It's a classic that has stood the test of time and provides actual useful information.
>starts conversation by asserting his views as subjective factDid you even read it?
>>25239745Anonymous, a true artist learns the rules and knows when to break them :)
>>25239748The true artist has a well founded reason to break the rules. Dale was not an artist and was not teaching art. Your following his rules so explicitly in your response suggests you are not an artist, but it also suggests you are not OP and have a sense of humor.
You can't be taught charm. You can't learn persuasive smile and expression—because you actually need a degree of sincerity. Either deluding yourself or compartmentalize your attitude and desires. Which is borderline schizophrenic, splitting your own soul. Unless the other person deserves it, ofc...
The entire thing is offensively american and even then dated, modern americans are tone-deaf but not THAT tone-deaf
>>25239730Read this after 48 laws of power and its literally the same book
>>25241713It isn’t considering Carnegie was a Poor European Man born on a Farm compared to Greene the Kike who born to Rich Jewish Parents.
>>25241885Nig er i meant that they make a lot of the same points but with two different views of them, like for example making the other person feel important appears in both books
>>25239730Another study on how to pathologize sincerity into manipulative psycho-social tactics.
>>25239730Useless, people hate half that shit.One of my employees had a nervous breakdown because a client kept using her name in conversation which the book says to do to build rapport.If you want the good version of this it's Influence by Cialdini
>>25241930>One of my employees had a nervous breakdown because a client kept using her name in conversationFire her shit wtf why hire an autist bitch?Yeah the books works with normal people which there are very few now
>>25241946>book works>alright it only works for a very narrow range of psychological profiles>but you see it's the good guys it works on, not the bad goyim>proof they are bad? the form of socialisation I've learned doesn't work on themIn your own post you even imply you can't hide behind simply being the majority. >>25241583 is correct. Carnegie is about as relevant as trying to roleplay as a 1510 century Italian courtesan after reading Castiglione.
>>25241962Normal doesnt mean good, i mean the common form of human interaction across most cultures, like for example not losing your shit by other people using your name like an autistic retardI would knock you out if you ever behave like an asperger nig around me
>>25239848Lol this incel chud nigga think you can't learn to charm
>>25241930Your employee has severe mental illness if her own name causes a breakdown. This book is in general very useful towards stable people, not BPD women.
>>25239730>b-be nice to people and ugh... agree with them because uhh... people like when you do thatThis was a bestseller, it's not just a guide for the socially awkward or something. Amerimutts are not human.
>>25242319Do you think only americans read or best sellers only apply to americans?
>>25239730What if I don't want friends or to influence people?
>>25242346they're the ones who write, publish and buy this american psycho crap en masse so ultimately yes
>>25242361If you do the opposite of what the book says, it functions as a guide for how to lose friends and have other people dismiss you
>>25242400>how to lose friends and annoy people
>>25242390I mean the us has states with bigger economies than your cunt so makes sense