>Older Gen Z>Cant find a woman who even talks to me>sing in a band that gets good reception >mfw every single person around me gets chicks>Make angry music as a copeI hate it, I pulled myself out of a rut I've been in for five years. I made a band but still never leave the house except to go play shows and people say I am charismatic albeit in an autistic mad energy way. I get good feedback on my playing and singing. Yet still nobody fucking wants me. Am I too old now? Is it over? I got a bunch of matches this past few weeks and every single one stopped talking to me after a few hours or so. Why does it feel like everyone in the other bands get all the weird alt girls and I can't even bag one? Its a fucking joke
>>127830045your autism is massive if you are getting paid for shows and not fucking
>>127830067Not getting paid either. We havent been going long. But we always seem to stand out as the better bands on the same bill
i'm even older and just trying to make music friends and have no luck lmao. i hoped that i could get away with being slightly less charismatic if i were just good at music and playing shows but i guess i still need to actually talk to people and try to be normal
You probably come of desperate or like a rapist.
>>127830045>I made a band but still never leave the house except to go play showsyou should go to where you play shows on a day you aren't playing and see if you get recognized
>>127830045GG Allin smeared himself with feces and had a micropenis, and he still got pussy. If you're up there singing and playing, I guarantee there are women in the audience who want to fuck you. Do you just pack up and leave after shows or do you hang out, have a few drinks, and give chicks the opportunity to approach you?
>>127830243That wouldnt happen lmfao. I do tend to leave quite quickly after shows. I also don't drink alcohol
>>127830161Why;
>>127830318>>127830330you are giving yourself zero opportunity to fuck your female fans what is your problem?
>>127830045Anon, you are getting advice, if you don't listen to it and come out of this thread with a plan, I will pray that you get cucked for the rest of your life.
>>127830894What advice am I getting exactly? Also I'll be an incel for the rest of my life before being a cuck. Thats the crack
>>127831024stick around after the shows and talk to women and have a drink you dumbass. Also smear feces on youself
>>127830045Dude u gotta hang around at least an hour after you play. For chicks and also to support the other bands
>>127831529I do sometimes
>>127831146If I drink alcohol I become a self conscious retard and lash out at everyone. Havent had a drink for almost 3 years
>>127830045Because deep down, you don't really want some slut trash.
>>127831823Ok, so hang out after shows and don't drink. Have a soda water. How the fuck are women supposed to get with you if you never give them the chance? Do you expect them to figure out where you live and show up at your door?
>>127831857Be nice to experience it a few times. But yeah, sometimes I match some FTM tranny on the apps who is after "fun" only as they're poly. I just cant be bothered unless they're a gorgeous goth girl that so many of my peers have managed to attain (not the same one). Then again Im a fat slob so fuck me right?
>>127831860I don't know man, I try the apps they never go for me. I've approached maybe two women in the last 10 years who've rejected me? I am not exactly trying hard enough because I am sure I already know the answer
>>127831888anon you're a bitch who will continue to be trapped in misery if you don't stop being one
>>127830045>massive autistic sperg>y won't girls talk 2 me????:skull:
>>127830045Aging Millennial here, think it’s a generational thing. I only got laid through my band. What are you playing exactly ?
>>127836060Pornogrind