i have a theory that chasers don’t actually want a tranny that passes. i think something about them gets off on the fact that you can tell a little, and they’re turned off if she passes too well or is too confidentleaving the trannies that DO pass SOL bc non-chasers/straight guys aren’t into trannies and chasers aren’t into passoids. thoughts ???
passing is a myth
so anyway the question to which i don’t gave an answer becomes wtf are we supposed to do abt that— finding a normal, non weirdo straight (?) guy who’s not a fetishizing chaser that genuinely “loves you for who you are” seems statistically improbable
>>43631901>>43631928if you have chemistry and love each other I dont think it matters how exactly his attraction to you started in his headdo you think fat cis women are internally agonizing over whether their bf has a thing for fat chicks or not? doubt it, they're probably just happy to have someone
>>43631986but how/where do we even find those guys in the first place ??!? i feel like i cant get past the initial stage
>>43631921Passing seems real if you're bi, aka, the viewpoint of a transbian or trannyfucker
>>43632058idk dating is pretty fucked up for everyone right now, straight trannies might have it the worstmen have been trained from a young age to be cautious and passive around women by feminist rhetoric and it's put a lot of communities in a weird dating deadlock in which women are expecting men to make moves on them and men are playing it safe and rotting alone
>>43631901yeah it's called gamp not a big theory dumbass
>>43631901Why would you think chasers want transgenders who look like women all the way? we can distinguish between them and women, otherwise why not just go for women? Chasers are attracted to feminine men, not women.
Slightly non-passing once are just easier since I don't have to compete with so many straight guys
>>43632134>men have been trained from a young age to be cautious and passive around women don't forget the masculine manly man urge to be perceived as the straightest, manliest manly man of mankind man, which isn't possible if a friend calls mr. manliest manly man of mankind, dare i say it:gay
>>43632415... or theyre just not into amabs
>>43632369>Chasers are attracted to feminine men, not women.I like women and feminine men.
>>43631928what do you is date bi men who aren't insecure about others perception of their sexualityincompatibilities will reveal themselves quite quickly if you remain 'open' and unopinionated enoughyou'll have a lot more success on apps if you're not in a regional fagship city, also easier to sus out their personality/intentions without investing too much>>43632437postop, what's the big deal?oh yeah, insecuritiesgo fuck yourself
>>43632495uhhh kids? gigantic shoulders and hands? tons of things?
>>43632503moid tourist or self hating tranny?
>>43632516not an argument sry
>>43631901>>43631928is this your example of a "passing" tranny
>>43632523they never have onethey assume penis inversion = absolutely no attributes that would invoke the hetero ick
>>43632582if you can't get over the fact were amab then we're not your target audiencesame with men who're fine with us ontologically but want to 'keep it on the DL/secret' because they're embarassed
