Recently, I keep seeing commotion about gender roles. About men manning up and being manly provider men for women.I was born in 1990. In my city, I grew up surrounded by messaging that men and women were equal now. That both husband and wife would be "providers", and if one person had to focus on managing the kids while the other one focused on advancing their career, those roles would be decided between the two mature adults who had decided to call each other partners in life. Mirrored roles, basically.In other words, things were ALWAYS going to be more complicated and sucky, and maybe both partners would have to work, but it's worth it for the principle of equality. If I were a woman, I sure as shit wouldn't want to feel I was forced to get a husband if I wanted to get anywhere in life.Lately, there's been so much finger-pointing, both online and offline. A lot of women I date have more or less been living a Hot Girl Decade, and now have huge egos, fried dopamine receptors, no savings, victim complexes, but still claim it was "ALWAYS" their "DREAM" to be a SAHW, even the ones that don't want kids.>"It's not fair! I can name some women I've met who got to live my dream! I should have it too, at the expense of whoever can give it to me! It's not fair to me me me me me!"
>>521014075continued.Unfortunately, as many of you guys know, a woman can flip-flop-flip-flip her wants, opinions, and actions her entire life depending whatever problem she needs to solve right now, and society will still side with her no matter what. I can do most of the work, most of the financial saving, most of the chores, most of the cooking, none of the demanding and arguing, none of the hysterical screaming and crying, and even my own parents will imply that I put off marriage (and grandkids) because I'm just using her for the sex we don't actually have. When you go everywhere with the same women, it's just fucking BIZARRE how much gravitational pull they have on other people's beliefs, attention, and sympathy. When I go to social events, millennial straight dudes sit around looking like haggard alcoholics, while everyone else bounces around like 15 year old children on Adderall, excitedly bragging about sex and sexism and weed and partying and victimhood. Society has a major learned helplessness problem.What the fuck am I supposed to think about gender roles today in 2025? I'm flexible and open-minded. At this point I want society to tell me what to think. Just be fucking consistent about it, man. During elections, I always reluctantly vote for blue team, but god damn it was painful watching the DNC try to squirm out of acknowledging the elephant in room reason why they lost. Not sure what I'll do next time.
that's what happens when you let feminists take overthey constantly scream "LE PATRIARCH SOCIETY" while insisting that men are supposed to take on the brunt of the work in any relationship and also shut up and never complain about anything and always kneel to women
>>521014075bump for the effort. don't see that much anymore.
