https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/retirement/is-my-mom-selfish-she-wants-to-spend-her-millions-before-she-dies-but-my-brother-and-i-are-broke-do-we-deserve-an-inheritance/ar-AA1UwyFi
The number one rule in life is to be self sufficient. An inheritance is nice, but relying on it to secure your future is gambling. Thinking you "deserve" anything is suicide. Rely on yourself for your financial security
>>526461692Yeah it is selfish and they would be better off cutting contact with them but those kids might be massive disappointments on the other hand.
>>526461692My boomer parents drained their savings supporting my sister and her half-breed child
>>526461822that's just good advice. you never know if one or both gets some gay turbo cancer that drains their accounts first.anyways my idiot younger brother went down the insane reddit breadtuber route and keeps calling out my interracial couple parents they were nazis for not bothering to vote for hildawg and harris (we live in california our vote doesn't count anyways) and actually got into a physical fight with my mom over reddit politics so while doing nothing whatever inheritance i'm getting got doubled since he wrote himself out of the will lol.
>>526461692It's her money, she can do what she wants with it. No one has the right to tell you what to do with your moneyBesides, 99% of American boomers are leaving $14 trillion to their kids, that's plenty.Stop crying about it you worthless Russian twink!
>>526461692>Boomers VOOT for economic policy that overinflate their own net worth>Wealth is super concentrated>"Haha, I will spend millions after milking your generation, you just gotta pull yourself by the bootstraps!"
>>526461692Depends. If you had filial piety, you should receive something to at least take the edge off. My father didn't leave me much, we are talking funeral and cleaning expenses and little else. But he was a lost soul for most of his life on drugs and alcohol. Even though he was a massive pain in the arse for the small number of years I knew him well... I am proud I did right by him up until the end. I will die knowing I tried my best to take care of him regardless of whether he deserved it WITHIN what I'm capable of. I expected nothing. It's ok.
>>526461692>momThey're going to be like 60 years old before they can get inheritance. Their best bet would be to have kids and maybe they'd get the inheritance.
>>526461692Wealth building should be a family thing, but you also have to raise the kids right so they continue to keep it within the family and keep building it. No one should just be spending it willy-nilly.
>>526461692Millennials literally voted for everything going on in the country today.They deserve nothing but their STDs and craft yoga bars.
>mom inherits $150k>kids have student loan debt>youngest about to take out student loan debt>hmmmm nah not doing that>wastes it all pissing off every contractor in town and leaving the house half finished remodelingI've come to terms with my parents being retarded with money, but it still hurts to see.Guaranteed my parents will be going to the shitty abusive nursing home and it won't even be my decision, my siblings are seething.
>>526461886hahahaha
>>526461692One can argue it's self-centered but I don't know the full scope of it. I'm 32 and if my parents spend all their wealth and leave me nothing I am fine with that unless it's like a family item you hand down, if they liquidated something like that and squandered the money I'd be pissed due to the sentimentality in the item.That said when my grandmother was dying I didn't really care all the money she was spending to try and enjoy her life. My father liked to try and use it as a cudgel to cry about the health industry about how much she was spending and at one point did say "That's your inheritance she's spending" and I literally did not care. My family didn't really even get money, we inherited her house but her will couldn't be found so the other 2 took most of the monetary value while we took the land she owned and home and that just became a convenient means for everyone to move back to the state before I moved out on my own.My parents dying would leave me with an inheritance of basically a house presently under mortgage since my father renovated it and took a loan to do so that I realistically probably couldn't pay myself.
>>526462410>craft yoga barsMostly fictive/niche/anecdotal things Republicans get mad at #3526282
>>526461692Why do americans hate their children so much? I live in a house I inherited from my grandmother. I'm set to inherit a flat and a farm too. I plan to leave all that and whatever I build to my kids.
Zoomers are the niggers of generations
>>526462946I have lived in New York City my whole life. That meme is reality. You walk by their bars in north Brooklyn and you see men dressed like hobbits and women with arm tattoos like they came out of cereal boxes. They talk about SSRIs, IPAs and three-letter agencies when they aren't talking about hating government, which they gleefully support if it's in their hands.
>>526462946Honestly to me it's not the craft Yoga Bars themselves that piss me off so much as there's an overlap with insufferable people who obsessively have one of these with them enough so you associate it as like how a cartoon character has the same clothes in multiple episodes.Nothing about the bars themselves, just like I didn't have a problem with Undertale as a game, but the people who were -really- into the game and the lore also had a habit of being very opinionated, esoteric, and sanctimonious when you disagreed with them so I started avoiding avid Undertale fans. See what I mean?
>>526461692nursing homes can easily drain everything they've got. in some cases nursing home will drain all your parent's money and then you'll need to pay it. parents can be kept alive as vegetables by the jew nursing home system for a decade or more easy. this is by design.
>>526462962You have to understand that American Boomers are probably the most coddled generation of people that have ever lived or may ever live on planet EarthFor them, life was always easy even though they will shit and fart and scream if you ever tell that to their face. "What do you mean I had it easy, I worked really hard!" - but they didn't. They'll look back fondly on "flippin burgers to buy my first car!" saying it built character. Then they turned 18 and immediately got a fulltime job that allowed them to save up for a home and support a family in a single income. From there, any promotion or upward mobility was just icing on the cake. They weren't competing with millions of illegal AND legal immigrants that we've shipped in from fucking Bangladesh to run the local Kwik-Stop. Those days flippin' burgers and buildin' character for "a summer or two" - well now their kids are flipping those burgers next to 10 mexicans who don't speak english making minimum wage when the federal minimum wage has remained the same for 30+ fucking years while everything costs 10 times what it used to in their daySo they fundamentally do not understand the concept that maybe they should just give the wealth to their kids. They're like "Don't you WANT to earn it for yourself, like I did? BUILDS CHARACTER!" Basically people who were never actually poor and never actually struggled with a collapsing society look at their own children going through that and ask themselves>Hey, why don't they just get rich like we did? THEY must be doing something wrong. The system we created is perfect, just look at how well we did!
My mom bled father dry after their divorce and now after 10 years she's broke and in debt.Wish I could inherit millions.
>>526462410>Millennials literally voted for everything going on in the country todayVotes haven't meant shit in the last forty years at least.
>>526461692There is absolutely no reason to not leave whatever money and assets you have to your children and grandchildren. The greed, entitlement, and selfishness of boomers is unbelievable, and unrivaled in human history.
>>526461692am not counting on anything, just hoping my checkout stash will be around so I can get blow and hookers and go out with a bang
>>526462064>It's her money, she can do what she wants with it.then what's the point of having kids of you have a mentality like that?
>>526461692we don't but deserving has nothing to do with it
I dont know how my parents feel, my mom never worked my dad is extremely rich good man bad father never saw him much. What I do know is that I put 10k (40k total) into VOO and 10k (40k) in total into SPY for each of my children 4 in total so regardless if I completely fuck up or get sick by the time they are 30 (theyre all pretty young) they should at least be able to buy some property. Im white from aus btw 32 wife is 42 MAN I LOVE MILFS
If you're a millennial you're on your own. I only wish I had bought bitcoin with the 1000 (1k) dollars I got in 2013.But the converse is that my mom says silly things like "after I spend all my money, you're going to have to tpay to put me in a fancy old folks home with a 24/7 nurse". and I was just like "lol, lmao, who do you think I am, moneybags?".I cannot state enough how crazy it is as someone whose parents denied him any support, so I never got to even go to a green day concert when they were cool and not cringe, then think I should enable them to keep living "their best life" in their "golden years". It's just the most massive entitlement I've ever seen and they keep going.
Inheritance. Are you nobility, of monied social stature. No. Just work a day generationally. Inheritance is so outdated. You may or may not get whatever is left over the day of someone's death when they no longer have a need for it because they are a corpse. It's not a bank sitting around waiting on you because two people fucked for 5 minutes and you think that is special and you should be considered. Consider yourself. And stop moulding a society of bigger is better and you might be able to afford life in America. Not a single soul is hoping you can buy new shit when they die. Nobody. You won't when it's your time. Why should they.
>>526462032I did everything my mom asked of me and she created a trust fund for my brother. I'm sure I'm getting nothing. THe kicker is that she thinks I'm going to someday get promoted to senior engineer and make 300k a year and pay for all her shit when she spends the 3 million net worth she has.Boomers are actual insane people.
>>526464610He's also lying since boomers had absolute power in this country for the last 30 years.
>>526465090Why even have children and continue your bloodline and lineage if you're just going to spitefully abandon them to whatever the future holds?>I got mine! Fuck you, children that i purposely created. I don't care what happens to you, or your children, or any of my descendants! you won't either when it's YOUR time to die!well then why the fuck did you bring us into this world you selfish fucking faggot news flash if all you wanted to do was hedonistically spend your money until your very last breath while leaving no impact on the future or caring about it at all, then YOU DIDN'T NEED TO HAVE CHILDREN TO DO THAT
>>526462541>Guaranteed my parents will be going to the shitty abusive nursing home and it won't even be my decision, my siblings are seething.nursing home? After my brother ods I'm just cutting contact. She's going to be one of those "found a month after she died in her own filth" types.
>>526465235Sadly as a boomer she'll have access to all kinds of bullshit medicaid she'll be able to get a nursing home.Surely when the boomers are gone, those programs will be shut down entirely. Out of money, no longer needed, and Gen X will just die in their cars.
>>526464441>For them, life was always easy even though they will shit and fart and scream if you ever tell that to their face. "What do you mean I had it easy, I worked really hard!" - but they didn't. They'll look back fondly on "flippin burgers to buy my first car!" saying it built character. Then they turned 18 and immediately got a fulltime job that allowed them to save up for a home and support a family in a single income. From there, any promotion or upward mobility was just icing on the cake.I was reading boomer comments complaining hiw hard life was in the 70s, way harder than now. One guy said when he was 30, he was only getting 7% annual raises- which was less than inflation! And then when interest rates were raised, they had to take out loans for 12000 dollars- at 20% interest!Explaining that a 5% loan for 400,000 is going to fuck your ass a lot harder than a measly 12,000 is pointless since they literally refuse to understand how numbers, interest and inflation work.
>>526465333>Sadly as a boomer she'll have access to all kinds of bullshit medicaid she'll be able to get a nursing home.lolNaw when my grandma got old she needed her kids to do every bit of paperwork for her. Dollars to donuts my mom will just get scammed when she's 92, lose the house and die in the street.People (boomers mostly) have this idea they function as well in old age as they did at 30.
>>526461822Peak goyposting
>>526462032>my brother's so reddit, ugh, why was he angry at my parents for race mixing???
>>526464819Yeah seriously. What's the point of building generational wealth if you're just going to nigger it away.
>>526462410>voted forEdgy Republicans have to convince you voting matters because otherwise you won't turn out for Vance in 2028.>MillennialsAlso blaming literally anyone but jews in an effort to divide & conquer the goyim.
>>526463190>and three-letter agencies when they aren't talking about hating government, which they gleefully support if it's in their hands.Nigger the same is true for most migatards.
My dad is going to die with a house packed full of shit he should have sold twenty years ago that I'll have to clean out by myself and my millionaire by marriage sister will fight me every step of the way for her half of the $100k or so we get for the house. It might be the point where I actually lose it for real
Here's your inheritance
>>526465432>No!! You must be reliant on your circumstances and not proactively seek out for the betterment of your own well-being .No, you're the Goy
>>526465351Yeah, for them it just "worked". They fundamentally don't understand that the system no longer works like it should, it confuses and embarasses them. I told my parents recently that basically everyone in my generation understands that if you're under the age of 45 you are never seeing a cent of Social SecurityThey were gobsmacked>WHAT? Young people think that? Why would they think that? OF COURSE social security will be there for you too, you're paying into it just like we did! I tried to explain to them that the entire thing is going to be insolvent by 2046 and every analyst already knows this but they just kept brushing it off refusing to engage because>No, no, that has to be fake. They don't know what they're talking about. It's a social safety net, they won't get rid of it because people need itI think a big part of it is they just don't want to accept that the country is essentially dying. A lot of them seem to have no guilt at all about it, but I'm sure some are fucked up about it on a deep level that they're going down in history as a generation who left the world significantly WORSE for their children than when they found it.
>>526465579I'm not telling you to kill your sister
>>526461692>>526462064what's the point of your life? just to consume? In my opinion it's to set your own genetic on the best path to succeed. How's that accomplished is up to you. I think outright passing down millions to someone wont' make them successful. But for example, helping them with building house, education and teaching basics of financials would definitely help
>>526465225So they can maybe go out into the world and make their fortune or sell an hour of work for an hours pay. It is not to make sure the parent amasses a pile to make jr square. Jr is rich. He has youth and time. If money is his desire he has energy and strength to go attain it. One should never assume just because they are born they are entitled to a pile set aside. When the parent dies what is left is yours. Until that time it is theirs. Not hard to understand.
>>526465686>Woooh Freedom!!>Woooh look at me, exercising my individualism!!>Check it out, son!! Watch me flush down what could have paid for your college on this slot machine wheeeeeeee!!!Their rights, their money, your society.
>>526461692> Politics
>>526465672>It's a social safety net, they won't get rid of it because people need itWell, can they figure out what's 8% of 350?If not, you can discount any opinions of theirs.
>>526461886sort of similar situation here, but her kids are white and have bright blond hair. She's irresponsible though.
>>526465579it's crazy how that happenedwhen my grandfather and grandmother both passed away within a month of each other, my libshit uncle ended up trying to be a complete jew about the meager inheritance and the whole processfor literally no reasonboth him and my father are wealthy enough on their own, but for some reason he just decided he needed more and that splitting it evenly with my father was somehow not good enoughthey basically haven't spoken since thenI couldn't fucking believe itand at no point in the discussion did anybody suggest even a CENT of that wealth being given to me or my sister or my cousins or the younger family members who actually could fucking use itfor us it would have been life-changing moneyfor them it's a cruise vacation where they'll just sit around getting drunk like they already do at homeim making myself mad like my grandparents had a car, just one because only my grandma could drive anymore even though she really shouldn't have. Decent car, not a lot of mileage. I could have used that car. Lots of my cousins could havethey sold it for chump change
>>526465440There is literally nothing sadder than seeing the dad you thought was racist simp out for dusty ass jungle pussy.Just incredibly demoralizing. I have no parents. I only have my European heritage. I am orphaned.
>>526464441>was talking to mum about apprenticeships today>"Your uncle worked his ass off to be an electrician!">>Fuck off, back then all he needed was a firm handshake>"No he worked hard!">>"Did he have any qualifications at all?">"No"Yeah, he literally gave them a firm handshake.
>>526465827The culture behind wealth transfer and accumulation shapes the future financial health of a society. Of course it's political.
>>526464441Okay, but what are you gonna do with all that money, take it to the grave? Makes no sense to me.
>>526465736That would be completely unnecessary.>>526465579Want to fuck her over? Get her to be executor of the will and file a bunch of shitty complaints in court about how she handles things. It's a total nightmare for the executor since they're on the hook legally for doing things above board, and people ALWAYS think they can cheat and get away with shit.She'll leap at the chance, too.
>>526465745I would do anything to save my children from having to "sell an hour of work for an hours pay"Wage slaving is horrible. It's for suckers. Why the fuck would you want that for your children if you can give them a better life?People don't just wake up rich, generation wealth is ACCUMULATED over GENERATIONS. Your ENTIRE GOAL should be to get rich so your kids can get RICHER and their kids get EVEN RICHER so they never have to wageslave and sell their time for another person's moneyare you just fucking stupid or something?>nah it's actually aspirational for your kids to work in an amazon warehouse. What, would you rather they be spoiled by being born rich?YES
>>526465860>they basically haven't spoken since thenYou never know anyone until you inherit together(paraphrased)
>>526462290rare wisdom from an australian posterthe filial piety line makes me think you might be asianbut either way, its fucked up how many white people i've known who don't seem to get that doing right by your parents and your family is something you do for yourself just as much as for them
>>526465971>Get her to be executor of the willdelicious
>>526465860Boomers are simply the most selfish generation, and they don't care who knows it.It's not just a collective thing, it's an individual thing, too. They don't care about how it looks. 100% entitlement.My cousin's family had the same thing. Big old house, could have had a family move in and stop renting, could have rented it out and split the money among the grandkids, nope! Sold at a loss so everyone could get their $16k split as soon as fucking possible, to be blown on nonsense as usual. Very sad to see.
>>526465928LEAVE IT TO YOUR FUCKING CHILDREN SO THEIR LIVES ARE BETTER
>>526461822Case in point why mutts are subhuman zogbots
>>526465860Strangely enough there's been no fighting over wills in my family, everyone was pretty content. My grandmother even included us grand kids which was nice (split 5 ways, 4 between her 4 kids and the 5th was between us grand kids, didn't amount to a lot but the gesture was nice).
>>526465745That’s nonsense. Parents should be setting their kids up. It’s dynastic, you want the dynasty to continue. A good parent is always planning to see the third generation down from them better off than they were by at least 2x if not more.Generational strategies always conquer here and now strategies of life-plan.
>>526465994More importantly we live in a CAPITALIST society.You should want to be a business owner and pass that business down to your kids so they can be business owners. "Making something of yourself"- being a wageslave is not noble or normal, you're an anybody if you're some office worker doing a 9-5 for 19 bucks an hour.Going beyond the normal "boomers had it easy" spiel- boomers literally did not have to participate in the system as intended, they could just wageslave and if they didn't blow all their money they'd quickly become rich. That's not how it's supposed to work though. But it did for them because htey had it easier than anyone did before or after them.
>>526466004Yeah, a leasson harshly learned. I always liked my uncle. Him and my father had a great relationship as far as I knew. I really have no idea what prompted him to pick the time of both their parents dying to start squabbling about what was, to him, a pretty small amount of money. The frightenizing realization was just as you said, clearly I just never knew the man at all. I thought I did but I didn't.
>>526465672>they won't get rid of it because people need ityou know what's really funny, barring something apocalyptic like 100 year old boomers still being president, it will literlaly be our generation in charge in 20 years and we will have to liquidate the program just to stay solvent for the next 50 years.
>>526461692if parents do not think their kids deserve their inheritance then they are probably right. I mean you have to REALLY fuck up in life to make your parents dislike you that much.
>>526466219There might have been latent animosity from when they were children, too.People be petty as hell.
>>526465686Everyone in that shot needs euthanizing. Its the kindest thing to do.
>>526465015why are you upper class asians browsing 4chan. im upper class (white) and i promote my white guy race fucking girls in porn.how about you upper class asians promote asian guys fucking girls in porn. how about that.
>>526466197it's like with feminism. idea was solid at first that women can either be homemakers or have careers. but then via monkey telephone it because homemaker bad and all women must be boss babes. same for this whole making something of yourself. if everyone could then everyone would be billionaries but reality is most can't and what's even more sad that those that are capable either force their kids into careers they don't want or shun them away from family business to "find their own way". family should always build safety net for their children since most children come around to family business when they fail on their own in early years
jokes on them. their bloodline will end if they don't give me enough money to cum raw buckets inside some pattaya bargirls
>>526466306Honestly it's got me worried about what my relationship with my sister will look like when our parents pass. We grew up together and always got along fantastically. But we're very different people in terms of worldview. She's very kind and nice but I suspect she might secretly hate me for being a nazi chud and will cut contact once there's no pretense for maintaining it.
It definitely would be a boomer move for them to piss away, donate, destroy everything of worth before they finally kick off, leaving nothing to their descendants as one final "fuck you" from the most selfish generation in living memory.
>>526466284These are the same people that cut their parents off for voting for somebody they don't like. You know they are insufferable cunts.
>>526466170Because of my mom spoiling my loser brother and stealing from me >>526465860 she literally stole the car my grandfather gave me, to give it to him because he 'liked it', but he was already using her old car. So he had 2 cars and I had 0 even though I'm the older brother with a degree that needed it for work- she doesn't understand why I didn't just 'go and party' nwo that I've basically aged out of any kind of dating scene that isn't for divorced people in my 30s. There literally won't be a next generation, because she crippled me so much in my teens and 20s that I never got to get married before covid fucked it all up.That's what's really insane to me. The bloodline is dead and it's her fault. And she still thinks I'll take care of her in old age despite being miserable my entire life because of her.
>>526466337Im white pablo
>>526466081>but either way, its fucked up how many white people i've known who don't seem to get that doing right by your parents and your family is something you do for yourself just as much as for themThere is no reason to fuck yourself financially for a parent who had it all and spent their entire life fucking you over.
>>526461692They should murder their mom.
>>526466472>my loser brother and stealing from meyou are shit brother and no different than typical boomer. if you're doing good then you should make everything in your power for your siblings/parents/family to succeed. reflect on that for a moment
>>526466389Just do your best to communicate that you love your sister regardless of anything, family first, and if she needs anything you'll be there for her in a heartbeat.I had the same worry for a while but then I just got really consistent with communicating my feelings more, and also just being kind. Like my siblings like to rib each other a lot, it gets a little mean sometimes, I just quit that. They were shitting on my youngest brother at Christmas so I got them off his back and gave him a little praise for how he was helping out, and gave him a chance to brag about how he's doing in college. It goes a long way.I know it feels kinda gay to do that but imagine, god forbid but just imagine if your sister passed. What would you have wanted to say to her before she did? Just say all that, every time you see her.And if she cuts contact anyway well you did your best.
lol my abusive alcoholic dad has debt collectors after him and is on the verge of becoming homeless and has failing health.I've been building an investment portfolio for almost 20 years and just laugh at the useless cunt.
>>526462064This is why the west has fallen yet you are too far into goypolitics to see it
>>526461692It depends. If the children are jobless and lazy yeah but if those millions are generated by largely inflation and rising asset prices and they struggle because of that to own property, yeah that is highly selfish. This applies in other areas of life too, I have enough money to do everything I want but my parents were raging hippies now turned more conservative as they aged. They seethe because I dont want to have children. Shoudnt have made women unbearable then. Fuck around and find out boomers
>>526466581So I should ruin my life for a stoner who only wants to do drugs who stole from me at every opportunity in life and my mom spoiled him while robbing me.... because he's doing bad?No man, your kind of thinking is why the system is fucked. There is no reason to make my life worse for people who had every opportunity to become a software engineer making big bucks and instead he just dropped out to smoke weed. It's the same as the "cripple yourself for your boomer parents, because filial piety". Your scolding is more 4chan faux morality and I guarantee if you were in my position with a loser drug addict trying to hit you up for cash so he can buy more weed after he crashed his 3rd card while drunk and then mom bailed him out again of the DUI charge you'd feel the same.And this is besides the fact he's getting a million dollar trust fund while I'm getting nothing. Why would I feel ANY sympathy for his self-inflicted problems?Never ever let your life be destroyed because other people refuse to take basic responsibility for themselves.
>>526466472You should be clear with your mother if you're not going to do that.Unless you're keeping that in your back pocket to really fuck her over. But why let her feel safe for decades yet? Make her anxious.I've made it clear I'll look after my siblings but if my parents are going to be selfish pricks, they're not getting help from me in their old age. Fuck em. I remember the shit they put me through.
>>526466596Thanks, that's good advice. I just assume she knows I love her despite our vehement political disagreements, but I just wonder if that's even getting through anymore in this climate. Just to give you an idea, I'm pretty sure she was one of the people who was happy when Charlie Kirk got shot, and then turned right around and defended George Foid getting domed for trying to run over ICE. She's one of THOSE. So y'know, the train may have just left the station. I hope she can still put that vitriol she has aside for me because I'm her brother, but I'm not holding my breath. Other problem is I don't really see her that much anymore because her and her husband moved halfway across the country. We used to always meet up for holidays etc with my parents because we all live close, but now it's just me and the parents who live close. Time and distance and seeing each other less and less won't help things I fear.but I'll fall off that bridge when I come to it
>>526466725Anon drug addicts are literally not people. The drugs melt their souls.Nobody sane is telling you to sacrifice yourself to a drug addict. Feel free to cut them out.
