I have a Bestfriend (37M). He is like a slightly younger brother to me.When I asked him, he said he doesn't use any dating apps. He has expressed disinterest in relationships. It's really disappointing to see him (Who could very well be described as one of the rare good or even great ones) be such a commitment phobe. Male forever bachelorhood seems anti women to me. Just my opinion.Regarding dating apps, he said it's a trap to get guys to pay for premium subscriptions and that it encourages shallowness and lookism. When I asked him why he hasn't seriously thought of dating to settle down, he described it as a waste of potential. That dating then marrying then having kids is a societal scam and very few married or committed men are actually happy. That most probably resent their wives, long term girlfriends and children. He says he doesn't want to end up regretting anything.When I told him he would grow old and die alone with that mentality, which I admit was a little too much, he stopped talking to me and continued typing on his laptop.I hate to see my eligible Bestfriend waste his life like this and be so bitter about relationships. He could make a great boyfriend or husband but decides not to for no reason.I see this becoming a more widespread mentality especially in countries likes Japan and Korea where men willingly choose the single life as it's deemed easier. There's a term for that. "Herbivore men". It's really selfish to be so self centered and abandon relationships and family for your own convenience.Opinions?
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Help him out. Set him up with a girl that you know
>>533444498I've seen this copypasta multiple times, so it makes me what kind of person or organization is interested in crap like this, and what they hope to gain out of it.
>>533444498not reading all that but he sounds based and you are a normienigger>>533444550gonna have one tonight
We have a saying in Japanese for this, "Notto mai probremu"
>>533444498I'm in the same position, some of us are born to be monks
>>533444498Cool blog, how do I unsubscribe?
>>533444498He's right about dating apps. This isnt radical, its just a normal response to everything being fucked up.Shit was fine back in the okcupid days when it wasnt so monetised or algo fucked. At least you could see everyone
>>533444498>commitment phobeWhen you conflate fear with what is actually hate or disgust, you show the weakness of your argument. Your friend is behaving rationally in the current cultural environment.
>>533444597it's concern trolling of the gayest order
>>533444498>"Herbivore men"My diet is mostly meat.
>>533444498Why don't you suck his cock to cheer him up?
I had a dream with Monica Bellucci
>>533444498Jewish bot thread
>>533444498Women and liberals say shit like "Society doesn't owe you sex." But when you see how women and liberals treat incels, it is clear that women and libearls actually believe: "Incels owe society sex."
>>533444550based
>>533444498So here I am, 2024, busting my ass 10 hours a day, 6 days a week, in a demolition job. Living at home, still single, a virgin, and honestly, I’ve never even had a real friend. My “stranger danger” mother kept me isolated my entire life, and now I’m just stuck in this cycle – no relationships, no social life, no way to feel like I’m worth anything. Just work, sleep, and repeat.And the worst part? Look around at the “entertainment” now. It’s all YouTubers screeching into microphones while playing the same games over and over, making bank for acting like toddlers. Then there’s OnlyFans, where random people make millions just by showing up online. Meanwhile, here I am, working a job that actually takes a toll on me physically and mentally, and I get nothing out of it but bills and stress.I’m at a point where I’m starting to wonder if this is it. Like, is this what life has to offer? Working until I can’t anymore, with no relationships, no friends, and the knowledge that the world is just going to keep rewarding this mindless entertainment? What’s the point of working hard if you’re always stuck on the sidelines, watching everyone else make easy money for doing nothing?
>>533444498It is not your problem.
>>533444550I, too, dreamt of your mom.
>>533444498He's right. Last time I went on a date was a year ago. We went on 4 dates over a year, she acted like she was interested, she talked about going on a trip together at the end of the year, acted interested and remembered little details, then when I asked if she wanted something serious she said no, and that she was only looking for "friends" and not interested "in that way". I have not spoken to a woman since outside of the context of my job. I don't really have any interest in dealing with these narcissistic people
>>533445953They want you to be functioning productive member of society. Even retard nazi natalists want you to breeeeed as it's good for society. If whites check out then politicans will patch the demographics with immigration because the system doesn't function if it ever becomes top heavy.So yeah. I'm a bit ashamed to say I'm in a similar position. Don't really care for society or dating much. But I could see myself maybe get a family and don't think it's that dogshit. Just hard to get motivated to go out and find a proper partner because if it feels like if I have to immerse myself in normie culture I'd rather die.
>>533446934It's not worth the effort because adultery and divorce are legal, and financially rewarded. A woman can cheat on you and divorce you whenever she wants, and she will be financially rewarded for doing so (unless you brutally kill her and mount her head on a wooden steak on the front lawn - but then you'll also have to kill cops until they kill you or else you'll go to jail).
>such a commitment phobe
Please do not post in memeflag threads, or at least use sage in the options field if you do. Even if this topic interests you, this thread with minor variations gets constantly reposted. Like every hour, and almost always 1pbtid as well.
I think it's more of everyone chasing dollars and holding onto any free time with both hands. Why squander that on fools?
>>533444498Commitment really is a commitment for men. We don't get to nope out the instant we get bored and go running to the divorce lawyer for cash and prizes - men are forced into indentured servitude for the rest of their lives paying a woman's bills in return for precisely nothing.
>>533444498>It's really selfish to be so self centered and abandon relationships and family for your own convenienceYes. And? I love being selfish, I consider other people mere stepping stones to be trod upon.
>>533444498Men used to choose to die on a distant voyage or fight on crusade, but nowadays you get pressured by your metrosexual friends into committing to women, otherwise you are selfish.lmao.im sure it wasnt uncommon in ye olden times for some guys to just fuck prostitutes in brothels and never get married.
>>533447790Noted>>533444498You are a faggot and you don't deserve a friend that based. KYS.
>>533444597>what kind of person or organizationJews>what they hope to gain out of itDehumanization and slow death of goyim, continuation of exploitation cycle.
>>533444498>Opinions?relationships and sex are the most important thing in the world for some anons but, they are not important for others. the juice and squish not being worth it.
>>533444498>Opinions?Leave him the fuck alone, his opinions (all of which are correct btw) are none of your business.
>>533444550Who was it ?
>>533444498I think you should unironically commit suicide along with all your friends
seriously OP, fucking kill yourself
>>533444498Stop trying to fuck your best friends life up.
>It's really selfish to be so self centered and abandon relationships and family for your own convenience.Kys, we don't owe society or women anything.OP sounds exactly like my female family members who bitch and moan when I tell them that I'm not interested in dating or marriage. Below are a few of their complaints:>"You can't have an opinion on dating because you've never experienced it.">"It's not all women.">"So what, you plan to be a bachelor your whole life?">"So I won't become a grandmother?">"Who will take care of you when you're older?">"I'm sure you'll change your mind, [insert name of cousin here] got married last year.">"Are you gay?">"You just have to meet the right girl.">"YOU'RE SELFISH REEEEE"They're so convinced that I'll change my mind lmao, I can't wait to see the look on their faces in 5 years when they realize I'm being 100% serious.
Having kids means fighting a constant uphill battle against the State. A battle you will most likely lose since you are immediately at a disadvantage by having a full time job that keeps you away from your kids for most of the day. For every hour you spend teaching your son or daughter values of virtue, family, religion, racial awareness, the State will spend 8 hours undoing it in school. And that's not even taking into account the other hours of "undoing" through media and socia network exposure. You won't even be able to influence what peers they hang out with because even if you're a high earner who managed to move to a "nice" area, chances are there is some government initiative to make sure they will rub shoulders with niggers, whores and other "marginalized" groups in school and in your neighbourhood.The only cope of child havers is thinking their kids will look after them in old age. They won't. In all likelihood they will be even poorer than you are and at some point in their lives the conditioning will be too much and they will have some internalized hatred for you.
>>533452551You forgot to add the ever increasing chance that your wife might wake up one day and decide she no longer loves you. Suddenly you're hit with divorce, child support and even alimony payments. Most of the time it's the man who has to lose half his shit and pay out of pocket for alimony/child support. It's no longer worth the headache, and is why more men should become volcels.
>>533444498For 37 years men were told speaking to women is attempted rape. Now we're being told it's our fault for not talking to women.
>>533444498Men are checking out of society at an alarming rate
>>533454579grim
>>533444498shutup fag. if he doesn't want to date then he doesn't want to date. women are ass nowadays anyways. have you seen the zoomie girls? total fuckups and they all have narcissistic personality disorder.
Stfu kike
>>533444498>be me>work full time>exhausted>weekend comes>lie around and do nothing because of how tired i feelkek where the fuck am i going to find the time and energy to date?
>>533444498>I>I>IWhy dont you set up your oh-so eligible best friend? What would be his match? Remember, he's "one of the good ones", so he deserves a woman who matches what he brings to the table. She better be>young enough to have kids>not already a mother>not in debt>not riddled with STDs or SSRIs>no history of "dating">not fatHow many quality single women do you know that you could introduce him to?
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>>533444498leave him alone, the bible talks about this (chads shunning women and marriage)
>>533444498>ctrl-f>'bussy'nothing showed upyou know what you've gotta do, retard
>>533444498this one's easysimply make a life sized effigy of a woman out of paper macheand nail it to his fuckin' front doorjobs a good'un
desire is the root of duḥkha. This is the second noble truth.That by its shear nature of existing, duḥkha holds within it its own cessation and means of cessation. Knowing this, one can overcome duḥkha. This is the third noble truth.Your best friend has set in motion the third wheel of the fourth noble truth, in rejecting material desire and following the noble eight-fold path.Don't mourn for him. Applaud him and see the wisdom in his ways.
off topic reddit copypasta posted by a 1pbtid memeflag homosexual jew
>>533448266A lot of good men died from syphilis, sadly
>>533444498You should seriously suck his cock, anon. Make sure you guys can couple up and save his life.
a tinder subscription is 20-30 eurosjust pay its cheaper than 2 cocktails in a bar
>>533456316Absolutely zero.>xx>They won't. In all likelihood they will be even poorer than you are and at some point in their lives the conditioning will be too much and they will have some internalized hatred for you.Alot of people were told "we cant afford" and then that same person would go on a boomer trip every year, without fail.So in the year 2025, please explain to me how I pay higher insurance than my peers because my boomers "couldn't afford" to teach me how to drive, put me on their insurance so I can establish a history, nah.None of that. You have to bootstrap your whole way to owning a car.Then once you own a car it quickly goes from "I need the keys incase I have to move it"To"Oh byy, my truck broke down and yours is right that byy, id do the same for you but I HAS TAAH AND THEIRS NO WAY AROUND ER BYYS, CANT AFFORD TO FIX MY TRUCK SO I GOTTA BREAK YOURS NOW"And then you sit there and seriously ask yourself....if I stop sending extortion money back east, will my sTruck that I have not sat in, get blown up deliberately. Tldr I own nothing and it is infuriating.
>>533444498maybe stop being gay anon
