I think in most cases it's that people have "types" for each gender, and if you're bi, some of those types are on the male side and some are on the female side. There is never going to be an even distribution of "types" because that's not how attraction works. It's like, do you like blacks, or asians, or whites? Well maybe I like all of them, but in the aggregate, I tend to find asians more attractive, and then it's a toss-up. So does that mean I'm not attracted to white people? According to the "it needs to be a perfectly equitable distribution", I guess the answer is yes. But that's really dumb.

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I feel pretty 50/50 about it

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I am also 50/50 about it, I used to be so afraid to talk to girls id panic, now that I like boys I am so afraid to talk to boys I panic.

Im more attracted to men sexually but I have no desire to have sex with men if that makes sense bc it defies the purpose of sexuality and I wouldn’t get anything out of it, plus it’s rooted in childhood trauma for me.

So despite being more of a homosexual I have no relational desire for men and I’m only pursuing women bc I like functioning normally and reproducing and I would be far happier in a cisheteronormative relationship than dying of aids and depression in some gay bathhouse

I'm massively more into a particular kind of guy for both sex and relationships. Women are ok but just not nearly as interesting for me