Bookish Edition >Do you like reading?>What kind of book is your favorite?>What book are you reading right now? How do you like it?>What book you would NOT recommend under any circumstances?Males and other non-lesbians not welcome>OG Discord:https://pastebin.com/P644WESi>clg2 Discord:https://pastebin.com/1ct1Fcag>clg3 Discord: https://pastebin.com/emrpgWM8Previous >>45053407
>>45262450Thank you for making a thread OP
>>45262074The poster of this post may wish to repost this post here
>>45262450Also OP I hate to sound like I'm being picky, I'm really thankful that you made these two threads for us however in future you probably shouldn't say>Males and other non-lesbians not welcomeIn the OP because it's now a banable offense here in /clg/ to tell cisgender heterosexual males or other non-cisgender lesbian people that they shouldn't post in the cisgender homosexual female general thread, I was banned for this post last thread as it violates the rule "no disrespectful comments" to tell someone that they don't belong in a thread.It's just something to bear in mind future so the moderator doesn't delete the thread and ban you.
>>45262652It’s okay, I’m happy to accommodate! But wow, the things got harsher these days.
>>45262652>>45262744You don't own 4chan. There is no rule that states cisgender men cannot post in "your" thread. There is, however, a rule against filing false or misclassified reports.
>>45262744Yeah I remember the days back in like 2016 where the moderator then would delete the posts of non cisgender lesbians that posted here, even gay guys from gay gen who stopped by to ask a question would get banned for "off-topic posting" but different moderators enforce the rules differently.Another anon got banned right after my post for disrespecting mr flowers because she assumed he reported my post, the new moderator is very strict when it comes to exclusionary or disrespectful behavior, which is something to keep in mind when you post.
>>45262652why does the mere existence of lesbians piss males off so much kek
fuck /terfgen/ get nvked
W Janny denying crybully terfs their safespace
>>45260060>What book are you reading right now?As good as a marriage by Jill Liddington, going over the last part of Anne Lister's (historical butch lesbian) diaries
>>45254522 >Let me guess - Filipina? Not a burger, there would’ve been Halloween and a little breezer for Thanksgiving.Sweden. and yeah we don't have thanksgiving and no one gives a single fuck about Halloween
>What book are you reading right now?Pic related.>Sophie Lewis offers an unflinching tour of enemy feminisms, from 19th century imperial feminists and police officers to 20th century KKK feminists and pornophobes to today’s anti-abortion and TERF feminists. Enemy feminisms exist. Feminism is not an inherent political good. Only when we acknowledge that can we finally reckon with the ways these feminisms have pushed us toward counterproductive and even violent ends. And only then can we finally engage in feminist strategizing that is truly antifascist.
This thread is a certified James classic
>>45262797
I was actually sleeping. I enjoy being the boogie man though
>>45263386>>45263398Hi James, did you sleep well?
>>45263462I did! Working on my stories and playing vidya. Nothing new to report on my end.
>>45263743The homophobic transgender troll from the transgender lesbian general doesn't care about you, they are just trying to destroy /clg/ by making the majority of the posts in the thread male to female transgenders conversing with heterosexual cisgender men.Purposeful derailing is a form of trolling and you are being complicit.
>>45263793We can just report hide and ignore, like always. My favorite game is getting More content. I'm excited.
>>45262450>Do you like reading?yes>What kind of book is your favorite?i like books where weird things happen>What book are you reading right now? How do you like it?wuthering heights, i need to finish soon because it's my friend's>>45262652wow this is so poop, what a bunch of crybabies.>>45263081ew
>>45263851wow the woman i'm fancying also plays guild wars. is it because of you two being almost the same age or is it because you're both gay.
>>45263897Same age probably, and the community is very friendly and dedicated. More of the LGBTs are in 2, or are more open about it in 2? I dunno. I've met considerably more chuds than not in the legacy game
i hate being a lesbian every day of my life and i want everyone who is not a lesbian to die of excruciating aids. i am not an incel and can get women to scissor me if i aggressively suppress my personality but i dont do this because sex is unsatisfying when what i want is to feel liked. whenever i pass an attractive slender straight girl with silky hair and nice clothes on the street i want to chain her up and make her tell me she thinks im pretty too and for every time i dont believe her i shuck off one of her fingernails with an oyster knife and then i give her some glitter glue and colorful foam and make her use her broken nails to make me a touching keepsake that says "i wuv you" and i dont rape her but i make her sit shoulder to shoulder with me while i masturbate to lesbian porn and ask her which parts she thinks is hot and if she doesn't get wet then i beat her with my belt as hard as possible
James, do you have an overactive imagination that runs nonstop? How did you even come up with all that stuff? You could probably be a writer.>>45263793Um, maybe stop being a control freak? You don't own this website and this isn't "your" thread.
So I just found out that there are two mtf transgender focused generals on the board that claim to be the "original lesgen" lmaoThe newfags in the transgender lesbian general had like a falling out or something and split their general and then I guess started making up fake history as to who was first and therefor more legitimate look at this kek>>45256673>/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all homosexual cis women and trans women to discuss lesbian sex, dating, and love. This is the original /lesgen/ that evolved from /wlwgen/ a few years back!In their OP>>45234067>4chan /lesgen/ is different to /lesgen/ which is now a troll thread. This is the /lesgen/ by the community from 2013 onwards before the many splits. This thread is for all women that love women, made by women on 4chan.In their OPThis is so fucking funny to meI made a post here >>45265045 (also pictured) trying to briefly explain the history to themApparently they split over discord drama>>45262450lolThe entire fake lore backstory for the "4chan lesbian general" has me laughing so hard lmao
>>45265194The last quote in that post was suppose to go here >>45265116
>>45264797I get paid for commissions and consulting, but not quitting my day job. I just like to run thoughts and scenarios down to their completion. I haven't published anything yet, but I'm working on it. You'd be surprised by who I'm bumping elbows with, you'd probably not believe me if I told you. I even got some voice acting done under a pseudonym.
James can you please put a name on
>>45265257James have you read the long walk by Stephen King that was pretty crazy
>>45265319Stop trying to put the proverbial jew star on James just because he's a man
>>45265319Yeah okay, I understand that I can be obnoxious. It's only Sometimes intentionally >>45265340Last one of Stephen's I read was Cell. Baby Elephant Walk is stuck in my head to this day
>>45265350I am an unwanted element, she's not wrong for asking. No need
>>45265369To be abrasive**
>>45265361>>45265369That's it I'm doing the long walk in heels to raise awareness for James discrimination in clgJustice 4 James No ally left behind
>>45265388Don't say 'ally,' that's a commie word like 'collaborator'
>>45265400Man I hate communists I miss the good old days, James When men were men and gals were gals and we called colored people coloreds
>>45265361>Yeah okay, I understand that I can be obnoxious. It's only Sometimes intentionallyIt's not about you being "obnoxious", I'm a cisgender homosexual woman (a lesbian) I come to "/clg/ - Cis Lesbian General" (the community for cisgender homosexual women) to interact with my fellow cisgender homosexual women.By posting without a name it makes some posters (like me) not respond to posts they might otherwise respond to because I only want to interact with my fellow cisgender homosexual women, If I wanted to interact with people who are not cisgender homosexual women I would go literally anywhere else on the internet, by making the cisgender homosexual women a predominantly cisgender heterosexual male blogpost thread you are taking our community away from us and we don't have anywhere else, it's not really a personal thing it a we lesbians literally don't have anywhere else thing.Also it is obnoxious feeding many (You)'s to the homophobic transgender troll from the transgender lesbian thread, that poster has been making troll posts in /clg/ for the last 11 hours by continuing to feed that troll you are helping the troll destroy /clg/.That troll is trolling because they hate lesbians and /clg/ and want to destroy /clg/, if you really want to talk with them you could do it in a different thread.
>>45265406take your HRT, retard
>>45265470
>>45252592>reality checkyeah, that's often it for me. I also just enjoy hearing the light-hearted drama everyone is involved in. Our gossip at work is the best, already three gay kisses happened this month!>I used to listen to this one streamer What's her name? For a long time I felt like I sounded like some tryhard weirdo professor when I wrote in German. >I feel like I reached the limits of self study and my social anxiety has gotten worse since undergradEvidently you need a German girlfriend. >>45250573>every other one I've ever done had one German voter that I just assumed was you.See that's why I didn't vote, to build up suspense. >Did you mean anything by capitalizing the W in White?I just think it makes more sense grammatically.>I'm just really awkward and autistic okDo you think you would give a hot woman on the street a long look?>What does the lesbian stereotype look like in Germany?Fat butch in joggers.
>>45265480Make me daddy uwu
>>45265470I really don't post that often anymore but you're not wrong. I'll behave
>>45265678You better James
Question Why do they keep calling you a flower ? Are you a gardener or something
>>45265741Flowers is my actual last name.
>>45265757So they are doxing you ?? That's against the rules I hope they get bannedWhat a bunch of cry bullies
>>45265795Less doxing on their end and more poor infosec on my end. I haven't done anything warranting ruination like some of the others who've been busted. I kept that shit arm's length.
>>45265833Well it doesn't make it right for them to keep posting your last name just because you made a mistake Don't worry James I will be hanging out in this thread and if they try doxing you anymore I will be reporting them right away
>>45265844It's really not that big of a deal, doing so would cause more drama than it would solve
>>45265877James it is a big deal and I am your guardian angel now
>>45265883
Replying to myself>>45265194In case anyone wants to see the oldest two lesgen threads in the archive here are the links for themhttps://archiveofsins.com/lgbt/thread/2598769/#2598769https://archiveofsins.com/lgbt/thread/2609509/#2609509They aren't the first threads as the board was created in November 2013 and the archive only goes back to May 2014.The reason I went searching is some of the people in the other lesgen identifying general threads thought that cisgender lesbians and transgender lesbians posted together in the same general until this unified "lesgen" split into "cis lesgen" and "trans lesgen" but that's not true, the cisgender lesbian and trans lesbian generals where always separate, there was never a "split"
>>45266367weird question, but are you french?
>>45266367Also found this thread on the wayThe poster of the thread was sad that there was no thread for a day and she had nowhere else to talk with other lesbians, a feeling I sometimes feel now for the same reasons when we have no thread up.It's interesting to see posts from 12 years ago and vibe with them and sympathize and stuff and makes me wonder where she is now and what she is doing, I hope she is happy.>>45266416I am not.Why do you ask anon?
>>45266468my friend is also a 27 year old NEET lesbian 4channer so I was just wondering
>>45266510I am not her.Is she just a regular NEET or full hiiki?
>>45266552I think hikki since she doesn't leave the house. ever. her friend vists her sometimes.also I want to see picture of kekkkk
>>45266605>I think hikki since she doesn't leave the house. ever. her friend vists her sometimes.Is she happy and content with her life or is she the depressed sad kind of NEET>also I want to see picture of kekkkkAre you the poster in the image in this post here >>45250392I forgot her tinychat name was dokidokisuru, why did we start calling her kek?People are calling her kek in the oldest archived thread from May 2014 so we can't even find out how the name came about, literally lost history.
>>45266687I am both the first and third anon you're replying to. young kek is cuteeeeeeeeee! also she is indifferent I think she is unhappy, she told me she's going to blow her brains out eventually but I won't let that happen. becuz we toats getting merried.
>>45266724>I am both the first and third anon you're replying to.I was meaning in the screenshot from 2024 attached to that post.>young kek is cuteeeeeeeeee!She said she was 14 when /lgbt/ was created so she is maybe 15 in that photo at most.Have you seen the adult photo of her that's on lolcow?>also she is indifferent I think she is unhappy, she told me she's going to blow her brains out eventually but I won't let that happen. becuz we toats getting merried.Is she cute? I'm not sure if a shutin hikki neet will make a good wife for you.Is she the neet hag you were talking about wanting to provide for last thread?
>>45266724also yes I think i'm the one who said "IK SHE IS CUTE CUTE CUTE" and the first post was me, but I was underaged when I made those posts LOL.
>>45266823i love shut in hikki women im crazy for them you dont uderstand id scarifce my life for them. no one irl undertsndas and my mom is homophobic anyways but idc.
>>45266825>>45266836>also yes I think i'm the one who said "IK SHE IS CUTE CUTE CUTE" and the first post was me, but I was underaged when I made those posts LOL.Are you sure you're not still underage? I'm getting some real underage vibes from your posts.>i love shut in hikki women im crazy for them you dont uderstand id scarifce my life for them.OK can you explain the appeal for me please?>no one irl undertsndas and my mom is homophobic anyways but idc.I'm sorry about your mom anon.You didn't answer my question about what country you are from, if you're not comfortable saying could you at least say which continent?
>>45266898I'm so sorry I came across that way. It's midnight here and I have something I don't want to but have to do coming up tomorrow. And I always come off as retarded when it comes to this subject matter. I'm 18 turning 19 in january.>OK can you explain the appeal for me please?I have no idea but maybe it's because when I imagine a woman with a job I start to feel jealous of her job taking her away from me? I don't know, it's also because I'm the same archetype of person to become a NEET, I was "mishandled" in school had to fight the idea of dropping out the whole time. And I think society is retarded and someone who rejects it tends to have similar worldviews to me.>You didn't answer my question about what country you are from, if you're not comfortable saying could you at least say which continent?Brazil.
James fake life story was more interesting than this
>>45267067>I'm so sorry I came across that way.You don't have to apologize lol.>It's midnight here and I have something I don't want to but have to do coming up tomorrow.Do you mind sharing?>And I always come off as retarded when it comes to this subject matter.I didn't think you sounded retarded, just young.>I'm 18 turning 19 in january.It feels strange to me that people born in 2008 can post here now.>I have no idea but maybe it's because when I imagine a woman with a job I start to feel jealous of her job taking her away from me?Maybe that could be seen as romantic I suppose.>I don't know, it's also because I'm the same archetype of person to become a NEET, I was "mishandled" in school had to fight the idea of dropping out the whole time.I'm sorry that school was tough for you anon, it's very good you didn't drop out though.>And I think society is retarded and someone who rejects it tends to have similar worldviews to me.I'm not sure if you can really call it a rejection of society, I think many or most hikki neets would love to integrate into society but don't feel capable or are paralyzed by fear or mental illness, I'm not sure if it's something you should romanticize.>BrazilWe get a surprising amount of anons from Brazil, not as much as Sweden but quite a few.
50 bucks says in 3 years it is revealed 19-year-old Brazilian Anon is a James character
James we need to get the old clg crew back together for a reunion tour... where's bipedo????
>>45267239>You don't have to apologize lol.yes I do I was being super cringe and annoying. :C>Do you mind sharing?We used to not do highschool graduation events in Brazil but these days every private school does it because of american media. Mine is tomorrow and I'll have to get all dressed up and they're going to take pictures and I'll look like shit, it just feels like a huge hassle. :/>I'm not sure if you can really call it a rejection of society, I think many or most hikki neets would love to integrate into society but don't feel capable or are paralyzed by fear or mental illness, I'm not sure if it's something you should romanticize.I don't really romanticize it, I have a lot of fear and ended up repeating a grade because I was so scared to leave the house. I just want someone who is capable of understanding me, and I have a tendency of wanting to sustain and take care of people.
Just let the thread die and move on to actual cis lesbian spaces so all the males here keep talking to each other instead of real women, mods clearly don't respect lesboans why stay here
Just let the thread die and move on to actual cis lesbian spaces so all the males here keep talking to each other instead of real women, mods clearly don't respect lesbians why stay here and give free space for men
>>45267369>yes I do I was being super cringe and annoying. :CI thought your posts were very cute and not cringe at all, they just read as something a 15 year old girl would type to my mind though.>We used to not do highschool graduation events in Brazil but these days every private school does it because of american media.You really are rich>Mine is tomorrow and I'll have to get all dressed up and they're going to take pictures and I'll look like shit, it just feels like a huge hassle. :/I'm sure you'll be fine.>I don't really romanticize it, I have a lot of fear and ended up repeating a grade because I was so scared to leave the house.What do you fear anon?>I just want someone who is capable of understanding me, and I have a tendency of wanting to sustain and take care of people.I hope things go well with your French girl :)
>>45263081good book. nobody will acknowledge the feminist movement of the 1950s-60s was literally a white supremacist separatist movement that was the biggest opponent of coloured civil rights in the united states, even in the UK feminist neo-nazi movements were a big part of academic culture in scotland that led to the race riots of the 70s. radfem ideology accidently predicted everything that would happen in the 21st century down to surplus male theory and gave rise to trannyism which now actively works to crush womens rights kek. Giving the inane gender the right to vote was the biggest mistake in the history of our species.t. cism lurker who finds the 24/7 spiral of this general fascinating from anthropological view
>>45265499>the light-hearted drama everyone is involved inYeah this seems nice! Like the not serious stuff that can have playful banter and people don't get their feelings hurt.>What's her name?I found my old login info for you, her twitch name is PandaAmanda. Honestly she look different from how I remember, and it reminds me why I stopped watching her (for as beautiful as some women make German sound, every man sounds horrifically bad imo)>tryhard weirdo professor when I wrote in German.Hot.>Evidently you need a German girlfriend.I was actually going to try when I was there! not that there were likely many lesbians in middle-of-nowhere, bavaria, but still it would have been the effort that counted! >>45266468>Also found this thread on the wayIt is interesting that 12 years on there hasn't been any actual, useful app or anything like that for meeting other lesbians. I know that ostensibly there are like lesbian cruises and even apparently sex parties in cities like Chicago, but from what I see online, often times it's like 65+y.o. butches frequenting them. I partially wonder if it has to do with the centring of male attraction in society. I saw recently that a lot of women are saying that they used to be "comp het" and I wonder if that's the difference between the number and visibility of gay men and gay women? IDK I'm exhausted and already up way too late so this might be total nonsense
>>45267297The entire thread is just James talking to himself
James? this is mike
I'm playing Helldivers thank you very much. I'm not that guy
>>45262652Quick question: what shall we do during the shit storm like above? Wait till it dies out?
>>45265470Why do males hate lesbians so much, why can't they just leave us alone?
>tfw she refuses to acknowledge that she’s basically a stranger to me now
>>45268237James ear You're not that guy !!
>>45267948James is pretty cool he has the decency to respond instead of giving silent treatment like an abusive weirdo
>>45267571>>45267554James is allowed to post here you don't own 4chan this isn't "your" threadWhat do you even want mods to do? There's no rule against James posting here. Just because you wrote something in your op doesn't make it an official board rule. You have no authority here Jackie. You have no authority AT ALL
>>45269088It’s not a silent treatment you dumbass. They don’t like you, they don’t care about you. You have never been a person they could like. YWNBAW! Go away!
>>45268686because it doesn't centre men
>>45269395>centrecanadian or brit, answer NOW
you are genuinely all such cocksucking straggots for engaging the brain damaged males in this thread instead of joining an actually vetted space like the discords
>>45267602>What do you fear anon?I have really bad anxiety (I think it's OCD, I never actually looked at the diagnosis since my mom is the one who gives me my meds) and I used to think about how leaving the house would open up chances of something bad happening like being in an accident, getting murdered or raped, and those things would constantly spin in my mind to the point where just the idea of leaving would make me feel sick. There were also other thing where I would get super irritated and angry just imaging the faces of other human beings to the point I would not leave the room and avoid looking at any reflection. Being "mishandled" at my childhood school made me develop some sort of ptsd and I used to be scared of getting "triggered" in public and humiliate myself.
>>45269972haven't used discords in eons, don't they make you give them your id now?
never so active, except when talking to/about trannies. it is to laugh
>>45270000no?
>>45270021ok thought they started doing age verifications
EnoughTime for buff women
James is pretty buff I betMoids always like the gymThen again he's the writer type so he could be scrawny and nerdyHonestly I don't get the resistance to James and other cishet men posting ITTHe likes women, you like women, what's the problems? Isn't common interest supposed to bring people together?
James actually managed to find a girl unlike all the lonely dykes ITT so if you stop hating him and listened and learned from his moid wisdom then one day you might be able to marry a woman and live happily ever after tooor just die alone
Does spamming pictures of buff hets add anything to the thread
I present to you James VI King of Scotland
Man this is worse than the time we got clogged
>>45270161james's girl would leave him if he had a vagoo
>>45270189Bishits are outside of the scope for this thread
>>45250668That's a shame anon, do you still like her? if so maybe you could just cut the rest of you previous friend group off and not her.>>45252592>Nope. We just go in circles usually. I have the worst luck with therapists.That's unfortunate, some people find therapy really helps them.How many therapists have you had?>This is a good way of looking at it, I can be way too pessimisticYou do seem very pessimistic.>Abigail! I love my little rock eater hahaShe cute!>>45258094I hope you are feeling better now anon.>>45262908They want what they can't have>>45264219Do you post on lolcow also?
>>45265499>Our gossip at work is the best, already three gay kisses happened this month!That's a lot of gay for one week at one workplace.>See that's why I didn't vote, to build up suspense.We still no nothing about the other Germanon sadly.>I just think it makes more sense grammatically.I thought it might have been something else.>Do you think you would give a hot woman on the street a long look?No, it's rude to stare at people.>Fat butch in joggers.I wonder how much the lesbian stereotype changes from country to country.>>45267914>It is interesting that 12 years on there hasn't been any actual, useful app or anything like that for meeting other lesbians.There have been quite a few lesbian dating apps but they all allow non-lesbians so lesbians end up a minority.>I saw recently that a lot of women are saying that they used to be "comp het"comp het = coping het>>45268666The ban evading samefagging falseflagging troll from the transgender lesgen raids /clg/ a few times a year, it usually lasts around 3 days, sometimes as much as ten.This recent trolling campaign started approximately 28 hours ago, they will get bored and go troll elsewhere after a few more days.Just keep ignoring.You can report too but that troll just immediately ban evades and continues trolling so it doesn't do much.>>45268686To be fair most of them do, males outnumber lesbians at least 100 to 1 and we currently only have two AMAB posters currently intruding in /clg/>>45269972We're not really engaging.The two AMAB posters have only had like two replies from us and have mostly been responding to each other.It's also worth noting the samefagging falseflagging troll likes to take on multiple personas and samefag responses to xirself to make it look like xi is getting responses and try bait people in.
>>45270618>They want what they can't haveCishet men can't have women? Pretty sure they get more than you sweetheart
Biblically accurate James
>>45270630>Cishet men can't have women? Pretty sure they get more than you sweetheartTRUTH NUKE>>45270661>Biblically accurate JamesMogs me>>45270161>James actually managed to find a girl unlike all the lonely dykes ITT so if you stop hating him and listened and learned from his moid wisdom then one day you might be able to marry a woman and live happily ever after tooThey don't deserve James's moid wisdom it would be lost on them
>>45270426>Bishits are outside of the scope for this threadJames is 100% into women and women only>>45270286>james's girl would leave him if he had a vagooDon't lesbians get penis envy ? This whole gen is poon reppers that's why you hate James because he has what you never will
>control find James>42 resultsAbsolutely clogged
>>45270709>Don't lesbians get penis envy ? lesbians dont actually get penis envy in that they find the penis itself awesome and aspirational it is just an escapist fantasy of wanting everything else that is associated with having one in society because being a homo is hard. it is always just a cover for a longing to feel normal
>>45270929Lesbians ITT blame trans women "invading" for their inability to find a cis woman partner but reality is, and James and any other moid can attest, finding a cisf partner is just HARD and being a dyke doesn't exempt you from that. So stop blaming minorities (trannies) for your problems - that is textbook incel mindset
>wake up>check threadChrist. I consider these dykes my friends, can you not?
>>45271605Hello james, did you sleep well?
>>45270618>do you still like her?Idk, I don’t think so. I stick around for the nostalgia though. I remember how I had this urge to check on her first thing in the morning, but once I woke up and felt nothing. I just somehow lost all my reverence for her feelings. I remember how I was anxious to accidentally hurt her so I tried to always be careful with what I saw to her, although probably still would hurt her involuntarily. I have no such feelings anymore. I look at her pictures online, and it feels like they’ve lost some color to them.
>>45270709>James is 100% into women and women onlyExhibit A
>>45272154In addition, maybe some part of me want her to do something to win me back, idk. But then again, I think it’s all totally ruined.
>>45271462uh i cant speak for everyone but i dont blame trannies for taking muh women because those women are straight/bi anyways and would not date me in the first place i blame god for that. women dont like me because theyre not gay which has nothing to do with inceldom or personal failure. im not an incel either i can get bisexuals to fuck me if i really want im just not interested in sex without love. but if you want to talk about invasion the issue is more that they make it hard to find cisbians and we have to spend hours sifting through them since basic relevancy filtering is a hate crime. i dont use dating apps because they are objectively horrible beyond this micro social issue but when i tried 99% of my likes were from trannies no cap
>>45269972>joining an actually vetted space like the discordsI refuse to use Discord ever again, after personally experiencing a troon faking being a woman for over 4 years and all supposedly "yuri" fandoms being nothing but moids. Also not giving my ID to pedophile jews. How can you seriously suggest Discord as an alternative when that is THE worst platform for anyone who values privacy?
>>45270618>How many therapists...?I'm on like my 7th or 8th at this point. Much like this anon >>45269983 I suspect I might have OCD (only I've never been diagnosed lol) and so I think maybe I need to try a therapist who specialised in that. I am, however, scared that if I get diagnosed it would go from bad to worse so who knows if I'll follow through with that.>You do seem very pessimistic.That ends today!!! I'm from today forward going to be positive! You can call me Ms. Brightside from now on the way my sunny disposition will light up this thread!>She cute!Who needs an irl gf when they have someone as cute as her...>>45270625>comp het = coping hetI will say, the one person I talk to regularly is actually a girl who says she was comp het until she left undergrad. I always thought she was straight, but in the like 6 years or so since we graduated undergrad she's only ever dated or slept with women.>There have been quite a few lesbian dating apps but they all allow non-lesbians so lesbians end up a minority.I mean, this is also true of like grindr for instance. But afaik gay men are def not the minority.I think what I was trying to say last night, is that I think society is so male centered that even attraction is male centered. Like using the kinsey scale as an example, it seems like bisexual men are 1-3 on the scale, and then gay men are 4-6. Whereas for women, bisexual women are basically 3-5, and the only people who identify (and are--imo correctly--accepted by the community) as lesbian, are 6 on the scale. And the reason for this, I think, is if you have more than an iota of attraction towards men, you basically exclusively date/sleep with men. The friend I mentioned above will fairly regularly hang out with a group of like 4-5 gay men. Of those men, I know that at least 3 will on occasion sleep with a woman, but still identify (and are accepted) as gay men by the others.
>>45272299discord only wants id for age-restricted servers which clg is not. you just avoid saying anything private lol which you will want to be doing anyways because 4chan hoes are not to be trusted. you dont have to give them your phone number either. yeah trannies have duped us before cause voice verification isnt foolproof but its rare and then we just roll our eyes and ban them and move on. it beats carrying on with james john and jim jones in here
>>45272154>I look at her pictures online, and it feels like they’ve lost some color to them.Oof. Have you gone through having your feelings change like that before?>>45272259>im not an incel either i can get bisexuals to fuck me if i really want im just not interested in sex without love.You can't love a bisexual?
>>45272435Without the thread the discord will die eventually anyways. Unless you are going to start advertising it somewhere else, but then the culture will change and it might as well die. Like what's the point either way?And every discord ever has been run by some pathetic loser with way too much free time and who thinks their shit don't stink.
>>45272453>Have you gone through having your feelings change like that before?I happened to experience disappointment in people at some point, but it has never been such an abrupt turn off.
>>45272825In addition, when I asked her if the participated in the whole thing, she refused to answer. From what I understood it was some kind of principle. Maybe she was offended that I blamed her, or maybe she didn’t want to do it just because I wanted her to. She ended up saying something to the effect of I win and you lose anyways. To this day I genuinely don’t know what’s the thing that I lost at. She was never vocal about her grudges.
James
/clg/ - James Edition
Bond.James Bond.
License to kill.
>>45271605They don't consider you a friend back
>>45272825>but it has never been such an abrupt turn off.oof I mean that can be jarring. I'm sorry you went through that. >>45273003>She was never vocal about her grudges.Okay sounds like you dodged a bullet, that is really kinda fucked up. I can't imagine having someone hold secret grudges against me. That would really fuck me up >>45273095I mean I've not been hear very long, so I don't know how people feel about him lying for so long, but I feel like namefagging is a good start. Like I don't necessarily see a problem with moids posting if they label themselves properly. I'll defer to those who have been here longer
>>45273205>I can't imagine having someone hold secret grudges against me.At some point she said something like she had to sacrifice her pride for me and I have ZERO idea what was she talking about, I thought we were on pretty civil and friendly terms. I could’ve done something unintentionally, I’m not saying I couldn’t, but yeah.
>>45273205>don't necessarily see a problem with moids posting if they label themselves properly>I don't see a problem with men freely shitting up the one thread for cis lesbians on the entirety of 4chan
>>45272594the discord is full of disboard normies lol
>>45269983>I have really bad anxiety (I think it's OCD, I never actually looked at the diagnosis since my mom is the one who gives me my meds) and I used to think about how leaving the house would open up chances of something bad happening like being in an accident, getting murdered or raped, and those things would constantly spin in my mind to the point where just the idea of leaving would make me feel sick.Does it still affect you badly or do you have control over it these days?I think you should ask your mom what your actual diagnosis is, that seems very important to know.>There were also other thing where I would get super irritated and angry just imaging the faces of other human beings to the point I would not leave the room and avoid looking at any reflection.That seems really serious, I think you are very strong to overcome that and be able to go outside again.>Being "mishandled" at my childhood school made me develop some sort of ptsd and I used to be scared of getting "triggered" in public and humiliate myself.Do you mind expanding on what you mean by "mishandled"?Did you go to your highschool graduation event? if so how'd it go?>>45272154I'm sorry anon, she must have really hurt you to make you go from wanting her to losing all feelings.
>>45272426>I'm on like my 7th or 8th at this point.Is that a lot? I don't know what's a normal amount.>I suspect I might have OCD (only I've never been diagnosed lol) and so I think maybe I need to try a therapist who specialised in that. I am, however, scared that if I get diagnosed it would go from bad to worse so who knows if I'll follow through with that.I don't think getting diagnosed will make things worse, it opens a path to making things better right?>That ends today!!! I'm from today forward going to be positive! You can call me Ms. Brightside from now on the way my sunny disposition will light up this thread!Trying to adopt a more positive outlook can really change how you see everything!>Who needs an irl gf when they have someone as cute as her...Do you have any other waifus?>I will say, the one person I talk to regularly is actually a girl who says she was comp het until she left undergrad. I always thought she was straight, but in the like 6 years or so since we graduated undergrad she's only ever dated or slept with women.6 years isn't a really long time, how long did the lesbian masterdoc writer bishit identify as a lesbian before marrying a moid?There is a lot of bishits that use the term comphet to justify whoring around with guys despite claiming to be a lesbian too, I just assume everyone uses the term to justify their current or past encounters is really a coping bihet.>I mean, this is also true of like grindr for instance. But afaik gay men are def not the minority.There's a lot more bishit girls (and other non-cis lesbians) than there is lesbians, I don't think it's same for gay men.>And the reason for this, I think, is if you have more than an iota of attraction towards men, you basically exclusively date/sleep with men.I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on why you think that is.
Stop bumping this thread and make a new one when it falls off please.
>>45274547Why?
>>45272228I hope it was just a warning
>>45274861Because it's fucking clogged
>>45274547because theres words in here she doesn't like and can't debate so like all sour foids she either has to censor or hugbox as a defense.
>>45269941Australian, actually.
just gonna compile a list of posts that aren't off topic or disrespectul>>45270126>>45270161>>45271462>>45270014>>45262923>>45262943
>>45275755You should delete this before the moderator holocausts you for 3 days for "complaining about moderation"
>>45275755It isn't "incel" to say that we don't want men invading our spaces. We have the right to want them to fuck right off. Men have no idea what it is to be a woman and cannot experience sapphic attraction. It isn't about "not being able to find a partner" I have, I just want men out of our spaces.
>>45262450Archivefag boomer wants us all to be welcoming to each other across the different lesbian generals, so I'm here to become a regular of /clg/ again! :D I'd appreciate it if you were all kind to me and not spew hatred towards minority groups that some of us cis lesbians love and care about.
>>45275820appreciate the concern but nahthey should see how jannies are actively driving posters off the site
>>45275981Based
>>45275994Thank you for your cervix.
>>45276016Adding a trip coz I forgor.Wow, it's been years and this place is even worse than it was before!
>>45276029All the regulars here turned out to be married fathers of three practicing their creative writing skills.
>>45276045That's so sad, but not surprising at all. Turns out, most of us aren't a fan of bitterly seething about mtfs.
>>45276080As a cis lesbian woman, what do you like the most about your transgender lesbian girlfriend?
>>45276099Her big fat ass. God, I love curvy women with big asses. Sweet face too.
>>45276141Lucky you!!
>>45276150I'm excited to start knitting a hat for her. I'm still working on my own at the moment. I'll share progress here since I know this gen struggles. Such a shame. We don't have many cis lesbian spaces left. :(
>>45276259That's so cute!
>>45276308I asked her what colors to avoid for her hat and she had some autistic reasons, which was so cute. Certain girls of the LGBT variety have precious quirks.
I've never understood this thread. Are you all to dumb to use allchans, or do you take issue with the alternatives?
>>45276384The lesgen on lolcow used to be extremely slow, like 3 posts per day at a time when /clg/ had 300 posts per day.
>>45276384I was born and raised in these threads and lll fucking die in them before I allow grotesque rapist men to take them over.
>>45276403Ohhh interesting
>>45275981go back to lesgen with your little boyfriends you will never be a lesbian
>>45276596get her and her bf in a dress tf out now. no dysphoric men in lesbian spaces or talk of them. i like to pretend the ugly dont exist
>>45275981You like males, you are a bislut no matter what you like to call yourself for kweer internet points
I want to be someone who layers clothes using pretty garments underneath
>>45265406>icantfunctionwithoutstrictrules.jpg
If this happened to me, I'd dump the whore on the spot. You just fucking know she's been a moid mattress.
>>45272453>You can't love a bisexual?Could you love a used condom?
>>45277873I see your point, but comparing a woman to an inanimate object is very moid of you *tut-tuts*
Love wins
>>45276424The lesgen on lolcow is more active now than it was then but it's like 10 posts per day now or something and the goldstar lesbian general is like 5 posts per day.Also bishits from the lesgen like barging into the goldstar lesbian general to make bait posts.>>45276596>>45277162Sorry about that, I tried to go make friends in one of the generals that identifies as lesgen and lagoloaf took personal offense and started posting here as some weird revenge thing.Also where she said>Archivefag boomer wants us all to be welcoming to each other across the different lesbian generalsIs not what happened at all, I declared myself to be a regular poster over there now and she got upset about it and started hallucinating """""hateful, divisive rhetoric""""
Love is love
What's the best place for homosexual females nowadays? Twatter? L chat? I need to be able to make fun of Timothys without catching a ban.
>>45262450The moids in here with conversion therapy rhetoric to attempt to make lesbians like biological males. They don't realise that no matter how much surgery they get they cannot erase their male frame, skeleton, biology, height, socialisation, brain masculinisation. They are forever men. Lesbianism and trans ideology are incompatible, as they try to prove that homosexuality, aka being attracted to the same sex, doesn't exist. It is utterly pathetic.Why would I be attracted to this? The more I look the more I find issues. The brow ridge, the wide frame, the deepset eyes, the horrible hair, the midface, more and more. I would rather have boiled water thrown on me than touch one of these creatures
>>45278123Discord and request to join Reddit and Facebook groups + xitter.
>>45262450Biological males are not lesbians :) They are heterosexual men. 18% of lesbians say they are even willing to CONSIDER dating one, on a woke quiz where virtue signalling is present. Dating apps state that 1-2% of lesbians actually meet up with trans-identified males.We. Don't. Want. You.
>>45278637
>>45262450In da twansbian powycwule we fwuck each owther in da butt and it is so lwesbian. males fwucking each owther having gway male smex is so lesbian totally. just five grown ahss mwen altogether :333 we also bwuy our hrt from iswrael we gwo to anti-terf lesbians and sadly cisf chasers arent rweal :( but it's owkay
>>45278659Obsessed
>>45278658You are the one in clg. A space for actual women not men larping as lesbians. We are trying to bully you the fuck out of here. Leave moid. Leave like your receding hairline is slowly running away from your forehead
>>45278674Mental illness inducing post
>>45278685You dated a tranny tetfnona
>>45278659>>45278674>>45278685Tell us more about how that tranny bitch broke your heart
>>45278715Oh oh the clg pearl clutchers are going to cast her into the desert for being a bishit now
>>45278715LMAOOOOOOO scratch an obsessed terf and a futa gooner bleeds
>>45278715/clg/ is never going to financially recover from this
>>45278715The silence is deafening.
>>45278715>You don't see me behind the screen, giggling at this. I am having fun with it. I'm not mad or upset, you guys employ the same tactics every time and they don't tend to affect me. I grew immune... dun dun dunnnnnn
We’re entitled to some alone, male-free time!
>>45278894yes, also why cant these men fathom that some women dont like them. what janny is doing this.im not responding directly to them, but I am literally a goldstar lesbian, I haven't even kissed a biological man. I have only kissed and had sex with biological women. like fuck off dude
this is thinly veiled effort to drive us out. ignore at all costs so if they keep shit spewing it gets marked as spam.janny = rhymes with tranny..
>>45278460>DiscordTranny grooming central no.1
>>45274575W janny sniping 'phobes in their own safespace
hi. im clg3 discord admin. there are no trannies in it but i cant get anyone else in the door either because you all think there are.>the discord is full of disboard normies lolwe stopped letting disboard fags in a long time ago. that was out of desperation to pad it out but its more trouble than its worth to interview them since they all just got weirded out and left anyways. we were hoping to potentially separate the wheat from the chaff via relentless hazing but it never really worked.
>>45267914>Like the not serious stuff that can have playful banter and people don't get their feelings hurt.Yes, I would hate to talk maliciously about someone. >PandaAmandaShe a mum now? Some of her first google results are shorts on having kids. I'm reading a book in German right now and it's so weird. Outside of talking with my friends I really don't like interacting with the language. >HotAre you flirting with me anon?>but still it would have been the effort that counted! Yes! Was it a university town you were going to go to? Probably a decent amount of lesbians in those. >>45270625>That's a lot of gay for one week at one workplace.Yes, I love my job.>We still no nothing about the other Germanon sadly.Germanon 2.0, reveal yourself NOW>No, it's rude to stare at people.That's why you look, politely look away, and then look again. >I wonder how much the lesbian stereotype changes from country to country.I feel like the stereotype is never that lesbians are femme, but you're right, I'd be curious what it's like in African countries, for example. ...I just unlocked a childhood memory of my grandma telling me about what I think was a gay cousin who used to go look for boys in Morocco. Or maybe he was just a family friend? I hope he was a cousin.
The mention of Germanon rings the bell along with anons like Supes, Normiemod, umm… the anon who used to sell super doughnuts at a gas station. Do we have people here from such primordial times?
Someone make a clg4 with non retarded jannies
>>45279258>Relentlessly haze new members>Wonder why nobody staysKys
In a way it’s good that y’all are so bitter and cranky. That will buy jannies some quiet time :)
>>45279619This >>45279345 is Germanon.
Speaking about OG anons, what do you think is turnaround volume on this Filipino tote crocheting forum? I saw certain generals die out over the course of like five years. How long do you think it would take to have a board of entirely new anons?
Okay, I’ve been rude and it was unnecessary, I’m sorry. Although we would benefit from going on a break.
>>45279717the hazing was SUPPOSED to make undesirable people leave. that is what hazing is FOR. it is a GATED COMMUNITY.
>>45281380you don't understand hazing and that's why it didn't work. it's not supposed to make people leave. you haze people to make them conform, so there has to be some sort of reward for sticking around through the hazing. there is never going to be a sufficient reward for joining a discord server so people are never going to accept that kind of hazing. 4chan in general can afford to haze newfags because there is no barrier to entry, so people can disengage and reengage as much as they want and continually get fresh starts. discord, with it's insistence on accounts, doesn't allow for that.
>>45281474more specifically too, because 4chan has a low barrier to entry (this has changed with the burdensome captcha system of course) there will always be a fresh stream of potential users. So we can call them newfags and treat them like shit, because there is always a new newfag. but the only way to tell they are newfags is because of how they act and talk, so anyone can pretend they are not a newfag relatively quickly. joining a discord server is not like getting on a 4chan board of course. there IS a barrier to entry, so we should look at frats and sororities as example of when hazing works with a relatively high barrier to entry. they get to haze because there is a reward at the end, and it's not just the idea you will one day get to be the one doing the hazing. greek life offers access to networking and advancement. no 4chan based discord is going to offer that. the only reward is potentially getting to haze future members, and if you think the people you are hazing aren't going to notice the lack of growth and realize they are going to be the new people for a while, you are sorely mistaken. so why would someone join your dying server and face 'relentless hazing'? what do you have to offer over servers that don't try to haze them? you don't allow trannies? so what. lots of the discords that DO, ask people to self label. from there, all you have to do is ignore them. so ultimately what's harder, putting up with being hazed by some pathetic dork who thinks they are better than you because they are terminally online, or just pretending to humor the trannies and ignoring them.
>>45281474so for clarification we only hazed the people from disboard because they were excessively prone to being insufferable. im also being hyperbolic when i call it that because it did not go beyond making fun of them. no one was doxing or anything insane.secondly the dictionary definition of hazing is when members intentionally act abusively towards a new member as a process of initiation. it has multiple functions but vetting is a very common one.
>>45279258>>45281380>noone wants to jump through a bunch of hoops so my friends and I can bully them on our dead discord>fucking trannies ruin everything
>>45281636why are you in /clg/ if you are so content to just ignore trannies
>>45281474>people can disengage and reengage as much as they want and continually get fresh startsSo that they get hazed every other time? I don’t get it, there’s no commitment to 4chin, what is the value then?
>>45281675again. they are functional hoops because gated community. thats the premise of the server. since this is confusing to you maybe you would feel happier and more free in lesgen>>45281701>pad out the server because no one was joining jic anyone semi tolerable was among them. we stopped doing this because no one was
>>45279619Yes that is Germanon.I've also been here since 2013 and others have too.I did a poll a few months ago.
>>45279619>>45281854
>>45281636>you don't allow trannies? so what. lots of the discords that DO, ask people to self label. from there, all you have to do is ignore them.>>45281696All I said was that if you are brain-damaged enough that you want to be on Discord, is being hazed worth not even having to ignore trannies? There are also a few cis lesbian only discords that DON'T try to haze you. As for why I'm here, I just check in on /clg/ every once in a while because of nostalgia. The discords have likely done more harm than good, and I imagine someone could show a drop in /clg/ activity that corresponds to them opening if they kept records. Anyways, /clg/ has had, as this anon can likely confirm >>45281854, people pretending to be lesbians for as long as it's been around; what else are you supposed to do other than ignore them? >>45281701>I don’t get it, there’s no commitment to 4chin, what is the value then?There's no value. It's for shit posting and creative writing (and at the same time, being radically honest about yourself because no one will believe you), and that's it. But there doesn't need to be a reward because the barrier to entry is so low. People can build up a tolerance over time on their own terms. Compare that to a website or server with accounts and an application process. You can't get a fresh start/pretend to be a new person without going through a tedious process of interviews and initiation rituals. Thus, there needs to be a reward of some type (or at least, no additional barriers to entry like hazing)
>>45281636If I knew that’s what’s happening I would’ve played differently the amount of personal information I shared. I really wish I did it other way. Idk if that was me being dumb, or anons being fucking toddlers in adult bodies who aren’t burdened with enough responsibilities in their lives. Anyways now it’s like a toothpaste - once you squeeze it out there’s no way of pushing it back.
>>45281971>being radically honest about yourself because no one will believe youNot if you speak in shit English doing all the same kind of mistakes every time, so it’s like fingerprint that allows people to identify you. They might not find out your real identity, but you have a great chance of becoming the local idiot. I have a first hand experience in that.
>>45281980What do you mean? Sorry I'm confused by what exactly in that you are responding to
>>45282010You could try getting software that corrects your grammar or spelling. Or just get better at English. Lots of people write similarly.
>>45281971no one got hazed unless they were from disboard im going to keep repeating this until you acknowledge it
>>45279345>Yes, I love my job.How many lesbians do you work with?>Germanon 2.0, reveal yourself NOWThere was also a Ukrainian that has been here since 2015 or 2016 that we know nothing about, I don't think it's the one that's in the military because we used to have 3 Ukrainians.>That's why you look, politely look away, and then look again.I'm very weird around people, I would not.>I feel like the stereotype is never that lesbians are femme, but you're right, I'd be curious what it's like in African countries, for example.In most African countries homosexuality is illegal so I don't know if they would even have an idea, most lesbians obviously try to look as normal as possible.I read an article once about how Kenyan lesbians identify each other, they have like some secret society thing where they wear a certain flower in their hair to signal in a way that won't get them arrested.From what I've noticed browsing Asian spaces, butches or I guess the butch equivalent in east Asia tend to look more like male idol twinks, so the way masculine lesbians look there is different because societies idealized male looks different from the west so lesbians that aim to somewhat emulate the aesthetic of the popular males present differently.Given how lesbian stereotypes are based upon the most noticeably lesbian lesbians, I think east Asian countries might be the most different from the west.>>452804704chan is a dying website that gets half the traffic now of what it got in 2012 despite many more people having internet access now than then, there are fewer and fewer newfags every year.
>>45281971>The discords have likely done more harm than good, and I imagine someone could show a drop in /clg/ activity that corresponds to them opening if they kept recordsThe first discord was founded in may 2016 but the traffic in the thread didn't start declining till 2022, everyone in the discord used to also post in the thread till approximately 2019-2020 when the discord users stopped coming here.I guess we didn't really notice the traffic drop from the discord posters leaving over 2020 because we also had an influx of users because everyone was terminally online because covid.>>45282010Can you elaborate on this post please anon? I would like to know more.
>>45282152your server isn't important enough for anyone to get hazed
>>45273639>Does it still affect you badly or do you have control over it these days?It got way better, it only got a little worse in the beginning of this year since I lost my dad right before last christmas, but fortunately I found a lot of friends who helped me through it.>Do you mind expanding on what you mean by "mishandled"?It's a long story but I attended a really weird and really strangely managed private school that had staff not qualified to deal with children. I don't remember the really bad parts, but it was constant enough to cause a lot of damage.>Did you go to your highschool graduation event? if so how'd it go?The speeches were full of lies and it was so annoying to have to sit for such a long time without glasses. It was fun later when I went to eat out with friends. Multiple people said I looked elegant but many bad taken pictures on iphones quickly reminded me of the never ending nightmare that is the modern age.
>>45282207LOL omg awesome vague
>>45282152>>45281380>>45279258>>45282258Multiple people in these threads have come to talk about the unnecessary hostile environment you apparently have there. Hard to believe you don't also try to haze the 4chan anons.
>>45282201>Can you elaborate on this post please anon? I would like to know more.There was some drama on /lit/ a couple of months ago. It started off really great, and I was really happy to hang there, but then they started throwing nasty insults out of nowhere. Mind you, I knew that 4chin is a Wild Wild West, but somehow I let my guard down. Maybe because they were fairly nice initially I assumed I can share personal stuff - not something to identify me though. I wasn’t expecting that attack, and then when I tried to somehow make sense of what happened they repeatedly pointed me out as a non-native speaker. I’m probably not even that insecure about my English, but the fact of being so exposed hurt me a lot. My self-esteem has not been the best for quite a while now, but for a day or two I really wanted to wipe myself from existence. I liked the board though, and I considered going back in a year or more when demography changes and I’m not subjected to dealing with these faggots, but anon says that oldfags stick around, so I think that’s it. Whatever, I don’t need these fags in my life.
>>45282289err well it is 4chan derived so it is inherently going to be a little off-color. would anyone like to cite any specific abuses experienced in my server or is everyone just mad at the idea that there is one
Wow... there's a lot going on in here>>45273884>Is that a lot? I don't know what's a normal amountProbably not! Just feels like a lot because it takes a long time to get a new one I think!>It opens a path to making things better right?Hopefully, but I fear as I’ve gotten more open to the idea it seems to have gotten more prevalent. I took my cat to the emergency vet yesterday for no reason. >Do you have any other waifus?I used to be obsessed with Liara from Mass Effect! Can't think of anyone else atm tho. Wbu?> lesbian masterdoc writer bishitNot familiar with this reference> coping bihet.That’s true! Tbf I’m not even sure she would identify as a lesbian, just that before she felt compelled to engage in heterosexuality. >I don't think it's same for gay men.>I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on why you think that is.So I certainly don’t think there is like a biological reason for people to be more attracted to men. It would make the most sense to me that before social influences, the proportion of people who are exclusively homosexual (6s) is the same across the sexes, and that goes for 5s, 4s, true bisexuals (3s) and so on. Maybe if there was an equally large number of bisexual men, but it doesn’t make sense that it’s so concentrated if it’s a biological cause.So if I had to guess, I would say that there are two things at play. 1) Men are incredibly easy to sleep with. I think even they would agree they would fuck anything that moves. 2) Men are more willing to date bisexual women than women are willing to date bisexual men. This disincentivizes bisexual men from identifying as bisexual but obvs doesn't do that to bi women. Why do women not wanna date a bi man? I don't know but I can't imagine why one would date any man anyways, but it seems to be generally true.
>>45282221>It got way better, it only got a little worse in the beginning of this year since I lost my dad right before last christmasI'm so sorry anon.>but fortunately I found a lot of friends who helped me through it.That's good that you have nice friends to help you through hard times.>It's a long story but I attended a really weird and really strangely managed private school that had staff not qualified to deal with children. I don't remember the really bad parts, but it was constant enough to cause a lot of damage.I see, I also had a bad time in school before I dropped out but I don't think I was mishandled, I don't know if there was anything anyone could have done better, I think I'm just defective.Thank you for sharing.>The speeches were full of lies and it was so annoying to have to sit for such a long time without glasses.At least you went right?>Multiple people said I looked elegant but many bad taken pictures on iphones quickly reminded me of the never ending nightmare that is the modern age.I'm sure you looked great anon.>>45282352Thank you for sharing anon.>My self-esteem has not been the best for quite a while now, but for a day or two I really wanted to wipe myself from existence.That seems a bit of an extreme reaction but I'm not blaming you for feeling that way, there are a lot of very mean people on this site and you'll have to learn to ignore them and not let their words effect you If you are going to keep interacting with this site.
What are your thoughts on lesbian sex work?It's been a couple of years since we had a conversation about the Japanese lesbian sex work industry and I'm curious if peoples opinions changed.
>>45282500>effectI believe it’s “affect”. That’s the kind of shit that will get you flagged as a pleb.
>>45279345>Yes, I would hate to talk maliciously about someone.Like all good people!!>She a mum now?Oh wow I see that too, I didn't even think to check for other socials. That might explain why she looks different? Idk I might have just built her up in my head>Are you flirting with me anon?C; not sure, am I? >Yes! Was it a university town you were going to go to? Probably a decent amount of lesbians in those.It was! Napkin math I think there would probably be around 650 lesbians in the town! So surely there would have been at least 1 girl there who would willing to settle>>45282352>but anon says that oldfags stick aroundI think even if they stick around, they probably won't remember you in a month or two! I despise bullies. I'm sorry you went through that. for what it's worth, your english looks fine to me lol I wouldn't guess you weren't native>>45282589Who cares, everyone knows what she meant.>>45282289Stuff like this is why discord is so looked down on. you might as well be on reddit
>>45282632>they probably won't remember you in a month or two! It’s me who doesn’t want to talk with them. I guess I should just avoid the entire board. Thanks for the compliment though!
>>45282496>Hopefully, but I fear as I’ve gotten more open to the idea it seems to have gotten more prevalent.I don't actually know anything about OCD but getting diagnosed would surely be the first step in managing it, or maybe you don't even have OCD at all and inquiring about it will put your mind to rest, only one way to find out.>I took my cat to the emergency vet yesterday for no reason.It's much better to be safe than sorry regarding pets and loved ones in my opinion.>I used to be obsessed with Liara from Mass Effect!She was nice in the first Mass Effect but I never played her DLC in the second game or the third game so I don't know how her character developed.>Wbu?There are a lot of characters I like (mostly visually) and save art of but I don't think any I would call waifu.>Not familiar with this referenceSome woman (I think she was a moderator on the biggest lesbian reddit or something) wrote this massive document called "the lesbian masterdoc" and basically it is all about how you can be a massive whore that has sex with a gorillion moids and still be a lesbian because "compulsory heterosexuality made me do it".It's a document for girls who are questioning if they are a lesbian or bisexual or straight but it's written in a way that ends up making heterosexual women think they are lesbians. Like obviously there are some women who due to peer pressure or whatever sleep with men but this is mostly bishit behavior.Basically anytime in a lesbian someone asks "I think I might be into girls but I don't know" they get redirected to the lesbian masterdoc, it has been a cancer on lesbian spaces since it was written in like 2017.The whole thing was written by a coping bihet who wanted to be a lesbian and was trying to excuse her many past relationships with men.The woman who wrote it then came out as bisexual a couple of years later and married a man.I appreciated your thoughts at the end of you post too but I don't have a response
>>45282698>I appreciated your thoughts at the end of you post too but I don't have a responseI'm planning on responding to everything you said but I'm going to the gym first! wrt this though, I was going to say more and just forgot because of the character limit, but also no worries about not responding. this is just some crackpot theorizing of mine that is just (most likely unverifiable) speculation. i love doing that kind of thing so as long as you don't find it annoying i'll keep doing it haha
>>45282589I originally wrote affect but changed it to effect because I thought it applied better.This post has made me realize I haven't looked at a dictionary since I was like 10 and don't really know the definitions of words I use I just infer what they mean and then use them based on that.How many people actually study dictionaries and know the dictionary definitions of every word they use?>>45282632>I think even if they stick around, they probably won't remember you in a month or two!People on 4chan are great at identifying posters and remember posters very well and start holding retarded multi year grudges over perceived slights or arguments they had.>>45282677If you really like the board It might be a shame to stop visiting but yeah if it's going to make you upset then probably best you don't.>>45282740>I was going to say more and just forgot because of the character limitWhen that happens to me (nearly every post I make desu) I just split my text into multiple posts.I swear like 5+ years ago the character limit used to be 5000 not 2000.>this is just some crackpot theorizing of mine that is just (most likely unverifiable) speculation. i love doing that kind of thing so as long as you don't find it annoying i'll keep doing it hahaI enjoyed reading it but don't have any opinions of my own on it that's why I couldn't think of a response.
God I hate kpop boyband twitter bishits who call themselves lesbian
>>45262450Tbh, what I don't understand about these men is how they think the "terfs" are all one person. Why can't they realise just how hated they are by women and lesbians? I haven't been on that Discord server or submitted that "confession." I only joined 4chan in July. Also, it is unlikely that is even a lesbian's confession and not a tranny shitposting to try to deny that homosexual women exist.
Jesus can we just shut the fuck up about trans people… Why is half this thread about fucking trannies… like I stg there are more post about them in this thread than the ones they make
>>45283638I think you are wrong, should I count them?
>>45283731Are you retarded? Look up the word hyperbole and think about what I said with that in mind.
>>45283814I am most likely on the spectrum, please be patient.
>>45283820If you are new to 4chan and possibly on the spectrum, take this as a learning moment. People will respond to things you say in an exaggerated manner to emphasize their points. I wasn’t making the literal claim that was true, just making the point that for a board called /cis lesbian general/ there’s a lot of talk about transgenders.
>>45283905I'm not new I've been here all summer o algo.>just making the point that for a board called /cis lesbian general/ there’s a lot of talk about transgenders.That was due to the transgender spammer troll from the other lesgen spamming over 100 troll posts, go back and look through our last few threads and you will see we rarely ever mention them.
>be me, clg3 admin>no one wants to join>agree with mods to let select disboarders in if they can pass the interview and can withstand a 4chan-esque culture>they cant>stop letting disboarders in>ask why no one want to join>"they let disboard normies in there">they could not withstand a 4chan-esque culture so we stopped letting them in>"why did you treat your 4chan spin-off like 4chan this is why no one from 4chan wants to use it you are literally satan"
>be me, clg3 admin>no one wants to join my shitty discord server based off a dying 4chan thread>try to entice normies by treating them like shit>doesn't work and they leave>decide to try attracting people on 4chan>call them cocksucking straggots>one explains that you can't recreate 4chans culture on a server with accounts and a vetting process>well actually you cocksucking straggot, we only hazed the normies and we would never haze the people from 4chan>still no one joining my discord server>decide to make shitty greentext post strawmanning what they saidFuck. I really hope people join my discord server
>>45284377heh. nice try kid. *teleports behind you* it's not strawmanning to portray you as an obese nerd... because i did it
>try to entice normies*try to deter>one explains that you can't recreate 4chans culture on a server with accounts and a vetting process*one says something non applicable about another use of hazing which isn't relevant >Fuck. I really hope people join my discord serverFuck. Do you think they will... I'm so excited...
>be me, clg3 admin>no one wants to join my shitty discord server based off a dying 4chan thread>try to deter normies by treating them like shit after advertising server to them>works and they leave>wait... the problem was noone wanted to join>fuck, ok>decide to try attracting people on 4chan>call them cocksucking straggots for posting in the thread the server is based on, that i'm currently advertising to them in>complain that noone wants to join the server>tell them they should join because i scared off the normies i invited in to my server>one says something i think is non-applicable about hazing and is irrelevant because we only haze normies anyway, why don't these cocksucking straggots i want to join my server not get that>still no one joining my discord server
>>45284528wait take that photo of me down. that's only for the girls in my discord server to see.
It's probably best to not bring discord drama to the thread
>>45284528well i agree that i should not have said the cocksucking thing. this was pretty demoralizing so i guess i will give up on it and do something else with my life
>>45284713It's your choice anon but lesbians do need lesbian spaces.
>>45276259where's the photo of the hat?
Which would you rather wife?
is it weird that i cant get off on lesbian porn? Solo stuff works but the second theres two women i suddenly cant cum. is this a sign that im a fake lesbian???
>>45285143I was actually wanting to ask a similar thing but I was waiting for next thread to post it early to maximize responses.I do like lesbian porn but I strongly prefer solo female.According to this study lesbians actually prefer heterosexual porn to solo female but are twice as aroused by lesbian porn than heterosexual, so I was wondering if my preference for solo female was very strange.I haven't looked up the full study, maybe the solo female material they were using just wasn't very good or something.
>>45285143I prefer solo female porn, most lesbian porn is terrible and very clearly aimed at straggot moids. If I want to schlick I read F/F smut instead.
Point of orderI discouraged this behavior, no matter how amused I am by it. It cannot be blamed entirely on me.I had a long day and going to bed. Catch you in the AM
>how I sleep after causing havoc and making the thread borderline inhabitable
>>45285896Same. It is so obvious it is made for men that it is depressing. I feel like I am violating them by watching it
People complain about increase in ads and AI content on Pinterest. Thank goodness I turned off auto updates a good while ago. What would you guys do when internet becomes unusable?
Installing tiktok
Nah, there isn’t enough memory. Not today, Satan.
Okay, the last bit is indeed snarky.
Okay, this is good one. The senate has decided your fate.
>>45287708
I can't believe the most militant anti-trans poster in /clg/ history turned out to be a broken hearted cisfchaserWill terfnona be stripped of her medals and given a dishonorable discharge?
Can someone translate what’s going on here >>45288176 ? I haven’t been too focused on thread drama lately.
>>45288176that's the most believable rationale tho. is my sarcasm detector on the fritz again?
>>45288384Terfnona showed up and started crashing out:>>45278637>>45278659>>45278685Anon exposed her for being a broken hearted cisfchaser:>>45278715
>>45288426that's a tranny roleplaying a non existent character and you fell for it lmao
>>45288441It's actually a 19-year-old Australian girl and trained vocalist
Her autistic special interest is gender criticalism, don't you remember or should I say more? :)
>>45288176>Will terfnona be stripped of her medals and given a dishonorable discharge?They're already accusing her of being a tranny, so yes
>>45282698>only one way to find out.Yesss I emailed my therapist so we shall see what comes of it>Better to be safeAgreed. I just live off student loans, so an unnecessary extra $1000 in cc debt kinda makes me want to kms. But I'll get through it!!>She was nice in the first Mass EffectOh you missed out! I don't really remember her role in the third game (came out the year my dad died so it's all kind of a blur lol) but I really liked her DLC in the second game> and save art of Share some! I'd love to see what you are into!>bisexual a couple of years later and married a manYikes. I did a little reading on the whole thing, and it's surprising to me that this was widely recommended. It's poorly written and obviously made by a teenager. wrt "comphet" more broadly, I didn't know about this doc, and what it has done to the term. I would recommend Adrienne Rich's "Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence" if you like a little bit more academic styling reading. She was a poet from the 60s-70s (and probably pretty good but unlike Germanon I don't know a lot about modern poetry) who wrote quite a bit about being a lesbian + the need for intersectionality (without giving in to certain beliefs). It actually ties in with the stuff I said about the apparently larger male homosexual community. >>45282806>I just infer what they mean and then use them based on that.This is what 99% of people do in my opinion, people only care about dictionary definitions and correcting spelling when they don't have anything else to say
>>45282806>People on 4chan are great at identifying posters and remember posters very well and start holding retarded multi year grudges over perceived slights or arguments they had.Demography of the boards change. I thought there’s a slim chance they’ll get a life or move onto some other special interest in a year or two.
>>45288739>"Comphet" and exclusive homosexuals appearing to be skewed male.So in these two posts>>45282496>>45272426I started laying out why I think that anyone who has any attraction to men mostly sleeps with men. The reason I think this happens is because of a combination of "compulsive heterosexuality" and misogyny. Basically, men who are 4-5 on the Kinsey scale ultimately identify as exclusively gay men, while equivalent women identify as bi, because once men start sleeping primarily with men, there is no going back. Their opportunities/drive for sex with straight women or bi women go down because men are easier to sleep with (prevalence of anonymous/NSA sex among gay men), and also women are trained by society to always feel inadequate and to believe they need a traditionally masculine man, which makes them both feel like they won't be able to satisfy someone who likes men, and also makes them dislike gay men who they see as submissive. (I think this same thing drives why bisexual women often leave a lesbian for a man, on both ends as well). On the other side of things, straight men will never feel inadequate (at least in comparison to a woman; I've seen enough incels to know that they will feel inadequate compared to other men), so they are never worried that a bi woman will leave them for another woman, and similarly, that's why they think they could "fix" a lesbian (something I've never seen a straight woman (even one who enjoys gay porn) say about a gay man). As Rich points out, for basically all of history, women have been forced to be dependent on men, and so there is a massive cultural force towards women feeling like they need a man in their life. Men don't have that same cultural force, because while they were expected to get a wife, they didn't NEED one to do things like get a job, have a bank account. In my opinion, that's why they can be way more comfortable with exclusively dating other men.
>>45288922>Basically, men who are 4-5 on the Kinsey scale ultimately identify as exclusively gay men, while equivalent women identify as bi, because once men start sleeping primarily with men, there is no going back. Their opportunities/drive for sex with straight women or bi women go down because men are easier to sleep with (prevalence of anonymous/NSA sex among gay men), and also women are trained by society to always feel inadequate and to believe they need a traditionally masculine man, which makes them both feel like they won't be able to satisfy someone who likes men, and also makes them dislike gay men who they see as submissive. (I think this same thing drives why bisexual women often leave a lesbian for a man, on both ends as well)ladies and gentleman: the simone biles of mental gymnastics
>>45288922And in that same vein, because women don't have the power and ability to systemically abuse and control men, there isn't really a drive for (mostly) straight men to romanticize the idea of a relationship with another man. There is, however, a push for women to feel that way about other women, because men can treat them like absolute shit. Which I think explains why even though bisexual women mostly end up with men, they romanticize and idealize being a lesbian and pretend to be one, but never follow through. Something else that "comphet" discusses is the compulsory passiveness/submissiveness forced on women, which I think also makes sapphic relationships harder/less common. Basically, men are allowed to be aggressive and pursue the objects of their affection, even when they are sexually submissive role. Whereas we are taught from a young age to be passive, wait for affection and romance to come to us, and disdain promiscuity. But if two femme lesbians are interested in each other, they are both going to wait for the other one to make the first move, and then nothing will ever happen.
>>45288955>the simone biles of mental gymnasticsthis made me laugh, but where do you think I'm actually wrong?
It’s been raining in my area lately, I feel like shit. So tired all the time.
Buff lady of the day
>>45288529Sore losers
What do we think about height gaps? I think women over 6' are very hot.
>>45289029the idea that cis women look down on subby gay men bc "they're worried they won't be able to satisfy them"? that's pure projection
>>45289150it should only ever be allowed to rain when i'm inside and tucked into my bed all comfy womfy
>>45285048wouldnt wife either but would rape both
>>45290311Um that’s literally one of the reasons people give for why they won’t date bi men, because they are worried he will want something they don’t have. And to pretend that one of the effects of misogyny on women (especially when they internalize it) isn’t causing them to preemptively put themselves down or assume women on the whole are lesser than men is kind of crazy. like that’s the whole reason there are women who are conservative and believe they shouldn’t have rights. Look up phyllis schlafly
>>45290311>look down on subby gay menIt’s kind of telling you saw me talking about people’s perceptions of bisexual men and you immediately thought “subby gay men” accusing me of projecting when you are literally doing exactly what I was talking about is certainly a choice
>we don't haze anons joining from this thread you cocksucking straggots!1!!111lmao
>>45290311How would you explain 1) women being more likely to identify as bisexual and less likely to identify as gay than men and 2) women (including bi women) not dating bi men. Not sure I’m convinced by this, but I’ve not actually seen any other explanation
>>45291110Has clg3 admin addressed the accusation last thread?>screw y'all for kicking me and another girl out of the discord server for being femme and "too young" when we were both 18+ but apparently 19 isn't >biased mods that obviously play favourites unless you try to appeal to their cringe pooner butchfemme clique. i got kicked out for saying racist shit about china while they let the other girl have spergouts over korea every time. also it was annoying how obsessed they were with trannies
Okay, she’s really good here.
Had myself a rip van winkle nap. I'm debating on uber some food or cooking myself. On the one hand, I have food in the house but it requires prep and cleaning. On the other hand, I have the money to spare to indulge. So idk. I'll probably get myself a steak if I don't nuke some potpies
Good night, ladies! Good night, James, behave yourself!
New thread?
I want to respond to posts but I don't like responding at the end of a thread because sometimes people don't see it.
>>45292353
>>45293457It’ll be archived, just link the responses
>>45293499Posting the replies here and then linking to them in the next thread seems, I don't know how to describe it, needy maybe?
>>45282188>How many lesbians do you work with?Three. The majority of my other female co-workers is bisexual. >There was also a Ukrainian that has been here since 2015 or 2016 that we know nothing aboutI noticed that one too. And the other Germanon has been here since the beginning of the thread as well, right? I know of a few Germanons passing through but I reckon none of them is this one. >most lesbians obviously try to look as normal as possibleWhen homosexuality among women was frowned upon they'd often dress up as men, though. Still I get your point. It makes sense to come up with symbols that the community would understand but others wouldn't, such as in Kenya - that's very interesting. >most lesbians obviously try to look as normal as possibleYeah, I think the masc aesthetic will normally be based on what's popular with cis men. And trust me there are way too many men here who think going out in joggers is acceptable fashion. Now a hot masc in a suit? Completely different story. >>45282632>>45288739>Like all good people!!Yeeah but don't forget you're on 4chan here.>That might explain why she looks different?Parenthood will fuck you up. >C; not sure, am I? I hope you are. >Adrienne Richheh, I was happy to read her name here and even happier to see that you mentioned me in relation to her. I only skimmed your posts on attraction and bisexuality but my take on the whole thing is: having sex with men taints you, having sex with women doesn't, that's why bisexuality is looked at differently between the sexes. I'm not even memeing. >>45282352/lit/ knows a lot about Londonfrog despite him trying to vaguepost. They are good at it. And Londonfrog is a /lit/ treasure so don't feel bad getting clocked in a similar way.
Petition to drop clg3 discord link from OP for the next thread because the admin is annoying
>>45293620I'd rather not have discord drama and people removing discords and stuff
We are now past the bump limit
>>45293635I would rather not bump a thread advertising discord that kicks people out for nothing
>>45294015Does having a link to a discord pastebin in the OP really annoy you that much?Generally I favor not changing the OP because literally every general in 4chan history has had drama with people warring over what is in the OP and when competing discords come along things get even worse.Also see here >>45265194 the general (formerly /wlwg/ - women loving women general now called "lesgen") split into two different generals over discord drama and OP warring about which discord should be in their OP.Additionally last year (or whenever it was that it was made) the owner of the clg3 discord started changing the OP of the general to remove the clg1 and clg2 discord links using the argument that "clg1 doesn't accept new members and clg2 doesn't even exist anymore" but I was adamant that removing the other discords was bad and shouldn't be done so I'm not going to now side with her discord being removed.
>>45294098Just remove all three discords. Having them in the op doesn't benefit the thread in any way
>>45294391Removing the discord links after over a decade of them being there seems like a big change.
I had an interesting dream.
>page 7Is anyone intending to make a new thread?
>>45277621imagine hating even goldstar bis and febfems. seethe
>>45288176>>45288456who was that nona
>>45295292The poster that the samefagging falseflagging troll referred to as "the most militant anti-trans poster in /clg/ history" is quite new here and has only ever made a few anti tranny posts btw
>>45295377>>45295377>>45295377New thread