im so obsessed with amab nonbinary ppl to the point where 99% of the characters i make are they/them amabs and all my story ideas involve them cause im just so into them. all flavors. beautiful and effeminate, masc and butch, kind of gross and clocky, and everything in between. i was designing a character for a new project and i realized fuuuck its just another they/them amab i need to make literally any other type of oc i do this every timeand then i thought for two more seconds and realized ive never even met a they/them amab online or offline even though im mostly in queer social spheres. theyre like my white whales as a t4t chaseram i alone in this world. is anyone else aggressively into they/them dick. are you out there. do they/them amabs know i love them
>>43629041I'm surprised you haven't come across many/ any? My girlfriend is one and I love her very much. But you shouldn't fetishize/ seek people out that way big dawg.
>>43629041ok poonah
>>43629041holy theyfab alert
Yeah, I am one. A they/them amab non-binary person who plans on starting estrogen. I met a lot of people like that honestly... Weird you didn't meet too many of us. But yeah we exist and we are many. Hell I could even talk with you if ya want, though I am already taken so ya know.
>>43629041What are you obsessed with?What would you even be basing them off of if you've never seen or met or know of one?What the fuck is this?
i am into them too if they're on estrogen yeah i want to suck dicks too btw i am one
i am not exactly a they/them amab (i just use whatever pronouns i guess) and i am getting srs soon but i am nonbinary. we are around. i think that a lot of us are physically/hormonally transitioned, though, so we blend in with trans women, which, incidentally, i would guess, a lot of us also are
>>43629280There are only men and transwomenThose are the only male gender flavorsIf you look weird, you must be a trannyIf you don't, you must be a man
>>43629285what?
>>43629041no they do not exist
80% chance they're glitter shitters or a very neurotic trans girl desperate to avoid being clocked as a bogged (non)girl-failure[male]
>>43629280Yeah this is more or less where me and my gf sit on things. We are both nonbinary, but also transfem so a lot of times we just end up falling under the trans woman umbrella instead. Which works for us since we both use she/they, soFor me at least, I just consider myself nonbinary because I genuinely do not feel like a woman (17 months on hrt and I pass decently) despite my best efforts to look the part, but it 100% don't feel like a guy. So im somewhere in between there. If the slider scale was 0-100 with 0 being man and 100 being woman, I'd put myself right around the 75-85% range
>>43629295How do you look at an ostensible AMaB, and go, "oh, yeah, that's definitely a theymab and not just a tranny" or the same remark with "not just a man"?
>>43629314The same way you do with theyfabs obv
>>43629314potential theymabs are those beard+dress guys you only see in shitty inclusivemaxxing lgbtqia++ corpo bipoc whatever nonsense. which don't actually exist.
>>43629309>I just consider myself nonbinary because I genuinely do not feel like a woman[...]but it 100% don't feel like a guylol are you mei'm a woman to most people because that's how i ostend but i don't have an internal concept of gender. it's nice to read someone whose experiences are similar to mine. though i think i am more like a solid 50 on your scale...really all it is for me is that i just want to be female.>>43629314i mean, you don't, i think. most nonbinary people have to come out as nonbinary because it's not really something you can pass as, unless you are extremely lucky and somehow indistinguishably androgynous. i mostly present as a masculine woman. nonbinary identities are not necessarily about presentation, either...mine is mostly kept private, in fact. it's more the way i understand myself than the way i try to exist in the world. for all intents and purposes, i am a woman. that's how the world treats me. i just don't feel like one, or like anything.
>>43629326Not obvious at all.Transmen, theyfabs, and alt girls / Queer girls can be basically the same thing.These fuckers just shoot T for "androgyny" and then you have to laugh when they get misgendered as a transman.Endless comedy
>>43629041I'm friends with one IRL and another just online. They exist, just rare. Most theymabs just transition eventually
they/shei feel more like a theyfab than a transwoman, its strange
>>43629041do i count as a moid on estrogen that uses male pronouns and does not want to be a girl
>>43629280>getting srs soonbasedtechnically I'm a postop femboy ig.
>>43630625How can you possibly continue to identify as a femboy post-op
>>43630695well, I don't in public. In public I'm a feminine dude.but idk how to describe myself in short. I'm a dude. Very malebrained in everything except sexuality and a few mannerisms. Years of hrt and being a metalhead (therefore long haired) has made me be confused for a woman sometimes but hasn't really given me any relevant chest growth.I'd be an optics nuke at best if I were to try to seriously claim I'm a woman. When I put on a kilt I look like an elegant gnc young man and, desu, that's basically what I am.I'm getting a bit too old to call myself a femboy but I do continue to look younger due to estrogenizing myself from an early age.idk, you tell me /shrug
>>43629041hi, theyfab! i am an they/them amab. i take hrt and raloxifene.
>>43630720Yeah you know what that's fair enough and I relate to it pretty well, though I would call myself more of a butch lesbianI think it's kinda funny how that's actually just a hair more feminine than being a femboy, desu I think this is what femboys become if they're lesbians
>>43629041I am a mix of masculine and feminine, I just avoid the label
>>43630972you post op too?>I think this is what femboys become if they're lesbiansyeah, can't pull that either. I'm not only still pretty obviously male, but I'm also only into men.it is weird that my face in particular has gotten a liiitle bit more feminine after srs.
Thanks, as an amab enby fag who takes tranny pills, I appreciate the kind words.
>>43629041tbqh i think amab identities aren't really respected to any degree so if you are anything besides masc & het you are simply a fag or a tranny n the eyes of 99% of people including other trans people (look at any femboy related thread)i would personally consider myself a they/them enby but idk if anyone else sees it that way
>>43629041This is the most underage retarded post ever.
im a theymab pretty much. i dont rly care what pronouns people use for me, my main thing is that i hate looking like a man and being perceived as one but i definitely dont think of myself as a woman. i take estrogen and plan on getting ffs and orchiectomy. im not rly into the idea of dressing hyperfeminine or wearing lots of makeup i mostly just wear jeans and hoodie, my transition is more to do with changing how my body looks
>>43629041yeah mei thought we were more common until i come here and everyone whines about afab trenders, which i something i've never seen where instead the stereotype is theymabs fake performative feministsidk im still figuring it out but i would take short medium hair and a flannel 10/10 times over long hair and a dress. whatever that means
>>43629041ngl i feel like most they/thems are amab and afabs are all hefabs (90%) or some shit like she/he and yall live in some alternative reality
