Im a 40yo transbian and im exhausted from pretending I dont want a gf half my age. I would never groom or manipulate and you know what make it 25, but yeah I long for a relationship where I get to be a caring loving gf and help my lover out in any way she needs ... not necessarily someone who is a babytrans tho, I had enough of that in my life lol.Even just casually chatting with gurls in their 20 online makes my heart sing, people my age are so fucking boomerized man, but zoomies still have the energy and optimism and it makes me so happy when a girl succeeds in life like meets a new partner or achieves any other goal. Idk on one hand this probably also has to do with my unrealized maternal instincts im not 100% sure. Its multiple things.Also frankly a lot of the young girls who would date someone my age are pretty messed up lol, so I will probably not do this in real life. ALSO ngl if I try to think about it more, it would really hurt to be dropped by a girl after a year or two... especially knowing that she is "richer" in a sense of how much time she has left.Ah well hah.Idk what do you think about large age gap t4t? Ever been in a such relationship? Would you date a lot younger/older girl?
>>44338160if she's at least 20, i would say that's fine i guessi never had any t4t relationships, but i used to date a man who's 9 years older than met. 27 yo tranny
>>44338160Perverted and fake
>>44338160>tfw no partner twice my age>t. 21 boymoder
the only relationship i miss was one with a trans girl way older than me but the rest were with theyfabs so
>>44338188Yeah like I said 20 is on the low end, its better for me if the girl has at least some life experience that doesnt come from being a literal teenager lol. Realistically I might go for someone in their late 20s when I start dating again.>>44338188Im a huge pervert yes but im not a bad person>>44338198Haha hi
>>44338223Woaw im glad you got to have that experience, why did the relationship end?
>>44338248sounds okay to me, i can personally see myself dating someone your age
>>44338266i was getting groomed so i kind of had to end it but im 19 now nd im ready to run it back kinda. either that or i date a trans man
>>44338248hiiii :>>im a huge pervertit what ways nona
>>44338318Uh im a sadist and a bit of an exhibitionist I guess haha even tho I havent done anything in a long time bc the risks arent worth it. It would be nice to do it with someone tho like put a girl on a leash and take her on a lovely night walk :)) and make her do tasks.I've also been thinking about finding someone who would deny their orgasms for me.Perverted enough for you?>>44338289Ok thats bad I cant even really imagine how grooming looks like. Glad to hear youre ok now and ready to go back good luck!
>>44338160This reads the same as every old perverted boomer that tried to get with me. Yuck.
>>44338355>sadist hot…yes pleaseim extremely masochistic>exhibitionismnot really my thing, i find it hot but im too paranoid..>denying orgasmsalso hot :>>perverted enough?yes mhm mhm absolutely
>>44338160post your hairline or GTFO
>>44338385I'd tell my lover what a good girl she is for denying herself for me, how proud I am of her for finally learning to control her urges, how she should instead learn to derive pleasure from my own orgasms instead! That is what good girls do. Not to mention learning to let go of your selfish need for cumming also has other benefits like better ability to focus, more self control in other areas of life ... but most importantly because I find it amusing and adorable, frustrated and denied girls are so cute :)))
>>44338454ur so hot omg
>>44338454>_< need so badaufhdgs i wish i had a gf like you nona…
>>44338160Nothing wrong with wanting a younger partner
>>44338507You can do it right now if you want? I've been having a kinda shitty day, and knowing you denied yourself for me would make me happy (:Report back to tell me how it went
>>44338534im confused im kinda dumb sorry >_> wdym TwT
>>44338581Haha you are a little bit dumb aha :p
>>44338621sorry..
americans are so grotesque and disgustingew >>44338581>>44338621>>44338655one of these two is a 40yo man
>>44338754im not american dont worry anon!
>>44338754>assumptionIm sorry youre feeling down anon, but sperging out in random threads is unlikely to make you feel better. Trust me, I'd know lol ...
>>44338355waow this is exactly what I'm looking for as a 26 year old trannyI can't do the orgasm denial stuff though because I've never had one so it would kinda be a null point, but I'm excited to try it after srs
>>44338160I would gladly date an older trans woman, assuming she started transitioning around the same age as me (early 20s) or younger. I find older women very sexy so it wouldn't be an issue for met.27 year old mtf
>>44338913Thats fine its not like a hard requirement, I dont care about sex *that* much in spite of all the kinkposting above. Actually impressive that you never had an orgasm desu thats rare and kinda cute. Good luck with srs!!!!!
>>44338160You are everything evil about tranny communities btw
>>44338160I'm in the same boat as a 30-something tranner, but I'm realizing I will have to go c4t to ever get someone my age or younger that is sane enough to build a stable life with. I started transition a decade ago so I pass and can probably get a cis gf if I knew where to meet ones okay with tranners.
>>44338941That pic is so good awah..>>44338964Theres an active thread about dating cisf as a tranner right now, its honestly not that easy. But if you date another trans girl pls just be careful to stay away from babytrans unless you feel you are at a place in life where you can put in a looooot of work into someone who may or may not appreciate it in the end.Also im dismayed to report that 40 isnt quite like being 30-something hah..
Im in my early 40s and I regularly fuck 18-19yr trans girls. Im not transgender but I do drag in my local lgbt sphere.
>>44338995>Theres an active thread about dating cisf as a tranner right now, its honestly not that easy.Is it >>44326933? That doesn't bother me because she seems nice and I'm okay with topping and piv as long as she understands I'm a switch. Other than that their relationship sounds like what I've been looking for, just stable and mutual love for each other.>stay away from babytransOh believe me, I am beyond burnt out on babytrans, bpdtrans, neettrans, etc. I want to be a mom because I want to have kids, not adopt a gf that can't function as an adult.
>>44339009youngshit x gigahon is super common
>>44339009They need to start killing people like you
>>44339009Lmao based drag chad.>>44339023This one fwiw >>44336257Yeah im the same way wrt topping/switch. But tbhdesu what I value the most is just like my partner being there for me when I need it, and babytrans as a rule are so focused on themselves they basically come off as narcs lol. Baby should date another baby, let them mess each other up.>want to be a momWow okay have you at all considered dating single moms? Sorry if youre very against that idea just wondering.
>>44339053You won't do shit
>>44339053the white race would go extinct
>>44338160i never knew i needed this woaw
>>44338943thank you! I'm happy someone sees it as cute and not kinda weird. sex isn't necessarily a requirement for kink anyway, I've done a lot of asexual kink scenarios that were fun and really hot. I really like being bound and kissed all over my body. definitely a masochist too.
>>44339074>This one fwiw >>44336257Yeesh, brainworms central. The manmoder fucking his customers isn't helping either. I think the main issue with threads like that is that they really highlight how most trans women don't see themselves as women, then take this out on others by obsessing over whether everyone else sees them as a woman or not, but since they can't see it themselves it never sticks and they just spiral on the topic for years and accuse everyone else of being the reason they can't just be female. If some cissoid wants to be cagey about me self validating my own womanhood then she can get bent.>what I value the most is just like my partner being there for me when I need itThat's part of mutual love imo, but yeah I agree.>Wow okay have you at all considered dating single moms? Sorry if youre very against that idea just wondering.I'm very torn on single moms. On one hand I'm pro-life, so I can commend them for not aborting the child even though it's likely difficult for them as a single parent and modern culture is trying to convince them to abort.On the other hand, I'm very attracted to women of good character and her getting wrapped up in some dark triad deadbeat's web long enough to get pregnant, or worse being stupid and hooking up, really reflects poorly on the type of woman she is. There's probably a specific scenario somewhere I wouldn't have an issue with it, but I haven't found one yet.I'm okay with adoption even though I would like to try for my own kids first and adopt later, so it's not the issue of raising someone else's child. Sins of the father doesn't exist imo so even if the dad is a POS the kid is innocent and deserves a loving family despite it all.
>>44338160same. except its not really like a preference but i do agree w u that people our age are boomerized its just there are way more zoomers? like if the algo was pushing me girls my age that would be different, and i would date older too, hi OP :) but its not. its giving me constant covid troons that were 18-21 5 years ago. i probly wouldnt go further than 10 years i would want them to have lived out of college at least a whilei dont see it as problematic if you dont have bad intentions. i wanted someone older at that age and a lot of them do too and its not grooming or whatever if they are a functional adult not a teen and i dont even feel bad about it or like its a compromise to get to be that for someone given my circumstance its kinda cool i just gotta practice being kind and patient and mature and reserved and not a creep
>>44339009>40>drag>fucks teenagersMaybe homophobia is the move
>>44338160hi can you be my mom OP. I want older women to love me.
>>44339297Its honestly so unique even among people with really bad bottom dysphoria (which I assume is the main reason why) hopefully you can share your forst orgasm woth someone special once the time arrives^^.>>44339341My experinces with single moms are kinda what you describe, definitely made a lot of bad and impulsive decisions consistently and now in a desperate situations looking for a way out. Im reasonably ok materially own an apartment etc so I had two very openly hit on me.That thread is pretty sad yeah even tho desu it describes something that exists.Best of luck with creating a family :).
>>44339539Even people 5 plus years younger than me feel boomerized its kinda crazy, they just arent really interested into anything and have the exact same music taste hobbies etc as they did at 25 except now theyre also kinda against anything new and weirdly proud of it. But I think boomerization is probably inevitable haha it will happen to me too one day ...Its also true that there are a lot more single younger people yeah naturally. Also not to be mean but at my age cis women are slowly starting to get hit by menopause, maybe not literally at 40 but sometimes not that long after, and it really really shows.>groomingHaha again Im not even sure how I would "groom" someone even if I wanted to. Xo you like what, push them to transition asap and then cut ties with family and friends and move in with you to be your sex slave or what. What's the grooming game about huh? Every time I see a leak of discord messages when ppl say they were groomed its just talking about video games and tv shows and extremely awkward sex talk.I have to be real maybe me thinking abput young girls this much is literally a normal midlife crisis ahaha xdxd>>44339801Hi nona fwiw I am very much in Europe, but also I am not exactly looking to be anyones mom except in an extremely perverted and elaborate erotic roleplay ofc, as one does
>26>too old to get groomed and taken advantage of>too young to do it to someone elseUgh
>>44340137Few know this but its v. possible for the younger person to groom the older one! Happens every day!!
>>44338160I'm 20 dating a 37 year old trans woman. we have a good relationship and I'm grateful for her.
>>44338160i'm 29. do i have a shot?
>>44340365you're so lucky. honestly i was i were younger and that could be me
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>>44338160i hope you have good money and thats my only opinion on the matter
I'm a 33 year old tranny dating a 20 year old tranny and its pretty fun. It helps she has been transitioning since she was 14 since yes fuck babytrans lol. Its really cute how easily flustered she is when she is made aware of the huge gap in life experience or I treat her to a romantic getaway or dinner that she could never have dating a girl her own age.
>>44343703also the other day she was showing me pics of her as a 15 year old asking if id still hit it (would)
>>44343774insanely based TwTneed a gf like this..
>>44338160I had a fwb relationship with a 55 year old t for some time, we're still friends, so i'm into it
>>44338160ive flirted a lot and made out with a friend whos 29 (am 19)would probably say about 10 years older than me is my limit but desu if someone older felt "right" id probably go for it
>>44338160>I would never groom or manipulateYou lost me sorry, not interested anymore
>>44338160>boomerizedyour the one saying "gurls" like you're straight from susansplace
>>44338160my wife is a decade younger than me; we are very happy
>>44340022>except in an extremely perverted and elaborate erotic roleplay ofc, as one doesGo on
>>44343774based hebephile gf
please god send me another gf that's way older than me>t. 21
>>44343797Woaw 55, unsure how to process this desu im not sure if ill still want to date in 15 years in any sense, even now im kinda on the fence. Was it a cis woman?>>44346426That was a typo >_< actually funny tho
