How do I get over a t4t breakup? We didn't even break up, I just left the psychward and she blocked me everywhere, we used to talk about how we'd always end up together, even if we left eachother, but I think it's over for reals now.We had a rocky relationship going on for like a year at that point, she gushed over me and I didn't like her that way at all but one day, all of a sudden, I started to miss and need her horribly. We started dating and it was all nice nd amazing, she even moved in really close to my uni, I'd spend every day all day with her. I left my ex-boyfriend for her. She was an asshole to me, she used to beat me up ( :D and :<) and call me horrible things and I ended up in the psych because of her but I still miss her so bad if you're reading this please call me.The whole we'd always end up together again thing is really fucking with me I can't let go yet because of that. I've been chatting with a cute boymoder and we're meeting up but I still miss her so bad, I'm still hurt from all the things she said to me but that makes me need her even more.Can someone talk some sense into me? How long will this hurt for?
>>43652752Hey, if she beat you and made you end up in a psych ward, that wouldn't be someone to be with forever, just like your bf wasn't one for forever Maybe the boymoder will, who knows?It will hurt and continue to hurt for a long while, it also depends thoughIf you can move on and find happiness with someone new it wont't hurt as long, rumination and memories bring up the pain, allowing it to linger but creating new ones can turn years of suffering to months or less
i dont knowwwwim still stuck on my own t4t relationship that ended after we both went to the psych ward (separate ones, this was long distance we lived in different states).... he was so cute and sweet and smart and i still think of him at least 5 times a week even though it's been over a year
>>43652752>I've been chatting with a cute boymoder and we're meeting up but I still miss her so bad, I'm still hurt from all the things she said to me but that makes me need her even more. If you aren't over her yet you probably shouldnt date someone else..
