i left the mlp community months ago, i miss the friends i made there and the memories i made during eponafest 2025. man, i left without saying anything and ghosting everypony, basically being a dick. i was coping with depression at the time.now i'm way better but... will i be welcomed again? should i just... change country for conventions and avoid my past friends?i feel like i betrayed them.
>>43144586what
You should explain what you were going through and apologize to them personally. Mental illness unfortunately often causes people to act in unpleasant ways and it's possible some of them won't forgive you but I hope they will.
>>43144587yeah.
>>43144589they asked how i felt and if there was anything they could do for me, i ghosted them and quitted silently. this also leaves me with the question: did they care for me? like yeah we talked and we were friends but they worried only once, i did not block them, this is why i am doubting if i will be welcomed. or... am i just being narcissistic?
>>43144586Coming from someone who avoided people his whole life, doing nothing is way worse.
>>43144596Let me rephrase this. Putting barriers between yourself and the real world is way worse.
>>43144596i should try talking to them instead of doing nothing. if i get insulted or just ignored i'll understand. this would leave me insecure doing cons tho, but eventually i'll make it.
>>43144600ur so real bcs of this man
>>43144586no worries, sometimes people just have bad times where they want to be for themselves (or at least think they do). a couple months is nothing, i have at times not talked to people for longer and then jsut jumped back in.
>>43144586You are seen and understood*Kisses your forehead*
Send them a message saying "sorry, had to help with a thing". They'll understand
>>43144586sure if you explain.don't get mad if they don't want to be your friend anymore though
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>>43144586We forgive you and love you!
>>43144586>monthsSweet child. A few months of silence will be forgiven by many if you briefly explain you were going through a crisis but have turned things around. It's true that some friendships might not recover from this if the other person perceived it as a break of trust, but you're still at a point that reaching out can mend many of them. Avoiding this talk and the inherent exposure of your vulnerabilities will only make things more painful and less likely to end well. t. a ghost who has burnt too many bridges
>>43144786Good hit
Kill yourself glimmernigger
