>be me, straight trans man>in st4t relationship with qt3.14159 trans girl>she starts browsing tumblr and sending me memes>haven't been there since the porn ban so the culture is kinda unfamiliar to me>she starts growing distant>not talking to me as much, leaving me on read, being passive aggressive when we do talk>ask her what's wrong>says she doesn't think she wants to date a transmasc anymore>tell her I'm not a "transmasc" I'm a man>she sends me vxlid bearded hon art drawn by a he/they and says "this is how you guys see us">say that obviously I don't see her that way because she's a passoid who's had laser>she shows me a bunch of screenshots of terfpoons calling trannies male socialized misogynistic white incels>say that's retarded and I wouldn't be dating her in the first place if I didn't see her as a woman>she accuses me of lying and breaks up with meis that site just brain poison for trannies?
>>43644474congrats doood on passing as a man BTW. only retarded men post frogs so you are pretty malebrainedfrom now on please stop posting frogs pretty please
>>43644474sorry for your loss anon
>>43644474Your fault for letting her on Tumblr, that's the site that grooms teenage girls into whiny manhating hefabs
>>43644474Many trans women, like cis women, develop biases against men because of feminist literature. Instead of recognizing trends and social dynamics they think that living in a culture that does not support them means that all individuals are against them. No different from political lesbians. Quite sad!
>>43644474>straight with extra steps Y A W N
>>43644474I’m invested in this story. Hope it gets better soon anon, don’t overthink it. How long have you been with her? I’ve been in relationships with both ftm & mtf, maybe we all met each other at wrong times
>>43644474nah, ur gf was just nuts sorry. you deserve better. what country are you in?
>>43644474This is probably a cop out reply but if she was going to get pissed and become biased against you so easily, then it was going to happen eventually. If she was mentally sound or rational she wouldn't be putting words in your mouth just because of how strangers on the internet are. >>43644638Tumblr "transfeminism" feels very reactionary in how the ideas are formed primarily by the trauma of being a trans woman, and any disagreements no matter how polite or empathetic get you screeched at because of this. Trans tumblr is an unpleasant place in a somehow worse way than this board is imo.
>>43644474I'll take thing that didn't happen for 500
>>43644746>Tumblr "transfeminism" feels very reactionary in how the ideas are formed primarily by the trauma of being a trans woman, and any disagreements no matter how polite or empathetic get you screeched at because of this. Trans tumblr is an unpleasant place in a somehow worse way than this board is imo.I feel the opposite, it feels like enforced trans joy + misandry. there is far more trans trauma here than there imo
>>43644474terfpoons are why I'm scared of trans men even though I know most of you aren't like that
>>43644474>vxlid bearded hon art drawn by a he/theyWhich drawing? Can anyone repost? Can we at least get an image of the posts she sent you? I'm interested I never run into stuff like this.
>>43644474Sorry to hear that anon, that sucks.>is tumblr brain poisonyes, for everyone, not just trans people, in fact it's at its worst for cis women>>43644873Not OP and idk what specific image he and his gf were talking about, but there are a lot, mostly made by theyfabs and similar "trans" people, nearly all of whom are afab
>>43644933I thought it would be actual hate art, not OCs with mixed gender features who identify as transfem
>>43644533Laaaaaame froggie posters tend to be nice people and you should try harder to be a nicer person>>43644474As a user who follows Lolita fashion and yaoi it’s absolute brain rot there like all the groups are :/ but on the plus side you dodged a bullet if she was that easily influenced
>>43644933holy shit just call me a slur
>>43644474Women and their brainwors, it's one thing to sleep with someone and not commit, it's another thing to commit to a woman and want to have a life with her. If you were so transphobic you wouldn't do the latter.I see a lot of chasers of trans women who just want a casual fling, and will never, for example, take her to meet their parents; that is, do the bare minimum. In fact, it's better not to try to get back together, but if she sees you as that kind of trans man...You should have made your girlfriend/wife less chronically online. Tumblr is certainly a place within hell.
>>43644961>transfemok tourist
>>43645081>tourist because wordI can't see the gender identity of all of the characters, only a couple have them listed. Really though I wasn't expecting a bunch of mixed gender designs to be an issue.
>>43644474laaaarp
