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>be early 30s
>OG freind group dissolved
>5'9 so dating apps are not an option
>been in an involuntary hermit mode for a while now
>go back to school for masters
>go out for drinks with classmates after midterm
>2 weeks later I'm still having conversations with them in my head


I'm so fucking socially starved I didnt even realize how bad it was. Only communicating with the outside world through this site is not healthy. U are not happier with no freind, no gf and playing g vidya all day. It's not what u really want to do. So stop fucking pretending. Stop falling for the psy op..


>I've just been doing me..


U have been playing vidya, nothing else. Stop the fucking cope at least. Im not offering a solution to get out of this black hole but can we at least keep it real? I see all of society going my direction(been an incel since dating sites came out) and I'm telling u right now you goyim are not mentally equipped for the pain of loneliness for so long. Ive been through awful shit and I can remember when it used to be different so I can handle it, the worst thing u have been through is ur grandma died. U cannot handle it. U will lose ur fucking marbles. U already are, you can tell when gen z is interviewed its like the fluoride stare on steroids(from scrolling and porn).
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That being said if I scripted and saved in my 20s and didnt spend any time or money on freinds and invested instead I'd be WAY happier but thats not what happens, u just end up spending all ur money on weed cuz it takes the loneliness away..
Also, no matter what ur freind group is gonna dissolve so it is a waste of time but at the same time not having social interaction fucks u up..
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>>530393332
"Friends" are overrated
>the worst thing u have been through is ur grandma died. U cannot handle it. U will lose ur fucking marbles.
You don't know me. My grandma died and I simply didn't care much about it
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>>530393934
Being utterly and compeltly dead on the inside from weed, porn and scrolling is not a flex
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>>530394377
maybe he just didn't like her very much.
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>>530394377
I'm not a weed junkie
>>530394683
I'm naturally apathetic
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>>530393332
>Be mid 20's
>Made a handful of friends during school
>Welding, machining courses
>Post graduation
>not a peep heard from them since
>messages aren't being replied
>who knows

>Get hired at a work site
>Get along real well with a co-worker
>Fast foward a couple years
>The faggot powertripping manager fires him over the gayest reason
>Same thing
>Try to get in touch
>No response
>Who knows
Temporary acquaintances.
That's why I don't let anyone in close.
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>>530394952
a pathetic what?
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you people are so disgustingly needy. just reading your words repels me.
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>dear diary
How about you quit being a whiny bitch and go meet people.
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>>530393332
The hard truth is pretty much every decent means of acquiring friends is kinda gay. Meetups, recreational sports leagues, bar trivia, etc. They're all gay, and you'll feel gay doing them, and you'll meet lots of gay people (figuratively and literally), but if you just keep doing one over and over again, you'll make friends with the people there.
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>>530393332
>U
Stop.
>grandma died
Holy fuck...fuck associating with people..
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>>530395257
Also, most people nowadays are lonely and avoidant. Tons of people have no real friends but recoil out of fear when presented with the opportunity to make friends. Just remember, everyone else is as big a gay loser as you are.
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>>530394994
Bro wtf is up with them. Like I have this coworker who told me in confidence he's a furry on the first week of me working there and he didnt tell anyone. We have all the exact same interests except for the furry shit. Same iq level. Perfect freindship potential. Doesn't reply any of the texts I sent to him. Said his phone is acting weird. This isn't 2010.
I understand not wanting to hang out with me though but still.. I guess to them it's all just formal


I had this other coworkers who i did hang out with and go to raves and I haven't heard a peep from home even since he tried to hook me up with his cousin and I rejected her cuz she was built like a fridge and had the personality of a wet sock..
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>>530393332
40+ here...life is BS and everything's annoying...don't take it too seriously. look forward in joyful anticipation to DEATH as anyone that has his act together can't wait to leave this horseshit world
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>>530395166
>how dare u desire basic social interaction. Go to work then go home and goon zoomer. Roof over head!!! 25 miles uphill. Bootstrap bucko!!

I hate boomers so much
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>>530395566
ive been looking forward to that more and more recently.
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>>530393332
>playing g vidya all day
Bro, I'm full hermit without vidya, unless you count solitaire. If I switch to actual cards it won't even be 'video' game in any definition. Might do that.
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>>530395441
why dont you just hop on the fur fag train and let him fuck you in the ass while wearing a dog mask? you do not sound like fun. if you want people around you gotta find shared interest. if thats homo shit you just gotta swallow that pill /cum and get over it.
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>>530395719
So brave and empowering. This is how all white men should act to stick it to the jews.
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>>530395781
At this point i would have came to the furry convention with him if he asked..
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>>530395719
>If I switch to actual cards it won't even be 'video' game in any definition
thats because its not, by anyone definition, a video game. do you think microsoft invented solitaire or something?
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>>530393332
I'm 5'4"
I just lie and say I'm 5'8"
Girls always annoyed but will roll their eyes and give me a chance

My current gf is actually 5'8" and she said she knew instantly I was lying. You have no excuse midgetbro
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>>530394952
sorry for your loss anon
take comfort in knowing its all temporary
do you have hobbies?
i enjoy graffitiing subversive messages in unlikely places
just a thought
>>530394994
thats not unusual and nothing wrong with being distant
especially in the trades
>>530395441
maybe he knows youre not a furry?
kek
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>>530393332
LISTEN HERE YOU AMERIMUTT
UNTILL YOU ALL DECIDE TO START TAKING YOUR COUNTRIES BACK AND START USING VIOLENCE, I'M GONNA UNAPOLOGETICALLY CONTINUE PLAYING VIDEOGAMES. COOL? COOL.
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>>530393332
>happier with no freind
no nigger its not about being happier its about adapting to the current sutiation
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>>530395871
I know, that's what I'm saying. OP is a faggot gaymer and he's all doom and gloom. Fuck that. Cut kike vidya, if you really need a pasttime, solitaire.
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>>530396219
>take comfort in knowing its all temporary
True
>do you have hobbies?
Yes
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>>530396345
>taking the country back
i think the myth of america is inspiring as well
but "americans" never had their country
it was always owned by (((commercial interests)))
the slave shall serve
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>>530394377
It's horses for courses. Some people like being alone some people don't.
You should stop smoking weed and playing Vidya whether you're alone or not though, imo. They're both pernicious.
If you need company then find a group that does an activity you like. Get into a sport or martial art. Doing things with men is how to make friends.
Don't go into social situations looking to score. People can sense motivation and that won't lead to long term friendships
Talk to Christ when you're lonely.
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Lonely people should audition for a part in a local community theatre production. Or even to do behind the scenes tech stuff. You meet so many other weirdos. I've been doing it since I was a kid and have never been lonely. I advised one of my friends to do it who is super socially awkward and it helped him come out of his shell. It's seriously so much fun. Running the lights is almost like playing a rhythm game
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>>530394994
That's life pretty much. Roll with it innit, it's fun
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>>530393332
What purpose do friends have in reality, and why is every man born after 1990 so fucking feminine?
Did public school do that to you, or are you simply a weak nigger?



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