>implying anyone on /lit/ knows how sex works

>>25013910
One of the reasons why I stopped reading 1984 is because the descriptive depravity of Julia, and Winston finding it sensual, hit too close to home.
In this instance I related to Julia because of her physical acts of degeneracy against societal ‘norms’, and that being capped by Winston accepting her anyway and finding her even more beautiful because of it reminded me of my love life, and the many errs before I got there.
I think maybe the key here is acceptance despite the past and what may be held against them in the future. And being spoiled of 1984’s ending where it ends bad for both of them made me not want to bear the eventual decay of the two.

Zadie Smith's BWC work is excellent

>>25013910
kys faggot

>>25013910
Just be yourself :)

Novels generally do not go into detail unless they use super flowery poetry or are very pornographic and neither care about constructive details

The answer to how to get better at sex is simply this: last longer, much longer, because you need to last a long time to get a woman to orgasm. If you can't last until she orgasms the I recommend you start taking Zoloft

If you truly want crescendo, the whole time you must maintain prestissimo and only ever lapse as far as allegro for the sake of rubato. If you have difficulty with this then it is of the utmost importance to develop your cardio.

Finally, having a huge dick helps. I am 8 1/2 with a circumference of 5 1/2 inches. However this quality is of lesser importance than the other two, since they alone can carry the day, or rather the night, whereas a big dick alone, lacking the other qualities, will impress a woman visually but will ultimately make her disappointment worse.

>>25013910
you're not gonna get what you need out of a book, you just need real experiences.
Back when I was in high school, before I'd ever gotten any pussy, I had a platonic friend who was really hot. I wanted to fuck her real bad and I told her this, but she had had a few sexual experiences and I'd had none. One day we were talking about it and I was on some honestly pretty incel shit talking about "you're always telling me you fuck these guys and then they ghost you after or whatever, well we're just close friends, I really want to have sex with somebody, you're really hot, and afterwards we'll just still be close friends" and it somehow actually convinced her for a bit that it was maybe a harmless idea. She laid down on the grass and told me to get on top of her and start making out with her. I'd never done that in my life before, but I just got on top and winged it. After maybe 30 seconds of me having no clue what the fuck I was doing, she just told me to stop and said "eh, I'm not feeling it now let's talk about it later"
At the time I was too laser focused on getting my dick inside her that I was just like "yeah ok, sure" but it's clear now that we would have fucked then if I knew what I was doing. We never ended up fucking, of course.
Flash forward ~15 years, I'm in my 30s and have had sex with maybe 30 women. I'm confident that I know what to do in a situation like that, if a girl asks me to get on top of her I know what to do with my body that feels good for both of us. If I had to think of how to describe exactly the difference between what I did back then and what I would do now, it would be completely impossible. It's just something that came with persevering through that awkward inexperienced period.
In short, you need a person to practice with, a girlfriend, where you can both talk to each other about what worked and what didn't, until you eventually just learn what to do.

idk why tf I typed all that out just now desu, but whatever do what you want with it

>>25015004
Cool story bro

>>25013910
>Art being built upon lies
>Wants to learn how to fuck
Why don't you watch twitter porn instead? They have loads of amateur stuff and I bet you'll find it more fruitful to watch a few videos than to read a novel. I think you should avoid sex anon. It's a slippery slope, next thing you know you'll be so sex crazed you'll get into some crazy kink or fetish.

>>25013910
>I wanna get better at it
What would be the point?

>>25014953
>>25015004
See
>>25014928

>>25014928
If one thing is clear about OP, it's that he's heterosexual.
Nobody can vouch for you, however.

>>25013910
>what women tend to like
Go on AO3 or read any romance/romantasy shit

>>25013910
You might be retarded, OP. Very likely.