What’s with everyone having some sob story lately?I can’t even talk to normalfags anymore or they will start blubbering about their dog dying or how their dad beat them or something.Is this the result of Therapy culture? Because half the people I meet nowadays are like walking around with a loaded diaper ready to shit themselves and whine if you’re polite to them once.
>>521902057What country are you in? You’re sharing a country specific anecdote
>>521902109Canada
>>521902137Which city?
>>521902057boys dicks are mutilated as soon as they are bornand you are asking why they are upset or have a sob story?maybe stop cutting their dicks up?that's a good starting pointthen try not terrorizing them their entire livesand then sending them to die in a fake warcould we start there? instead of starting by shaming individuals?
>Is this the result of Therapy culture?I heard some woman say she took a mental health walk instead of just a walk. Therapy culture has made people so much weaker.
>>521902278Most people need a beating or a hugProbably both at the same time.
>>521902278>listening to a womanwhy was she walking around in public instead of at home with her husband?
>>521902057You're a jewish cringe piece of shit AnonYou're too "strong and independent" that's why and clearly "all knowing" about life too
>>521902347let's start with beating you :) gonna volunteer?
>>521902348why are you posting on this board instead of providing for your family?
>>521902412jews
>>521902351I am Sick of tedious crybabies who lore dump on you their entire dark twisted backstory if you dare strike a conversation with them.
>>521902422sounds like you weren't ready for interaction if you can't handle people telling you how they really feelmaybe you should just fuck off
>>521902173All of them. Triggered culture has infiltrated everywhere
>>521902057It's the result of social media conditioning everyone to believe that they are important enough for everyone else to care.People who have had to go through horrible shit usually don't talk openly about it, either because they're closed off from fear of it being used against them, or because they don't want to overload their friends/co-workers, or whatever the case may be.
>>521902422>wahhh other people talk about their problems and it upset meyoure even weaker than they are. entire thread is filled with whiny faggots.
People just need to start being bullied and ashamed again. Next time a stranger traums out on you be like “damn, it’s kind of crazy they way I didn’t ask”
feel sorry for meNo I won't feel sorry for you. What are you, crazy?
>>521902490>you should be a sociopath and not expect basic politeness in interactionsno fuck you and your behavioral sink
>>521902057Victim status. Due to shit like America got talent, undercover boss, etc. You make some sob story in hopes people give you support often in money or connections. So they think make some story and post it they can panhandle on sites like the homeless do and they will get people to pity them enough to drop money in their paypal or something.
>>521902609retard detected
>>521902057Just say "Woah there, I got my own problems. I don't need to hear about yours"
>>521902564Basic politeness includes not telling everyone about your personal problems
>>521902711This, I get it if it's with a friend or a family member but some random you definitely don't need to hear their shit they are just looking for something from you
People wear their mental illnesses as a badge of honour now too, it’s beyond pathetic. “I’m part of the audhd community” like nigger for one u just made that shit up and secondly you think self diagnosis is heccin valid!! Just say you’re a lazy, narcissistic, retard who has nothing else to do but think about yourself and conjure up shit that’s wrong with you because you live such an easy coddled life. The internet was a mistake. I think they also do it to be different. Being normal is the new different . Flex being unmedicated and undiagnosed right in these normies faces. Especially the retarded bpd chicks that are prescribed enough medications to kill a medium sized dog
>>521902862then don't initiate the conversation, quite simplefor a thread about "proper social conduct"it's hilarious you guys are framing yourselves as victimswhich is the thing you apparently hateit just beggars belief
“Damn… you’re on like ten different medications that sucks haha. Ya I have nothing wrong with me :) Even if I did tho I wouldn’t want to be medicated too many meds cause weight gain, and other gnarly side effects but I can see you don’t mind!”
>>521903072“Wow it sure is chilly out today!”“I was raped by my uncle when I was nine my gf left me for my dog and i think i might be trans” This is normal etiquette to you???
>>521903211>>521903102lmfao, when you put it that way its actually funnyno that is not a normal interactionbut i tend to avoid people that look like they are wanting to trauma dump me
>>521902057I want to fight. That's why I'm sad. Society won't let me let my rage out. I want to see blood, theirs, mine, I dont care, but I'd rather it's theirs. I'm tired of deferring to people who aren't as smart, or paying as much attention, to anything, as I am. I'm sick of being told there are adults in the room making rational decisions to benefit all of us. I am sick of being told this is a meritocracy, and seeing only nepotism. Let's fucking go. I'm tired of working towards a goal that will be ripped from my hands the second I grasp it. I'm tired of fight people with more money than me, for land and culture I have occupied longer than them. I'm tired of the threat of homelessness or starvation if I refuse to pay a boomer with more than enough, for a space to exist. I'm tired of being threatened with prison, for making something wrong, right, right now, and being told to wait, for the perpetrators to just stop on their own. I'm sick of being told I'm blessed because I'm a white man in America, when I'm against the fucking wall. I'm sick of bowing to the gentry. I'm sick of being told there's no place for me in the society I was born into. I'm tired of having my voice drowned out by robots. I'm tired of being told there aren't enough resources, that other people know better, and that people with no conscience are superior. I'm tired of being told that a product will save me. I want blood, I'm just waiting for my window.
>>521902490This hit close to home. I see my friends happy and I simply don't want to ruin their mood. I'll never be fixed.
>>521903401i hear you, brother
>>521902057Its a big problem, people used to have it way worse than us but people today whine more than anyone, its so pathetic i feel physically ill. Please shut the fuck up i dont even care if you are dying.
>>521903383Some will strike a convo with the intent to trauma dump. I’ve had it happen so many times they’re like:Gay retard: hey how’s it going Me: ya I’m good and you Gay retard: really shitty here’s my life story Me: damn that’s crazy
>>521902057Feel sorry for me i was repairing toilet yesterday for 14 fucking hours straight but at the end i managed to do it i installed it like a professional just from youtube videos.
>>521903744there is a fine line between being a sociopath with no empathy (detrimental)and avoiding people trauma dumping, (detrimental)but my takeaway is that these people are obviously in pain and need reliefwhy wont i provide it?listening for a few moments isn't a big dealand might have a huge impact on themwhat are you in such a hurry for anyways?
>>521902057I blame food network.
>>521903383My point is a lot of people do this, like have a few casual conversations with people and suddenly they are telling me their big sob story of how their grandpa died and how no one wants to play golf with them follower by pressuring me to become their sidekick or something.Just my sign to not interact with them again.>>521903401>I want to fightNo you don’tYou want to think of yourself as someone who wants to fight
>>521903990It’s bc we live in a culture where people are praised for being whiny retards with mental problems. They think it’s cool to have something to whine about and are probably ecstatic this happened to them bc now they have an excuse to get sympathy. We live in a society of proud and perpetual victims. Bunch of bitches proud to be pussies
>>521904256that's complete garbage you just lack empathylike i said, it's an extremely fine line
>>521902057it takes a long time to cry your last year. especially when everyone is constantly told it's okay to be an emo retard. It'll happen for you eventually though, sooner or later. faggot.
>>521902057This is the result of internet and social media.Look around at any comment section anywhere on the internet. It is full of bullshit angry and sad stories. Look at normal media it is all about what horrible things are happening right now. It is bad information induced trauma. And the whole world is gobbling up this propaganda and feel like shit afterwards.
>>521904313nothing wrong with lacking empathy. people having an over blown guilt complex is what started all this
>>521904313>lack empathyLmao why are people expected to be some sort of emotional support blanket for every self absorbed twat out there?It’s one thing if it’s your friend or family or someone close to you having a personal conversation, but entirely another when your coworker or some acquaintance starts trying to throw a pity party for themselves over how horrible their life is and how everyone around them is literally hitler.
>>521904444it's not a sampling bias, things really are badbut keep putting your head in the sand
no (you)'sit's called psychosocial probingif someone tells you a story and you don't listenor make it about you, it means you aren't a safe personprobably because you lack empathyfunny that im getting dogpiled in this threadfor identifying the lack of empathy of people pretendingto be victimized by people who want to discuss something with another humanGod forbidthe kind of environment you animals belong in is a cagefight inside a cage if you have no empathy and cant be botheredto give a fuck about your fellow man
>>521904313Who cares why should I have empathy or sympathy for some random faggot wasting my time with their stupid attention seeking behaviour. I’m not interested in people’s drama. I’m not their butt busy they can go find someone else to hold space for them
then you can sit in a cagewhile humans enjoy each other and support each otherwe can turn you into a zoo exhibit
>>521904481it's a culture of perpetual weakness. if you don't let other crabs drag you back into the bucket you get blamed for them being in there.>what you're better than me?yes>haven't you been through hard times?yah but I didn't handle it like that>WHATS WRONG WITH YOU PSYCHOPATH?
>>521904694incorrect, most people's "success" is due to environmental luck and exploitationin one way or anotherwhen you actually peel away all the ideology and see the mechanicsyou start to see it's just a machine to control peoplebut there is this hyperindividualistic mindset (your's)that incorrectly layers ideology on top of social machinerybasically your analysis is worthless since it is reductionistic
>>521904680How am I in a cage bc I don’t want random losers talking about their variety of mental health problems. If anything they’re the ones caging themselves by letting their made up problems rule their life
>>521902137So basically faggotry has gone unchecked in Canada due to liberals so now this is what we get.In a real country, when someone is acting like a faggot you tell them to stfu
>>521904786you're impying I'm anti scocial because I dont care about people's feelings>hang around weak people>become weaksimple as. like your short friend who bitches about never having a gf instead of stfuing and lowering his standards/fucking hookers. or the boomer who cant get over how cucked society is. they are all on this board and you will meet them. same exact faggotry as being a libtard.
>>521904578>funny that im getting dogpiled in this threadYou're even a victim right now lol
>>521904849i don't want to live in stab and grab world (like i already do)so i want to be around people who have empathyany other world is not worth living inif we are going to do the mad max thing, let's cut the society bullshit outand just start fightingotherwise, if we want to have a decent societypeople who lack empathy need to be kept inside zoo exhibitsas a warning
>>521905058i dont have friends because i dont want others to drag me downbut this doesn't mean i am going to be contemptuous towardsrandom people in public because i am in a hurry to go to mcdonalds or somethingand they are asking for a crumb of human interaction
>>521905060newsflash, we are all victims of a fake and gay societylearn empathy
>>521905159This isn't Chopped or Top Chef. Your sob story is not going to win you an award here.
>>521905118who says I have contempt they are an endless source of entertainment. there's a difference between thinking youre better than other people and knowing. If you know the hate isn't there at all, I always offer pragmatic advice and ignore people who don't take it, if I see them as allies. If not I intentionally manipulate.
>>521905072I think you’re just one of those trauma dumpers and got butthurt that people aren’t stoked to listen to your shitty problems. Newsflash pal the reason society is gay rn isn’t because you don’t have infinity strangers to tell your problems to, it’s because of jeets jews and niggers
>>521902057It's because everything is bad now, these are dark times and it tends to make people focus on all the bad things in their life.
>>521905244i dont talk to people in publici dont talk to my family about what i actually think/feeli am polite and try to hold space for othersit's that simpleothers cannot handle the shit in my headso i dont bother them with itdoesnt mean i cant be bothered to see/appreciate another personor just listen for a moment (oh the horror, im delayed by five minutes to get to mcdonalds)
>>521905233theres always a bigger fish
>>521905072>stab and grab worldit always has been, have you ever seen a national geographic doc? by all means though keep living a lie if it makes you feel better but know that makes you kind of a woman. that's why they are completely untrustworthy
>>521902564Thanks anon I learnt a new term 'behavioural sink.'
>>521905202i like underdogs thoughpeople born with environmental luck are kind of boring
>>521905437no it hasn't during Christendom's reign in Europeit was a high trust homogenous societythe opposite of what we have now
>>521905456you're welcome, calhoun's experiments are a gold minein my opinion, he was obviously extremely intelligent
>>521902057Too many people and too much internet means attention whoring will rise. People want to feel good about themselves but everyone does the same stuff and you go online and you’ll see some 10 year old Asian doing the things you do better than you can ever do themI personally have done therapy and I do not want to ever tell people the things I discussed in that meeting IRL. Poor therapist got a lifetime of my problems including my porn addiction and all my most embarrassing experiences that have haunted me for years. Turns out there’s a high likelihood I was molested and it’s really not something I want to talk about except anonymously
>>521905398Why are you only ever going to McDonald’s what is wrong with you. Maybe I don’t like people trauma dumping on me bc it’s draining and I don’t want to hear it. People like that want to transfer their gay shitty energy onto you that’s why some of them do it. One time I was winning at slots and some random loser came up to me watching me slay and he started talking to me about how he lost then I started losing. I called him out for it too. What an asshole. Anyways it’s the same principal. I stay away from people down on their luck bc they carry that shit with them and they want to curse others
>>521905456>stoicism is a behavioral sinksure it is kid>>521905512>christendom's reignyou mean the one that got subverted by like 300 rich Jews? it's good to learn from the past. those retards who cry in church to this day and dress like dorks are a holdover from that and make us God fearing people look like fags.
>>521902057We live in an extraction culture where social relationships are something to exploit for profit. Making one's self out to be a loser is a defense against this. Just another consequence of living in a low trust society.
>>521905552so your stuck in a cage with other mice and your choice is to be one of the beautiful ones. what a retard.
>>521905707the mcdonalds thing is to show the average person is not doing anything importantthey rush around the grocery storerush around the streets to... go to mcdonalds 15 seconds fasterpeople are not doing anything important or noteworthy,yet they cant be bothered to listen to their fellow manthis is incredible when you really examine what's going on and peel awayall the fake ideology and storiesi dont even disagree with you on the energy stuffbut if you want to live in a sanitized sociopath worldwhere nobody talks and nobody solves problems, by all meansi for one, treat my fellow humans how i wish to be treatedand that means, i want to be seen heard and appreciatedso i will do the same for them, it's as simple as thatwhen someone is struggling is exactly when they really need someone to listeni wont become a sociopath so i can not be accostedon my way to mcdonalds or whatever im not that important
>>521905777i tried the whole start a family thing, i was rejected
>>521905708subversion is part of the processwe are undergoing transformation now as a resultcf. nigredo
>>521905868>>521905919ah there it is. who didn't. seeing as you're going to be fighting those normies for the right to be alive in 5 years I'd say time to nut up but do you Anon. 2020 was a light dress rehearsal for whats coming. there will be no time for feeling once they flip their switch again and dox us all. you wont survive.
>>521905708Stoicism as presented is not practiced by anyone. Stoics today do not hold edgy opinions and risk hardship and death, it’s a watered down version to help the slaves cope with their slavery
>>521902057This. I cant even hang with people without it turning into a therapy session I went on a date in years and the woman started crying about her “trauma”
>>521906084incorrect I hold very edgy opinions I just lie about them until I'm around another one of us.
>>521906114staying away from fatties helps with this issue.
>>521906035>you wont survivewe will see, but my opinion, is that i am way ahead of the curvei also don't think your FUD has purchasethey aren't going to "flip a switch and dox everyone"all the jannies got doxxed a few months ago and nothing happened
>>521906144yes, it's necessary to conceal certain thoughts and opinionsbut people have a way of probing each other and figuring out who can handle it
>>521902057People have shit conversation skills these days and bitching about stuff in their life that bothers them is the only thing that comes to mind. Once upon a time people had basic observational and conversational skills and could at least appear to politely take in interest in some detail of your outfit, your car, something you're holding or something you appear to be doing. Now nobody has a frame of reference for anything so they fall back on what they know, and all they tend to know is whining and medicalizing self inflicted behavioral issues. The issue seemed to become noticeable in late millennials and it really took off like a rocket with zoomers. More often than not if they aren't working blue collar or actively in some sort of club that meets in person they'll have absolutely nothing to talk about even if you prompt and prod them. It's bizarre.
>>521906245it wasn't a mass hysteria event like the coof was. that was just an easy hack that was bound to happen because the admins treat this site like potholes in ireland
>>521905868Dude just stop going to McDonald’s stfu. You don’t know what’s going on in someone’s life. Maybe they had a bad day too and are going for a walk to decompress and don’t want to have to listen to someone’s bs. Maybe someone is grocery shopping alone finally without their kids and then some asshole ruins it by starting an unwanted conversation about their bullshit ass life. Have u never thought maybe people who trauma dumping on strangers are narcissistic. They think they’re so high and mighty that strangers must stop what they’re doing just to hear whatever bullshit is on their mind? Hire a therapist or if therapy is too expensive then hire a cheap hooker to listen to your bs problems for an hour instead of picking some unlucky stranger to have the displeasure of speaking to you. And I do treat people the way I want to be treated. I don’t look or speak to anyone
>>521906114For real. I jokingly offered free therapy for my fellow guild members on WoW and like 3-4 people unironically wanted me to be a therapist for them. I should have done it just to see what these dudes would have said. I think people really just want to be listened to now and are lonely.
>>521906327and look at the fallout of covidnobody trusts experts or media anymoreit was a one time thing, they burned all that social capitalthey try pulling that shit again, nobody will budge
>>521906356>I think people really just want to be listened to now and are lonely.clearly, look at the world you live in. it fucking sucks we are all slaves
>go out for a smoke>some from the office is at the smoke pit, doesn’t usually come out so I try to have some polite convo with her since it’s just two of us and one way older guy>chat about some casual things>she suddenly starts having a breakdown about how her dad is dying with dementia and she’s paranoid about being single after her BF dumped her and so on>try to finish my cig asap and tell her “wow that sucks” then leaveIf my wife wants to cry about something then I’m happy to listen to her because I know she’s there for me, but I’m not going to be some psychiatrist to the girl I sometimes say Hi to while getting coffee at work.
>>521906356should've charged half the price better help does for "counseling". I found out anyone can be a "counselor" when I worked at a church for awhile.
Like oh mah gah it's hip to be a victimI'm totally holocaustmaxxing my aura pull.Give me like, all the internet creds. Like and subscribe
>>521906408you mean 20 percent of white men don't trust media or experts anymore, everyone else bought it.
>>521906487i work in customer servicei routinely encounter people who just want to interact and be listened tothat's it, that's all they wantand they are so grateful when someone finally gives it to themi see it every single daypeople should stop being so stingy with their time and energy
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>>521906550you are a masochist.
>>521906547no, i mean that the average person who ate up everything during covidregrets it. ask them how many boosters theytook and they will nearly ALL be ashamedonly die hard true believers dont feel ashamed about colludingwith the fake pandemicif you deny there are social costs to pulling that offyou are simply being willfully ignorant
>>521906592you are a sociopath
>>521906487My version of therapy would be ultra ring wing kacznyski-esque therapy though. I'd coach them through the power process and explain surrogate activities to them. I wouldnt be a liberal whiny therapist.
>>521902278Truth is, women were always insane.
>>521906606you clearly aren't in the threads on here about it theres always like 80 people spamming the thread with the official narrative>>521906636you mean I'm smart? thank you and I rebuke your Jewish psycho babbble in the name of Jesus.
>>521906709i simply held a mirror to your faceyou were the one who started trotting out clinical words
>>521906680my boy. the surrogate activities pill always hits normies hard which is why it's a great place to start actually
>>521902490>social media conditioning>>521902057>Therapy culture>>521902609>Victim status>>521904035>food network>>521904578>psychosocial probing>>521905732>extraction cultureits the government and the way the government* gives the woman the mans kids and all his stuff if she tells a sob story* gives young adults special treatment in government indoctrination day prison if they say theyre sodomites or disabled* gives women and minorities neetbux if they say theyre disabledbasically this government must be destroyed so the american people can survive
>>521906756Oversocialization too. Damn, maybe we're onto something.
>>521902057Ha, ha! This is like a SOB story in itself, anon! Life is like a video game without the autosave: you cannot actually 'go back' to that pivotal/special period or time frame in your memory. I practice flattery all the time. Complimenting women on their good looks or lifting-up a brother's spirits. You don't have to endure others' laments, but most of us will at least patiently listen to the old sob story and offer a hankie. And lets not make light of the passing of K-9 companions... my dog is such a sweetheart and I struggle to imagine a life without the zany creature.
>>521905868>rush around the grocery store>rush around the streets towhy dont they have any stability in their lives>>521905732why dont they view their relationships as permanent
>>521906805the silver lining is that all the above is proof it's designed to destroy itself and be dysfunctional.
>>521907010>practice flattery all the time. Complimenting women on their good looksonce upon a time the word for that was pandering
>>521902057Ever since the covid hoax I stopped interacting with the goyim cattle. I just look through them and pretend they don't exist. I don't even greet them or acknowledge their presence. I'm not staring either, I'm just looking straight through them as if they weren't there.My life has significantly improved. I am at peace.
>>521907277me too. It felt different when there was the nagging guilt that you could be wrong about them but that set me straight. life has improved vastly now that I see them as irrelevant.
>>521902422First of all, traumadumptuesday is a trust exercise that unifies everyone. Second, no one who was really traumatized is crying.
>>521902057Individualism makes people think they’re the main characters
>>521902057its an american who asked someone if they feel well but he didnt want to really hear how he felt, its just bullshit of the anglo culture.no one cares, no one ever cares. the anglos are at a stage of realizing that not only the entire world hates them, they all hate each other and its because theyre the biggest fucking aholes humankind has ever seen.
>>521907698says the guy whos entire country feels guilty about something that never happened.
>>521907017>666k views
>>521907698This all started when anglo culture went from a warrior based culture to a merchant culture. Everything becomes 'for sale' and has a price. Utilitarianism is a cancerous ideology, and it's an anglo invention.
>>521907277Covid was lit. They printed off free money for us all to party. The summer of CERB will be remembered for generations. Still not vaxxed
>>521907899this I could agree with but to be entirely accurate everything and everyONE was for sale during 500 AD
>>521907899Anglo/English culture was literally never a warrior culture Even the Anglo Saxons were mercenaries and pirates, then traders.
>>521907755people must get over their egos. you always say kabbalah is bullshit but it teaches you to dissolve the ego. this is helpful.
>>521908017Any idea of England being a militaristic society was entirely isolated within the Franco-Norman aristocracy and then eventually the German Aristocracy.
>>521908050ego is helpful if applied in existential sense.
>>521907017>why dont they have any stability in their livesthey are completely controlled by outside forcesno internal peace or securityyou see it when a person has truly suffered and come out the other side strongerthey have a different energythe are unflappablebut the jumped up ones who are on a house of cardsthat was erected at someone else's expense?internally they lack coherence, they are dependenton what others give them, status, validationso fundamentally they are weak, despite their economic statusthe rushing around is just elaborate coping with being directionlessand having no peacebasically, being out of connection with God
>>521907107absolutely agreedcf. cloward-piven strategy
>>521902057>Is this the result of Therapy culture?It is. Feigning toughness when your emotions are messed up is probably not the best thing to do, but i think that venting out will likely not fix anything and sometimes even make it worse. It makes them emotional about fucking everything, their story becomes more and more complicated and annoying. It's like religious zealots who cant stfu about their experience. It's like drugs, because you seek an emotional relief but it gets increasingly harder to find it. That's why jordan petersons vocabulary is ridiculous, because he thought he'd find meaning in complexity and symbolism.These people are usually of above average intelligence but they're still retarded cattle.
>>521908146>the wicked flee when no one pursues>but righteous are bold as a lion
yr all typing like yr holden caufield put down the fuckin nietzsche and stop trying to pretend that yr not all fumbling ur words when these people talk to you and encouraging them to dump on you. if yr not trying to hear how people are maybe don't greet them with a "how are you" and just say "hello"
>>521902057They aren't getting dicked down or sucked off enough
>>521909481yeah, and whose fault is that? women of coursethey make everything impossible
>>521908608I prefer "piss off"
I think we can all agree that trauma dumping is pathetic. When was the last time you over shared to someone and felt good about it afterwards? Learn to confess your sins and hardships to God instead, and He will welcome you with open arms and also give you strength and wisdom to continue onward, if you ask for it with sincerity in your heart.
>>521902057There's no shortage of bad people doing bad things to themselves and others. Don't like hearing about it? Avoid people. Easy.
>>521903744It's a sign of the planet's spiritual evolution. People are becoming more aware of who they are and who they could be. Will you allow yourself to be their mirror? Will you shape their thoughts as you would clay?And what do you do with your own thoughts, your own trauma?
>>521902057Learned helplessness, the world is too complex and confusing for people so they give up
>>521913340this actually makes perfect sense>>521906805correct, the system is designed to break downwhile a few well positioned people slurp up all the benefitswhile it's active and after it crashes
>>521902057Hey memeflagYour psyop thread doesnt work, whats wrong with polite. Prophet mohammad was polite to all wasnt he?So you being polite isnt real politenessYoure faking itGot it