what do (you) think of transbians atm? how are you feeling? are you winning or just going another route?after all we arent the minority here, we just hide ourselves too much
i wish i was a transbian so i wouldnt be nunmoding as a 25 yo tranny
>>43628212>what do (you) think of transbians atm? i love transbians in theory and all my transbian friends on the internet but i dont like the ones ive met in person>how are you feeling? very good today, my bf cooked me a giant stack of pancakes they were so yummy omg gen drenched in butter>are you winning or just going another route?winning
>>43628260nunmoding sounds awesome though?>>43628279>i love transbians in theory and all my transbian friends on the internet but i dont like the ones ive met in personi feel the same way, overall online i am just also kind of icky with them, irl the ones ive known and met are uh something.>giant stack of pancakesi make a lot of pancakes, i wish i had a waffle maker to make waffles instead though
>>43628212i like the ones i meet in person except they need to stop repping omg come on please stop repping i care about you omg dont wait until after the trump admin what is wrong with you please just get on estrogen ugh i can usually tell when a transbian is repping before they tell me such its so annoying watching them self hate and rep i give a shit about them ugh
>>43628439i think you can't do anything about that, they are just gonna suffer like that, most transbians are lazy and depressed just like that. if they were actually on the verge of not living with their dysphoria, they would have tried anything to get on estrogen at this point. only knew 1, the rest were so depressed.
>>43628397>nunmoding sounds awesome though?oh nona...
>>43628815please explain to me, im curious
>>43628491very very fembrained in that hyperspecific "tread on me" learned helplessness. to be fair i am 18 so transbians i know are like 19 its not like theyre old or can be said to be john50s yet
>>43628836celibacy
>>43628862im confused with that first part>to be fair i am 18 so transbians i know are like 19 its not like theyre old or can be said to be john50s yetit depends, assume john50 if they are still the same once they are 24 or 25, makes a lot of sense to me ig>>43628876understandable
>>43628876the episcopal church got its first transsexual nun in like the seventies or eighties so you can actually be one btw
>>43628212sometimes I read a post here where a tranny mentions she has a gf. Then I remember they exist for a minute
>>43628906its kinda weird, most people assume trannies just are lesbians by default due to public perception atm, it was different before now it just switched around, i wonder what really happened to that?
>>43628900im joking. i hate religion but i was raised catholic
>>43628927straight trannies are just living their lives and vent to their bf who tells them everything's gonna be okaytransbians just - vent on the internet for everyone to see
>>43628212transbians are ok, honestly i wish i could happily be a transbian too because the "straight" guy market feels impossible to navigate as a tranny
>>43629304>"straight" guy market feels impossible to navigate as a trannyAs a bi trans women who is now engaged to another trans women, this. I like both genders equally and in different ways. But men are just a nightmare to deal with sometimes. I feel like so many of them are 'slow' and/or so boring. Hygine is usually bad too. Plus half of the men I've met irl who are willing to date trans women are eggs themselves and its painfully obvious. Chasergen is a great example of why a lot of bi trans women end up in gay relationships. Its simply easier to exist with another women.
>>43629304>"straight" guy marketkek
>>43628212>what do you think of transbians?I think they're more based than me because my sisters treat me better than gay men>hiw are younfeeling?Awful. Im 20 shots in and I have to tell my australian boyfriend tomorrow that he shouldnt save himself for me. That he should move on from my American tranny ass and find a girl he can actually meet. Im anticipating him just telling me one day we cant talk anymore.>are you winning?I think so. I think i'll be a beautiful semi clocky hippie nurse in a couple years.>we hide ourselves too muchTbh Im pressing X cuz if we're on /tttt/ we're taking every opportunity at being "trutrans" just cuz we like cock lol
>>43628212i miss when transbian meant t4t tech goddesses instead of uncomfortable idiotic pussychasing rapehons
straight trans women are the same thing as gay men, they just can't admit what they really are
>>43629564the jews won anon. what should i do now?
>>43629642be the loudest, most dominant, proud, sexually in-your-face gay man the world has ever knowndo exactly what the jews DONT want you to do for once in your pathetic meek assimilative life
>>43628212heavily considering entering some kind of relationship of convenience with a young transbian i do not feel particularly sexually attracted to just have some real immediately accessible connection and someone with skills that can bring some money in in exchange for sex. lots of ladies do this for guys they think are uggo anyways. i just want someone who won't try to kill me in my sleep again
>>43629652i dont think i can be dominant and do it alone anon. i need help from a trve aryan man to win over the jews. but i should continue to take jewdiol until then to not be such an eyesore for the aryan guy
>>43629716society fears dominant gay men more than anything elseyou fear the reaction others have when a gay man asserts his own needs and preferences loudly and publicly they want us to be meek and submissivethat era is over
>>43629686are you me
>>43628212i find a lot of transbians annoying. i think it's because they're just autistic in a way i don't like so i don't blame it on the transbianism, but it is something i noticed.
as with many trans women i am genuinely bi. i know this place likes to pretend thats not real but i think a lot of us here are just bisexual. i am mostly involved with men but sometimes find a girl i like>what do (you) think of transbians atm?i think trans lesbians are cool. i think a lot of them, though, are t4t with other tgirls as a cope because they feel thats all they could manage. i am very aggressively pro-trans-lesbian these days because i think the pick-me-ism is out of hand and we throw our sisters under the bus too readily. when we demonise some trans women as fundamentally cringe, manish, predatory etc then we get hurt by it too.>>43628279> i dont like the ones ive met in persontake a second to ask how many of these girls are simply cringe/autistic/early transition or some combination thereof. a lot of straight girls have an easier time blending in (the same is true of cis people!) and so you are just more likely to meet strange early transition transbians.
>>43629745>nobody could possibly prefer disgusting gross male amab trannies to immaculate infallible perfectly angelic innocent afabskill yourself
>>43629723but i like being meek and submissive. how can i become dominant? i think its irreversible now
>>43629757express your beliefs and will to others, don't hide your desires, it's that simplestop repressing being gayyou don't like being submissive, you just fear the negative reaction if someone who is supposed to be low on the social totem pole speaks up for themselves
>>43629807i think i will try to absorb the dominance from a "straight" guy because gay guys are not that dominant. thanks for the help!
>>43628212>what do (you) think of transbians atm?some of them are okay>how are you feeling?good!>are you winning or just going another route?I am always winning
>>43629756?i didn't say that. i prefer trans women to cis women when i do date women, generally. i like the feeling of 'sameness'. what i was refering to was the tendency for very public facing trans stuff to be full of early transition people who latch on to t4t because its scary to be trans. i can sympathise with that even! imo it is healthy and good to get to a point where you consider cis people (cis women included, if you're into girls) in your dating pool because it suggests you've gotten over some of those insecurities.
>>43629920i think it'd be healthy if TGTOW
>>43628212>transbiansI'm kinda neutral. I don't understand them (especially the no-op ones) but I also don't think about them too much. They're very loud on the Internet but IRL they're not (except pride events ig? but you'd never catch me at one of those lol).I met dozens if not over 100 trannies IRL, not a single transbian. Met quite a few who went my route, from straight man to straight woman, but no transbians.>how are you feeling?great. Weather has finally improved and am going on a vacation with my husband tomorrow for a few days. Took a while to sync our work schedules to pull this off.>are you winningI'm married, post op, have IRL friends, a decently paid corporate job and just acquired property. So yeah, I'm winning, for the most part.>after all we arent the minority here, we just hide ourselves too muchI think we are a minority here (specifically on this board). I don't hide... I just don't show up too often (and post even less).Also, this place has become a creche. So as time goes on, a lot of us simply don't relate to most online tranny spaces anymore.
>>43629730no but have you considered pursuing a degree in a high earning field that does not have particularly brutal entry barriers for trannies because i can only see one way out and it sure as fuck is not going to be me
>>43629933i don't agree, i think it would be healthy for cis people to treat us normally instead of us self segregating. that said i am more sympathetic to people who choose trans people over cis people as partners based on this principle. its just this is where it gets to cope yk. i am not saying you are coping, but a lot of TGTOW type t4t girls are taking that position to justify acting on their anxieties and avoiding integrating with cis people due to fear.
>>43629942omg i think i spoke to you before! we talked about /tttt/ being a creche lol. its so true, its weird coming back here once you're no longer in need of that sort of community.
>>43629953>i think i spoke to you beforemaybe?>once you're no longer in need of that sort of communityto be honest, I never needed this sort of community. 4chan has always been a place for fun or to kill time (like now when work is stalling) and maybe find out something interesting by accident.Most online trannies never liked me anyway and that's fine. I certainly don't need the approval of strangers. Though it is a bit unfortunate that so many trannies could make it if they'd just listen to their elders' warnings about brainworms.
>>43629942>I don't understand them (especially the no-op ones)>my route, from straight man to straight woman?? lol
>>43629979getting comfortable with the brainworms will always be easier than actually doing something for most trannies because fear is the easiest emotion to feel