>Over 2/3 of young adults" are not dating regularly. "If trends continue, 1-in-3 young adults will not get married. The implications are staggering: a generation of permanent bachelors—& bachelorettes—untethered from the bonds that have given life its deepest meaning."What will come of this segment of society?
>>529991989>WHAT HAPPENED TO SOCIETY?!?>by Shadi Hamid
>>529991989My prediction is unless we get sexbots, we're going to see a massive increase in pedos or foreigners brought in to marry people. In a worst case scenario, the unmarried and childless women become even worse than the original suffragettes and the unmarried and childless men start forming terrorist groups or rape gangs.
>>529991989i just want to be left alone is that so wrong?
Oh noooo! People are making their own choices about their lives? How do we stop this?Yeah, fuck right off with that shit. Marriage should be between two people who have made the choice to commit. It shouldn't be obligatory.There is no dating crisis. The only crisis there is are the people wringing their hands over people who choose to be single.It is such a bizarre thing to worry about, especially considering the devastating effects of overpopulationLet people live their lives ffs
>>529992507>time to bring back the matchmakerHamid wants arranged marriages lmao
>>529991989They gassed up all the 4-7s into thinking they are 9s and 10s. As aresult, they will not settle for below average men. As a result, even ugly girls with bad personalities expect a 8-10 man. In the end the 8-10 men just pump and dump the mid girls untill they lez out or hate men so much they become femenazi nightmares. Now the 4-7s are effectively unviable for the 4-7 men range s they either hate men or are insufferable. The 4-7 men now retreat from dating after their 80th rejection and escape into porn and fantasy worlds to cope with the inevitbility of dying alone. This further dries up the pussy on any girl they meet. The only real prospects are single mothers and 3-1s for this pool of men at this point.
I haven't met an attractive single woman in 12+ years.
>>529993143Most men are content with monk mode or being a gooner atp. They know the pain of being poor and they don't want to waste more money on a woman when they could save it for themselves.
>>529993327Age?
It's not only about dating> be me, married with children> all my childhood friends are gone> I cannot make a new friend to save my life
>>529993448You're not wrong, I've been calling it monk mode for years. I will have to call you a faggot for your choice of memeflag though.
>>529991989I go to a gym regularly, it has a lot of what I would call generally attractive men and women, but the women won't acknowledge 90% of them, won't even look at them or speak to them if they try to approach. It's all very odd.
>>529991989yeah man thank god for the internet and computer stuff.i'd be pretty fucking sad right now without it just being alone
>>529993024You're a stupid fucking nigger. Shitskin streetshitting retard.
more smartphone addiction and migration-driven atomisation and agegap paranoia will fix it
>>529993601that's just adulthood>want to learn moreno time>want to get more fitno time>want to have new hobbyno time>want to spend time with kids or wifeno time>want to have friendsno time>find the time>can't use it on making friends because I physically have everything else that is just more important
>>52999346734.
>>529991989I've fallen for so many of the devil's tricks throughout my life, but at least I didn't fall for this one - modern marriage
Either fomo propaganda to get retards to squirt out more retards. Autism epidemic in an age of hyper capitalism (only the rich retards will breed) Eastern ethos permitting western values. All this male loneliness started in Japan, South Korea, et al where people are seen merely as economic units. There's no humanity left or very little everything else is just faceless administration behind stacks of paper forms, phone trees and web pages. Let us just say the cattle have become too aware of the abbotoir.
>>529993024Except almost nobody is happy about this.
>sign up for Bumble>get a few likes>none of the girls ever send me a messagefor what point
>>529993753The internet and computer stuff are what did this to you. If the internet did not exist you would live in a thriving close knit community where you'd own your own home, get married at 23, and have kids by 25. But instead you only have a glowing screen in a dark room
>>529993024>a lot of people are now choosing to forego human connection, a key aspect of life>this has never been the case before>the only people that did this before were literal weirdos>this is nothing to worry about!!
>>529991989Let me tell you we're gonna see some really crazy shit here soon. Modern politics is already mostly driven by insane childless women and seething incels, and it's only going to get worse.
>>529994094Just be a 6'8" multimillionaire bro
>>529991989>Spend my twenties dating a slew of women.>Every one of them "I dont wanna have kids, I wanna travel and have fun!">Break up with them all instantly because its not what I want.>Hit 30's.>Lots of life changes, no time for women.>To old now to start a family, to set in my ways, and all the women who are single have 13 black kids.>One that I barely know asked if I wanted to have sex with her.no.>She gets mad that I wont just hook up with her.>Gets even more mad I wont help her baby sit Tyrons little bastard.>Actually tells me to man up one day.>Tell her she should aborted the little bastard like she did the rest of them.
>>529991989>untethered from the bondsGood.
>>529991989People are shit. They just lie and use you for what they can and fuck off. Enough people act like that the whole thing tips over. The American fuck you got mine attitude is a curse of the earth.
>>529991989>Where did it all go wrongFeminism and detaching ourselves from a moderating force for morality (such as the Church) allowing everyone to become their own god and degenerate into a thousand unproductive immoral behaviors. >SHUT UP YOU MISOGYNISTIC RACIST WHITE SUPREMACIST NAZIThey never want to hear the true answer.
>>529994094Dating apps are designed to give you a bit of hope, but not really work for the majority, so that you pay for the subscription stuff. They don't want you deleting the app, and losing out on subs and ad revenue. All of this is a major part of the problem, everything is about constantly maximizing and growing profit. Everything gets more expensive every year, and wages don't rise to meet it.
>>529993020This is how it is for both sexes at present, technology fucked our brains up terribly.
>>529994477It's frustrating, isn't it? At least you didn't have one pull a fast one on you and decide she missed out on being a whore after you already had years of a good relationship.
>>529993448>content with monk mode or being a gooner atpI'm not gay so
>>529994859>Dating apps are designed to give you a bit of hopeDating apps are designed to be a Chad cock buffet for femoids, if you are not a femoid or Chad you are not the target audience, that's all
The problem is finding a pussy I like attached to a girl I like
>>529993327+1. I haven't seen an attractive woman in over a decade. 31 right now.The West went from pinnacle female beauty to dysgenic subhumanity in the last 20 years. Look at old fashion/model journals, photos in your family etc. Totally different genetic stock, beauty, quality.
>>529991989I can save them. Chicks, Dudes. Ill fuck them all.
Men and women don't, or can't, interact IRL anymore. It's that simple.
Why does every woman my age (early 30s) seem to hate men and call them cheaters abusive and narcissistic? Where are they finding these guys?All the unmarried guys I know are decent, average perhaps, but certainly not the evil caricature that women imagine.
>>529994708Identifying decent folk and keeping them close while eschewing selfish trash is the struggle of our times. The problem is that the trash has adapted to this new system of social relations and have employed mimicry in order to dupe non suspecting well meaning people. In the past these people would probably just kill you and take your shit, but they know they are in a system where that's a non viable survivl strategy.
>>529993143I need an example of a 1-3 ranked foid.
>>529995194To be fair. The game changed for moids when hi-def became a thing. It's why they need insta filters and new types of make up that blend better. It's also why men are increasing use of makeup as well. Everyone looks ugly in a high enough fidelity.
Men have wisened up to the fact that none of the women have tails
>>529991989>What went wrong?
>>529991989>DATING>WHYYYY AREN'T YOUNG WOMEN DATING DATING DATING >WHY WON'T YOUNG MEN DATE ANYMORE>WHY DATE NOT>DATE DATE DATING DATESHUT THE FUCK UP, MOST OF US ARE MARRIED, FAGGOT.
>>529995426This has to be at least a 2 or 3
>>529993024Overpopulation isn't real. Women are whores. You're a retard.
>>529991989i was in the my 20s in the edward snowden \ julian assange days, the early days of the ukraine conflict and the syria conflict, i thought for sure either ww3 or a violent revolution in america would've happened by now so i just completely set aside having a family or getting a girlfrienda few years ago once i entered into my early 30s i started talking to women and every single one of them was either on SSRI's or something worse like opiates, a lot of them are on like 3-4 different kinds of SSRI's at once because obviously they don't work, but when you go back to your doctor and complain they just put you on 2 different kinds of SSRI's at the same time, and then when that doesn't work they put you on 3 different ones at the same time, and it never dawned on any of these retarded whores that they're being purposefully poisoned by freemasons whose goal it is to reduce the amount of peasants on the planetthey're also fat, most of them. also none of this matters because nobody can afford a house, nobody can afford to have a family, and it's not like inflation is gonna get better so if you are having kids right now you're fucking braindead
>>529993967Robert Sterling would have killed himself live on The View if he was alive today.
>>529993024This is such a reddit-tier take. The only reason why I choose to live like this is because all our women are whores. I want to be loved, but none of them are capable of love, so I chose to be alone instead.
>>529991989>what went wrongWomen's rights, duh.
>>529995194Id be okay with an unattractive one if she would have feminine skills that are required to built a family. Most modern women don’t know how to be a wife, a mother, how to cook, how to clean or how to do anything that is not scrolling through social media. I make huge concessions and yet women are getting worse that it’s unreal. I feel like women don’t exist anymore but literally just walking vaginas. I thought that I might just get one and teach her but i figured if they didn’t learn basic human skills by the time they are 21, they’ll simple never will. The future is bleak
>>529995898Depression is a fake disease made up to keep people hooked on medication. If you eat like shit, live like shit, exercize like shit, and spend most of your free time doomscrolling Tiktok, surprise surprise, you'll probably feel like shit too. Antidepressants are, at best, a bandaid that you apply to a wound you keep rippibg open every day.
>>529995627what the fuck is your problem? calm down.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ZYbU82GVz4
>>529991989>Talking to women in 2026 when they have God knows how many other men in their inbox Nah I’m going to play video games
>>529993024you are a teenager or brown
>>529991989Oh I'm sure it's completely sustainable removing one of the most basic motivators for millennia.
>>529995488Real life is in Max fidelity
>>529991989Men are checking out of society at an alarming rate
>>529993024>overpopulationKys, malthusian cuck
>>529995898For me for my entire life I have been repulsed by even the smallest amount of fat/chubbiness which pretty much meant all Western wom*n were out of consideration. Why the fuck are so many of them fat?? Gym thots are thots, where are the feminine skinny girls (in Western countries)?
>>529994148kike bullshit - it's feminism
>>529993143Not to mention the industrial level of sex trafficking and mate poaching of any female 12 and older by politicians celebrities and kikes for literal decades if not centuries. Kinda fucking up the demographics.
>>529997198They tend to be studious high iq women from wealthier families. Gotta meet them at good schools/companies and they're spoken for QUICK
>>529994791and anytime a woman starts to wake up to how bad feminism is she is given shrink pills to suppress it
>>529991989There is no love is this cruel , evil world.
>Shadi Hamid
>>529996390it's also lack of faith from everyone discarding church and god
>>529997198the ones that are thing and well kept are overwhelmingly power feminists - it's a nightmare
>>529992507Shadi Hamid - an American imperialist propagandizer.KYS
>>529993127Arranged marriages society brought upon all the key industrial/scientific revolutions lol
>>529994859Man sound like a commie.Don't you like capitalism?ENJOY CAPITALISM!
>>529991989how many friends do they havethis whole thing started when we expanded the role of domestic partner to entire psychological support structure rolled into a single person.you are supposed to find someone to raise kids with. you are supposed to have a wider friend group including incredibly good friends to confide things in and talk about whats troubling you with. this is not supposed to be your wife. It can be in some circumstances but you shouldnt be getting married untill you have at least one and preferably more good friends you would tell anything to, and a hand full of people who would genuinely be happy to help you move.I feel like if this was the norm the trouble of finding a spouse would just vanish on its own. Dating culture is a modern artificial weird thing the west came up with when it started destroying the idea of community.
>>529995374A Fox one day spied a beautiful bunch of ripe grapes hanging from a vine trained along the branches of a tree. The grapes seemed ready to burst with juice, and the Fox’s mouth watered as he gazed longingly at them.The bunch hung from a high branch, and the Fox had to jump for it. The first time he jumped he missed it by a long way. So he walked off a short distance and took a running leap at it, only to fall short once more. Again and again he tried, but in vain.Now he sat down and looked at the grapes in disgust.“What a fool I am,” he said. “Here I am wearing myself out to get a bunch of sour grapes that are not worth gaping for.”And off he walked very, very scornfully.
>>529995194Now this is considered 10/10
>>529991989Maybe it would improve if women weren’t so fucking disgusting
There are a lot of competing things going on that make things pretty bleak. A lot of us here are prone to mental illness or wrongthink and that gets us ostracized by our peers. On top of that we get banned from mainstream social media platforms. This encourages low trust and suspicion because we then feel like we can no longer express ourselves or our thoughts.I came to the realization that the few people I do talk to (all online) rarely even engage with anything I have to say. I put in a lot of energy and thought into a topic and they respond with random garbage and memes or change the subject to vidya or baser things. No one wants to actually talk, especially about anything that matters and they are just chasing clout or totally wrapped up in the mundane trivialities of their life.I just broke up with my girlfriend because she couldn't hold an actual conversation. It was like talking to a retarded person. Over the course of a week the only messages she would send would be "hey bby, hru, wyd?. A lot of us need a lot more to life than that and its just sadly the fact of the matter that we have to isolate to maintain what little sanity we have left.I tried joining a Discord group yesterday for Religion and Politics. It seemed pretty cool, they were discussing race and crime, zionism, etc. Turns out they ban people for advocating for NatSoc. I tried to inquire if they also banned black and jewish supremacism and the post autodeleted itself, probably because I mentioned Hitler, stating israel wouldn't have existed about him (trying to say if natsoc shouldnt be discussed, zionism shouldnt either). Its a shitshow. Its either censorship or stupidity everywhere you go. People isolate because the system is suffocating.
>>529993024You know the turn of phrase that it takes a village to raise a child? The same idea is true for shit like a marriage. If there isn't an underlying social order promoting and rewarding desired behaviors while punishing undesired ones, shit just don't work. That's why you can't just pluck a ultratraditionalist tradwife from the 3rd world and bring her home, because once you remove the societal guardrails its fuckin over even for them, whic the passport bros will learn the hard way.
>>529993024Women are too retarded to think for themselves. They need control and the current people controlling them hate us.
>>529991989> I think the honorable thing for our species to do is to deny our programming. Stop reproducing, walk hand in hand into extinction; one last midnight, brothers and sisters opting out of a raw deal
THE OBVIOUS SOLUTION IS WE NEED TORAH LAW DUMB GOYIM ANIMALS
>>529998508This. Marriage is a ritualistic arrangment from a bygone era and bygone culture. It's like asking "Why aren't people getting knighted anymore, the decline of the knightly class will collapse society!!"If you get married in 2026 america you are a complete fucking larper.
>>529997848First, the clan/extended family networks were dismantled as people moved from the countryside into cities. It's very likely that a large portion of your social circle was made up of cousins and other relations before the 19th century.Second, as mobility increased throughout the 20th century, the expectation became that you would eventually move away from home and the community and social network you grew up in. This is abject insanity. People wonder why it's difficult to make friends in their 20s and 30s and later, but don't consider that it literally took 18 years to form your high school friend group and 12 of those years were spent in school where you were forced to be around a group of similar people for 6-8 hours a day.Basically, technology and modern economies took people out of the communal networks that humans had depended on for the previous 100,000 years. You aren't actually supposed to live far away from where you grew up unless something traumatic happened. Your daycare shouldn't be done by strangers you pay, it should be done by grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. You aren't supposed to meet random strangers looking for love, you should be marrying a boy or girl who grew up in the same community as you and who you probably went to school with.
>girlfriend nonsense
>>529993601they dont care about that they just want you to breed more resources >>529991989>what went wrong>shadithe fact we have people named that in our societies is a big part of what went wrong, women being unbearable cunts is another.
>>529991989I hate normalniggers so much.
>>529999108>He doesn't want me to travel and instead he wants me to marry the stupid guy I did better on a math test in school in grade 3.It's called HAVING OPTIONS, sweety!!
>>529994094Bumble’s UI is shit and you can accidentally swipe to like someone’s profile while you’re scrolling through it.
>>529991989Enlist now. Go to Iran. Loneliness will be the last thing on your mind. I promise.
>>529998225Thought the ending was he seduced a crow to drop them and they fucked and ate grapes afterwards. How I've always heard it.
>>529995374>Be attracted to cheaters and narcissists>Chase after the same few cheaters and narcissists >Be repulsed by decent men; ignore them>Complain that all men are cheaters and narcissists >The solution must be more laws and more rapefugees>Everything goes to complete shit due to lack of decent men This is why women had no rights, historically.
>>529997669arranged marriage is the last 3000 years of upper class human history you fucking RETARD
>>530000338Mimimimimi mimimi?
>>529994039>>529994265>>529995830>>529998508All I'm hearing is a bunch of chud shit about how you are butthurt that you can't control people's decisions.Why is it any skin off your nose that people are choosing the lifestyle that they want?If you are oh so concerned about the population crisis, you have the freedom to put in the hard work, find some tradlarper to marry and have a dozen kids.Instead of attacking people for being single, show us the way and actually live out your beliefs.No one is stopping you.
>>529991989Someone should make a heterosexual version of grindr
>>529991989Watching it all burn and taking from the ashes.
>>529997643Shadi Hamid - A shitskin that doesn't belong in this countryKYS
>>530000567>Why is it any skin off your nose that people are choosing the lifestyle that they want? Would you mind living in a country where virtually everyone is a homosexual except you? I know, Australia is pretty close, but at least TRY to engage with the premise in good faith.
>>530000567>All I'm hearing is a bunch of chud shit about how you are butthurt that you can't control people's decisions.>Why is it any skin off your nose that people are choosing the lifestyle that they want?>If you are oh so concerned about the population crisis, you have the freedom to put in the hard work, find some tradlarper to marry and have a dozen kids.>Instead of attacking people for being single, show us the way and actually live out your beliefs.>No one is stopping you.no one should be able to choose any lifestyle they want, fucking idiot
>>529993854What do you do on the weekends? Waste time with the wife or watch goyball?
>>529994903LOL. Women have histrionic attributes down to their core. It's built into their DNA. They can't handle being "left alone". They'll say otherwise but their actions betray them. Never listen to a woman's words, always judge her on her actions.
>>529993024>Oh noooo! People are making their own choices about their lives? How do we stop this?Stopped reading here. Human extinction is not "a choice". Any society which promotes this as a viable idea, is not a viable society.
Things are never going back to the way they were.
>>529991989We've had 3.5 generations raised in single mother homes.If there is a problem, it is literally women's fault.
everyone's fat and ugly, but nobody wants to date fat ugly peopleit's that simple
>>530000567Anon, society will collapse and then the elites might get hurt. My fellow whites need to all get married, register our firearms, pay all of our taxes, and join the holy crusade against Iran.
