Do you party a lot? Or are u boring shut in
>>43637359theyre loud and drag queens ick me
>>43637359im on this board what do u think
>>43637374>>43637366U know clubs are open toYou? Just be skinny and hot
Shut in, only hot passoids deserve to party
I should shoot myself
>>43637359Shut in. I don't like people. Plus I've already got my partner
>>43637359i'm a boring shut int. fat ugly autistic passoid
>>43637359This is so sexy! I got a copy of it
>>43637359No, Im a fat 4/10 autistic guy. I babysit extroverts at raves instead and make sure they dont get drugged and then we go home cuddle while theyre on mdma or ket.
>>43637359boring shut in. i dont like parties
>>43637359Parties are boring. It's just people drinking alcohol and grinding their butts onto some bulge. Normies are BORING
>>43637554So ur raping them?
>>43637554How don't u feel disgusted by being near a presence? I'm so ugly that I feel bad that I even come near beautiful people cause there beauty becomes less with me in it. Ur like a shit smear on Mona Lisa >>43637575No one ever did that
>>43637359im a boring shut in.
>>43637593Yeah, im raping them in a way that they don't get sodomized. Im raping them so hard they keep inviting me because they're mentally raped. I am the raper.>>43637600I dunno I don't have the incel lens to focus on that shit, I'm no main character pretty boy and thats okay.
>>43637366This.>>43637374This.>>43637383They're not, not really. Trans women are tolerated, but not really welcomed, and there's no attempt to make room for neurodivergent people. Even officially trans inclusive places are usually neurotypical exclusive. Which is fine, the gay normies should be able to enjoy themselves in the ways they like. But it's a window for me to look through, not a door for me to walk through.
>>43637600Cause I don't give a shit no more sis. I'm just a bad ugly bitch and I know exactly what I'm worth.
>>43637359I'm an interesting shut in
>>43637359im stuck in a small town and the cool bars are all in bigger places my husband wont move toi would love, love, to get out more tho>>43637823based glegle
I'm old leave me alone .__.
>>43637359I danced in the rain with my coworkers tonight but I mostly pirate anime and play with action figures in my free time
>>43637359I don't go on this board often but dear god there needs to be at least one response here from someone who goes out.I really like to go to raves, I've gone to 4 raves so far this year plus I saw Femtanyl on tour. there's also a furry night club that happens like once a month and I go to that sometimes too. (lots of queer people at these places)I was also invited to a more traditional house party last month, it was quite picturesque, like out of a movie, it was my first time going to a party like that. (less queer people here but they were still friendly and cool and nice to me)I really enjoy going out :3
>>43639418>I've gone to 4 raves so far this yeari wish i had it in me to hate you for having what i dont
>>43637359i get invited to parties and clubs but i almost never go cause im a weird hermit who hates loud noises maybe 50% of the time and i hate the guy who hosts everything in our friend groupthat said ive gone to a couple raves this year and had a great time. ig its about the people there, hard to have fun at a normal ass club but i was fucking it up at the anime rave
>>43639418The issue there is "queer people"Transexualism has a rather fraught relationship to queer. Queer is the celebration and indulgence of difference, transexualism is primarily driven by a desire to feel normal. Being in a queer space as a transexual woman feels like being the odd one out at the freak convention. It's the polar opposite of how I want to feel.
>>43639451hmm, maybe you should work on that
>>43639437I'd invite you to come with me, but I understand that location can be a huge issue, I'm lucky to live in a big city>>43639451there's probably music genres where the crowd's mostly straighties but I'm not in that scene
>>43639491im in a shitty little small town in north east england where i cant get work due to being visibly a tranny. theres no cheap and easy travel to anywhere either. ive tried getting the husband to move us but we cant save enough to realistically afford it.
>>43637359i sleep in a big bed with my husband
>>43639465Work on what? Not fitting in with a crowd that I don't really want to fit in with? Like I want to be social and stuff, that's a big goal in my life - to reintroduce myself to society and find my scene, but the "queer scene" is not my scene. I had scenes, autistic males playing DnD, watching anime, playing vidya and discussing marvel films. But transitioning meant I wasn't welcome in those spaces any more. In theory I was welcome in queer spaces as a trans woman, as long as that's all I was. So I have to sit there listening to obnioxios music played at an obnoxious volume while everyone else competes to be the queerest, when my queerness robbed me of everything good in my life. I can't go back, but I can't stay here either. But the worst part is, is that that just doesn't land with you. You don't see it as a societal problem where I'm marginalized even from the spaces you use to end your own marginalization, you see it as a problem with me. The hypocrisy of that is painful to experience tbqh.
>>43639507I know that feel, I live in regional australia. I don't have a husband or anything, it's just the complete lack of affordability anywhere near population that keeps me trapped here. I need to move to get a job, I need to get a job to move.
>>43639418do you go alone? id love to go to queer events (raves, drag shows, furry meets) in my city or even just regular clubs/bars but i have no one to go with especially not anyone queer that i know. im cool to go places but no by myself :(((
>>43637359I'm a BASED shut-in. Clubgoers are the worst normalfaggots
>>43637631Based and rapepilled.
>>43639522imagine being a homophobe and insisting its other peoples problem
Where are you getting homophobia from?
>>43639418Oh I've gone. It's just not for me! I'm more a care taker than active participant.>>43637554
>>43637359Im a mom/wife now so not very oftenMy wife gives me time off though so I go out bar hopping or to a dolls night on Thursdays. Sometimes ill swap that out for a friday or Saturday night event like a concert or something.Im super bummed I haven't been to even a kiddie rave this year, we were going to roll at Acen but finances got in the way. Still I go to a local DIY dj set that moves place to place and party all night occasionally.Im a social butterfly and always have been one, im trying my best to balance being a full time working mom with having a life outside of that.-34 tranny in an open marriage
>>43639522I'm sorry nona, I hope you can find somewhere where you feel like you belong and aren't tokenizing yourself>>43639545I go alone most of the time, sometimes I meet up with someone there but I always drive myself, just means I can't drink and might have to pay for parking but usually there's street parking if you look for it. going alone also means you don't need to adhere to anyone's schedule but your own>>43641397based
>>43637359i have no idea how to do anything like this
>>43639418im so sad i want to do this. i missed out on my entire youth, i never met anyone
>>43643319the problem with going places like this alone for me is i struggle a lot with anxiety both in terms of leaving the house at all and talking to people once im there, which leads me to drinking heavily before leaving and then spending extra on an uber just to make an ass of myself once i arrive. I used to have a roomate whonwas a bit of a party animal and he would drag me places and im thankful to him for that but hes cis staight so i never got to see a lot of the queer side of my city and also hes gone and hasnt partied much sicne he got a gf anyway.did you find a lot of these events skew young? my most recent attempt i went to a diy punk show and most of the people there were like 18 it made me feel really old and gross. also on the topics of furmeets especially is it okay to show up if i dont have enough for a suit or partial becauae i need furry moots baddd but this and again the age thing (why is every furry like 19?!) freak me outfor reference im 23.
