All the responses to this are stock, worthless advice:>Just go to church broWe literally had an internet controversy last month because a woman complained a man hit on her in church>Bro you shouldn't join clubs to get womenNONE OF MY HOBBIES ARE POPULAR WITH WOMEN, THE ONLY REASON TO JOIN A DIFFERENT HOBBY IS TO GET WOMEN>bro it's the pornBULLSHIT THESE WOMEN HAVE ONLYFANS THEY DON'T GIVE A FUCK>bro just be confident and they'll come to youWomen think I'm confident and smart when chadfishing>bro I know a 5'2" ugly spic who fucks supermodels every day Haha you should post proof he exists>It's your personalityWomen think I have a great personality when chadfishing>You should hit on women at the store anonThey're being nice because it's their job you old fuck>It's because you're uglyI'm told ugly men pull constant pussy with confidence(TM) >I pull chicks constantlyAge, height, proof. >Bro go to collegeHaha just go into 50k/debt for a chick fucking 2 dudes a week>Your standards are highMinimal standards excludes 98% of women: white, no tats, not fat. >Get a hookerI don't believe in giving women moneyDID I MISS ANYTHING? WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT FROM ME? WHAT WILL IT TAKE TO GET AN HONEST FUCKING ANSWER? I have dealt with EVERY SINGLE cope you have but you still REFUSE to be HONEST? WHY? WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS?
>>531232707Yangsisters….
>>531232707Disregard femalesAcquire currency
>>531232707Just dont be a fat retard. A challenge insurmountable by 99% of redditors and /pol/
women just wanted to be able to jail guys for the crime of asking them out and not meeting their standards. they just didnt count on the ones who did being scared off or put off too. solution idk i just said fuck women they're annoying and vapid and will become obsolete the minute something that feels just like pussy and asexual reproduction technology is invented.
>>531232707Disregard currencyAcquire crack
>>531232707>reddit postingfucking jump off a bridge into shallow water & get swept away through sharp rocks. faggot
>>531232707Go to the girlfriend store and buy a relationship, incelsIt's just that easy
women smell so fucking bad bro.>haha you just date dirty womenno I don't. ALL women smell horrible up close. Regardless of their weight, 99% of women have garbage diets, so their sweat smells like stale piss stained bedsheets.ONLY deal with women for the purpose of procreation and then bounce the fuck out of there.
>>531232707This is a troll post and I reported it, but I’ll give you some pointers:>Have some money>Have some stability>Don’t be fat>Don’t be a weirdo>Don’t be brownJudging by all the recent activity on this board, I’m afraid most of you fall in one or more of these categories. Sorry.
>>531232707Try to be a real person. Have friends including female ones, hang out with people, do shit irl, build a social circle, be someone people like to have around, be someone people actually know. Even if your only hobbies are playing games and watching anime you can still go to conventions to meet people.
>>531232707You build new women
>>531232707what do you think most people do anon?
Black pill is the only answer Looks are everything, personality only matters if you are a 6+
Dating apps are terrible products but the one time I used one I was successful. I am handsome, weird, and poor and I found my current gf who is beautiful, weird, and poor. It took 1 week of having the app.
>>531232707>My dad forced me to play golf since a young age>Semi disliked golf mainly because my dad forced me to play>Still played because I was good and made money winning comps>Fast forward to adulthood>Fit and attractive woman are bountiful on the golf course>Easy to approach or you even get teamed up with woman and spend 2-3 hrs talking/playing together>Basically matchmaking but filtering out all the fat, liberal and unattractive woman.Thank you dad.
>>531234026Yeah, the incels on here are genuine weirdos. And then they fixate on women issues and convince themselves they are not the problem.The world has a lot of shit that’s unfair, but finding women really isn’t that difficult.
>>531232707You've got it all wrong.You don't chase women - they chase you when you've got it right.>establish a solid, independent character. >hold your ground and show it>that's about it.You might be broke, all scruffy looking and they still orbit around you and can't help themselves.
>>531232707>churchTerrible idea.
>>531232707Go to b this is pol satan
>>531234161Foid spotted.
As a member of Gen Y, it was a real disappointment to watch something with as much potential as Internet matchmaking go completely to waste. The benefit was supposed to be twofold: 1.) Important criteria rather than the person's physical appearance would be used to make the pairing. 2.) The large database size creates more opportunities to meet people than relying upon chance encounters.This was supposed to lead to a world in which there was less divorce and less uncertainty in the equation.The reality is that most people who are stable are going to meet their spouses while they're still in Secondary. Dating sites don't allow minors to use their sites and most teenagers don't need to use a dating site because they have access to an entire Secondary School.The people who are still virgins at 18 are generally fucked up and then there are all the ones who lie and say they are. Then there is the shameless majority which admits to their "damaged goods" status. Those are the only kind of people you're going to find online.I used an online dating site throughout my 20s and despite receiving many offers, had to turn them all down because of obvious red flags with the women.My best, honest advice would be to get into the habit of initiating conversations in real life with girls who are not whores. There's no guarantee that you'll find even one decent human being in a country such as this one. I was fortunate enough to meet someone in Secondary. We were together for two and a half years, I went into and got out of the military, forfeited benefits to get out of the contract early, life was looking up, we were happy together and had not a care in the world, she forgot to take her birth control pills and she decided that it was my fault. She kept the pregnancy a secret by dumping me so I'd be out of the loop and after the kids were born, she abandoned them; twins, apparently; in a basket. They will be 17 next month and I still haven't been able to find them.
I have a few friends who are objectively really attractive and women just throw themselves at them. They can be out there, anywhere, and they'll casually meet a girl. Once you see this you'll notice how over it is.
>>531232707>got filtered by collegeHaha educationlets and home schooled weirdos BTFO yet again.
>>531232707just be ambitious learn and work out every day etctry to better yourself there are good women out there they're just avoiding all of the shitty men just like how you're avoiding the shitty womennever give up and you'll eventually win
>>531234161Retarded nigger poster.
>>531232707I joined hobbies and non of them has women >kickboxing>steel work >wood work Inb4 just try dancing bro
>>531232707You don’t join a social club just to meet women you autistic fucking faggots. You join a social club you enjoy and hopefully meet women there. The goal is to socialize, meet people, and do something you enjoy otherwise, and hopefully meet a woman along the way. It’s not that difficult to understand but every zoomer is annoyingly autistic about things and can’t think in nuanced terms.
>>531234374Have you ever had sex, man?
>>531232707Stop posting this dumb fucking thread you clingy woman-brain faggot
>>531235318And what if I just want to meet a woman? I am 30, I have boatloads of male friends, I don't have any room nor interest to meet new people other than a potential gf. Where to go/what to do?
>>531235318>You join a social club you enjoy and hopefully meet women there.women and male interests almost never align. If you are joining a social club you actually like there will probably be no women:sports? nerd gaming? cars? hiking/camping? good luck
>>531234895My brother is a textbook Chad. Seeing how women act around him is eye opening. Normal guys have no idea what it is like being a tall, fit, conventionally attractive male. It’s life on easy mode, from women to employment, and everything in between. I thought about writing a book about it, but realized how depressing it all is for me. He got the looks genetics, I got the brain genetics, and he still came out on top.
>>531232707community college is like $200ish for a fun class, join painting or theatre or a camera or cooking class or best of all a dance class, in fact if you want to avoid academia just look for local salsa/jazz/swing dance classes, you’ll be one of the few guys there but you’ll be very appreciated
>>531232707I met my wife in college dated for a couple of years before marriage, it's literally that simple.
>>531234860Retard.
>>5312353181. Female and male interests don't align2. We are back to square 1: how does one acquire foid
>>531235483Join a running club. Join a sci-fi book club. There are other ones you can find that would work.>>531235404If you join clubs or groups with the express intent of meeting women it never really works, in my opinion. It has to come naturally.
>>531235549>As if you wouldn't be the weird old dude in that classlmao>>531235618>sci fi club>WomenLmao>Running clubNow I know you're a millenial>Hey anon how do I get women"Well it's just supposed to happen I don't understand the question">Anon how do I make it happen"It just does">But how
>>531235605>There is zero overlap between male and female interestsThis is what I meant by autism. There is overlap, you’re just not willing to do it. You are 100% stuck in your comfort zone, and find in its full of men. You need to get outside of that, maybe something you’re loosely interested in.
>>531235618>It has to come naturally.>Just be urself
>>531235709I AM LITERALLY ONE OF THE BEST ASTROLOGERS IN THE WORLD
>>531235605Women want to be the sidekick to a main character ultimately, that means something different to every woman so it they always seem irrational. You can be a ditch digger, but if you're the best ditch digger in town that will appeal to someone because you're the main character of ditch digging.
>>531235691>Reeses give me explicit instructions on how to do a complicated socially dynamic taskAutism point proven. Here let me give you the advice you’re actually looking for>Just lift and make money broThere, your bias has been confirmed.
>>531235740Genuinely if you’re not yourself entering into a relationship it won’t work, so that actually isn’t the worst advice. If you’re yourself and not able to get into a relationship maybe you need to look in the mirror.
>>531235404You sound like an autistic spurge. There's no hope for you. If you and your male friends weren't weird you'd all have lots of females friends and even girlfriend's by now. Normal men have no teouble meeting, talking to, befriending and getting girlfriends. You need to fix yourself
>>531235811I have 5 business. Women don't care.>Just liftWomen don't care about muscles, men do.
>>531235518Not sure how old you are but just think about the most popular/attractive people from your highschool and look up what they're doing today. I guarantee you they all have more interesting lives than you. Just somehow one of them ended up in Tokyo while the other has some kick-ass job in London.
>>531234161> le isn't hardThen tell us how to do it. If it's so easy, of course.
>>531235883>How do I get women"Just beeee urself">I've been myself for 25 years and it's not working"Just beeeeeeeee urseeeeelf"
>>531232707Join the military and die for Israel. That’s what they’re trying to push you into by locking off everything else.
>>531235895>I have 5 businessesThat doesn’t make you a good husband or man, it just proves you have resources. This type of utilitarian thinking towards relationships doesn’t work. Don’t get me wrong women want someone who can provide, but that doesn’t really matter much, hence why homeless Chad has women in his tent.
>>531233667This guy knows what's up. I just hope I live to see it happen. They could do it right this minute and have it cost 30 to 50k. Most average dudes could afford that and would absolutely buy one.
>>531235883>just be urselfis the most out of touch and worthless "I got mine in the 60s when that worked" advice that has ever existed
>>531235933Then you’re the problem. Not sure what to tell you. Maybe it’s your personality or your appearance they don’t find attractive.
i really wish i could stop caring about women. ex fiancee burned me very bad, been in a depressive fugue for years now, a singular plap 2-3x a year with fatties i show to nobody. long enough time has passed that i miss having someone give a shit about me. all it takes is some chick at work looking in my eyes for more than 3 seconds to start thinking maybe this one is it, but she never is. that’s not even addressing the physical reality of being a short bald chud manlet
>>531235991>Bro you need resources"Okay I have resources">NO NOT LIKE THATThis thread is an experiment in seeing how long it takes normalniggers to admit women might be at fault for something. It's incredible how the normie will twist themselves into a pretzel, even contradict themselves multiple times, to avoid saying something negative about women. It's like dealing with a libtard and facts. >>531236032From the OP:>It's your personalityWomen think I have a great personality when chadfishing
>>531232707People should worry more about making money remotely than dating.You're guaranteed a quality same race chick if you figure that out. And you can control her too since she's always in your house spaces.
>>531235995Then who are you going to be? A fake image of what you think the woman you’re dating wants? And how long can you keep that up for? Or is it that the person you are maybe isn’t that great?
>>531235809Have you ever had sex, man?
>>531232707I have approached women at the gym, the grocery store parking lot, a bakery, and a post office. Just don't be weird, be straight forward and smile it's that fucking easy. You win some, you lose some. It also helps to be 6'4" with a nice beard.
>>531236098>Then who are you going to be?6'
>>531236090>Its women’s fault they won’t date meOkay, and now what? Let’s say if is their fault that you’re single, what now? Where are you going with this?
>>531236097I run 5 businesses. I am rich beyond my wildest dreams. You don't want people knowing you're rich. >>531236098You're not a zoomer so I'll explain: every zoomer is looksmaxxing. Every zoomer is cultivating themselves to be perfect. They are in an arm's race with eachother. "Just beeee urself" doesn't work when everyone is acting like 10x versions of themselves all the time. You genuinely have no idea how hard we zoomers work at everything we do.
>>531232707Try not generalizing everything you crybaby ass bitch. >wah wah wah look at this one outlier! I'm going to take that one anecdote and apply it every chance I can to excuse my shitty depressive attitude>oh woe is mePathetic, little whiny bitch. Go back to >>>/r9k/
I'm 34 and haven't had a girlfriend in 15 years. It's sad but I've lost most of the emotional attachment to hopes of finding love, I don't even genuinely believe that I have anything to contribute to humanity anymore. It would be difficult for some people to understand just how little I value myself or how little I actually expect from life and existence.
>>531236172You're missing the point. I am trying to see what combination of words I can say in what order to get you to stop making excuses for women. If I can find that limit, I can get it into the zoomer zeitgeist and maybe real, genuine conversation can happen on the woman question. We can't even approach solutions if nobody is being honest.
>>531232986>>531233118Based oldfags, I see you
>>531236214>every zoomer is looksmaxxing. Every zoomer is cultivating themselves to be perfectThis is blatantly untrue
>>531236141I noticed you didn't say "I've fucked a lot of women from the parking lot, bakery, and post office." You said *approached*.
>>531236214Looksmaxxing is just rebranded metrosexuality. There is nothing new under the sun, but you’re a zoomer so you believe your problems to be wholly unique while ignoring anyone older than you. It’s fine, but you’d be surprised to know most women aren’t interested in a looksmaxxing faggot that you guys are all trying to model yourselves after.
>>531236098Day by day the argument for mass rape correction nationwide gets weaker and weaker. Why care about marriage when the people actually breeding don't either?
>>531236291I’m not making excuses for women, I’m being realistic. What is your plan? Okay, so it’s women’s fault, what now? What’s your plan? What would you change and how?
>>531236316It's verifiable. We are literally pioneering new science in changing our skull's shape by moving the fascia and beating the shit out of ourselves.>>531236353>You need to be goodlooking>No, stop trying to look goodlol
>>531232707just be insanely attractive, thats it.>but im not a 6'4 aryan gigachad!then you did not put in the damn work during conception, inkwell. you should have willed that into being with an abundance mindset.
>>531236286iktf bbat the same time, walking to work today i saw a pigeon fly into a guy on a scooter face first and it was absurd and im glad i experienced seeing it.
>>531236420How much are you being paid to make this thread
>>531236420I never said any of that, what I said is looksmaxxing is for faggots. It’s rebranded metrosexuality, which was gay when I was younger, and zoomers being turbo gay cranked it to 11.
>>531236419I already explained this to you.
You’re supposed to find the “one” during high school or college. The women are captured there. You’re never going to meet your future spouse in fucking Walmart or spin class. You gotta be a good bet when she’s forced to be around you and making yourself indispensable or at least worth her time during this critical window is the most important part. Once you’re working some corporate job and have bills and shit you’re not gonna have time or energy to put it into finding some half baked wife. We’ve failed our youth by telling them lies like “you’ll find a good woman later, focus on your studies” or letting them play video games all day instead of something social.
>>531232707>GENUINELY WHAT ARE YOUNG MEN SUPPOSED TO DO?Either workplace, or grocery store. Casual places you go to during errands. You first identify a cutie, then you add that into your rotation of places you go when you do errands. Eventually you'll see eachother enough times you can get a hint if she likes you such as if she smiles at you and says hi to you.
Posting in obv bait thread but maybe this can help one or two genuine, non fucked up, decent anons.There is a guaranteed way to meet decent women. You have to be Catholic though. Join a local Catholic young adult ministry. If there isn't one, create one (if you're the founder of a club you're guaranteed to find women attracted to you, they love men who can plan things). There are many things you can do in this young adult ministry , board game nights, bible studies, kickball, dodgeball, volunteer work, charity fundraisers, etc. My big secret is volleyball. Join a Catholic volleyball league at a local parish, young adult ministry and you will find decent, in shape, socialized, modest women with no tattoos (not saying some of them won't be slutty, but there's more loyal ones than in the general population). Volleyball is how my parents met, it's how I met my girlfriend, my friend married a girl who he met in Catholic young adult ministry, playing volleyball. Just be sociable and put your best foot forward. Try make yourself out to be a team player and go out to a place to eat or something with the team after the games. If you're not lazy and you actually put this little bit of effort in and get outside of your comfort zone, you will find that this message holds true. Join a local Catholic young adult ministry, or create one. If you're against religion, your relationship is doomed to fail anyways. Godspeed, anon
>>531236502I do it for free. >>531236505We are told that getting women requires we look good (e..g, >>531236466 even though he's being hyperbolic)Ok, we'll make ourselves look good. Now you're acting like a fag because we followed the advice we're given.
>>531232707The harsh reality no one wants to admit is that it's over for people who've gotten to this point. The people trying to help them aren't. The people posting "it's over" don't actually believe it's over and are just desperately seeking a solution. Ultimately, their efforts won't change a thing. There are some who are fundamentally incapable of finding love or sex. This can be for a variety of reasons, but there's no point in dwelling on it because it is unfixable. Incels need to move on. Normal people need to stop trying to help or guide them. Giving incels false hope only causes trouble. Honesty is the only answer.
>>531236656What's funny is that none of these "pick up women at the grocery store" fellas say they're fucking women. You're just the creepy old guys who confuse women being polite with "I've still got it," aren't you?>>531236666>Just go to churchAlready addressed in the OP. I'm orthodox (like most zoomers), not catholic
>>531236666>go catholic!>megasatan getHMMMM
>>531236751>The people trying to help them aren't.The purpose of something is what it does. The purpose of advice given to young men is to stop them from complaining.
>>531236110I'm married, I was the ditch digger (heavy machine operator making big money but you get the idea)
>>531232707Dating as an adult is a compounding punishment for all the time (You) wasted since your own youth. Tradwives, by definition, are compatible with 99% of men and they WILL get permanently hitched (or ruined) by their first or second suitor. Therefore, the imperative is that you be that first, and this means you must get them while they're young. Teens. That's how it's always been, that's how it will always be. If I had to magically start over, I would do these pretty much in order of priority >Work a local part time job, ie Walmart >Work at or frequent Chick Fil A, Hobby Lobby, Christian/education-theme stores>Volunteer at animal shelters or rescues >Volunteer at libraries >Volunteer at food shelters or some shit>Church hop around>Frequent hobby and craft center/stores >Frequent antique stores>Join or teach at a freshman level STEM courseAll to be in proximity to teen virgin maidens. Simple as. I'm too high test not to be balls deep and grooming my next wife within a few weeks, few months tops. Got triggered with what I said? Welp, I don't have bitch issue, but (You) do
>>531236676Being a looksmaxxing faggot isn’t the same thing as looking good. And don’t be facetious pretending you don’t know the difference. One is exercising and dressing well, the other is leg extensions, steroids, and bone smashing.Also, once again, you don’t need to be a model to meet a woman.
>>531236874There isn't a difference.
>>531236911Ah yes, the autism I referenced once again. You’re hopeless.
>>531232707There's a big structural problem that hasn't been solved. Women no longer need the average man to be able to afford to living. Yeah, I know. It required the passing of the dishonest Civil Rights Laws which made white men the only class with no protections and also preferenced women and non whites in hiring, but who's complaining? Seriously, though. When the average woman is richer and more privileged than the average man you don't get more Lady and the Tramp relationships. You get a world of Cruella DeVille's who scorn all but the most elite of men. We're at an impasse here. I don't see the necessary willpower to fix the problem until the Boomers die off. Bare minimum, white men must be allowed to favor white men in hiring and everywhere else. No wonder the elite has such utter hatred for free speech. It exposed their lie of equality.
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