Did you have a father figure while growing up?Did your parents support you when you came out?
>>45197834YesIdk if ur talking about coming out in a fag way or a tranny way but either way they probably wouldn't careIts just a humiliation ritual
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?kinda but he was always working or just arguing with mom>Did your parents support you when you came out?ill be abroad in a diff country before they find out
>>45197834>picrelgiwtwm>Did you have a father figure while growing up?my dad was there but also not really there? he didnt really do anything
>>45197854same with the dad thing also giwtwm too and go inject
>>45197834My dad died when I was in middle school we were close and I loved him a lot (I was incredibly dysphoric already and not the son he wanted but he still loved me)My mom instantly supported me and got me het through official channels in 2011 as soon as I came out to her (was already diying after I stole her credit card) I do wonder if my dad would have supported me i know he wanted a son and was always sad I didn't share his enjoyment of sports
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?Yes my brother ended up acting as more of one than my dad since my father didn't do much>Did your parents support you when you came out?My dad cried while my mom was very supportive
>>45197834Yes but he used to yell and scream at me and the rest of my family on a weekly basis. Could get ugly sometimes. I used to pray every night for a nicer daddy. There's some happy memories but he did fuck me up pretty bad. Eventually he died of cancer when I was in my teens.
Barely, he'd find any excuse to leave for weeks, he isn't exactly supportive but he isn't against it, I think, not sure, he doesn't talk much if at all.
>>45197834Yeah, and my parents are as supportive as they can be for Eastern Europeans. They don't fully understand but they are getting there and try to help as much as they can <3
>>45197910I mean, pretty sure he always knew, when I was like 14 he kept pestering about cutting my hair, supposedly it was "unkempt" and "too long", I listened to him and he took me to some old closet gay guy's salon, mother fucker cut a huge chunk of my hair so I ran away crying, went to an actual salon but they said it was impossible to fix so they cut it, months later he took me to a big hair studio, paid for the whole thing and asked them to not cut my hair too short.
>>45197834yes my dad worked a lot but he was always there for mewhen I came out my dad supported me and got me on hrt and my mom called the cops and my dad had to pay her 800$ a month to stop harassing meI have abandonment issues from this but not really daddy/mommy issues (apart from the standard tranny incest thoughts)
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?no i was more of a father figure than my father>Did your parents support you when you came out?i didn't come out and i hope my parents live long and suffer knowing they'll never have grandchildren
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?Yes I grew up with my father present. We were really close but he died back in 2019 when I was 24.>Did your parents support you when you came out?It took short bit for my Mom to come around but she accepts my partner and I fully. I think my Dad knew before he passed away. He knew there was much more between me and my best friend who would later transition.Before he passed he had My brothers and I around the dinning table and said:"No matter what happens to me if Im here or not, what ever you discover about yourself in the future if any of you are gay or not know that Ill always love and respect you all... as long as you are a top I didn't raise any bitches".I came out as Bisexual and my best friend came out as Transgender and we are in a DRP.
>>45197834No, resulting in me getting socialised female.Yes, I had a very loving mother, she's the best I could've wished for.
>>45197834he was really mean and now i'm overly desperate for positive male attention
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?No my father was very neglectful and I was raised only by women>Did your parents support you when you came out?I don't talk to my father anymore, my mother wasn't supportive at all but she is relatively ok now
>>45197834No, he hated me..Mama told me he was ashamed of me; he would never play with me
Noticing a distinct lack of love and affection from biological fathers in this thread. Very interesting. Coincidence im sure. Wonder how many have daddy fetishes.
>>45197834This is off topic but where can I find a cute boy to recreate picrel with? I'm a pretty fit dude. Of course after showing him my love physically I'd cuddle up with him tight and coddle him and tell him how much of a good boy he is. I dont care if its a boy or a girl desu, either one. I just want someone to fill with my love.
>>45199821ur prob is gonna be finding someone short enough. I think a pooner would be ur best bet
>>45199854height doesn't matter in bed silly. Besides, even if she's a tall girl, she'd look prettier on her knees.
>>45199869well you sed you wanted to recreate the image
no my autistic dad was cold and unfeeling
>Did you have a father figure while growing up?yes>Did your parents support you when you came out?Im still in the closet
>>45199890who said I wouldn't have u on ur knees silly
>>45199989ok to be honest I forgot the image I thought it was a different one>>45199999
>>45199205>Wonder how many have daddy fetishes.not exactly with someone who looks like him, but rather with the role within the relationship
My family doesn't even respect me as a person regardless of my sexuality. Im just that retard who sucks up money and sits in his room all day. Arguably my fault because A Man Provides etc but i was never really encouraged to do anything with myself and am left bereft of the ability to enact change and then i just get bitched at and fucked with deliberately.
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?he did tax evasion and cheated on my mother with sex workers>Did your parents support you when you came out?my mom told me to seek therapy but otherwise has been supportive, although she deadnames me behind my back to her boyfriend and friends. my dad doesnt know but im sure he wouldnt care.
>>45199205>Wonder how many have daddy fetishes.i'm only attracted to men that i can imagine as a father replacement
>>451978341- nah not really. I mean i did have my stepdad but i never looked up to him.2-Ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh it's complicated. My mum was super not at first but she warmed up in a few months. My dad still quotes joe rogan talking points and if he doesn't stop I'm gonna dress my fiance up to look like him and then post pictures of us kissing on facebook
>>45199205maybe you could replace my dad, anon
>>45197834My dad is the only positive presence I had growing up, without him my life would be a hell in every sense.I'm just a bi guy and I never bothered to come out. I don't hide it, it just doesn't come up. I don't see my sexuality as a significant part of my identity anyway.
>>45197834yes and yes :)
The closest thing was my grandfather, but I wouldn't say his role was anything but being my grandpa. I haven't come out with anything because homosexuality is evil and disgusting.
>>45199205>Wonder how many have daddy fetishes.I'm a virgin so I wouldn't know
>>45200570Do u ever think that having a mom who has a boyfriend might be why youre a tranny to begin with
>>45199821post arms
>>45197890same but mine mellowed out after the divorce. turns out he was stressed from being in a loveless sexless marriage for years. he was supportive when i came out and we've made amends now
>>45197834iwndiedeath
>>45201790nah, she only started dating people when i was around 15 i thinki was crushing on guys since i was in elementary school and started dating a guy when i was 14
I wonder how my grandpa felt when he heard the clacking sounds of the high heels lmao, he sounded clearly distressed but then he never said anything, he just avoided me indefinitely but I fear he felt disgusted by me, when my father cut his veins accidentally, I was crying, grandpa got close to console me I guess, I reached out for a hug and he stood up fast, never seem him move that fast before.
>>45197834I'll never come out to my parents. My parents shut down any expression I made of not being comfortable in my body when I was very very young and have spent the rest of my life constantly talking about how much they hate trans people. My mom has said to me unprompted "I'm okay with whatever you do with your life as long as you're not gay or trans."I don't think I will ever forgive them for what they did to me as a kid
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?not really, we lived in the same house but we never really talked, he was always way too busy with work>Did your parents support you when you came out?my mom did, she was very happy when I came out to her, my dad didn't care much for it. It's for the better honestly, I don't mind him ignoring me, still way better than him openly hating me>>45199205>Wonder how many have daddy fetishesI don't think that it's that hard to figure out
1. Yes2. No but they came aroundMy dad is cool. He disliked conventional masculinity but was masculine in an alt way (drove a motorcycle, boss at work, outdoorsmanship, music guy, large and he works out now in his 60s), you might even call him "sigma". Unfortunately my parents weren't accepting of my transness in my teens / I was a coward and now I'm a lateshit (hrt at 22). They even came around eventually too so I feel like if I was a little more preferential as a teenager then I could have had a successful transition.
>>45197834noshe pretended to but it was just bullshitshe didnt even support me financially in a basic needs kinda way for most of my growing upgrandma payed for everythingi had to be around so much money arguments all my childhoodliterally until grandma was on her death bed bc my shitty evil motherfk my familymy mother is not my mothermy goddess is
>>45197834>father figure?Yeah he was very present even if he was super emotionally constipated >supportive?FUCK no lmfao
yes, but he lowk traumatized me by drinking a lot and then yelling at me and the rest of my family. he was an alcoholic and got really mad when he was drunk a lot of the time. i didn't have it that bad all things considered, he didn't hit me or anything, but i still often dream of him getting drunk and berating me even though he hasn't done it in like a year and a half. he's doing a lot better now though!yes. my mom is supportive and my dad is too. he didn't even bring it up when he got really mad for no reason
Yes and yes.My dad kicks ass. When I’m an old guy I hope to be as cool as he is.My parents picked up that I might not be straight pretty early. I got the “It’s alright if you’re gay, son” talk in my early teens, and it was pretty nice to come out by saying I was headed out on a date with a guy without worrying too much about how they’d react.
>>45197834Yes.No.
>>45197834my parents divorced when I was 5 but dad did his best to stay a part of my lifemy mom had various boyfriends who I absolutely hated, including one who idea of disciplining children was to grasp them by the throat and lift. To this day I can't wear a choker, a scarf, a necktie, or even a turtleneck sweater without triggering a panic attack over itso I have limited contact with a positive male role model and plenty of contact with men I hope to never be like
>>45204915addendum:my mom supports my transitionmy dad died 3 weeks after I started hrt. I never got a chance to tell him. I hope he would have supported me but I have ny doubts
Yes & yes
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?My biological father is a pathetic NEET who got my mom pregnant when she was a teenager; he stopped speaking to me after I turned 23, and I’ve only seen him about five times in my life.My stepfather is a Native American who does blue-collar work; he loves and supports me, but I can’t help being condescending toward him.>Did your parents support you when you came out?My relationship with my family is strange; on paper, they love and support me, but in reality, they have been negligent. The only support I’ve received has been financial, along with empty words, though, at least, they don’t hate me.
>>45205872>stepfather is a Native AmericanIs he mystical n shit? Sounds cool desu
>>45205881Not really; his roots are Mexican, a blend of Catholicism and indigenous elements. He identifies more with his indigenous heritage; for example, he celebrates the Day of the Dead and observes all the associated traditions, which are intertwined with Catholicism.
>>45204915I'd put a collar on you and beat the shit out of you while you panicked then ass fuck you.
>>45205953why go that far when you could just ass fuck me?
>>45206067I'm a sadist. I want that reaction from you. And I want to leave marks across your body and face.
>Did you have a father figure while growing up?not really? my father was there but he was a terrible being that made life of everyone around him (with a exception of my brother who were treated badly only sometimes) worse and I often wish he would just disappear from our life instead at least before my mom also went a bit loco because of him>Did your parents support you when you came out?they dont know about me being a troon few years back there would be at least 10% chance they would threw me to the streets but not its only 1% they still would make it harder for me to transition tho and even if they would be supportive they would be in a way that will give me constant mental damage
>>45206240Ah yeah, that's cool too, I know someone whom I suspect has native american heritage but they don't know about their past relatives.
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?he was a druggie and abused me. still some good memories. he died when i was 15. i can definetly blame him for having bpd though>Did your parents support you when you came out?yeah, whole family did. doesnt matter though, im like 10 different types of hon so ill never socially transition and they know that
>>45204915hot as fuck, triggers me so badi wish i could find a tranny like this someday, found many bpd ones but never anybody broken like me so i always get bored :c
>>45206774we are all broken in some way
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?I did but I didn't talk to him for about 2 years straight from 12-14 bc my mom manipulated my siblings and I and lied about the terms of their divorced so for a while I hated him and didn't talk to him.>Did your parents support you when you came out?Never really got to come out. I was forced out repeatedly by my mom when she went through my phone and my stuff. But no she was not supportive and even downright aggressive at times even tho she pretends to never have cared now. My dad just pretends like nothing happened but is nice to my bf so ig it could be worse.
>>45197834meow
>>45197834NoNoI am not trans
>>45197834>Did you have a father figure while growing up?Yes, he was a bigoted Irish-American>Did your parents support you when you came out?No, They threw me out of the house when I was 17. I haven't talked to them since.
>>45207205>Irish-American>They threw me out of the houseBased Irish kicking little faggot boys to the curb.
