>Did transitioning actually make any of you happier?
not exactly but that is a oversimplification, 'it makes you happy' is something we say to let people understand why we need it. its not the full story though. i never lived as a man, i spent my childhood as a trans girl and then had a few years of failed repping where i couldn't leave my bedroom in my early adulthood, before actually committing to living as a woman. so my entire life i have been this way really. the only period where i was not, i was so non functional that i couldn't do anything with my life. transition provided me a baseline to build a life for myself as a woman and i really needed that. but just being a woman is not a source of happiness. cis women are happy because they fill their lives with positive things. for me, that part has been harder because being trans is like living life on hard mode. so my life is not full of happy things really. not because of my transition, but because repping and early transition cost me time i could have been forming good relationships or working on a career and growing as a person.

so no i do not think it made me happier, but it has allowed me to begin (even if delayed) working towards a happy life as anyone else would

if i didn't transition i'd have never had that chance

> If so why do you all wanna kill yourselves
i don't
>or have mental disorders?
i don't

Yes, super duper happier. I went from bleh, disinterested, touch of misanthropy, to being bubbly. It wasn't just a short term thing. Years later, no regrets, and still bubbly. I have to imagine for the people it didn't work for... they had a different problem to begin with?

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>>43630569
How can I convince you to detransition? You say being trans is like living life on hard mode, well yeah it fucking is do you really wanna spend the rest of your one time on this earth being a troon that everyone will judge? why not just let go of your identity and ego and stop denying the biology you were given?
Even if you have a perfectly fine functional happy life that's an extreme exception not rule for most people like you.
There is a way of being that comes with far less resistance from the world

>delusion and seethe
Back to repgen with you, pepenigger

>>43630615
>How can I convince you to detransition?
i don't really know what this even means for me as i was never 'pretransition'. you seem to imagine there is something for me to go back to, i am just a woman. i have integrated into the world as a woman and lived this way all my adult life.
>do you really wanna spend the rest of your one time on this earth being a troon that everyone will judge
i pass and just live as any other woman does. it does make dating complicated and i sometimes find legislative or procedural things that are hard to navigate. in both instances the issue is discrimination against me, not who i am. on balance i would rather live this way with that discrimination then become a non-functioning mess with untreated gender dysphoria.
>why not just let go of your identity and ego and stop denying the biology you were given?
i never virilised, i did not have the body of a man even pre transition. it was letting go of my ego that led me to transition lol.
>There is a way of being that comes with far less resistance from the world
are you a man or a mouse? do you always think so little for yourself, or is it only trans people you expect to live a meek pathetic life where your only concern is avoiding discomfort? how weak willed! i might just be stronger than you i guess

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>>43630612
You are not giving me much information so I don't really believe you have a happy life. troons are obsessed with toxic positivity and hug boxing, all you are doing is building a shaking foundation around you that will make you more sensitive to when something does actually happen

>>43630623
piss off groomer

>>43630650
>shaky foundation
Anon I am a middle aged woman who lived the troon life almost 20 years. If anything was going to break me, it would have.

>>43630538
>Did transitioning actually make any of you happier? If so why do you all wanna kill yourselves or have mental disorders?
sure, i was pretty depressed before

>Why keep defending something that probably make you less happy as a person?
because i dont think it do

>do the right thing and detroon
and shoot up testosterone and cut my tits off? nah im good, i like em

>You are literally a pharmaceutical experiment kek
we all are, such is life

>>43630538
It made me way fucking happier

If we are an experiment it is so that the next generation can get better gender-affirming care and I am happy to do this

Made me able to feel stuff.

>>43630538
Yeah, it made me a lot happier. I don't have mental disorders besides a touch of OCD and don't want to kill myself. I have a happy fulfilling life, good job, nice car, healthy relationship, etc. now and I was a wreck pre transition so I'd say it's a net improvement. I have zero reasons to detroon

>>43630538
It didnt make me happy. But it makes me CUM SO HARD!!

>>43630538
>You are literally a pharmaceutical experiment kek
almost 100% of the people in the first world are pharmaceutical experiments, anon.

>>43631143
based

>>43630538
>experiment
transitioning isn't a new thing you dumb anon

>>43630538
Normally I wouldn't admit it but honestly yes it has.

>>43631095
Based and true and undeniable

>>43630538
Hell yeah I'm happier.... I got way sexier after transitioning, and my body suits my lifestyle and personality better.
>pharmaceutical experiment
I'd rather be this than basic honestly it sounds so much cooler

>>43630538
It gave me the capacity for being hapoy but it didnt fix my life for me. I think most on here are suicidal becouse of isolation/rejection

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>>43631432
It didn't fix my life, but it gave me the capacity and mental stability to fix it for myself

Its a different case for me, in that I am just a crossdresser. I choose to keep ot to just crossdressing and weightlifting/sports, since my bodily issues in particular come from childhood sexual abuse.
I'm unable to leave my house without a flat chest and virilized appearance without hyperventilating and the whole time. In a perpetual nonverbal state. Perpetually stuck at my most primitive years.
As a crossdresser, I am confident, outspoken, driven, resilient and able to form normal conversations with others. Which I'd say is an objective metric improvement in comparison.

I know its a gincel thread, but transitioning has made me genuinely the happiest Ive been in my life now that I pass
>inb4 passing is a myth
Cope gincel

I inherited a bunch of mental illnesses so I'm still in bad shape after transition but if I never had transitioned it would have been much, much worse. I would probably either be deep in the alcohol which is a family curse I managed to dodge or dead or similar

>>43630538
>Did transitioning actually make any of you happier?
>happier
>Why keep defending something that probably make you less happy
>less happy

i think you are conflating "happier" with "happy" and also "not happy all the time" with "less happy"

idk how you think people are claiming to be both at the same time p obvious contradiction

I'm happy. I don't want to kill myself. And I don't have any mental disorders. Other than autism.
>what are you doing here?
Trying to help people.

>>43630538
>>43630615
kys groomer

this is irrelevant
all trans people pre hrt should look themselves in the mirror and think:
is there a >20% chance i could pass in the next 3 years?
if yes, transition and be happy
if no, transition anyways because even unpassing trans people get psychological benefits from E/T + you may have bdd
either that or man up and rep but know the consequences
my serious contribution is that transbians should be eradicated(straight men shouldnt be allowed to transition, its against what transsexual jesus would want)

>>43634939
Christians are still just as insufferable when they troon out. You need to be eradicated

>>43630538
>Did transitioning actually make any of you happier?
yup

If so why do you all wanna kill yourselves or have mental disorders?
don't want to kms. do have trauma leftover from pre-transition, but I've worked through it pretty well with therapy.

>Why keep defending something that probably make you less happy as a person
trans people don't opt into sex dysphoria. We're less happy at a baseline existence. Transitioning helps close the gap towards normal happiness.

>All of the people that encourage your behavior are crabs in a bucket pulling you down you are alone and you know it now do the right thing and detroon.
Why would I do that?

>You are literally a pharmaceutical experiment kek
neato