Can any other americans/first worlders relate? I would give the entire world if it meant my parents never divorced. As soon as they remarried into different families (during middle school) it's like a switch flipped and they both started treating my younger brother and I like strangers and burdens- effectively clipping our wings. Surely, theres almost nothing more befitting a boomer/early gen x than a crop of kids left to the wolves after remarrying.
Parents need to start throwing their kids out at 12.
I'm getting kind of tired of pointing this out, but Jewish divorce law, as in practically all other matters, is superior to christian and islamic law.Here is a simple handbook for decoding religion.Does it favor women and homosexuals? Then it's Christian.Is it pro universal fascism? Then it's Judaism.
>>532202794beep beep boop boop
>>532202499So there was a moment when I was maybe 12 or so when my parents sat us down and told us they were getting divorced. Much wailing and gnashing of teeth ensued.Long story short, the idiots should have divorced and maybe that could gave spared me some of their bullshit. As it stands now, I've cut them off completely and they're my brothers' problem as far as I'm concerned going forward
>>532202499No shit. You're parents prioritised their pleasure over your development. They were always more important to themselves than you were to them. This isn't due to divorce, divorce was just a consequence.
>>532202499the solution to the problem is don't be so quick to get married. people get married too soon and then treat the marriage like a bf/gf realationship they can ditch any time, sometimes just a few months after they meet. my brother and his wife were together ten years before they married which is barely enough but they have their 30th anniversary this year. i was with my ex wife 5 years when we married and we divorced in like two. and it's almost always the woman pushing for it. but then again i know a dude who's parents met while his dad was fighting in korea, they married in less than 24 hours of meeting and they were married 50 years until he died.
Divorce needs to be banned or be an insanely difficult and unrewarding process for women.If a bitch wants to be divorced, then she is also being divorced from his bank account, his house (muh two names, it's always the man paying the mortgage), his cars, and his children
>>532202923Based.I went no contact.Also, ironically found out that everyone was fucked financially and on a death spiral without me sending money back home.
>>532203258Yeah wait until 40 to get married to some hag and pop out one autistic faggot kid who can get raped to death by the hordes of niggers jews import to boost population numbers
>>532203871I waited far too late into my 40's to finally do it. My mother is an emotional manipulator extraordinairre. Ironically they made it easy on me moving 2k miles away to be near my brothers. I saw them at Christmas and it was the same bullshit so I walked. Haven't spoken with them since.I like to imagine them trying to explain to the extended family why I refuse to be around. And I know it drives my mother crazy not knowing what's going on
Don't get married unless your families know each other. Her side will try to dissuade a divorce in order to maintain good relations. Otherwise what really prevents a woman from divorcing? Nothing I can think of, other man being a strong attractive man that has options.
Get over it fagget.
>>532206298no
I think people in general are retards.1. I don't believe in reproduction without marriage, if anyone says they are OK sith it it's because they are not mature. Don't give a fuck about the other person and they are larping... which they themselves may not even realize it (idiotic retards...).2. People who understand the seriousness of a marriage and family should reproduce, only. Most don't, they confuse relationship lust comfort and settling for Responsibility Forever with a Responsible Partner. 3. When you reproduce, you shouldn't worry about divorce, ever, because by now you should have done the checks and balances.4. If a partner dies, the other should not introduce other partners into the lives, to their Children until all Children move out after a proper education.5. Subhumans reproduce, because that is an eternal trend among them. Very few sane and self aware humans do, and if they do most likely the partner is an idiot and not up to par. Risk.That being said, OP, get over it. lolFfs, the world is retarded, it always was, it always will be riddled with subhuman, weak retards.
That was my experience as well OP. I used to be an only child and was spoiled as fuck it was great. When my Mom married my Step Dad she treated his kids so much better that even my Step Siblings noticed and thought she was a fucking weirdo. My Mom had my when she was 20. She finally went on to have my little sister at 40. I was never allowed much contact with my sister growing up. I remember one time I was invited to a birthday party and my Mom and Step Dads shitty friends tried to shame me asking why I hadn't been at previous birthday parties. I informed them that this was the first one I had been invited to and that I hoped to be invited to future parties.Never got invited again of course.My little sister used to complain that she didn't want to be an aunt because I also had a child.One time my Mom and Step Dad decided to come visit us and take us to a local amusement park for my Daughters birthday. I told them ahead of time that we had already been planning on going there and there would be people from my Dad's side of the family at the party. My child was too young and small to ride any of the big rides but my little sister wasn't. As soon as we got in my Mom and Step Sister started cutting in line for the first ride they could find and were confused why I didn't cut as well. They then wanted to start riding every ride my child couldn't and I explained to them it was her birthday and we were going to the kiddy part of the park. This shocked and out raged them and my Step Dad was just stalking around the park glaring at me and my Daughter and my Step Mom and cousins. They forever blamed me for "ditching" them at the theme park and when I told them what happened "didn't remember it that way". Stupid bitch. They moved to Cally Wally and I'll never see them again. Daughter is going to graduate high school soon and there's no way in fuck they're coming. I hate weimerica so much. Thanks for reading my blog post please click like and subscribe.
Im the only one I know whose parents were married until death and my own 18 year marriage is going strong. I'm proud to provide a stable peaceful home to my kids. Even my neighbors on both sides got divorced and remarried in the time I lived next to them and saw the chaos it brought to their kids.
>>532203478I’m divorcing my husband but he refuses to get a job that pays more than $15/hour. It’s because he’s poor not because he’s rich.
>>532208429Not a reason for divorce
>>532202499dunno. mine didn't divorce despite hating each other, which was fucking hell to grow up in and for sure left some permanent damage in my psyche.I am sure it's like 70% of the reason I never have lasting relationships, because I just bail the moment they get too cunty. No way I will end up like my dad.I think once your parents reach that point you are kinda fucked as a child no matter if they separate or not.
>>532208558He’s also a drunk and I’m sick of being poor. He literally can’t pay the utilities and all the expenses each month
>>532208429Lol, troll!Anyway, immagine wanting him to make more so you can a peace.
>>532202923>mom threatened to divorce my dad at least once a week>dad threatened my mom that he'll "lose" his job the second she does and she'll get nothing>constant screaming, could never have a friend over>every interaction with your parents is just them trying to weaponize you against the other>constant walking on egg shells because if you ever agreed with one of them the other would give you hell for weeks to come>on loop from age 6 till 19 before I could finally move out
>>532208644Ditch the drunk.Bills should be paid together.If you have children, do not have relationships, period. You made your choice so suck it up.Only whores have relationships while their children are under 18.
>>532208644Yeah but you’re obviously trash too so you’re life’s just gonna get worse not better, I suggest becoming an alcoholic too so you can at least cope better
>>532208644Show us a pic of your living room. If he's coming home to a mess and you're a fat slob that's why he's drinking himself into unconsciousness because his life is pure pain.Also him being poor didn't seem to stop you from letting him put his cock in you did it babe (male)?
>>532208867Goddam anon, that's fucking awful. You did not deserve that. I'm glad you got out at 19 at least. Better now?
>>532208644How is that my problem?You said yes, deal with it
>>532209849my life is infinitely better now, thanks. but I think that time made me incapable of having a relationship.I just can't put up with women's shit for long after growing up like that, I'd need to find an actual saint to have a family.whenever they start playing their psycho BPD games I immediately nope out of there because I am not suffering through that kind of shit again.
>>532211067I would encourage you to not give up all hope. Perhaps it can still happen. I'm 44, divorced once, no kids. One year into a relationship with a woman the likes of whom I've never met before. And she came after me. That's not to brag, its to say there's hope. Work on yourself and maybe the right one will come along.Personally, since I'm only about 4 months no contact, I still have countless arguments in my head daily with my parents. I'm told it will lessen as time goes on. Pulling for you boss
>>532208867How does a woman scream at her husband? My mother always agreed with whatever my father said and obeyed him. I'm the only one who had arguments with my dad and she always took his side even when he was wrong.
>>532211841>flagWe dont have that benefit
>>532211625>Personally, since I'm only about 4 months no contact, I still have countless arguments in my head daily with my parents.Ha I feel your pain on that one. For years and years I'd "debate prep" various conversations in my head to try and seem smart and impress them when all it did was make them think I was retarded and drug addled. My Step Dad was a lawyer. He used to work for the state to deny people disability. Arguing with him about various topics for years I came to realize that he had no logic. I can only imagine his court cases were won by knowing the judge (very common) and just kind of nodding and winking at the judge "get a load of this retard trying to get shekels" as they worked together to deny the probably disabled persons claims.Still catch myself doing that even though I'm never going to see them again and it was a meaningless waste of my time. Fucker legit thought a hydrogen fuel cell was free energy. Tried numerous times that you had to spend energy to split the water to make the hydrogen and he just thought I was stupid. My Mom was much smarter but just went along with him because she's an evil bitch and he probably has a huge dongler.
>>532213640Kek. Yeah, the imaginary arguments where they finally see the light are goddamn exhausting. I'm so ready to realize I haven't though about them in hours/days/months
I hate divorce
