can you cum from being butt fucked alone or are fags just pretending that it feels good?
>>43646557just the act of anal without an orgasm feels better than orgasming from or stimulating my dick
>>43646557for reference i am a straight man who would like to sleep with another dude but i am worried that buttfucking wont be as enjoyable for both of us
>>43646568how do you get anally stimulated? can you cum?
>>43646568This, I probably could cum from a vibrator at the same time but just the act leaves me feeling so good and satisfied that its been dissapointing orgasming lately and I really want to be with my boyfriend again :(
>>43646557You can cum from less, and I'm sure it's the gayest when it's just him and her.
>>43646583Nta but nothing compares to flesh and blood penis, dildos just arent right and they completely lack the sensation of a big tall guy pinning you down with all his strength and using you
>>43646611I don't believe that either. You can still be known by the other sex without it.
>>43646627>You can still be known by the other sex without it.What did he mean by this?
>>43646557>>43646573It's purely psychological and mostly fake, yeahSpaffing from being bummed is like spaffing off your imagination without fapping
>>43646557i haven't came from it yet but it definitely still feels really good
>>43646583do you know what the prostate is? that getting rubbed against for me just feels really good. i don't cum from it, but i dont have to. i involuntarily moan from anal, and i never do that from anything involving my dick. you can try it one time with a dildo or something to know what it feels like, just make sure to use lube and that you're clean and relaxed
>>43646642is it better than lets say stimulating the frenulum?
>>43646649Nah dildo doesnt compare, and im an ultra degen who has used all kinds of dildos up to giant egg laying tentacle type ones in the past. Once I got dicked down by a cis man it was different and superior to anything I had ever experienced prior
>>43646649i can not buy dlidos nor will i use items, cant i just use fingers?
It just feels like I have to pee and feels weirdly good but there was no feeling of release at the end. Also I'm not into the psychology of it. I prefer getting a blowjob or something
>>43646656Its essentially the same feeling but 100 times more intense and with the additional feeling of being stretched
>>43646664it's something op can use to compare. it's still much better than anything involving my penis.>>43646669fingers just dont reach deep enough and aren't wide enough to feel that good. for me at least
>>43646677is there anything more intense than the frenulum? its the male gspot afaik
>>43646687Oh wait is that part of the forskin? I dont have that I couldnt tell you, I thought you were talking about the taint area where you can rub your prostate through your skin
>>43646685my hole is too tight for a single finger and i can barely get it all in, i cant put anything there bigger than my finger
>>43646704with lube?
>>43646700yes the frenulum is the most sensitive part of the penis
>>43646718I will never know what that feels like
>>43646557You can but it’s rare.Regardless of whether you cum, it does feel good to get ass fucked so long as the top is big enough to be felt but not so big as to hurt 5-6.5” inches is the good range imo. Ultimately though, a lot of the real pleasure is coming from the prostate so it feels better just to get fingered by someone who knows what they’re doing. Still not as good as fucking a raw pussy though, and topping anal feels pretty mid>>43646611I don’t think you need that weird meta aspect about being dominated but I agree that the real thing is better
>>43646721i am sorry for your loss. hope you can overcome the trauma
>>43646632This >>43646608 and much more.
>>43646716no i didnt use lube
>>43646656stimulating my penis only feels good when i do it to myself. it doesn't feel good enough to ignore how much i actually dislike the penis being there or being interacted with by others
>>43646767>I don’t think you need that weird meta aspect about being dominated but I agree that the real thing is betterIm unfortunately a massive masochist :(
>>43646767so you are telling me bottoms need an above average dick just to feel good? i am 5 inches
>>43646794We all need love, friend.
>>43646780if you use lube, much bigger things fit without feeling uncomfortable. spit can kind of help too, but it doesn't last as long at all and doesn't make it as slippery.>>43646794if they don't use a large dildo or do it really often, 5 inches is good enough.
>>43646819i will use lube next time. but i dont plan on using more than one finger will that be enough to stimulate me? maybe even cum?
>>43646557I pretend. It actually feels degrading and painfult. likes being degraded and a guy making me feel pain
>>43646825it can feel good, you're most definitely not cumming from it though
>>43646835are all bottoms like you?
>>43646842can i use coconut oil as lube? is there any ideas how to maximize joy with only one finger? will it even be enough? i am scared of sticking bigger things
>>43646851I am at least, for some reason being used, punished, taken advantage of, and degraded gives me dopamine :(
>>43646868i'd curve your finger towards your dick/stomach while it's in there. i dont use coconut oil, so idk. people on the internet says it works well, but that it can stain your sheets. i personally really dont know though, i just buy water based lube
>>43646912have you tried the one finger thing before?
>>43646557i do, it took a long time to figure it out though. when i'm getting fucked real good i can bust my load the same way as if i were topping, only i'm not topping i'm getting fucked in the ass. it's honestly one of the only reasons i'm willing to date a dude, because i want dick. also some giys are cute i guess, but that's besides the point. what i'm saying is i probably wouldn't be bi if anal dodn't feel so good. don't tell my bf though, he'd hate me if i said that.
>>43646926yes, it only just feels okay though.
>>43646930You never know, he might find it hot that his dick feels so good its keeping you gay for him
>>43646937ok how am i supposed to curl ny finger? like flex it or extend it?
>>43646851idk, some definitely are
>>43646940i would still be his bf if he didn't put out. i have a dildo anyways
>>43646942towards your palm, i'm guessing that's what you mean by flex.
>>43646557ive made my boy cum twice from me topping him however sadly i never had a orgasm like that
>>43646961i heard that the prostate is 3 inches inside, will my finger be enough? i cant get my finger fully in due to flexibility
>>43646967if you can't even fit your whole middle finger in, idk if it's worth doing. you can just try it, i guess, it's definitely not going to feel as good as a dildo or another man's dick though
>>43646987i am not gay so i wont have gay sex unless the dude is super duper hot
>>43646851No, I detest being treated that way, don't wanna feel used, I wanna feel like we are enjoying each other's bodies mutally. Naturally the top will take some lead but that's all...>>43646557I can cum from prostate simulation alone, its fantastic, muscles I didn't even know I has spasm leaving my who body & mind in a transcendent puddle
>>43646557frotting cocks together is nice
>>43646557i cant imagine it actually feels good having something going in and out of your ass that fast, im pretty sure bottoms just tough it out because it feels good for us, god bless our bottoms.
>>43648082no, we dont just tough it out
>>43648082It feels fucking great if you're a trubottom
>>43646794I said they need between 5” and 6.5” with bigger than that being too much, I’m saying that average is what they need. If 5” is above average in your country it means you guys have small dicks
>>43649493Imo if you got good technique its possible to get away with 4"
>>43646557Is absolutely a physiological response lol more likely to be a hit or miss tho like u bat .400 on no stimulation orgasm but 60% of the time he says “start jerking off” so he can cum in yer bum
