thing) and never saw signs except being sensitive and that I should just move to a country were feminine men are more accepted (but I was 16, so not really applicable to you)
She sort of had the suspicion ever since I was 13, and when I was 14 and shipped feminine clothing to my house she had intercepted them and made me throw them out. Something something “you have a dick” something something “you dont understand the essence of a woman”. Ultimatly, she concluded it was puberty and I was being groomed. Years later she still says Im being groomed and its biologically impossible so I should stop
>>43613484what did the letter say? this seems like the route i'm gonna end up taking since sitting down for "a serious talk" seems weird, easier just to explain things in writing
>>43611376I made it clear that if she didn't accept me she'd lose contact with her only child permanently
>>43611376mtf. i just texted her. shes supportive but im manmoding now and havent asked her to refer to me differently. its kinda awkward and neither of us like bringing it up.
>>43611376im a 6'3" transbian and i "came out" to my mom at 28she peeped on me in a dressing room because she noticed i was starting to grow tits and saw i was wearing a sports bra and asked me whyso i told herthen she freaked out I don't really recommend it but like i survived i was never very close with my mother
>>43613986can i see the text chain
I just told her and she said "I always knew" or some shit and then started crying. But my household is very anti-trans. My dad found out a few months later when he saw that I had breasts while manmoding and he proceded to yell at me :(
>>43611376I didn’t and you shouldn’t
>>43611376i didnt really even come out completely, i didnt say "i want to be a woman". i was too ashamed and self hating and ugly and manly for that. i just enbycoped and said i had dysphoria and wanted to start hrt. my mom was shocked and disturbed and said she had no idea and thought i was maybe gay at worst. talking about it makes me cryi sort of pass now at least and i didnt get disowned and have mostly accepting family. could be worse
>>43611376One day i returned home had oretty good mood then my mother called me into my room then showed me the pack of pills labeled estradiol and asked me if i felt like woman. At the time i was completely shaved not too long ago due to circumstances and couldnt even look into morror without crying so yeah during the whole time i taught about just slipping my wrist once she lets me go. Buttttt deispite my mother having actually bad personality it actually turned oit okay and she told me she taught so before soo yeah
>>43614714my fate desu
>>43611376I would never come out to anyone
>>43617725coward.
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My mother is a zombie. They did a bunch of weird things to her in the 90s and put her in a mental hospital. She is crazier than I am and will not be able to retire like a responsible adult. With that being said, my mother does not care if i wear the skirt but she will never she/her me. Since she will not use my pronouns, I just refer to her by her credit score. "Hey, 420, I am going to the mall. If I end up dead, don't worry the state provides cremation to the poors."
>>43613433hard choice, my fetish, or my relationship with my mother
my family preemptively became transphobic when i started showing the slightest signs
