>be me>parents taught me all relationships are transactional, love is fleeting , life is generally miserable, and marriages always devolve into misery and divorce>they are both surprised when I am end up 36 no relationships and no interest in the worldWhat did they expect? Better yet why did they bother?
>>515464658this is politics board.
>>515464658Modern marriage is a scam. Use women but don’t get attached.
>>5154646581) Grankids, your parents are tard and expected you not to start thinking despite raising you in a first world country.2) Probably Allah points, you seem to come from traditionalist religions background where parents are incentivized by religion to reproduce for good deed points, don't want to pay people to make kids? Grant them good boy points, religion is evil.
>>515464880pol might as well be r9k atp
damn i guess buddha was right o algo
>>515464658My parents didn't even teach me that much, I gleaned it from all the unhappy marriages and apathetic male role-models I was surrounded by
I got married in my 20s, at the time it was the right thing to do but a decade later and now I'm wishing I never did it. A lifetime commitment is a long time it turns out. Its something you know when youre young but dont really understand until you live it
>>515465002About what? That retard was married and had children, he just had a crisis after seeing old people and got into a psychotic crisis that lasted his whole life
>>515465332did she balloon in her thirties? ballooning is big problem here
>>515465332There has to be reason to explain your frustration, your wife probably got fat and ugly
>>515465962about suffering o algo
>>515465969No, just when I got married I was broke and had no options so I settled for someone I wasn't really compatible with. I love her but I'm not in love with her as we dont have anything in common. I was just in denial about it when I was young and in my imagination I thought we'd develop and get closer over time do stuff together yada yada but actually if you're not compatible in the first place its not going to change no matter how many years pass.
>>515464658You have no relationships at 36 cause you're ugly or autistic lmao. Nothing to do with your parents yoh got scammed by turbo feminist society over things you can't control.
>>515464658>parents taught me all relationships are transactional, love is fleeting , life is generally miserable, and marriages always devolve into misery and divorceUnironically this is the most destructive psyop millenials/Gen Z were taught. Boomers fell for the sexual revolution meme so they don't know that love entails sacrifice, and they passed this bloodline-ending failing onto their children.
>>515465969That is not the problem, the problem is that some men havent realized yet that marriage is a joke nowadays, most brides arent virgins or wife material at all but besides that, marriage is for betas, even more nowadays, Chads only get married when they cant pull any more Stacies, life is as simplistic and animalistic like that
>>515465332>A lifetime commitment is a long time it turns outNot if you have some form of control over your wife like all men in the past did.If you have 0 control and she can act however she wants yeah you're fucked, you got scammed by feminism
>>515466218At no point OP expressed that he is suffering, he's just confused about their parents reaction to his single life In his thirties
>>515464880sir this is the incels and twitter screenshots store.
>>515466368Women used to be more decent before the 1960's sexual revolution. After they were allowed to do whatever they want it was over.
>>515466538Only a mentally ill faggot would not be suffering at 36 with 0 relationships until then. Men need women, you have to be actually insane to believe otherwise.
>>515466691Projecting much? I never felt the need for a woman in my life. They are all so interchangeable and worthless and hollow even more so than the average man.
>>515466243Men are too afraid to be perceived as creeps and nowadays as incels and prefer to get with someone they dont have anything in common, the thing is, who you think is compatible with you in that sense its probably not, just because a woman shares interests with you doesnt make her a good girlfriend let alone wife
>>515466368be mei'm the same, but i'm 29 and i've never been in a relationship before. i've always been told that i'm too good for people, but i've had a lot of great times with girls, and i've never been happier
It's time to start taking responsibilities for your own fuck ups
>>515466432He's stuck with the first woman that pay attention to him only to find out that she is an stranger in an emotional sense
>>515466691Who suffers for that when the state of the average western woman is terrible? what is missing the average man? Getting cucked? Getting feminist lectures? Getting to stand her male friends?The list of bullshit is endless, I kinda would get your argument If youre just talking about sex but when it comes to relationships modern women are horrid
>>515464658Damn dude now your parents have to buy you a burmese green card wife from the deepweb. Is that what you wanted me to say? Fuck off
>>515464658I would sympathize, but lately I have met people in your age group who say similar things to shift away blame for living as if> all relationships are transactional, love is fleeting , life is generally miserable, and marriages always devolve into misery and divorceYour parents stopped having any influence on you since your young tweens. Your actions during the last 10-15 years are your responsibility.It's extremely difficult to change, but not impossible. Do something. Start small. Baby steps. And take betrayals for granted in the beginning.
