What sort of parenting do you think leads to a neet; which is ultimately a usually young man giving up on life? My cousin had a BPD mother and a pussy whipped father and he was never allowed to do anything because of his mother neurosis and if he dared rebel and by rebel I mean go outside and play with me or other kids his mother would sick his father on him and “put him in his place”. End result is a 34 year old man who has long given up on wanting or expecting things out life. He was denied being able to make his own choices or go after his own desires for so long that he simply gave up and lived vicariously online to the point where even if he wanted to he couldn’t function on his own now because his mother simply never let him grow as a person wanting him to be “her baby boy” forever. What’s sick is she has the fucking nerve to blame him for it whenever she feels ashamed of having a neet son by her peers. Why do parents do this to their children? Set them duo for lives of misery like this?
