>be me>bisexual khhv trans man>get added by a rare submissive ftm chaser type>things are going well, he looks cute as well>appears to be seriously attracted to dominant trans men and fine with being topped>start getting genuinely excited and allow myself a little hope>mfw he suddenly asks if he can "talk me out of" top surgery>spouts some nonsense about surgery making him sad or something>it's like a slap in the face, my attraction is gone>unfriend and block him without responding further because it can't be reconciledIt's just always going to be like this, isn't it? I think I will give up on finding a relationship, always ends up being a complete waste of time.
It's probably about time to realize that nothing good is ever going to come out of seeking a serious relationship if you're part of the undesirables
>>45116119this is why t4t is a thing and why its so common. i think its extremely hard for someone that has no experience being trans to genuinely feel and empathize with you without just exploiting you because you are an underprivileged and ostracized member of society
>>45116119This is why ftms should never date cismoids they just see you as women
>>45116709I prefer cis men because their male bodies appeal to me more. In all honesty, t4t feels like prison gay to me.
>>45116737>ftms should never date cismoidsBut I am attracted to them. Why would I willingly date someone else I feel no sexual or romantic attraction to? That is as bad as the other option and not feasible. I don't even mind being fetishized, as long as it doesn't revert back into some straight fantasy because I am a man not a woman
