What have you done this past week to love yourself? What are your biggest barriers to loving yourself?
>>43824669I self harm by using hinge and love myself through nature walks in a sundress
>>43824669I'm seeing a doctor ig that's kind of self care> What are your biggest barriers to loving yourself?Weight, appearance, facial structure, popularity, social skills, lack of friends
>>43824669I wanna bounce on his BBC :3
i can't see his face without laughing
>>43824740Laughter is good>>43824739why>>43824721Puffin you seem like a good person. Have you tried joining any hobbyist spaces to find friends?>>43824675nooo but I'm glad you like nature walks
>>43824669I love low tier god :)
>>43824669>What have you done this past week to love yourself?I brushed my teeth once.>What are your biggest barriers to loving yourself?The fact i genuinely have zero loveable qualities. I have zero talents, zero personality and im ugly. It is impossible for me to love myself, or for anyone else to love me.
>>43824669>What have you done this past week to love yourself?Booked an appointment for mental health to find out what's wrong with me>What are your biggest barriers to loving yourself?Despicable hairline, ogre face, inability to function on the level of normal people because im slow because im lazy and get distracted by what in brain too easily, and can't handle simple things like shouting to people to get attention, being normal around others and not getting defensive, not flinching or going stiff when people move close/go to touch me
>>43824747no >>43822151actually kinda yes though, not a hobby but I'd joined some leftist spaces irl and volunteer to feed homeless people the leftist spaces boring though, all they talk about is theory and make references to theoryI readily admit I have 0 interest in theory, I vote fully on emotion and nothing else
>>43824763brush your teeth more but I'm sure there's something you can love about yourself>>43824794This sounds like ADHD or ADHD-adjacent. Hopefully a doctor can help.
>>43824797Pride and social events suck ass but that's why I recommend hobbyist things. There's something to do and that connects you. I personally found fighting games to be really good in college because there's a collective competitive spirit but that's also pretty moided and it definitely moided me out and made me much more masculine unfortunately.
>>43824819I'll end up trying some things hopefully, most will be related to degree just because it's the smarter thing to do tho, unfortunately male brained as it will be
>>43824809>ADHD or ADHD-adjacent. Hopefully a doctor can help.Eh I doubt it, I tried that before but the waiting list was like 3 years, and it doesnt line up great imo, its not like I can never function normally, every now and then I have a day where I feel great and the constant dull pain in head and chest is gone, but they're few and far between, and I didn't have alot of the current issues when I was young, so I think its probably personality related, that lines up better with the idea im the issue for 99% of my problems and its my fault and I need to improve and not be a lazy bum, rather than some ingrained biological thing that gives me an excuse.
>>43824669He 1v1'd his wife in court and won
>>43824855Hmmmmmm Okay so you have days of extremely high functioning? Sounds kind of like me. Do you have any breathing problems?
>>43824868>Do you have any breathing problems?Yeah, whenever my dissociation breaks down and I try or am forces to confront myself, it usually manifests physically symptoms, even if I manage to cover up things externally and hold everything in, commonly stuff like heart palpitations and baited breathing, insomnia(2-14 days), trembling cold sweating and at worst uncontrollable vomiting until my stomach is out of acid to give, but the rest are far more common
>>43824909Hmmm so part of this is anxiety of course, but it may actually be some kind of respiratory issue that causes all of this.
>>43824669>What have you done this past week to love yourself?Weed>What are your biggest barriers to loving yourself?Weed
>>43824976Ive had quite a few physical checks done before while I was in denial it was nothing to do with my mind, and nothing came back abnormal from em
>>43824995Based
>>43824995Based but you should try diversifying, becoming too reliant on one vice is bad for you anon/nona
>>43825016Definitely see if you can get a sleep study. Mine revealed a lot and I'm doing a more in depth one soon that I can point to to explain "hey my recessed jaw actually causes breathing issues DJS isn't just gonna be cosmetic"
>>43825121Sleep study? Like where you get stuff plugged into you to monitor you over several days? I mean I do get nightmares and night terrors often where I scream in my sleep and move alot sometimes, could be something worth asking about tho thanks>hey my recessed jaw actually causes breathing issues DJS isn't just gonna be cosmetic"Lol, try and milk them for whatever you can imagine say
>>43825163I say*
>>43825087Y'know what? You're right. There's no reason to restrict myself to one vice, and since I don't plan on living past 30, I can just try all of them
>>43825163First one they did was a take home one. Basically you tape some elecrodes to your chest and then wear a watch overnight. This next one is in the lab. They're having me stay overnight and might do daytime naps as well.
>>43824669Right now I'm moving myself by working on setting myself up to get out of the U.S and settle in Canada
>>43825182Not exactly what I was getting at :(, I more meant relying on one thing usually means it takes over your life, but its less damaging and more manageable if have a variety of vices in small quantities, as long as they arent harmful
>>43824669>SnoymoderI think seeing your posts makes me hate trannies more
>>43825229whydo you hate whimsy?
>>43825193>First one they did was a take home oneHmm that does seem good with how intermittent this stuff is, rather than waiting 2 weeks for issues im having now that go away by the appointment, unless its so bad I have to go the ER which i dislike
>>43824669Nice try mossad, but I will never be psyoped into loving something so fundamentally unlovable and repulsive.
>>43825343Curse of David upon ye
>>43825245no I hate people who wear whimsy as a mask
>>43825364Sounds like you need to love yourself
>>43824669>>43824758Friendly reminder that LTG is an ally
>>43825385sounds like you are just saying whatever vaguely nice thing you can come up with
>>43825475maybe but I think it's funny
>>43825229>>43825364>>43825475 HOLY DOOMPOSTER, "Anything but a smidge of kindness or a ray of hope in my vitriolic cesspit forum" type energy, please nigga just let people be nice to you and nice to yourself for a minute you numpty.
>>43825587nice name
>>43825456friendly reminder that gllty is a sexpesthttps://www.espn.com/gaming/story/_/id/27389300/leah-gllty-hayes-suspended-following-accusations-inappropriate-behavior
>>43825688Thanks I think it suits me
