Disregarding people who have disabilities or heritable disorders or live in poverty, why don't people want children?For example, my gf does not want children. Neither does her sister. I have no idea what her brother wants. They come from upper middle class and don't have money problems. It seems so strange to me. Even animals without any deep intelligence know to have babies. So what's the deal?
Calhouns rat utopia. Nuff said.
>>524122812Why would you have? There is literally no benefit from it. State provides safety net for you in old age
>>5241228121. Fear of childbirth, they've been fear mongered I to thinking they will die if they birth children. 2. They are selfish. They don't want to give up their freedom for the responsibility of caring for another person.3. This all goes away once they get pregnant unless they are psychotic. (Which most women are just a little bit crazy already.)
>>524123087>State provides safety net for you in old ageand who is that safety net subsisted by? take a guess
>>524122812https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oh_o_BvdKTQCope incels
>>524123288By immigrants ofc.Why would state use taxes for childcare if they can get labor-capable individuals out of thin air? Whole modern culture is driven by immeadiate benefit
>>524122812Um ready to have hundreds of children. I have good unvaxed cum. But I need a safety a guarantee that the state won't come after me demanding money from me
>>524122812for everyone i know without kids the reason is moneyi've seen my sister's budgetit costs her 50000+ a year per kid
>>524122812Their own bad childhood experiences prevent them from wanting kids.So do perceived costs.The fact that old age pensions require 4,5 full-time taxpayers per single pension doesn't matter to them, they don't think about that, someone else can go have the kids and pay taxes.But the someone else is a foreigner who costs the economy $200k over his entire life, making 0 net contribution to the economy, being nothing but a drain.And his children cost that too. And the grandkids cost that too, and those grandkids are the ones who are supposed to be paying the taxes to fund pensions. Uh oh. Should've had white kids, but that cost too much money. Now you have nothing, nobody, and regret
>>524122812You don't ask, you do
>>524123609So the next generation has to have more kids and the next even more. Then in a few generations we will have what 100 billion people ? Do you see how retarded thia system is?
>>524122812i dont want children because women are worthless whores who can divorce you and get 100% custody of the children.
>>524122812because marriage is illegal. God is cursing america because marriage is illegal>>524123530the cost is a lie. the actual reason is women know theyre more valuable to mr next with 0kids
Materialism. Because if this was strictly about costs and quality of life, your great great great grandmother who ate potato scraps wouldn't have given birth to 8+ kids. We live in a deeply materialistic world and people want to buy shit for themselves and damned it will be anything that gets in my way and my purchases. Having kids requires some selflessness, sacrificing yourself for your children that the materialistic husks don't have
>>524124246(1) women refuse to have replacement fertility(2) because they are all whores(3) because marriage is illegal
>>524122812I do have some illnesses and I am poor, but I have another explanation for not wanting kids: I don't like being around people and live as a hermit. People are generally awful. I have exactly 1 friend outside of my sister, and I married that friend. The chances that your kid will be brainwashed and turned against you is high. Once they interface with society, they'll mold in with it. Other parents are shitty and society is filled with the niggers and whores they produce.>mom never bought me that iPhone, she neglects me>dad works late, so he's a deadbeat>stacy and her rich family bought her a new car, why can't you>what do you mean I can't have an abortion? I'm 12, dad.Fucking annoying. On an extreme end, I've had at least one teenage family member attempt to exploit others for attention in the most evil ways. Even lying about her father (not sexually) abusing her, lying about attempts of suicide, etc. Just because they're cute when they're 5 doesn't mean they'll grow up to appreciate you. I also know a woman with the patience of a saint, but is a doormat. Her grown kids abuse every ounce of that kindness and never offer anything in return. She'll end up in a home despite being so loving.>tldr sometimes people just hate people and mask it
I used to want a wife and kids really bad in my early twenties but now I want neither.
>>524124246I do.Saw it as soon as I was educated on it at the age of 13 or 14 in school.Didn't know the requirement was that high. Wages being what they are and the figure being from 2017 when I learned what the requirement was, it's probably double now.Parents probably need to make 8 kids to fund 1 pension. They already needed 9 to pay for their own pensions, let alone someone else's.
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>>524124307factual>>524124357>Having kids requires some selflessness, sacrificingit is only a sacrifice if youre trying to position yourself for the next relationship. the ONLY problem is the government sending thugs to kidnap your kids and steal all your stuff when your wife decides to pursue mr next and the ONLY solution is to stop sending thugs to kidnap your kids and steal all your stuff when your wife decides to pursue mr next. vile amerifuck filth refuses because vile amerifuck filth wants to be destroyed by God. God hates america
>>524122812>my gf does not want childrenThen why the fuck is she your gf? Its culture and community the destruction of both, poor people have never gone extinct because they had a culture and they had communities. Independents dont make more families they at best have 1 kid then fuck off and divorce late 40's. The only groups in america with a 2.1 birth rate or higher that form families are the religious literally no exceptions the highest birth rate is the amish. >TldrFuck you fag get your gf and her sister pregnant or leave.
>>524122812I want to make white children but I'm not quite sure if I want to be a father. I'd rather stay the way I am.
>>524124555Christ-killers couldnt of made marriage illegal without the gleeful participation of 100% of americas so-called Christian clergy
>>524124357Its partly that but also as anon pointed out >>524123609they had a lousy childhood and fear they'll either put the kid through the same thing or they'll resent the kid for having it better than them.Then there is finding a guy to have a child with.Simps are often an additional child in relationships which is why women avoid them, they're too demanding. The child needs constant attention while the simp demands it instead of helping out (since she has no aunts or older sister and mom is on another cruise with boomer grandma or still working herself).Women actually can see into a hypothetical future of having to juggle some shitty office job, day care, and a guy who sulks constantly or leaves when he's not getting as much affection as his own newborn baby. Pretty much every woman by the age of 23 has witnessed this exact scenario among their friends. And they say, no thanks.This is a big reason they go for Chad or for men who ignore them while beta orbiter gives them the ick. They need a guy who is at least capable of functioning on his own while nursing a newborn or watching a toddler, which, if you have ever minded small children, have to be watched nonstop while they are conscious so they don't do something retarded that might get themselves killed.
>>524124644>>my gf does not want children>Then why the fuck is she your gf?presumably, she told him she was catholic and promised him marriage and children, then stopped going to church after she moved in with him, stopped saying she was going to marry him when he bought her a ring and got an iud before they started having seggz. if he kicks her out before she wants to leave shell accuse him of rape and if he doesnt disappear the moment she wants him to shell accuse him of rape. if she accidentally gets pregnant and he refuses to pay for the abortion shell accuse him of rape and 100% of aryan pastors, judges, cops, lawyers, teachers, doctors, and professors will side with her 500,000%
>>524124688this desu
>>524123397robots would be way better than rapefugees by a huge margin.
>>524122812what is the purpose of children?>>524123288me as I pay the fucking taxes
>>524124962ah, found the kike with VPN
>>524125331how common is it really in USA for women to use false rape accusations?
>>524125331GOD HATES THE ARYAN RACEGod is destroying the aryan race by denying them children> Therefore pray not thou for this people, neither lift up a cry or prayer for them: for I will not hear them in the time that they cry unto me for their trouble.
>>524122812Reminder the same sharty spamming tamers is the one spamming CP on /v/.
>>524122812This thread again. Endless sage
>>524122812I'm single and can't seem to find a nice, stable girl. It's boring, tattooed normies with zero personality as far as the eye can see.
>>524123530That's a bunch of shit, everyone has "money problems" of some sort. You think our grandparents didn't? Mine were poor as fuck & had like 6 kids, all of them turned out well.Go fuck you idiots.
>>524125623theyre taught to in whore school and coached in psychoTheRapist's debreifings
>>524122812children are fucking annoying, who the fuck wants to listen to babyslop all day while trying to teach the minime about how shit life works in the ZOG world when you can just play videogames instead?
>>524122812Because I'm a sub five male. The female sex sees me as a failure and a threat purely based on how I look.
Boomer women saw their daughters as sexual competition because boomer men lived in a time 12 was legal and their wives were all miserable evil cunts by 25 who realized that literally kids would be competition for them, so they sabotaged them and fucked them up leading to two generations of fucked up women.Now women think having kids destroys their bodies, or they need to wait till 35 to have kids and can party away and "have their fun" and then meet a guy.With millennial childlessness rates and the lack of women who want kids, ontop of the abortion and drug addiction destroying the population we are fucked,Now the chances of finding an unvaccinated woman are basically zero, ontop of being able to afford midwife and out of hospital birth so they don't forcejab your kid.Then women have unrealistic standards that exclude 92% of all men based on the 6,6,6 metric.Uhh, have fun.
>>524123204all the crazy women i know were normal before they got pregnant once most women get pregnant, they go looney
>>524128597Actually most based post in this entire website
>>524124900>Pretty much every woman by the age of 23 has witnessed this exact scenario among their friends. And they say, no thanks.Women wanting to go from the dude who plays COD all day and ignores her to the guy who's prince charming, has a horse and dresses in 1800 period clothing and is also a vampire is another funny reality too, women who bring up their ex was a drug dealer or constantly talk about how he's a bad boy are huge red flags too. Just get up and leave if they do this.One cool thing about zoomers over millennial women, is they dont talk about their exes. Its like id say 10% of anything thats ever come out of a millennial woman's mouth is them talking about their exes.
>>524128695Thanks fren.I've had alot of time to think about it, and the Milenial woman question since I climbed up a caste in life.I fucked alot of them when they were in collage and university and none of them actually wanted relationships or to settle down and work towards a future, then you have the reality of being a man and having to shell out money for your own place, car, and then have things in life, if you dont have (nice things) women arent going to invest time in being with you or forming a relationship., ontop of this her money our money is real. All of my homies are in financially abusive relationships where they contribute significantly more, also women dont cook or clean anymore and this is another huge issue where men, ontop of being 6,6,6 and a vampire or werewolf now need to, whenever she sees a stupid fucking TikTok, drop everything and recreate that dish in the kitchen she destroys every time she uses it, and never cleans because its not my responsibility and muh sexism. The reality of economics in 2025 is that if you arent given things, or start out in life with your parents helping you and financing you, you will be at a huge disadvantage versus someone who "works for" things they have.This shows around age 30 when its 250/mo for car insurance, versus anon who had his parents pay for lessons and Defensive driving and pays 80/mo,Or you have established credit and never had to play the ISF fee game, or poor people tax, or could shop at Costco and buy bulk, versus having to shop at the convenience store, or get a cab from Walmart. There are alot of disenfranchised men in society, but since I've been "doing good" people keep telling me I need to settle down and start dating single moms, >you dont deserve to have kids, you have to finance the raising of others with your labor.And this is a very, common belief towards people like me, they dont want to see us doing well, we need a ball and chain so we arent "getting ahead"
>>524122812> Even animals want to have babiesWe are animals programmed to have kids biologically. But we can also make a choice to not have kids. It's humans using their own agency and not just acting off base animal drives alone.
I'm glad me and my bloodline will never have to be apart of this cucked world ever again. I neutered myself desu
>>524128597Imagine being a man and being this neurotic Fucking must be terrible
>>524122812There's no one worth having children with
>>524123363Men will never accept they're the problem. They will cope by saying it's da jooz or something
>>524124962You're making up conspiracy theories about people :/
>>524122812I know a girl who really wants to become a mom. I'm not sure if this other one I knew still wants to. If they do I hope the kids grow up well.
I don't think anyone ever really wanted to have kids. When I was in my early 20s I don't think I could've decided on it consciously, I would've just done it if it was expected of me or seemed "normal" to do, and if it had been easy. Mates and children traditionally weren't something you planned like you have to do in the modern day, it was just something that happened along the way. I love reading biographies of people from before 1945, because you'll read these stories about these men who are broke, meandering, suffering a crisis of the soul and generally living the ryan-gosling.webm life...and then the biography will say something like>and so his wife and kids moved in with her mother for a whileand you're like...>Wait, THIS guy had a wife and kids?!Fucking Marx had a wife and kids, dude lived off charity basically his whole life. How did he manage it?!A guy who today couldn't dream of having kids due to not having his life perfectly figured out would be the standard father as recently as say 1920. It's so unreal how this totally natural part of life has become something you have to strive for - and most people don't make it.
>>524124357Women back in the day weren't more wholesome or whatever. Great great great granny had 8 kids because she had to get a husband to leave her father's house, she didn't have access to birth control and she lived on a farm with not much else to do but fuck. Plus they could put those kids to work on the farm. No CPS, no child labor laws, no $10k birthing fee, and no option but to make babies when her husband rolled over onto her.
>>524122812Because why would i want to condemn another unit to Die for Israel? Or... be a wageslave for Nickelberg.Ah yes, the worst part, you still have to face Death.Better leave it Alone.
>>524122812For me it's because I'm not mentally cut out to be a dad, don't make much money, have no hope in the future, and won't participate in the scam that is modern marriage. Tradcucks can pound sand.
You would have to abandon society and go innawoods to shield them from the constant degeneracy and brainrot our children are exposed to 24/7. Oh you just want to not give your kid a phone? The other kids at school will bully your kid and he/she will become a social outcast and start to hate you. At most schools now in the US kids are given laptops that they can take home with them with shitty content filters so they will still be exposed to brainrot regardless. They are taught from a young age that the only thing in life that matters is materialism and if that they don’t own a Bugatti and a million dollar crib they have failed in life. I did contract IT work at a public school district last year and let me tell you. The next generation of kids are completely fucked up.
>>524122812they just dont want children with you, they are waiting for chads seed.
>>524129418I suspect if you took the real inflation numbers and compared total millennial wealth vs boomer wealth against the cost of houses in good neighborhoods and factored in time it takes the average unemployed person to find a job then vs. now, you'd find millennials are about 5-10% as wealthy as their parents at their age. Just a hunch.
>>524127192But in about 5 or so years you can play all those friendslop games you have been wanting to play like Peak or Lethal Company (you never get to play those games becuae you have no friends)
>expensive and white ppl have shame about accepting handouts>woman takes hit to career, if you dont want your child to get fucked up by a stranger in daycare you have to parent them for 4 years atleast>Wishy washy men who leave or dont parent>schools are soul sucking pseudo prisons, but most ppl dont have money for fancy ethical Montessori school, or cant homeschooling>CPS, literally had a therapist ask me once if my dad yelled at my little brother, and that was enough for a cps to come and inspect the house and ask qs>Leftists and rightists foaming at the mouth to indoctrinate your children>Dating apps are absolutely terrible and meeting gfs irl has gone out of style>De-christinization of society leading to ennui and desire to live in the moment for oneself