Does anyone have any experience with this book? I'm hoping to find a girlfriend by applying some actionable advice. Miserable women bashing faggots need not waste their time by replying.
Just be attractive and don't be unattractive.>noooooo there's totally a trick to itSome guys are fuckable, some guys aren't. Simple as.
>>25372387how doth i become fuggable
dating pre and post smartphones is like a different dimension. You cannot win if they are on their app, and meanwhile they are cucking you on that app with some chad while you try your cold approach. That's before you even enter proximity. Want to play a Game, incel man?
Just be sociable. >noo but muh good looksNope. Its simple as, totally within your control,which is why it causes many to seethe.
>>25372391Cultivate genuine interest in others
>>25372391You can't. Either you're sexy or you're not. Sometimes there's room for improvement but it's mostly genetics.
>>25372391Have good genetics and a healthy dose of benign misogyny.
>>25372397Stop fucking lying. No one here is falling for it.
>>25372387>>25372393>>25372394>>25372398>>25372400I am not interested in your shallow personal opinions that can be expressed and then dismissed with a single sentence. I am interested in LITERATURE that makes compelling ARGUMENTS. Not that any of you have ever read a book.
>>25372403Whatever by Michel Houellebecq
>>25372403>>25372406>It's a fact...that in societies like ours sex truly represents a second system of differentiation, completely independent of money; and as a system of differentiation it functions just as mercilessly. The effects of these two systems are, furthermore, strictly equivalent. Just like unrestrained economic liberalism, and for similar reasons, sexual liberalism produces phenomena of absolute pauperization . Some men make love every day; others five or six times in their life, or never. Some make love with dozens of women; others with none. It's what's known as 'the law of the market'...Economic liberalism is an extension of the domain of the struggle, its extension to all ages and all classes of society. Sexual liberalism is likewise an extension of the domain of the struggle, its extension to all ages and all classes of society.
>>25372407>It's been hopeless for a long time, from the very beginning. You will never represent, Raphaël, a young girl's erotic dream. You have to resign yourself to the inevitable; such things are not for you. It's already too late, in any case. The sexual failure you've known since your adolescence, Raphaël, the frustration that has followed you since the age of thirteen, will leave their indelible mark. Even supposing that you might have women in the future -- which in all frankness I doubt -- this will not be enough; nothing will ever be enough. You will always be an orphan to those adolescent loves you never knew.
>>25372407Interesting
>>25372383Here's an algo:1 Make friends.2. Ask out your female friends.3. Ask both male and female friends to set you up with someone.4. Rinse and repeat.Btw don't listen to "don't shit where you eat" meme. Many people met their wives at work.
>>25372403I can read your future:you will be an incelyou will never have sex short of paying for ityou will be radicalized by dating sites and entitled womenyou will remember this moment when I woke you upand then you learned to hate the game, which is stupid western women who are causing a population die off. They are responsible for nearly every single bad social policy in modern times. VVake up
If you want a girlfriend, you have to be attractive to a woman, but also: your terror of seeing a naked women in person and being awkward is your main problem.If you're fat, start looking online for how to get in shape. Women don't actually care about muscles, but they can tell if you've been lifting weights, so start doing that.You will also need to eat healthy. Keep track of your macronutrients (i.e., calories, protein, carbs, fats) and make sure the ratios meet your goals.If you are skinny, do this for 3-6 months and hot women will find you attractive enough to fuck. If you are fat, do this for 1 year and hot women will find you attractive enough to fuck.Now, if you want to fuck them more than once, you will need to develop social skills. Many of you retards fail at this step, so a bit of advice: treat the women like a bro, but keep in mind she is not a bro. Never reveal anything that will paint you negatively with her, always strive for neutral, if not positive positioning when talking. Never show your vulnerable self to her. That said, treat her like a bro, she enjoys when you put your dick in her.I fumbled countless women in my 20s because I was socially awkward and didn't understand this. Eat her pussy well and she'll tolerate a lot.Women derived immense sexual satisfaction from when you bust in/on them.
>>25372391Start looksmaxxing. Look into to the best haircut you can get for your face shape, if you can grow a *full* beard then try that out, develop a simple skin care routine (cleanser+moisturizer all you really need to start), and get in decent shape (don’t be fat). Once you’ve got yourself handled physically, look into developing a respectable wardrobe that fits your archetype, whatever that is. How you look is the first filter you have to pass through, everything else like personality comes next. Used to be, ugly dudes would be able to just get with an ugly chick and be fine, but in this modern era of technologically-fueled hypergamy even ass-ugly broads have their heads in the clouds thinking they can swing 7s because they can get fucked by one. You don’t need to do bonesmashing or any of that retarded shit, just try to look your best within reason. You will also feel better about yourself when you look better, which will lead to more confidence in everything you do, not just pursuing women.
>>25372383women aren't worth it anymore
>>25372397I’m tired of these impractical empty phrases. Oh really? I should just get a haircut and take a shower? Blow your fucking brains out.
How to get laid in 2026: the ultimate guide>deal drugs>bodybuild on roids>get tattooed>get a minor criminal conviction>develop a reputation for beating women>learn martial arts and carry a gun>don't take no for an answer>pretend you have easy money and wealth>keep a gangbanger posse on hand to look high status>have a stupid nickname
>>25372485How about you blow YOUR brains out you fucking pussy? People offer you advice and you just wanna fling shit. Get fucked (oh wait, you can’t!) LOL
>>25372518What kind of advice is that, retard? Why should I cultivate interest in the retarded shitskins and nigger-fucking whores in my area? >just talk to them broI already shower and brush my teeth; anymore completely useless commentary to add? I’d smash your buckteeth in and anally rape your mother.
The West has become hopelessly confused about the realities of Man and Woman, and this confusion has been continuously disseminated through mass media, public education and the government institutions regulating medicine. This is the source of the trouble. It's not online dating. It's not porn. It's not phytoestrogens in the water. It's not men, it's not women. It's a cloud of total confusion and misunderstanding about what the words Man and Woman mean. The cloud of confusion is itself causing all of those things just listed.The only way out is to reconfigure your entire comprehension of these things by adopting a traditional (religious) worldview and a lifestyle that is in harmony with it. Only traditional people understand Man and Woman. Those are very subtle realities which cannot be expressed in philosophical or psychological terms. It has to do with women gathering to gossip around a table while preparing food or weaving clothing (which they love because they love wrapping people up in warm things and making them look nice). And gossiping or even singing, and laughing raucously. And they are in the background having the time of their life, they get louder over the course of the night. And the men are sitting around another table slightly separated, in an adjacent room with open doors, or on the other side of a knee-wall. And the men talk about religion and several of them become passionate and exhort the others to action. Urgent, good, morally upright action ("We need to do better about teaching these children how to contribute! We must take more time and more care to teach them!"). Periodically women descend from the women table like angels bringing in tea and fresh baked bread and sliced fruit. The men hear the women and the women hear the men, but nobody cares to overhear. That's just one side of it. We could go on and on and on, about how men see babies as objects while women see them as people (what a gift! I can't fathom it! It's just a stupid baby! but to them it is a person!). Or how it is the duty of men to make their women feel outrageously beautiful, even when they are not, and how male perversion is actually just the capacity to adjust lust to whatever shape his wife takes on over the years (we do love them old and fat, that's forgotten or forbidden knowledge now, we can adjust to loving them old and fat). You just have to collect all of these observations over years and constantly pay attention to the different energies and ways of the sexes and gradually the picture comes into view, and you look back at whatever insane Universal Eunuch Unsexed Unisex society you grew up in and just think "What the hell were they thinking? What in God's name are they doing?" .... so often this knowledge is accrued by men raising daughters and women raising sons, but with all the chaos and declining births it's all just accelerating into an abyss, so head the other direction!
>>25372383
I’m writing a book on How To Get a Girlfriend but it’s taking a while because I don’t have a girlfriend yet but when I do eventually get one (probably in a few ten years) i will finish the book and send to you personally (no worries I will find you.)Right now I am writing the Introduction which includes the setting and I’m setting the story up before I get the girlfriend. Unfortunately my friend made me watch pirate movie with him so now there are pirates in the book and I can’t write them out without changing the book entirely so they will be there. Only Man pirates sadly because as I said I don’t have a girlfriend yet
Can’t you just kidnap a little girl and brainwash her?
>>25372393I think we should start kidnapping teenage girls and raping them deep in the woods to start families. After a few successful pregnancies the girls will come around and be happy about the merciless raping, thankful even. We should start an underground men’s group, not about hurting women, but for creating families and rebuilding community. No cell phone or computers. Just kidnap and raping the jewish feminism out of them so they can blossom into happy, healthy, mothers. No birth control or cosmetic surgery or goyslop or private equity or venture capital. No female voting for immigrant rights or endlessly feeding niggers. This could be a reimagining of the 1950s, but in the woods, and all brides are teenage brides and every country with nuclear weapons nukes Israel twice.
>>25372485What the fuck is wrong with you?
>>25372383this is pretty good for understanding women
>>25372383Fuck me this thread is an abortion. Anyway OP your book is about the only good one when it comes to getting women because it doesn’t bullshit you. This place is full of bitter, ignorant men when it comes to women so don’t listen to the blackpilling, the book works. T. Read it when I was a spergy loser and now I’m engaged
>>25372461pretty much
imagine reading books about dating women, in 2026 lmao, you are completely out of touch, it's like going to the farmhouse to ask a farmer how to repair a tesla while the only thing he knows is how to care for horses
Not at all surprised to hear /lit/ simps for women despite all the evidence emerging. Learn to recognize that they're evil early, it'll make life easier for you
There's literally nothing I can think of that's more cringe-worthy than some genetic dead-end social outcast low status loser trying to "self-improve" to fit into society. It's like they're so far off the mark, I don't even know where to start with them. The average person, and even the above average person, just exists, and the things you consider "normal" just happen to them. No high school kid ever had to "improve himself" to get a girlfriend, he just existed, thought it would be cool and fun to play sports, and a girl was attracted to him and they were attracted to each other. There's no thought behind any of this, these things just happened through the natural flow of life, no "self-improvement" necessary. This is what happens when you're not a genetically dead-end, mentally ill freak, you never find yourself lying alone in bed one night wondering why you don't have a single friend or why you never kissed a girl at 23. You don't make a plan to stop touching your dick for six months so you can look a girl in the eye. You just exist, you go with the social flow, and you end up with a few girlfriends and FWBs in high school and college, then a wife, a nice job, a house, and some kids. If you missed out on that flow, it's probably because you're a complete genetic shit.
>>25373059nice copypasta
>>25372548Hmm be careful with this line of thinking. It's dangerous to think this way. Is it a insight in reality or is it you extending the enjoyment of a fantasy the "golden age" where men were men and women were women and we lived in harmony. It's a nice fantasy.
>>25372882>>25372383I'm 32. There's literally no point for me to engage in this. It's truly over.
>>25373204It doesn't really matter what men or women used to be. The reality is that relationships don't work anymore for whatever reason, either economic or political.
>>25372394actual NVKE - Women want status AND attention
>"And the interesting thing is if you do surveys of college students and you say to them, "Rate how important different characteristics are in relationships that you might be involved in," they will say that warmth is important, sensitivity is important, intelligence is important, compassion is important, a sense of humor is important, and they'll say that looks aren't important. But if you measure all of those things — Let's do it in a different order. If you send everybody out on a blind date and then you look at, after the blind date, how many of those people who are matched up blindly actually go on a second date, actually get together again, what predicts who gets together again? Was it the rating of warmth? No. Sensitivity? No. Intelligence? No. Compassion? No. Sense of humor? No. What was it? Looks. So we believe that looks don't matter and unfortunately they do."Dr. Peter Salovey, Social Psychologist, 23rd president of Yale UniversityAll you need to read. You're welcome lil bro
How to get a 7/10 woman in 2026 as a a typical guy:1. Fake or make being high status, as in more influential than 80% of men2. Fake or make being rich, as in making more than 80% of men. Be sure to flaunt3. Fake or make looksmaxxxing, as in looking better than 80% of men4. Have more upper body strength than 80% of men5. Have a juvenile, extroverted and social personality that you hone by watching romantic comedies and netflixthat's that absolute minimum.
>>25373446yeah, i ain't doing all that shit lol
>>25373204I have moved through many circles in my life (New Atheism, traveling with hippies, left wing political activism, blue collar labor, American Christianity, American university, traditionalism, North African Islam and others). One of the most surprising things I have discovered is that adopting a traditional view of sex and sexuality is a more significant personal, psychological and social adjustment than adopting belief in God after growing up an atheist. I have many friends from my past who refuse to speak to me because I won't repeat the talking points about gender. People I thought were dear friends became Ice Cold. My (liberal) family is perfectly comfortable with the idea of religion and don't mind hearing me refer to God, but we literally we have to remain totally mute on the subject of sexuality or it devolves into really strained arguments in a matter of minutes. I really was not prepared for that reality but now I have to live with it. So this post which says "it's dangerous to think this way" is not surprising to me, it's very much the perspective of liberals and it is true you will face huge backlash for thinking this way. Talking to other white converts to Islam, it is universally the most significant barrier/difficulty for westerners to come to terms with. It seems like a lot of the spiritual difficulties of westerners inclined to religion revolve around their own fraught sexual identity. For my part I was badly damaged by being raised in a "sex blind" home, where me and my brothers were given the same exact parenting as my sisters. I literally did not understand that men and women are different until my 30s, and my entire sense of being a "man" was in a state of great confusion/ignorance. I think most people in the west have fraught sexual identities nowadays and integrate sex into an entire toolkit of psychological defense mechanisms meant to protect oneself from "traumas" or traumatic difficulties encountered in childhood and adolescence. tl;dr, it's harder for a liberal atheist to go from modern sexuality to traditional sexuality than it is to go from no belief in God to belief in God. This fact warrants serious attention and remains somewhat mysterious to me. Any insights others have are greatly appreciated.
>>25373286Why? You’re just taking a defeatist worldview and then letting it be your cage. Worldviews are just ideas, experience is real. Its not like it takes a long time to overcome this shit either.
>>25373790>Worldviews are just ideas, experience is real.I have experienced nothing but ridicule from other people my whole damned life. There's something fundamentally wrong with me. I can't make sense of people and they can't make sense of me. Goes doubly for women.
>>25372391Genetics. Looksmaxxing is a cope from men equivalent to the women who think “shower and wear clothes” is good advice. Plastic surgery and hair transplants might bump you a single digit if all goes well. There are no 4/10s becoming 9s. There are also plenty who just look bogged trying to take their 6 to a 9. >>25372397Woman advice. >>25372497Can’t fake being antisocial. These people are autistic and will likely try going through your list like they can just check off the minecraft recipe and succeed.
>>25373803Then its a psychological issue to conquer first. Read Jung and learn to understand yourself.
>>25372383Stop trying and focus on yourself and the things you love, and she will literally come to you.I had a miserable experience until a few years ago, culminating with dating a psycho chick who tried to ruin my life, just so I wasn't alone. After that I said to myself I'm taking a break from this shit and looking after myself. A few months in, through some luck, I met what is now my wife. The fact that I wasn't trying to 'get her to be my gf' or do some fake shit, was what made the thing work so effortlessly.In short - stop trying to 'get' girls and focus on leading a fulfilling life by yourself, and the right person will come. Otherwise, you will be alone at best, or dealing with a tire-slashing, emotionally-blackmailing psycho at worst.
just stop caring
>>25373523Check Somananda Tantra school. Not because you need to believe or convert, but they provide an interesting perspective on sex and energy. It could help you understand why sexuality is a rather tricky subject to discuss. But like all things. Take a grain of salt, accept, reject whatever you wish. I wish you good luck.
>>25373446what romantic comedies and what netflix? there's a ton of dogshit of and on both
>>25375478Hell if I know, just watch whatever is trending. Follow their online footprint and see what they is common culture to them. You need to be able to relate to women and make them laugh like in their funnie netflix shows. This is where their brain lives, you'd better find a spot to fit in there
