Imagine having a life so barren that you resort to fawning over pics of a popstar “waifu” who will never know of your existence in order to simulate human contact.
>>128222824Imagine having a life so barren that you make this thread.
>>128222838/thread
>>128222838T. Waifu fag
>>128222838>defending waifufagsare you the Maggie poster? Sorry about the Madonna thing.
Imagine reading this thread
>>128222903yes, and fuck off. /mu/ is a waifu board now.
>>128222903I hate waifufags, I don't know anything about them or their gay dramas and I don't care for this thread. It's all gay shit in my mind.
>>128222824it's either this or an endless void of unhappiness. it is what it is and it's not gonna get better
>>128222915Lmao. Retard.
>>128222824>>128223087I was a waifufag for a couple years (Marina) and in retrospect I can freely admit that mental illness is 95% of it. Once I got on the right meds and stabilized enough to hold a job and get laid, I lost all desire to post pics of celebrities marketed to teen girls. There’s hope for everyone, anons.
>>128223181This is exactly it. There are hotter, more interesting women than these pop stars all around irl and the internet, but these incredibly pathetic posters fixate on these individuals just because they're famous. And they're famous for being marketed to teenage girls. These posters are the same as little girls screaming and fainting at the Backstreet Boys.Glad you recovered, Anon.
>>128223181>Marinalol what a dog
>>128223181well good for you motherfucker. i hope i can get a life like you but that's the only thing i have. hope. what a joke.
>>128222824It helps lonely people by providing a parasocial outlet. You literally want anons to suffer in depression. Waifus cam motivate you and bring happiness to your life. Don't be an ugly person, anon, understand why they are doing it and that it helps them.
>>128222824let me fantasize about my waifu's feet in peace
>>128225243this
>>128223320>There are hotter, more interesting women than these pop stars all around irl Even if that's true (it isn't) those women woild ALL eventually betray you, cheat, lie, humiliate, accuse and steal from you. No exceptions. Waifus on the other hand are perfectly safe.
>>128226798Delusional
>>128225072NTA. I get what you’re saying but this is trading short term gain for long term suffering. Instead of feeling the burden to do things like develop social skills, work on appearance, and get healthier mentally + physically, an easy escape is available in the form of waifus.
Imagine caring about the integrity of /mu/ - Music this much
>>128222824Well what the fuck else can I do? I have no money.
>>128222824Do something else with your life then.
>>128227755Borrow a book from a library. Go for walks in nature. Draw drawings. Learn to read music. Play an instrument. Grow vegetables. Learn a foreign language. Begin a fitness regime. Join a club. Learn to sew. Become involved in local politics. Devote yourself to the occult.
>>128229345MONEY DICK
>>128229345nta but i do 6 of those, have a job, a gf, some good friends, and still have time to simp for Livvy
>>128229380Don't forget you're anti-psychotics. Thanks.
>>128227645I mean, you can do both. You can be healthy (I train daily) and still enjoy posting some feet pics of your waifu in the evening (I do that as well). No one says you need to be a slob to be a waifufag. On the other hand fuck social skills, people are terrible and women are insufferable irl.
>>128229345Waifufag here >Borrow a book from a library. I read books daily>Go for walks in nature. Walks are not my thing, but I swim every other day>Draw drawings. Not my thing. I have tried it before though.>Learn to read music. >Play an instrument. I'm musically stunted lol>Grow vegetables. I do! I have a garden and chickens as well.>Learn a foreign language. I have! I speak 4 languages.>Begin a fitness regime. No need to, because I;m already in shape from the swimming.>Join a club.Always seemed weird to me, no thanks.>Learn to sew. I can do that.>Become involved in local politics. >Devote yourself to the occult.These are extremely gay, no thanks.
>>128230074>healthy>fuck social skillsWe’re social animals, so I consider social skills a part of being healthy despite having separated them previously. I’ve had my fair share of cruel people in my life so I’m sympathetic. It takes work to find people worth being around.
>>128232015>It takes work to find people worth being around.I haven't found any, especially women in the romantic sense.>We’re social animals>social skills a part of being healthyThat's what parasocial relationships are for. To compensate.
>>128232050>womenAgain, sympathetic. It’s been hell. I finally just wandered up to someone at a grocery store who I’d talked to before and seemed really nice. Turns out she is really nice and things are working out. Hoping you find someone, I think good people are the best part of this world.
>>128222838incel deflection
>>128222838Too shae
>>128232324>I finally just wandered up to someone at a grocery store who I’d talked to before and seemed really nice. Turns out she is really nice and things are working out.Give more details, we need hopeful stories.
>>128232431I had gotten out of a really awful relationship about half a year prior - had spoken to this cute girl who worked at a grocery store a couple times, and she always seemed interested in talking. Wandered in at 6pm having not eaten anything that day, made a joke about it to her when I saw her and she prepared a cup of food for me on the spot. I wandered around the store eating it and built up the courage to go ask for her number. Got really red in the face and awkward as I asked for her number, but she gave it to me. Went on a date to a coffee shop and botanical garden - she was incredibly kind and funny the entire time. We’ve been dating for a few years now, and I’ve never felt more supported in my life. We’ve both taken time in the relationship to work on our issues with communication. I guess a key take away for me is that it’s easier to tell if someone is kind at first glance than I previously thought. I’ve whittled down my friend group to just kind people as well, and it’s been very good for me. I really hope you find kind people to hang with.
>>128232539Damn, good for you, anon. I hope it works out. You planing on starting a family with her?>kindnessYou know, I noticed some time ago that women have forgotten how to be kind. Young women that is. It's one of their greatest strengths, but it's rare as diamonds these days.
>>128232539I hope this story is true cuz it made me feel good. >We’ve both taken time in the relationship to work on our issues with communication.What does that mean? You talk things through instead of fighting?>>128232607That's a good point. Most I've met are vapid and vulgar.
>>128222824I do barren life and I still dont sink that low.
>>128232539I want to believe, but I've been hurt too much. I've given up.
>>128232607>familyI am, still need to get some things in order first. Like buy a house and grow my savings. I’m on my way.>>128232613>communicationI’ll speak from my perspective. I’m really inclined to get angry and defensive, and I’ve worked a lot on trying to not assume intent and instead be curious as to what others actually mean. The most recent example from my life - I’ve opened up to my father about some issues I’ve had and he has a habit of saying “well you know, x person also struggles with that.” I’ve always been defensive about that response and have gotten pretty angry - last time I just asked “what do you mean?” Led to a more constructive conversation where we learned about each other. There are thousands of ways that I’ve found I assume someone else’s intent instead of being curious about what they actually are trying to say. Pertains to every one of my relationships, romantic and otherwise because at the end of the day I’m still the same person in each encounter.Back to my romantic relationship - we still might bicker, but the bickering is always followed up with intrigue as to why we were at odds with each other. Slowly we’ve gotten a lot better at understanding each other, and being more clear with what we mean to say. Knowing the other person wants to be on your side makes all the difference. Even if I have a reaction to something she says, I know she isn’t trying to be a dick and will ask for clarification.
>>128232769>assume intentThis is one of my biggest issues when talking to people. I tend to assume the worst intent and lash out. I noticed it years ago and I think I have some improvement in that regard, but it's hard. Has to be based on a deeper character flaw.
>>128232686Hey man, I’m sorry. Truly. I’ve gotten cheated on and trashed for being weird in basically every one of my relationships prior to the current one. I tell myself that those people have no choice but to live with themselves - what an awful punishment. I got to choose to leave them and grow, even if it hurt me tremendously along the way. Likewise, you can spend time healing and growing while those people continue to have to endure themselves. I know that doesn’t make it easier in the moment, so again - sorry.
>>128232789Congrats on any improvement, it’s been really hard for me to even have small improvements. I chalk my issues up to being extremely sensitive (somewhat innate), and being around hurtful people (external). I think defensiveness is learned, so just like it can be learned, it can slowly be changed. The issue is that learning defensiveness is intuitive, we might have done it to protect ourselves from unkind people. Changing it requires active, regular reflection and input. And it requires one to be open about how things make them feel. I would hardly have said “I felt hurt when you did that” before - I’m now surrounded by people who will take that seriously and care enough about me that I won’t just get trashed anymore. It’s a two-way street and I have to understand that those same people aren’t probably intending to hurt me. I wouldn’t say shit like that here or to strangers, but I will open up to friends now.
>>128222824I have hung out with popstars. Imagine being you so ugly and untalented that you never will.
>>128222824I don't have to imagine, OP...but don't worry, I will kill myself eventually
>>128222838>a life worshipping a woman>a life lamenting the state of your communitygee, i wonder cumbrain: which has more substance
>>128226798>waifu shit born from fearYou shouldn't be willing to say this out loud.You should be typing this and having a sudden realization of how pathetic you are.
>>128233322neither one has more substance than the other
>>128233398the cumbrain response
>>128233117Based 100% honest post from Shankar of Calcutta
>>128233117lmao found the waifu nigger
>>128222838fpbp
>>128222824cool it with the hinduphobia
>>128222838>someone who notices a cultural issue>someone who jacks off and posts pictures of womenyeah i see your point, i'm getting sort of sick of sharing the internet with virgin simps
>>128233333Doesn't mean it's not true, does it? You people always attack the person not the argument
>>128233558Because the person presenting the argument is representative of it.
>>128233446I am from American>>128233471I'm not I just know at least 5 singers or bands you retards constantly make threads about. Nothing to do with KPop.
>>128233566That's not how it works, chump. Women are disloyal whores, simple as. I'd rather not get my feelings hurt like everyone else.
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>>128233574>Admits to being an incel, the number one reason to become a tranime victim.You have no idea how much you just proved my argument correct
>>128233581I like neither trannies nor anime. You gotta check that projection.
>>128233590You're an archetype, I know who you are."I'm scared to have my feelings hurt so I worship women from afar"you're either a tranime victim or a kpop nigger
>>128233664I don't like kpop and I despise troons. Got any kther archetypes? lmao.
>>128222824Fun fact: hypothetically, you literally have more chances to "get with" any other woman than those celebrity pop stars. E-thots, only fans whores, tweeter roasties, stripers, random street skanks, even normal fucking woman, literally almost anyone but the "pop idle".So yeah, the /mu/ obsessing over some washed up radio whores or even TV cunts is probably the lowest of the low forms of para social larp..
>>128233717if /mu/ left the house they could meet tomorrow's pop stars before they are famous but they will probably never meet the ones who already are
>>128222824It’s weird because the only men who genuinely enjoy wpop music are gays. Yet waifu posters are all heterosexual, so they pretend to like the music — which is very clearly aimed at a demographic that is half their age and the opposite sex — just because it makes them feel closer to the object of their affection in their minds.When you think about it, it’s really no different from Bronies, who pretend to like a TV show for children just because it brings them closer to a social circle. At least bronies are able to hang out in person and support one another. No waifu has ever reached out to provide any actual support to their creepy online worshippers.Waifufags are literally more pathetic and delusional that bronies.
>>128234059>Waifufags are literally more pathetic and delusional that bronies.that's not possible
>>128234059>Waifufags are literally more pathetic and delusional that bronies.No. Go read some KF threads about bronies and get back to me about that.
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