Why is it all about wanting to fuck white men? Black literature isn't like this. Neither is Hispanic literature
I don‘t know
>>24730699Give 5 (five(V( I I I I I))) examples right now.
>>24730699Because they know they have the option, to be desired and praised for feminine sbumissive cute traits in ways that no other race can. So it's a constant Faustian bargain of personal happiness at the expense of their "culture" and the fear that their white boyfriend won't know how to light incense sticks and pray to her ancestors
>>24730736I mean, americans have contributed to this by fetishizing asians and asian americans in many ways. Watch any alpha male channel and their ideal woman is someone chaste and submissive from the third world, preferably southeast/east asia. Also the “japan good, america bad” rhetoric.
>>24730782>Also the “japan good, america bad” rhetoric.Not sure weebs being weebs can be called rhetoric.
>>24730782> their ideal woman is someone chaste and submissive from the third worldYesFor this white women have only themselves to blame
>>24730699asian women hate their men because they are insanely sexist by degrading them spiritually instead of muslim superficial degradation.They literally just want a guy who will be a loving husband.t. studied in China
>>24730828>They literally just want a guy who will be a loving husband.so why don't the chinese men change so they can get a wife instead of losing out to any nonfat westerner.
>>24730782>chaste and submissive from the third worldthat's called sexploitation
>>24730862China is aggressively patriarchal still.To them women must be like kids and the ideal woman isnt a buxom slutty whore who is still faithful, but a woman who looks and acts like a kid.In China they say >"a woman who weighs more than 50kgs is not a woman"and every girl on Xiaohongshu therefore will have her weight listed in the 46-49.5kg range. And when they say "she is not a woman" they mean it. She is basically non existent. I have never been in a more lesbian city than Beijing and it is to 100% only because these women hate every male figure in their family and who they have had to interact with. >why don't the chinese men changebugmen will never change their character; I believe it has been the exact same for 2000 years. Communism and liberalism has just socially allowed women to vent their anger and then isolate themselves while bringing no change about just as in Korea or Japan.Chinese women perceive western girls as being treated as spoiled princesses (which they are).
>>24730828>asian women hate their men because they are insanely sexist by degrading them spiritually ican you please elaborate on this
>>24730877I can’t believe they could be so cruel to beautiful PAAG goddesses. Are they gay?
>>24730882this>>24730877 is a good start even if you will not understand the self stultifying kid mentality being imposed on asian girls until you see it for yourself, but additionally...even today families will have children until they finally get the boy and then they'll stop.All the older girls are supposed to sacrifice their talents and efforts to help the boy no matter how boorish, bratty and spoiled his character becomes. If theres money only for one kid to go to college then the boy will even if the oldest got straight As and the boy is a retard. Only if theres left over will the girls get anything. He, however, will get all inheritance and the girls need to go get married off as quickly as possible. Men dont want anything to do with child rearing they just never spend time in the apartment. It becomes a duty for women (even career women who give up their entire future life for the often only one kid) and the men couldnt care less to even interact with the kid. There are zero efforts to help women deal with abuse or rape. I went to their best university, Qinghua, and even there they had no services available for the students getting raped by their PhD advisors who were power manipulating them. That stuff happens here too, but at least there are services here where girls can go ruin their academic chances by at least getting the guy held accountable. In China, theres nothing of the sort. Its like India. I met multiple PhD students there who were actively still getting groped and raped by their advisor, and they felt there was nothing they could do but flee the country (which one of them thankfully did, and here in Europe got University sponsored counseling).Bfs will also make demands how a girl can dress and who she can texts and therefore will regularly check her phone. Its so pathetic to see these smart Satellite AI image analysis computing PhD girls' eyes light up when they hear stories of an ex-gf of mine bathing topless at a river and me not scolding her but being totally happy with it. Those cringe hollywood boss girl movies resonate so strongly with these women just because they get to chose what to wear themselves. While I was there an Iranian film about a raped girl who went on a vegance arch killing all men in her life was being shown by some embassy and couple girls went there just to imagine them doing that as well. It was a very unhealthy exercise imo.Chinese girls will throw themselves at any western guy as long as he isnt bald or fat and it is 99% because they just do not want to any longer associate with the men from their societies anymore. Obviously not all are like this but the vast majority is.
I will say you also see the cutest kawaii sugoi anime relationships in China and their childish relationships seem pure in comparison to the aggressive relationships here.>>24730918PAAG goddessesdoesnt exist there; its seen as disgusting. I dated a tall xiaohongshu model for a while who starved herself to 49kgs at 178cm and one of her ass checks fit perfectly inside my hand. Crazy.
>>24730931>its seen as disgustingThat’s so sad
>>24730928This does not make me sympathetic to Asian women. A lot of this is actual abuse of course but the countermindset sounds like the same retarded narcissistic bullshit that put the West on its current path. Same "I want to be treated like a fully responsible moral agent but I don't want to ever deal with the negative consequences of being one" thing too.
>>24730699More to do with upbringing. Asian household manta is climb climb climb. Go to Harvard. Play violin. All very high pressure. And in America/The West white folx tend to be the upper middle class ones. The opportunity for Asian men to climb socially with a white woman that would (meaningfully) advance their position just isn't there in the vast majority of cases. Not that white women don't give Asian men such an opportunity (though this is statically also true), but there just aren't enough white upper middle class women who would, through marraige, get an Asian man into a country club, or a private school, or an income bracket the otherwise wouldn't have had access to. Women like that are Brahmins who are extremely rare and almost certainly going to either marry another Brahmin or some artist/refugee leader from pakistan/someone totally random if they're mad at daddy.
>>24730877>>24730928Very informative, thanx anon. I knew by reading chinese fiction this was the case, but its good to see it confirmed. (hell, in three body problem the female dr. experiences exactly this and enact her "vengance arch" fantasy by inviting genocidal aliens to earth).
>>24730939>the same retarded narcissistic bullshit that put the WestSure. Birthrates are worse in China though and quality of life and health is in the gutter considering they are so developed. No sane westerner would want to live in that shit hole except for to make some quick cash.
>>24730877>a woman who weighs more than 50kgs is not a woman
>>24730950>(hell, in three body problem the female dr. experiences exactly this and enact her "vengance arch" fantasy by inviting genocidal aliens to earth).kek I never read that slop, but that being a plot point shows the fucked up mentality of chinese women pretty accurately.
>>24730951Yeah they're either going to automate births or go mostly extinct in ~100 years. I hope the latter.>>24730956Western women think the exact same way.
>>24730928Any proof to back up what you're saying? Last I heard it was the men who were getting fucked over because of the high boy:girl ratio and a hard requirement for marriage was that the man had to pay completely for a new house for the parents to approve and he needs to meet other criteria like minimum income and social background as well.
>>24731053>Any proof to back up what you're saying?Im not sure how you want me to prove this stuff except for showing showing you random Xiaohongshu models profiles with the 49kgs listed in their profile bio, some random qinghua photos and you can google the iranian movie existing yourself. This stuff is unfortunately based on what I was told by Chinese people themselves men and women. You can definitely see this culture in their literature as the other anon said >>24730950 if its modern three-body problem, Red chamber dream, or some early 20th century social commentary literature like Luxun.>Last I heardMost of what we get to hear here on China is either tiktok slop or US propaganda thats as debased false as what russian villagers hear on Russia Today about straight marriage being illegal in the satanist west.
>>24731084>Most of what we get to hear here on China is either tiktok slop or US propagandaWTF anon can it really be that bad? My PAAG princess is just waiting for someone to appreciate her computer architecture models and be cool with her eating noodles. The west should accept their women like Afghans.
>>24730928China has a more traditional society than America? Women like feminist-run societies? Gee whiz, who would have thought?
>>24730699I see your asian-american and raise you texmex trans diaspora. i shit you not. this is the reason i dropped out of college. fuck that fucking bitch of a professor.
>>24731455Give us a quick rundown, I wanna know how the texmex latinx (kek) mind works.
>>24731460This was like 20 years ago. I am blessed because I forgot or caused myself to forget the details. She would never shut the fuck up about "interstitial spaces". It was fucking awful, and I hope she is out of a job, the professor.
>>24731471she has been dead for 20 years. why did you kill her?
these threads are hilarious because when you go to china it's just normal people. yes being slimmer is preferred just like being curvy in the right places is preferred here. most people like their own ethnicity as well.
>>24731053this is true. the rest is /pol/ tourist slop. girls get dowrys over there.
>>24730699marx and engels already touched on this. capitalism really.
>>24731053Didn't read everything anon posted but my family hosted foreign students during my childhood, most of them were Chinese girls. The girls were seen as a drain on the family, at birth boys would recieve a diamond girls would get some lesser stone. Father would marry and have a child, if a girl the husband would find a gf and impregnate until they had a son they divorce wife and marry son bearing gf, at least one girl's story. Most are unaccustomed to any kind of affection taking like 6 months to warm up to you. The Chinese language is not kind to women so English words like love do not translate well. Fathers would send the girls to America to fuck off and not be around for a few years.The ratio does not matter their culture will not change even if the communist party is overthrown. The one child policy fucked them.
>>24731620>being curvy in the right placesYou can just say fat.
>>24731639I never received any diamonds wtf
>>24731768Born in China pre-2016? Ask your parents unless they were a poor family, all the girls were from wealthy families and could get thousands of dollars wired over with a few wechat messages.Some girls would go on shopping sprees, do all the tourist attractions, had rich Chinese bfs that would pick them up in nice cars. Of all the girls only one ended up dating a non-Chinese and she was from a poorer family, something about not wanting her back home and needing her to find an American husband.
>>24731781Damn this board is dumb as fuck
>>24731639>so English words like love do not translate wellThere are heaps of terms relating to love in Chinese and lots of Chinese stories revolve around romance. This is plainly ignorant.
>>24731630Marx talked about Asian chicks wanting white guys?
>>24731455You dropped out of college because of a book? lmao pussy
>>24732186NTA but you're a bad poster
>>24732188>Bad poster! Bad! Not allowed!
>>24731784>>24731897Yes I am retarded but I can only speak about things I have been told from typically upper class late teens early 20s Chinese women, an unreliable source, over the course of 20 or so years during the China's one child policy and considering most told the same stories my inclination is to believe them.
>>24730699What else are they supposed to write about? They're not actually oppressed.
>>24730782Name five examples of these alpha male channels you watch on youtube
>>24730828What the fuck am I even reading? Degrading them spiritually? Muslim superficial degredation? What the fuck even is this?
>>24730782Mayhaps moderate your intake of alpha male channels
>>24732530Presumably behaviors discouraging emotional intimacy and security by emphasizing external optics and the man of the house's cultural expectation to be sole determinant of the home dynamic. Not being partisan here-- you cannot neglect your friend, your lover, your wife and expect anything but rot in your home. Modern attitudes on marriage are actually revolting. It's the societal ideal, man and woman in intentional, high effort co operative balance. And few people understand how noticeably good marriages strengthen society. It is to culture what deep running root systems are to coastline soil erosion.You really need to ask yourself, what do I need, and what do others need. Do you care about anyone else? If so you're already negotiating power dynamics with them in everyday life. I don't appreciate much modern 'culture' at all because it serves machinery, processes and market whims. People with low empathy or willingness to develop alongside others create miserable hell-worlds that grind human nature down to 'unreliable machinery' standards. And older "traditions" are often complicit in this because the sort of mind that clings to rulebooks also lacks the critiquing ability to parse the useful from the useless.
>>24731455lol I had to read this for a meme elective class that was required to graduate. It’s boring as fuck but the prose is really simple. It was literally written with ESLs in mind, easiest shit in the world.If you had half a brain, you could have just regurgitated some shit about how “the author is divided by both physical borders and invisible divisions of sex, gender, and race.” And that’s literally the entire book, bitching about colonialism and sexism with a taco tinge.If you find that hard to navigate, you’re just exposing yourself as a tard that can’t parse out a text written explicitly to be accessible for a Chicano ESL audience. Anyone who passed high school would have no difficulty with it.
