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>>44738602
Sjma shes just like me fr

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Newfag here. The FAQ seems to answer a lot of my questions in the affirmative but I can't seem to reconcile some major snags on whether or not I'm actually bi. Since I was a teen I've had instances on and off with M/M furry porn where I was confused as to why I was into it or lied to myself and said I wasn't until I started being more honest with myself. Same with Femboys IRL or anime characters like the John Doe mod for ZZZ. However the catch is that I can watch furry m/m with more masc presenting characters and be into it, but I tired watching IRL porn to see if i'm really about this, outside of some exceptions, it does nothing for me unless I'm already hard and even then I have to force it unless it's femboys or the like. I haven't yet tried checking out other guys IRL so I'm not sure if I'm just psyching myself out because for the longest time I reflexively suppressed looking at them like that. Conversely, the other day one of the more twinkish guys at my job was on his back working on a machine and his midriff was exposed showing slightly below where his belt line should be and I caught myself looking more intently than I normally should.

I have a lot of crossed wires right now.

>>44738759
>Conversely, the other day one of the more twinkish guys at my job was on his back working on a machine and his midriff was exposed showing slightly below where his belt line should be and I caught myself looking more intently than I normally should.
yep, u are bi
sex is much different irl than like the gay furry porn you are into, and you seem to understand that i think
try hooking up with or going on a date with a cute guy, and see if you like it

>>44738794
I will, actually. Finally being honest with myself has made me feel a lot better in the past few days instead of doing all the cope mental gymnastics about "how its not gay to like femboys" and whatnot. I've also been pretty miserable re: the state of straight dating. Maybe I was just looking in the wrong places.

>>44738919
glad to hear anon, it can be a lot to deal with honestly

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do you like vampires bigen?

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>>44738466
Hii

>>44740065
hi purple

>>44738466
desu i will probably never find out if i'm actually bi or not, since the odds of me finding a femboy irl and some how ending up fucking him are close to 0
so maybe it's just the sissy porn/femboy doujinshis messing with my head

>>44740134
buy some amazon basics and convince a guy to wear it

>>44740165
i would first need to find the femboy though
i know some of them exist in the world
but at the same time, there 8 billion niggers on earth and i'm almost a neet

>>44740191
install a dating app, it's pretty easy to meet guys

>>44740226
but i don't think my country has femboys though

>>44738466
They really do be erasing us a lot of the time, lgbt people especially.

>>44740581
yep or they just call us straggots, etc
know 100% what u are saying

>>44740614
Well the goofy thing is how much meaningless confusion it creates. Someone saying "oh you're not real gay" meanwhile the straight masses see you take one peek at a penis and you're in the gay bucket forever. Like they're not more understanding but they're at least consistent. Having 50 shades of gay on the lgbt side just feels like a redundancy for ingroup brownie points. Which is fine but that doesn't mean you gotta hate me for not conforming to it innately, that's the whole point of the lgbt community.

>>44740259
Turkmenistan?

>>44740654
>meanwhile the straight masses see you take one peek at a penis and you're in the gay bucket forever
yes if you ever say or do anything remotely gay to or around your straight friends they all just assume you are a massive faggot

>that's the whole point of the lgbt community
hard agree, ive really disliked how divisive the community has become recently

>>44740581
people are really out here gatekeeping faggotry

I feel like I'm bi but only into guys when horny. How do I fix this?

>>44741129
Ez. start feeling bi when you’re not horny.

>>44740814
looooooool this phrase is so fucking goatedddd

>>44741129
have you dated guys irl?

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>>44743207
rude!!

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Hello bifriends I'm bored

>>44744011
hi anon
have you been playing any good games lately? or watched any good shows?

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>>44744037
Oh yes I have indeed! I've been playing lots of league recently, but also pathogenic, restory, artisan of glimmith. Im also trying out overwatch. Haven't watched any shows in a while actually

>>44744048
who do you main in league? i used to be really good at lulu

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>>44744067
I main yone I currently have 67(sorry...) percent winrate with him in ranked. Hopefully I will soon transition from a silver serpent to a gold gazelle!

>>44744101
the power spike is coming i believe in u fren

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>>44744135
Idk if I'm playing him wrong but he genuinely feels more like a snowball/early game character. Like I usually get an early kill on enemy laner. They're buffing his late game though so I guess even better!

i love bunnies

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>>44744162
i remember his early game all in is very good if u can do it

>>44743041
I have not. Would that help?

>>44744841
yes, i think it will help you figure it out

>>44738466
Anyone else a tru bi-slut? I've been hypersexual all my life and explored my sexuality fully in many directions lol. I have a huge body count but no regrets...no stds either lol

>>44744933
what was your favorite or most interesting sexual experience?

>>44738466
>QotT: What’s something about being bi that you didn’t understand until you actually experienced it?
Hooking up with a man is just very different physically from hooking up with a woman. I didn't end up doing anything IRL with guys til I was 20. In my head it was just hot and a different form of attraction, but men are larger, have different texture, different shape, different smell, etc. And sucking dick and being penetrated is very different vs pussy.

>>44744933
Same lol. I was kissing girls when I was six and trying to kiss boys too (although I didn't figure out that meant I was bi until I was hs lol). Can't recall how many people I hooked up with, only regrets were a few missed opportunities.

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>>44745413
>favorite or most interesting sexual experience
Thats actually a hard question even tho I've thought a lot about it. The "best" most favorite have always been with women where the experience is deeper than purely physical- the emotional/romantic component where I feel as close to bliss as I ever have...

I have had some interesting sex thats been hot af and fun- 2 girls in montreal, 2 guys in an empty dentist office, MF married couple that wanted nothing to do with each other lol...too many co-workers, lots of random men and women. I got/get way too much validation from sex...

>>44746252
yea- girls crazy from the get go for sure. I also srated wearing panties for sexual titlation at a very early age. but never thought abut guys until I randomly treid sucking cock at age 14 and was surprised I didnt hate it lol

how are frens tonight

I genuinely need to get fucked doggy so bad I need my eyes rolling into the back of my head so bad but I'm too sub5 to get that fuck my life holy shit I need it

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>>44748239
im great, happy cirno day anon

>>44748395
you too anon ^.^

>>44748240
>sub5
how bad is it

>>44746236
>men have different texture
thanks anon. that’s the word i was looking for but couldn’t put my finger on. Women have are soft in a way men just aren’t.

Anyone in open rs/poly? What's the craziest configuration you've had?

>>44749510
ive never liked poly or open relationships really
seems like a lot of work

>>44749510
Wife and I have talked about doing threesomes, but I think she'd be too nervous to see me with someone else. I've had a few MFFs before her, really hoping to do MMF some day, but if it doesn't happen, so be it!

will you be my kirkentine bigen?

>>44749213
I wish I was soft as a man... :(

>>44752065
There’s various ways to be soft, anon. I‘m sure you are in your own way.

>>44748240
Well for what it's worth if you went face down ass up and you were in the area I'd consider it. I've been told I lay good pipe.

>>44752065
shave and moisturize

I wish I was dead as a man

>>44746842
>2 guys in an empty dentist office
explain

>>44752768
it's what's on the inside that counts

>>44738466
>QotT: What’s something about being bi that you didn’t understand until you actually experienced it?

I never was like outright super homophobic or biphobic, but as a very young kid in the back of my mind I always thought it was weird that bi people didn't just choose to be straight, because that's basically what I had decided. And then In my teens I slowly realized that that's not how that works, and that in fact fantasizing about kissing and going down on your male friends is not something straight people do at all. go figure

>>44753868
be great if we just got to pick yeah

>>44753868
>realized fantasizing about your male friends is not something straight people do at all
Did you ever had the reverse thought? Like:“surely nobody is 100% straight all the time and at least once thought about it“?

>>44753076
If that were true I wouldn't be paying taxe- wait... by jove you've got it!!

>>44752895
I was working downtown in a big city and would troll CL for cocks to suck during my lunch hour. There were a ton of businessmen who liked cute boys in panties to suck their cock lol. I had been chatting with his guy for a few days about getting together. They day we decided to meet he asks if its ok if there is another guy there? after some back and forth and pics, I agree. I go to the address he gave me and its a dentist office in a big office building. It was his practice but it was closed for the day so it was empty. They proceeded to strip me down to my panties and fucked me right there in the lobby. At the end they put me in a dentsist chair and came on me from each side. That was such a fun walk back to work looking at all the workerbee girls thinking if they only knew lol...my co-worker asks how lunch was all I could do was say fine lol

>>44754054
Growing up my brother had a guy friend that had long hair and too young to know what sex even is I kept having weird thoughts about him. I think it took me until my mid 20s to realize I was crushing on him. Little kid and his little gay thoughts.

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>>44748395
stob froge murdor

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>>44755389
sorry, take this

>>44756356
thank u!!

Has anyone else had trouble "coming out to themselves"? Like, I can say it, I can know it, but I can't "feel it", if that makes sense. I feel like even if I was in a room with other openly gay and bi men, I wouldn't be able to properly express myself outside of memey, socially acceptable ways by heteronormative standards. Like, it doesn't feel real. It still feels wrong to say and think these things. My self-repression is so ingrained, I've been looking at M/M content on and off for years and still, in my mind, I'm straight with no cognitive break because I still like women and when that happened, it was "oh that doesn't count," "Oh I didn't mean it, it's just ironic," "no homo bro, haha," et cetera. The worst part is that it's self-inflicted. I have two trans friends, a gay friend who came out at least 12 years ago, and and openly gay coworker who's married. It's like being in a prison with not bars and no locks, yet I can't step outside.

>>44757134
can take a long time to accept that about yourself, genuinely has been a life long thing for me to unravel
im a bit older so like, people were very much not accepting at all about it growing up
has caused me to have some funny ways of dealing with it

>>44756398
how did the moon make him

>>44757134
I have bi, trans and gay friends and all that but still when opening up to some of them I still hesitate like it's a big thing to do. I've kept the circle of people miniscule (so I'm SUPER pissed off someone outted me to someone else), but of course they won't care, they'll be supportive, but I don't know whether it's me being new to this or some self-imposed embarrassment over the issue but I just can't say it even to people I can trust whole heartedly
I'm still shaking off the "I'm a fake bi" allegations that only my own brain is alleging, but that's died down a bit after going on some dates and being emotional about it. Turns out no matter what my brain worries about, my heart acts completely the same to men as it does to women. As a wreck, mostly, but I'm working on that.

>>44757134
Sometimes it's really just time that will solve this. I know I denied it for years until m/m stuff just became as normal for me as hetero stuff. then I had no problem accepting it and being open.

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I had a very intelligent good hearted ex boyfriend I’ve been trying to find another guy like that but I’ve had no luck

>>44757751
u will meet someone else anon, i believe

>saw a theory video on a character being gay
>the creator then goes off saying how gays are bad or some shit
>completely forgets the character had a girlfriend in the show at the time

>>44758049
Idk I’m getting kinda old I’ve tried kik Grindr local pride events discord my true calling is to be one a beautiful lonely sad skinny twink

>>44758199
I've pretty much abandoned any idea of dating too. Just not worth the hassle anymore.

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>>44758199
i believe in u anon

>>44758199
i feel u, actually so grim trying to meet people rn

>>44758429
Yeah I’ve moved this year so the friend of a friend strategy isn’t going to work

>>44757134
it makes total sense. it isn’t about knowing. it’s about truly accepting a different or new part of yourself. and as others have said: it takes time. I wouldn’t beat myself up over it. You‘ll be ready when you’re ready.
>even if I was in a room with other openly gay and bi men, I wouldn't be able to properly express myself
I found „expressing myself“ turned out to be just, well, be myself but with less holding back. How do you feel it would be for you? How would you be different from today and why?

>>44759019
Male ballet dancers have one of the ideal male body types desu. Wish it was more popular but every guy wants to look like a dorito on a stick

>>44757134
I'm in a similar place as you - only been with women, but watched gay porn many times and even went on a date with a guy once (though it didn't lead to anything afterwards). I still feel like I can't really call myself bi until I've at least tried sex with a dude, even though I know it's irrational given the stuff above.

>>44748240
Sub5 as in sub 5/10 or what? I think pretty much anyone can be at least a 7 by taking care of themselves and getting clothes and a haircut that fits them

>>44758560
has been rough for me too similar thing, moved a fews years ago to a smaller town
basically just have to use dating apps and well we all know how those are

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>>44738466
It makes me cry that ill never be able to have sex with a man or a woman due to having avoidant personality disorder. Not sure if i should even bother calling myself bisexual since ill never have any of the experiences every other bi person has.

>>44761365
go to therapy

>>44761376
I went through 4 different therapists and none of them were able to help me. I honestly kinda believe therapy is just a scam now

>>44761395
have you tried a specialist? might need to find a good one from the sounds of it

>>44761395
>>44761403
This. There are therapists who specialize in LGB cases to deal with these kinds of things.

>>44761365
Self-fulfilling prophecy alert

not gonna show pics but does having a big dick as a dude really help that much? I am well endowed but I just feel like a normal dude. If someone wants to see your dick you already won

>>44763671
For dating it does literally nothing.
For hookups maybe, I don't do those.
For sex, yes it helps having more to work with.

>>44763694
but like people aren't gonna want me to fuck them just cause I have a 7inch dick right? I can't just go up to a pretty girl and be like "I have big PP want some fuk?"

>>44763733
you're just asking what I already answered.

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>>44763671
have a good one if someone asks for it, but don't just send hog unprompted is my advice
have this pic of sexy blanchard

It's been half a decade and I still think about my ex from time to time. I don't think I'll ever have a connection like that again. I think I could get a partner pretty quickly again and yet, some part of me gave up on the idea of loving and being loved (or never believed in it in the first place)

>>44763797
Logically you know there's other people out there, but they never are just like that one person that just fit

>>44763671
Well it really sucks if you have a dick that’s too small once you’re over that 5inch benchmark your good

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>>44763797
Yeah I'm a good half year into that zone myself.
In hindsight not even a particularly good relationship for me but love is a drug and the withdrawal is the worst there is. Now that I've seen what it feels like and what the cost is I genuinely think I would sabotage the relationship even if I did get in another, not that avoiding them is hard as a moid anyway. It's just not worth it not even close. People want so much for so little and it hurts so badly and they just don't care. I don't even envy the people that can tank break ups like its nothing, I see them as psychopaths.
I don't like people and what I thought was the one exception ended up being the shining example of why I'm justified in retreating from them entirely. There's just no benefit worth doing that again. It nearly killed me and I'm still not sure if that wouldn't have been the kinder fate.

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>>44739633
I absolutely adore vampires, i wish i could be one

>>44763671
>>44763694
>For hookups maybe
It absolutely does. I've sucked a lot nice big cocks on ugly dudes lol.

>>44763980
I'd like to think I'm good looking...

>>44763895
me too thanks

>>44763815
>>44763894
I'm just going to wait a year for every week we were together and that'll be that

>>44764051
>calculating that would be 100+ years for me
Yeah this makes sense

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>>44764051
I don't glorify the person I was with.
They cheated on me, betrayed every principle they ever pretended to, and behaved selfishly and malevolently on the way out for no justifiable reason at all.
The only reason I think about them at all is because unlike that dogshit human I offered my heart I actually meant the shit I said and fixing the shit they broke on the way out just because they could takes a long fucking time. The only reason their life isn't a justifiable living hell is because I am smart enough to know doing what they did only poisons your life more. And yes I'm fucking bitter.
The broader issue is that I see just how unreliable love is, how easily it betrays you to people that very obviously aren't good for you and the next time I notice that poison slipping into my veins I'm ending things then and there, as quickly and as violently as possible. Not because it just won't be the same as this last cunt and not because I don't want to get hurt again but because I know what the fucking benefits will be. The pathetic little token efforts at trying to give something meaningless meaning for just long enough that someone dies before realizing it was all held together with duct tape to begin with. All of the emotions only exist to drug us into spitting out a few kids before the relationship implodes.
I've seen what human connections look like, I've seen what family is, I've seen what friendship is and now I've seen what love is and all of it is a dogshit deal built on convenience and delusion. The moment the deal gets bad the whole thing shatters. We aren't social creatures at all we're horrible to live with almost without exception and the only thing sewing us together is chemical reward and punishment systems in our head that condition you into wanting to be near people even if the interaction is entirely inane or actively toxic and dangerous. An amoeba has as much compassion and the veneer of agency we paint over it is a pathetic cope.

>>44754054
late reply; I have. Honestly feel like most people are probably a little flexible and just unwilling to admit it or never considered it. That and most straight people seem to have pretty strong disgust reactions to the idea of being intimate with someone of the same sex. But attraction really is just biology at the end of the day; a nice ass removed from context is still a nice ass. I think the difference between being "monosexual" or bi boils down to whether you could see yourself going through with it (sex or a romantic relationship) and getting real fulfillment from it. I definetly could.

>>44764296
the rubber room..

>>44764012
Then you're good. Do you bulge max? Im a manlet but have a big dick esp for my size and the only pants that fit my waist are tight in the thigh and crotch and i love catching ladies taking a look.

>>44764928
>bulge max

>>44765414
>bulge max

who up hog maxxing

>>44738759
Bit of an update: turns out it was all just mental. Once I started accepting that, yes, I am bi, yes, this is okay, and yes, I'm allowed to be into this, I've been having less barriers regarding IRL stuff and have even noticed a guy that I could see myself with. Things have gone fast for me in the past two weeks since I've begun this process, and I guess I just needed to get acclimated and dip my toes in the water instead of trying to jump in. Once I get more comfortable, I might even try a gay bar, though I'm still super self conscious about my look, given I'm not in the best shape. I think just being around others like me would be helpful though.

>>44765782
>>44738759
ahahahaha sorry i had to laugh

I LOVE MY BI BOYFRIEND!

>>44765782
Would bet a solid amount of money that improving yourself image will also make you more bi

>>44765967
Based bi boyfriend poster is back? I thought you broke up

Achieved wizard status this year. I feel like there should be an additional special designation if you make it to 30 as a bi male. Should at least get some kind of buff to my powers.

I've never been a full on doomer about it all but with each year I just get more pessimistic about the actual circumstances around me losing it/being in a relationship. At this point I envision it being with some girl who likes me a lot more than I like her who I present an uncomfortably curated version of myself towards who I'll grow to resent and be a shitty boyfriend towards and will accidentally knock her up and become a shitty loser divorced dad towards some poor kid who will know their father to be some neglectful piece of shit who died of cirrhosis in their mid 40's. And that poor girl will end up being the only sexual partner who I will ever have had and though my dying day I will never forgive her for fucking me. And if hell exists I will suffer eternally but mostly just because of all of the gay porn I jacked off to.

>>44738466
i thought i was bi for a long time. but i'm asexual just longing for friends. and my devotion to people leads them to push me away. just meant to be all alone in my cave

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>>44766527
time to turn on the pink floyd and pretend all my problems don't exist

>>44766543
Which song are you listening to first?

>>44766479
I see that for you and hope your vision stays true and you will follow the path you're expecting for yourself.

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>>44766479
>>44766527
i heard they're adding incel to the lgbt soon is this true?

>>44766559
Great choice considering
Enjoy the feelings, anon

>>44766621
i'm not the top reply but i can confirm my penis has been in a vagina. also hate quoting on phone but guy below you, thanks, on Welcome to the Machine now, have a great weekend

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>>44766623
onto Toro y Moi we go

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People keep telling me I need to be fucking more people.The tiler that was fixing the bathroom in my apartment was just telling me to. I've even had cashier telling me to. wtf.

>>44766558
Oh jeez are you trying to imply that my mindset is a self fulfilling prophecy? My goodness I've never considered that before thank you so much for your insight.
>>44766621
I don't consider myself to be an incel. Obviously I could've lost it years ago without any effort with a guy on one of the apps and even here and there there have been a handful of women over the years who were very clearly into me but I'm too fucked in the head to ever act on anything.

>>44767166
they know

>>44766992
fantastic taste

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>>44767260
thanks pal ;) have a great night

what do we do about the reddit bisexual menace chat?

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>>44767616
Be beautiful enough to expand their perspective

>>44767655
blessed post

>>44767902
fed post

>>44765782
sounds like you are taking some good steps anon

>>44767616
What is a reddit bisexual?

>>44768071
best way i can explain it is like guys that claim to be bi but only like femboys and women
or women that kissed a girl at the bar and claim to be bi
that kind of thing

>>44766559
Wish you were here cuts deep. Good choice, anon.
>>44768111
the key question is: are reddit bisexuals willing to suck femboy dick?

>>44768271
>are reddit bisexuals willing to suck femboy dick?
i assume most of them have never touched another human

>>44768111
>best way i can explain it is like guys that claim to be bi but only like femboys and women
>or women that kissed a girl at the bar and claim to be bi
There's a world of difference between these two lmao

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>>44769102
yeah, first one is probably a closeted bi and second one is most likely just larping for attention.

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>>44768467
>another
only redditor to redditor interactions allowed, so yeah, no human to be found there

>>44769594
Pretty much. If you are able to have sex with both men and women you are bi, regardless of the weird gatekeeping about femboys or whatever

>>44769102
sure, was just cooking up examples to explain what people mean by the term

>>44767655
Jokes aside those ethereally androgynous people out there do have the power to bend a lot of orientations. I feel like most people are bisexual if you're hot enough.

>>44770937
feels like its been my life mission to confuse people some times

>>44770937
I've only met one person where I genuinely couldn't tell whether they were born male or female. I'm guessing female based on the mannerisms, but it was a genuine WTF moment

>>44770130
>gatekeeping
nah they just suck and make us all look bad
closeted fucks

>>44771756
>exact gatekeeping I'm talking about

>>44771793
this is not gatekeeping
this is calling out cringe behavior
and i suspect you are one of them

>>44771810
I get how girls kissing other girls to pretend to be bi or for attention or whatever is bad, but what's the issue with dudes who are exclusively into femboys and such?

>>44771882
the culture of it is what bothers me
go and look at the threads on gif for example
i think it's the fetishization of it that is the root of my issue, and also these are the types that are often lowkey transphobic

>>44771954
I'd hardly call porn forums on the internet representative of any culture, other than terminally online gooners culture...
>also these are the types that are often lowkey transphobic
I guess? But the focal point there is dudes who are in denial about their sexuality and not LGBT culture as a whole. I get that people sometimes conflate the two though

>>44771974
im just using it as an example of the culture, there are other issues too with it being predatory but thats beside the point i guess
>the focal point there is dudes who are in denial
yes and they use trans people as an outlet to deal with being closeted, which is why we get a lot of hate from the lgbt community right now

>>44772005
>yes and they use trans people as an outlet to deal with being closeted, which is why we get a lot of hate from the lgbt community right now
Is it? I'm not being sarcastic btw, there's just a lot of other things I'd point to as bigger problems

>>44772127
yes, people just call them chasers instead of reddit bisexuals if that clears up what im talking about

hello, bigen
i'm confused about my feelings. can somebody talk with me about it?

>>44772802
You don't need permission to post stuff just post what you wanna say lmao

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>like a guy on hinge
>week later he matches with me
>open app
>unmatches with me before even sending a message

>like girl on hinge
>she likes me back
>she states she doesn't like that I have chosen "looking for partner" as my dating preference
>unmatches with me


everyone SUCKs these days

>>44772828
idk. am i just stupid and straight or something else? because i never had any problem with women as friends but i never could get a gf. like i have a mental block or something.

but i look at men and... idk i feel kinda sad that i can't be with them or you know dance in the club when i in the club. ugh. but i'm not gay and wanted relationships with a lot of women desu. i feel stupid.

>>44773119
You're probably bi, but sounds like you will have to get some more experience under your belt to know

>>44772859
yeah this is dating app experience in a nutshell right now
or like they match and never reply or message you

>guy I'm sleeping with sometimes makes us stop fucking right before he finishes
>ask him about it
>fairly stoic and withholding so he doesn't at first
>finally get him to say why after he did it this last time
>says he feels dread sometimes when he's close to having an orgasm
>"dread" is like the exact word he used
wtf did he mean by this

>>44773194
But I don't feel like I can do it with any of them. Why am I so fucked up?

>>44773706
>Why am I so fucked up?
Fuck if I know lmao, but the good news is that it's probably all just in your head. Work on improving your self worth and stepping outside your comfort zone

>>44773671
He likes sex but not being gay

>>44773773
maybe. it took him a while to let me reciprocate for him and he does try to be pretty self-controlled when we do it. he seems fine with liking men otherwise.

>>44773671
damn what the fuck lmao

>>44773671
4/10 attempt at aura farming

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>>44773671
well the French call an orgasm 'la petite mort', the little death

>>44773834
yeah that was pretty much my reaction.

>>44773834
I think I'm just bad at sex dawg.

>>44774146
you learn something new every day. either way that's very french of them.

I'll trade you: apparently in a mass grave is called a brothers' grave or something like that in russian iirc.

>>44774071
low aura yields this harvest... there may be a hypefamine...

>be roughly 90% straight and into women
>whenever I get talking to a bi/gay guy online I get horny and end up getting really flirty with him
>yet the majority of gay porn involving manly looking men (which is most men) puts me off

I came out as bi about 6 years ago, and I still feel confused. You’d think that because I like being intimate with men in conversation and sexting them that I’d like gay porn too.

>>44774571
irl very different than porn
way she goes

>>44769653
this is what a peak male looks like

>>44773119
do u think u would have the same issues with men?

>>44773119
>kinda sad I can’t be with them or dance in the club
Just go for it. Good luck, anon.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=4DPCHufDWJQ

sorry if it's a boring topic, but is anyone else annoyed at how much top/bottom, dom/sub/ masc/fem tend to be linked in media? I know that there's probably a general correlation between these extremes.

>>44777554
Because hetero relationship dynamics are more legible to most people so they tend to be replicated in queer representation

>>44769653
frigging hate ballet shoes
why don't you just dance bareeefoooot

>>44777972
But they're super rad manly ballet shoes with skeleton toes though

>>44778018
Stop, stop. I can only get so erect.

Going to come out to some close friends and immediate family today. NGL kinda nervous. My friends will almost assuredly be fine, but the family part is the hard one. Im 30 so there's far less risk than if I was still a teen or whatever, but its still a pretty big deal.

>>44778361
May I ask, what’s the driver behind coming out to your friends and family precisely now? Did you meet someone you’re hoping to introduce? At any rate, good luck, anon.

>>44777554
like what? im confused

>>44778503
Not yet, but I'm feeling much more confident lately than I have in a while. So far I've told an openly gay coworker, a close friend, and a sibling and it's been going well.

>>44776838
Been a while since I've been lossed. I don't know whether to angry or happy

>>44777554
Yea, desu being a masc bottom for a fem top sounds more appealing to me than fem4fem atp.

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>>44781199
xd

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I like bunnies too

>>44781400
This reminded me of the (canon) Zootopia abortion comic

>>44738466
>What’s something about being bi that you didn’t understand until you actually experienced it?
people doubting your gay proclivities.
a lot of gay men write you off as not being "actually" but i think its a cope for you not wanting to fuck them, i just tell them i've had sex with 4 men in my life and leave it at that.

>>44757134
only for the first time i ever did stuff with another guy and it was a more "huh, that just happened" thing.
shortly after i accepted being bisexual.

>>44782077
they either don't believe u or gay test u all the time its so cringe

Do you guys agree bi women are prettier on average? Idk maybe I’m just hitting above my weight. The people who like me are those I’m not attracted to. I get the worst of both words. I’m both single and a shallow asshole

>>44782989
maybe the ones you see
but, there are plenty of ugly people in every sexuality anon

>>44783012
If this shit couldn’t be traced back to me(it absolutely can) I’d post face and dick. I’m body dysmorphic and just going through it rn. I can nail a workout PRing on my deadlift thinking I’m an athletic model in the making and if I miss one gym day or overeat I see the same thing and think I’m hideous and disgusting even if I have people hit on me litteraly earlier that day. Therapist was really helping but then lost fancy insurance so can’t see her anymore (she felt terrible but she can’t work for free) and I’m just a mess. I keep a tape measure in my room just so I can ground myself and say for sure I have a big dick when I’m really down but I always find an excuse for why I’m not enough and that the people I like will only ever see me as a nice guy (not “nice guy” I promise!) but won’t want me sexually. I’ll never be enough for myself

>>44783154
wat

>>44783378
Dick big confidence small

>>44782630
yep.
as i say, i see it as a cope for you not being sexually attracted to them in the context of apps or dating sites.

>>44783888
u are prob right that it's just some elaborate bullshit cope

>>44783958
Cindy was something else

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>>44785086
chinese porn always fucking hits

>>44785086
He's so airbrushed that he looks CG rendered

>>44785477
i thought it was slop at first glance im ngl

>>44785086
>>44785477
>>44785639
Wtf this is actually a real guy? I thought it was some 3D render a first lmao. Guy is photoshopped to hell obviously but still

>>44739633
Vampires are bi coded.

>>44787202
who was your favorite vampire anon

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did you do anything fun over the weekend bigen?
i got a too drunk and was a little too silly, and i suffer today for it

>>44788998
>did you do anything fun over the weekend bigen?
I went to a bouldering party event which was a lot of fun. Fucked my elbow up a bit though, but I'm feeling better today
>i got a too drunk and was a little too silly
Elaborate

>>44789054
just got drunk and was dumb
hung out with a friend, and then was cooking up silly things when i got home to bother my friends with
hungover as hell today

>>44789195
>just got drunk and was dumb
You didn't elaborate enough baka

every day i thank jesus for this meal

>>44789219
guilty of vague posting, sorry

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>>44789404
The apology doesn't mean much if you don't share the details NOW

>>44789287
what did they mean by this?

i cant figure it out, im into woman 99% of the time but sometimes i just get this massive fucking urge to be a sub for a feminine mtf or a femboy, i dont care about the size but the femininety and attitude

is it something or is it prison gay?
just imagining fucking a trans girl hard, nutting inside and laying down, them she gets on top with her soft breasts on my back and hair around me, hearing her moans

i hate that i feel this way but thinking about it feels so good
what is wrong with me

>>44790619
read the op

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>guy ive been dating for 6 years and 10 months wants an std test for himself out of nowhere but wont tell me why.
>he knows im clean and doesnt want me to get one
im gonna blow my rent money on liquor. i just dont care anymore. have a good day, anons.

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>>44792368
Pepperoni nipples oh my

>>44792441
>guy ive been dating for 6 years and 10 months
Sooo your boyfriend? My condolences though anon

>>44792815
>sooo your boyfriend
probably for not too much longer.

>>44792836
Yeah I can't imagine the reason for getting tested is anything other than the obvious; especially if he refuses to say why

>>44792884
it is what it is.

>>44792441
feel like if it was something normal to be concerned about he would just tell you
grim

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>>44792901
Hugs man/woman

should i schedule a massage with a male or a female. i'm a dude btw. i feel like i'm more sexually attracted to males and it might be awkward if i get a boner from a guy touching me.

>>44792441
Sorry to hear that.
Been there, hope you recover quickly.

>>44793272
you're there to get a massage it's not sexual anon
but also im sure they deal with that all the time

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>>44794417
I need my fujo cuckqueen

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im gay but you guys friendly?

why does the lgt hate you all so much?

>>44795798
projection and/or envy mostly.

>>44795798
I think the hate comes from the fact that as a (cis) bi you can always integrate into hetero society at the end of the day, while gay, lesbian, and trans folk will always be outside it. In that sense, you're always suspect to being like, a race/class traitor but for queerness.

>>44795844
>>44795839
i heared before from lgt and straights that bisexuals are prone to cheating.

also why are 99% of bi men submissive?

>>44795905
Both of those are just setereotypes.
The last one especially is wrong - I'd imagine far more bi men are dominant/tops since there's not nearly the same social stigma attached to that, since you would still be "the man" in the sexual encounter or relationship or whatever

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>Be me
>33 year old cis man
>Attracted to women
>Cursed to be especially attracted to lesbians
>Theoretically like femboys...
>... but every femboy I've encountered IRL isn't passing enough for me
So I am a man who is attached to being a man enough to always be in a different league than the girls I like and I am bi enough to be bi but saying I am bi just gives false hope to all the hons out there.

>>44796461
why specifically lesbeans?

>>44796784
I guess I got my wires crossed growing up. That and they are usually the only ones hanging around my interests.

>>44795905
like the other anon said that's just some meme
im a top bi guy, and ive never cheated for example

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Wut's /bigen/'s stance on fat bitches?

>>44796461
i had an unfortunate thing for about 6months with a lesbian, didn't work for obvious reasons
but like, anon you need to unfuck your brain and meet women that actually like men and like you lol

>>44795798
it's a bit slow but we are nice ya

>>44796997
I know it's unfair but it depends on their frame and fat distribution. I used to see some girl who was completely flat in both tits and ass, but she was fit and very hot, rocked that look. But she gained a bit of weight and it only went to her stomach and face and did not work for me anymore. Lost all attraction.
But girls who have big hips/ass/tits can rock the chub to an extreme amount depending on their other assets.

>>44795905
>also why are 99% of bi men submissive?
That's just a 4chan thing

>>44797006
It has proven dishearteningly difficult. I only seem to attract men and very rarely desperate women who don't have other options.

>>44796997
Depends how fat we are talking. A bit chubby is fine or can even be attractive, but actual obesity is repulsive. Women carry extra weight better than men do IMO.

>>44738466
Newfag here. I’m bi. Have only dated women but I’m attracted to both and have slept with guys. Also into crossdressing but I’m not trans.

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is this attractive to any of you if it's cis male bottom?

>>44797428
Can’t say since I’m a bottom myself

>>44796997
so long as they aren't a whale its all good

>>44797428
Sorry, but no. Too pudgy

>>44796997
It depends. There's a very fine line between a little curvy/slightly chubby and fat/obese. The problem is the women in the latter camp try and co-opt terms like curvy and thick and don't get shamed enough for it. It really grinds my gears when they say they want a fit guy and won't get with a heavier guy themselves.

>>44797428
Time to start praying at the iron church, friend. Don't need to do heavy lifts, but cardio and high-rep lifts will help you. If you're trying to bottom specifically, a lot of sumo squats and deadlifts will help you get a nicer looking butt too.

>>44797428
bro got some hips

>>44797118
Hi. Same here....

>>44798882
>>44797118
post maid outfit

>>44799410
I second this, >>44797118 >>44798882 you can't just tease us like that

>>44798882
Nice, dude

My maid outfit is a pain so I don’t have good pics. I have a pic of another one from a few years ago but it’s lewd

>>44799410
>>44799495
>>44799500

lol. No maid outfits for me lol. since im small and have a babyface, I get away with more and just keep it simple- never wigs or dresses or retardo pink tutu sissy shit....just sexy panties, thigh highs and a cami or sexy-tee is my go to outfit. Maybe lipgloss and mascara if the guy is really into it. I have had guys buy me stuff to wear for them or make me wear their wife's stuf....thats always hot af

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>>44799537
>No sissy shit!
>"just sexy panties, thigh highs and a cami or sexy-tee... ...Maybe lipgloss and mascara"

>>44799537
I’m not great at makeup but I have a bunch of that, a wig, some slutty outfits and then an actual wardrobe with plenty of dresses, heels, tops and skirts. Shit tons of panties too! I like wearing open back panties if I’m meeting a guy for the night.

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>>44799564
>derps
dont care what you think but this is not the same as what I wear. sometimes its just panties under my jeans.

>>44799652
I get what you meant but I find your strict disavowal kinda funny. Like, you sound like you are crying out that you aren't gay while sucking dick. Of course you are not gay, you are bi, but you get how it looks like.

>>44799652
I hate that shit too lol
Usually sissy porn just means hypnosis or a femboy gets railed. Those dresses are already an eyesore and I’ve only seen them in the context of some weird old guy wearing one to Target or Walmart and making his fetish public. It’s gross

>>44799706
>your strict disavowal
fair enough. different levels of cringe I guess lol. but to be fair I did qualify it
>retardo pink tutu sissy shit

>>44799865
>sissy porn
I never look at sissy porn. every once in awhile. Its almost always just straight porn and I self insert as the girl.