i’m starting to get a little embarrassed now.. i’m 20 and still need a nightlight and i fear this fear will ruin my chances at getting a bf, how can i get over it?
Ask bro to buy u a night light
>>43648864but i’m worried of being judged for it..
>>43648871why are you scared of the dark? do you think some monster is gonna rape you or is it just that you can't see whatever might be out there. stop being a pussy or keep being one and hopefully you're bf will protect you from the dark
>>43648858You should wear diapers and suck a paci
>>43648910well it’s a lil bit of both (apart from the rape bit) i’m mainly scared of something being there without me noticing. and i wish for a bf who’d protect me but i know that having a light on can negatively impact some people’s sleep so.. :(>>43648922why is that relevant?? T-T
>>43648935You're imaginary boyfriend can wear a sleep eye cover while the led night lights are on but then also he'd be at a disadvantage if big scary rape monster pounces on him at night while you're asleep and then it will rape you next
>>43648858im 21 and still scared of the dark. not really when i was at my dorm because it was a public place but now that im at my parents house when i stay up im terrified over the idea of a home invasion.
I can kinda sympathize w op if you're really scared of the dark. I had a phase before covid where I bought a bunch of night lights for myself but never had time to light them up. I just liked the anesthetic of having some to turn on and it took away the fear
>>43648959just get a gun or a machete
>>43648951shushhhh don’t put bad thoughts into my head >n< i will choose to remain blissfully unaware >>43648959yeah i have similar fears. even when i was younger i didn’t suffer from nightmares much but most nights i had great trouble getting to sleep due to active imagination and unrestricted internet access
genuine advice is that the first couple days of getting over a fear like this is difficult but once you push through your body and mind readjustand then my pervert advice is to imagine the darkness as something hot that fucks you like aaa oh no i hope the dark scary monster doesnt fuck my ASS.. oh no!!! because thats how i get over almost every stupid fear of mine lmfao
>>43648997Show us your ass for training purposes
>>43648985im too retarded to trust myself with a gun
>>43649011hmmm how about a big cute (scary) dog that can alert and protect you
>>43648997stawpp why does this rape monster in the dark keep getting brought up?T-T just making me MOAR scared guys..
>>43648997Some people worry about being murdered in the shower but I worry about being preyed upon by succubi
>>43649026truee i love dogs
>>43648935>why is that relevant?? T-TBecause you're obviously a big baby. But that's okay.
>>43649053is that meant to be an insult or do you have a fetish for that stuff?
>>43649044lock the door when you shower and have your gun or knife near you, open door, back up and check corners before exiting incase they're waiting for you outside of your bathroom door. dont get raped
>>43648871Have u asked him yet
>>43649044i dream of being preyed upon by succubi frankly. get out of my way when the succubi come im tryna get laid
>>43649053I really like big gay fat bullies pretending this isnt a real issue
>>43649073the “him” in question doesn’t exist.. i’m just lonely worrisome tranner :p
>>43648858You're fine. If having a night light helps you sleep, that is healthy, sleep is far more important than what other folk think of you.
>>43648858Hug a guy while you sleep to feel safe instead
>>43649106i would if i could find one willing ;-;
>>43649114I'd hug you into my chest until the morning, anon.
>>43649125you mean it..? i bet you’re rly far away though :(
>>43649062The latter.
>>43649133can i ask what you find so arousing about it? i’ve never seen someone into it apart from the occasional thread on here
>>43649156I like the aspect of helplessness and being UwU smol or whatever
>>43649132I'm an american unfortunately but I would do it honest
>>43649176i like american men… but yes im a euro unfortunately :(
>>43649171Gimme your disc I want to be your baby anon
>>43649181Oof, come to the east coast US and I'll hug you close so you won't be afraid
More fake phnoia threads so they can become role playing threads
>>43649186aww that’s very sweet thank you but flights are expensive T-T>>43649219bwa sorry,, have you got any advice?
>>43649227And my dream of a cool european gf is destroyed.
>>43649275woah woah never say never… and what makes u think im cool? >~<
>>43649290I just assumed you're cool bc of intuition loll
>>43649293aww thanksie… but bwa i got my issues like dark fear among other things </3 how old are u?
>>43649304I'm 10 years older than you lol, I get if you don't want an older man to protect you.
>>43649312what if i do… >~<
>>43649320You want an older american man to hold you while you sleep bc you're scared of the dark?
>>43649327well if you’re gonna put it so bluntlyyyy then yes…. i do
>>43649333You're so cute lol I'd hold your head into my chest to keep all the bad things away while we sleep
>>43649347sounds really comforting.. i don’t wanna seem like such a clingy pathetic mess on public thread though but bwaa
>>43649361But you should cling to me it'll solve your fear of the dark bc a strong man will have his arms wrapped around you
>>43649370can i maybe have your contact please? i’d like to get to know you
Are you leaving all the lights on at night? Is the fear too strong to do something like leaving a door open to a dark room? It's going to take discomfort to learn to control yourself in the face of the fear.
>>43649396no just the nightlight in my room, leaving a door open is a big no cause that’s a whole other room that’s dark that i can’t see and there could be somethin there..
Realize that the worse thing that can happen to you in the dark is to be murdered there.