I think people's hearts have gone hard and their souls are lost as their minds prioritize many things over Family. It appears especially those with more means and room to care have become stone, making our society what it is, failing.There is a person staying with me who has mental health issue, who was in foster care and had an extremely difficulty upbringing. They have extreme trauma which they hidd to cope and not burden others with.They managed to cope bearly for decades, those who have had a relatively easier life can never understand them easily. This person went on to have a child who they spent a lifetime dedicating their strength to bring them up with their partner.For this person daily tasks are difficulty, but they woke up daily and did their parenting duties. They paid sometimes thousands in meek means for sports, activities university... everything often going into debt in their home to give their child a chance they never had. They stayed home and worked aiding their partner on their business, struggling every day mentally and financially and yet, they priorizied their child....
The partner passed on unfortunately, they left no life insurance. The partner wanted them to get life insurance but it was too high, knowing this person has issues and their life would fall without them. The person chose to redirect that money towards paying for their childs university as much as they could to help. They both knew something was wrong health wise... they tried to look after the health issue but it was not detectable until too late, they did everything right.Once the person died the other person was left with their mental health issues, no income they can survive off, and their child who had now graduated moved suddenly. They were sharing bills and this person worked and recived short notice....
The person went couch surfing while struggling still with mental health, they did not inhibit their child to go forward. This person then married, unfortunately despite their new partner working hard, six days a week... and providing, the person was too far gone mentally to live normally! They are not able to have a relationship or do basics daily tasks a household requires to aliviate pressure in the house where the partner works non stop.They left as the marriage requires two people to work, able and willing.Now, the shelters would not take them, and they tried hard,. Unfortunately the situation is such economic and newcomers where there is no room. They had left before and went to their sons home, they were on a list for housing and disability... they chose to leave and return to the marriage because it was clear the son and his wife were inconvenienced. The wife was blunt about it, shutting off the heat and telling the person the food costs money... the son was not aware, but they chose to leave vs stabilize their housing and income and solitute which they can only cope with and live with best because of severe trauma they have. They did not disturb the sons household and sabotaged themselves....
>>526338719i already miss christmas time bros. i think i am just gonna let the deco stay through the year. its very germanic anyway so it doesnt look too weird.
Now, their son will not take them in!No doubt he is a Good Person, I know he he is, but sheltered from reality and information... judgmental and sees flaws only vs love, sacrifice and flaws together.This person need a safe place to stay six months to a year, to obtain disability and thus a room to rent, then pivot into housing. Reasonable timeline for someone who has severe issues on all fronts.The son has a house, plenty of room, I don't understand why they would not sacrifice six months t a year... to help a Mother who raised them despite the issues she has! A lifetime of help forward in one year tops to help a person who deserves love, a mother.I know it's difficult... however is it not a duty as a being with a soul, a sane being, logical being, a son? Or is a cultural difference in where I think love for family and reasonable sacrifice is OK.There is an end a way to make it good for all, it's not end of all... but why do people chose easy paths vs love on this Earth?Do people even understand Love?I don't mind helping, I've been on the couch breaking my back... but my mom had two strokes already and is extremely stressed.I have helped my family and others all my life, and I think gosh, I've been through horrors of war, bombs, bullets, and walking mine fields... being in the woods, no food... I know the hardships and I know love, maybe those who had it easy think they had it hard and judge others to a point of neglect, walking blind through life thinking they themselves are inconvenienced, untill it's too late.Sad.I am sad for them, their mother z our Society.My heart is breaking over this, I know they are good people too... but blind.Is this why we are getting invaded in Europe and North America? We neglect our duties and going that extra mile that our ancestors did. Our parents did.
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>>526339166I've been sas again, deeply!Misery like company, run. lolNo honestly, I am thinking why in Canada the system is failing... no help for people in need sho Tried within their means to reach for it... and it's because people failed, thus systems failed. We, the People fail and then wonder why oir society is failing.
So, what would you do if you were the son with the house and are a vip at the bank? I am starting to get judgmental! Can't help it.
