>>43631199
>What do you even call them, your theyfriend?
If they're AMAB early transition, I call them my girlfriend
If they're AMAB and identified as enby for very long, I call them my boyfriend.
If they're AFAB and early transition, I call them my girlfriend.
If they're AFAB and later transitioning and aren't on HRT despite being able to be on HRT, don't do any surgeries, are presenting femme, have no gender dysphoria and/or euphoria, and probably in the closet to a lot of people, I tell them to fuck off and that they're making a mockery of what it means to be trans and that they should shit or get off the pot. I also remind them that Yamato was written by Oda who doesn't understand trans people and that he dresses like his father. I also might try to get them to understand that there's a lot of de/re-transitioners who are AFAB that only did this because being a woman sucks. I give this same reaction to people who identify as trans men under the same circumstances.

If either an AMAB or an AFAB identify as agender, I do the same as thing as with non-transitioning AFABs cept instead of shit or get off the pot, I explicitly tell them they're transphobic cancer.

>Were they annoying about people referring to them by the wrong pronouns or were they chill?
No; they were too okay with it. Got burnt by some condescending "gender is just a construct" bitch who had the gall to say maybe it's real "for some people"

>>43631330
Accidentally removed one
If they're AFAB and actually transitioning, I call them my boyfriend.

>>43631340
>>43631330
Oh right forget... and if they're of tribal ancestry and presenting androgynous, I call them my partner (not boyfriend or girlfriend). That's an important one.

>>43631199
I dated an androgynous "enbie". He was basically ftm but only took testosterone for 5 years, and had top surgery. He didn't use hard labels and just referred to himself as trans, and went by he or they. He didn't get misgendered often, but when it happened he would laugh it off and reply "I'm a guy, I'm just cute". He was very into nature, working on plants, bugs, and making his own stuff. That's to say I think he's unbothered behavior came from some kind of spiritual, nature related thinking.

>>43631199
Yes. Its not great. They were annoying about gender and becouse they thought they had dysphoria they kept thinking our experiences were similar. They also didnt actually deconstruct gender roles and treated me like a man the entire time even though they paid lip service for the typical libby trans ally talking points

>>43631199
i was the enbie
>what do you call them
let myself get called a girlfriend and then a boyfriend bc im extremely lazy and hate thinking what terms to use
>Were they annoying about people referring to them by the wrong pronouns
I don't have pronounce bc im extremely lazy and hate thinking what pronouns to use
both my relationships low key used me as a stepping stone to bisexuality

>>43631199
"dated" more like month long situationship with like 4 dates. They were like 26? 27? AMAB, very hot and out of my league frankly there was a massive swag gap in the relationship

but they were very sweet, seemed to be really hard on themselves and had self esteem issues so im guessing thats why they even gave me a chance

i reffered to them simply by their name (they did have a deadname that i did not know) and were very sensitive about being called the wrong pronouns and in public they were reffered to both as male and female by strangers like they were made androgenous i lwk get jealous thinking back and they would cry/complain about it to me in private.

they were great and honestly im still not fully over them but im trying my best lol didnt end up working out because we were both very busy and i also think they sorta realised how lame i was and a mutual ghosting happened

im not sure if they ever were on hrt or not but i woildnt be suprised if they were bc their skin was beautiful and curvy

>>43631463
he sounds like a cool guy hope youre both doing well