Every single time oldfag trans women who were here in the mid 2010s start talking together they start casually slipping in the amount of time they've been on hrt. And all of it is because back in the day we remember the susans place and /r/transpassing asshole threads where people had screenshot folders full of ugly trans women. Even if we didn't participate in the cruel posting or regret participating we are aware of the "if you waited X amount of time you're AGP and you look like this reddit screenshot" meta. The atmosphere on this board back then was that trans women are bad unless they meet a certain standard, transphobia exists because we are cringe, if I do not pass I am a worthless freak. And we really hated ourselves. When you see someone go "I'm 32, I've been on hrt for 13 years" what they're communicating is that they look somewhat normal. The insecurity produced by those mean threads have been like a permanent marionette strings. Henceforth I will no longer mention the age at which I transitioned.
>>43641138I mean Susan's Place was extremely toxic even before then. I stumbled across it as a preteen in like 2011 and it immediately scared me away.
>>43641138I miss the hon threads, they were killed by BDD passoids and twinkhons though
>>43641138I transitioned six years ago at age 24. This statement alone is enough to communicate many things about me as a person and the state of my transition. It's a handy shorthand. Instead of explaining how I'm an AGP covid lateshit and will never pass I can simply provide two numbers and it tells the reader eveyrthing they need to know.
>>43641138are hon threads even a thing anymore? havent seen a good one in a while
>>43641138Only tangentially related, but it's strange how much board culture has changed in a relatively short amount of time. I'm a newfag who only started posting in early 2020 right before this place first really blew up elsewhere, yet it's almost unrecognizable compared to what it once was. Everyone being a psuedotransfeminist is a particularly bizarre development to me.
>>43641138i was here in 2015 but was a retard and didnt start hrt til 2020.
>>43641260I‘m newfaggy enough that I can’t call it „peak“ but good lord was this board amazing back in covid
i’m 30 and started hrt at 24 im an ugly hon and i wanna jump off a bridge.