It's funny how mad people will get when I tell them i'm poly* and have a chill experience with that, meanwhile I constantly see posts by monogamists about their toxic relationships, jealousy, abuse, heartbreak, cheating, avoidant behavior, objectification, manipulation, etc and all other kinds of harmful immature nonsense. I think monogamy is valid but a lot of you seem to use it as an excuse to avoid working on your emotional issues and think that finding a "soulmate" will magically fix your obsessive attachment trauma.*poly, but not into polycules, those are gross and just create drama.
