some of them actually need around the clock care if they suffer from dementia/alz Plua the fact that intergenerational households are gone like the dodo in the west its quite hard for their progeny to work a full time job, maintain relationships and take care of the elderly all in 1 dayFirst we fix the community and family issues and the elderly care will solve itself Anyways my uncle who's 84 who has rapid dementia and was put in a home 6 months ago has>kicked an Philippino nurse so hard in the jaw shes and permanent medical leave and he had to be restrained for a few weeks>keeps trying to climb into other female patient beds to have sex with them>somehow stole alcohol from a loced cabinet (they have a minibar at the end of the month)>keeps leaving food on people's chairs so they sit on itNow this dude used to be the most prim and proper frenchman ever and dementia has made him lose all inhibition
>>533799503Elderly people with dementia need literal 24/7 care. Naturally, most younger family members can't provide that because they have to wage slave. >>533799786The worst is when they literally forget who you are and become violent because they think that you are a burglar who broke into their home.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeFpsj6ZPIs
>>533799503>younger generationsIf she lived into her 90s her children are boomers, which pretty much checks out. Gotta chase the Cashnado instead taking care of your parents.
Guys I am definitely calling it quits by 75, if I am blessed enough to get there. Hunter S Thompson picked 67 but I feel like I could get a few more good years if given the opportunity. Everyone I know who is 80+ either lives in medical hell, or spends all their time at the doctor attempting to prevent medical hell with surgeries and prescription drugs. When I am old I want to take a nap, not get surgeries all the time. Who ever heard of old people putting themselves through this? When you get elderly you should tip your cap and let what takes you take you.
>>533799503In order to ensure your children won't do this you have to forge a deep bond with them, instill them with the value that they have a duty to care for you in your old age, and help them as much as you can throughout your life, build them into upstanding people with strong families of their own and stay close. Live in close proximity, be involved in their lives and your grandchildren. That's how you avoid it.
>>533799503Boomers had 15 fucking years of blissful nothing to do that they could have used to build fucking robots so that Shanqweesha and Bixnood wouldn't be able to pillow their faces into oblivion. The Boomer gets what The Boomer fucking deserves.
>>533799503As cruel as it sounds I cut my parents off over 20 years ago, they are basically like jewish atheist but alcoholics. They are was scheming, getting ran out of town to town, like kikes. Last time I talked to them, they called cps on me, basically they wanted me to divorce my wife, become a dependent with my kids so they could collect more welfare. My parents belong in an oven.
>>533800238>chase the Cashnadokek, nice reference, and they say Germans have no sense of humour
>>533799503My parents took care of me, so I built an ADU on my property and moved them into it. But my parents are educated professionals in possession of all of their mental faculties. My dad is an engineer and my mom is a cardiologist. Having mentally normal elderly parents is easy. Having a parent with dementia is horrible. Many of them need round the clock care and a special facility that is safe for both them and the people around them. Most people dont have the time and are simply not equipped to care for a dementia patient in their advanced stages. If I ever get diagnosed with dementia, I don't want to saddle my family with the burden of caring for me so I will just kill myself. I will overdose on morphine or some other opioid. Anyone who doesn't kill themselves shortly after a dementia diagnosis is a selfish coward. By the time you have enough clinical signs to diagnose, your brain is Swiss cheese already and its too late.
>>533799503How in the fuck are you supposed to take care of 2 violent demented boomers, raise a family of your own AND hold a full time job that can somehow pay for all of that?
Because younger generations are the lazy, selfish people they claim boomers are.
>>533799786>>kicked an Philippino nurse so hard in the jaw shes and permanent medical leave and he had to be restrained for a few weeks>>keeps trying to climb into other female patient beds to have sex with them>>somehow stole alcohol from a loced cabinet (they have a minibar at the end of the month)>>keeps leaving food on people's chairs so they sit on it
>>533799503If the economy was not fucked and you didn't need to have a 2 income household with overtime to make ends meet, then maybe we could take care of the elderly.
>>533799503literally no one can ignore you in the nursing home if you have no kids
>>533799503>Why do younger generations let their parents rot in nursing homes nowadays?If my boomer parents could afford it, and they weren't going to leave anything to me but instead to some charity bullshit. I'd make them pay their own way of 12 grand a month in a nursing home.
>>533802220We already do regardless, it's taken right out of our pay. They want MORE.
My grandma has dementia also. I have the strong urge to punch her around a bit. Should I do it? It would be funny as fuck and bitch wont remember anyway.
>>533799503I carried my mother in 2024 to a hospital when she had a stroke.A year later she made a habit of physically assaulting me. I called police on her and they did nothing for me (LA county and I am white, go figure).She then got a restraining order and physically assaulted me again. Then she called police. Police served the restraining order and when I asked them if I could retrieve a laptop while they were still on the scene, I was arrested for RO violation.I hope my mother ends up in a nursing home where she is forced by niggers to fight to the death with other boomers. Fuck her. I save your life and that's how you repay me? Fucking spic.
>>533799503some of them deserve it
>>533802178send a prayer or a heil hitler to my uncle allan he will inevitably get up to some new form of trouble and laugh it off
>>533799503>1pbtid>Nobody wanted to take care of her. Yes, because she was a fucking boomer asshole lousy parent, that's why.
>>533799503The stupid daughter should have taken her in. Yea, the nigger workers kill you at nursing homes. I hope you don't have to learn this the hard way, it's not a joke. They'll abuse you.
>>533801679>grandma in their 90s>kids not taking care of grandmaHer 6 kids are boomers, you retarded boomer.
>>533799786what if your uncle was actually sick most of his life and only recently became better
>>533799503It all depends on whether the parents raise their kids to be responsible or low maintenance.You reap what you sow.
I don't care how well you took care of me, I can't dedicate literally years of my life to changing your diapers. I need to find a mate and produce children and after that I need to take care of said children, if you don't set yourself up for your future you can't cannibalize me to live a couple more months (or the same months but with a .1% increased QOL)
>>533799503Very soon, the people who deserve that treatment will finally be in that position. Anyone older than 85 currently needs to be protected.
>>533799786>some of them actually need around the clock care if they suffer from dementia/alzit's funny that almost no old people needed to be locked away for that from greatest gen and prior. people used to just deal with cooky gran/gramps at home until they croaked. of course you are correct multigenerational families generally kept old people sharp and engaged but white people no longer believe in that because jewish commands to throw you kids out at 18
>>533799503It's always been like that.
>>533799503> be boomer> kick out kid at 18> be surprised that family isn't in contact with you> rot in a nursing home > die abused by shitskinsBoomers voted for this
>>533799503It's the fate of boomers to eventually outlive their minds where the retirement dollars they spent their entire lives cultivating is drained by boomer concentration camps or as people like to call them "retirement homes" it's the final stage in a goycattles life, the final squeeze before they gracelessly expire and are disposed of, to sit in a box in someone's closet as ashes in an urn.
>>533799503If you get diagnosed with dementia, then you need to make arrangements while still somewhat lucid. You shouldn't want your family to be locked in your home caring for your demented ass. You're not even you anymore, but still expect your loved ones to put their lives on hold until you die. Said people should plan for euthanasia. Leave in your own terms, while still having some sense of who you are.
>>533802588You think the question is limited to this reddit post because you're stupid.
It’s funny that literally all of Reddit has never dealt with dementia so they believe thatIn reality people with dementia think EVERYONE is trying to kill them if they don’t get whatever strange shit they want that moment. If they want to wander into the road and you try to stop them, you’re no longer the husband of fifty years you’re the forgotten neighbor who moved out sixteen years ago back for his damn lawnmower, it was OUR lawnmower Carl! This never happened, but if it did, as soon as he got her outside she would have tried to drive and claimed he was part of the hospital staff if he refused to let her.
>>533799503Nearly every last boomer made sure their ((Greatest Generation)) parents experienced an end like this. It isn’t even worth discussing what the boomers did to their children’s generations
>>533803078You dumb nigger, the people in the nursing homes are the parents of boomers. Millennial parents are just hitting retirement age. But keep blaming your doings on younger people who don’t have parents in nursing homes.
>>533803091Who has the post about the dude who became a tranny at some point in his adult years, then became geriatric as a tranny and developed dementia. Then he reverted to being a dude mentally, but he was constantly asking where his penis had gone and why the medical staff had removed it?
>>533803368Younger people don’t even have the money to “put” their parents in nursing homes. They often don’t even have the money to put a roof over their heads and food on the table despite working full time.
By the time we get old there will be suicide booths and we'll be encouraged to use them long before we get to this stage.That is if the elderly aren't all killed off in WW3 or whatever mass culling the elites have planned.
>>533803446They also don’t have parents who are of age for nursing homes.
>>533802405Old dementia people legit lose the frontal cortex function. They are firing off their lizard brain instead. Sorry that happened. My mom is getting loonier as she gets older and will do some seriously evil shit every once in awhile. I can't tell if she's crazy, or fucking with me.
A lot of anons got it exactly right. The baby boomers shoved their parents in care homes to rot and die, and drained wealth from their own kids to fund themselves.They have truly been the most demonically monstrous generation to have ever existed.
>>533803662That sucks man.Like big time. If she was just distrustful of me and she was having internal doubts about what was best for her... ...my mom had me figured wrong the whole time then.I was in business school gaining tutor skills and I got my bachelor's. I had a shit time with jobs during the summer but I re-enrolled in a graduate program to try and better my situation. Dropped out when I was clued in that the program I was in was honestly shit. I re-entered the workforce and was actually in the middle of several career changes. I was going to try and do law enforcement. Something that was a really good salary and would take me all kinds of places. The whole time, I was giving solid advice to her: re-enter the workforce via remote work and try and get a bunch of bullshit HR jobs where she could be like those people during COVID doing a shit ton of remote jobs and making beyond six figures.She had me figured wrong. I wanted her to have a lot of money and retire, somehow, with her husband.She's an asshole. :(
>>533803662Honestly man, this is enlightening.I had no idea she just had brain damage. I said it aloud to myself out of spite because I just had no idea why she was being so irrational. This explains it.
>>533799503Sorry boomer you should have planned for this instead of going on those cruises and leaving nothing to your children.Rot in the Hell of your own making you selfish pricks.
>>533799503My boomer mom bailed me out of jail multiple times, so she'll never end up in one of those kill shelters.
>>533799503My boomer parents shoved my grandma into a nursing home first chance they got, and sold the house my grandpa built so they could fund a fucking cruiseship vacation around the world. My grandparents let my dad lived with them well into his 30s after he graduated college and tried to set up his business. They fronted him all the money to start his business and the down payment on a mortgage when he met my mom and wanted to get married. They gave him everything and they just shoved my grandma into one of those hellcages the moment my grandpa was out of the way.Those same parents kicked me out the day I turned 18 despite still being in highschool. I had no money for college or a trade school and had to work days and attend community college at night to get accreddited. My parents reverse mortgaged their home and told me I am going to get nothing from them because I am spoiled and need to learn to pull myself up by my bootstraps.My parents will get nothing from me. They can figure shit out for themselves.
>>533799503Like lots of other people have said some people's brains just start breaking down and they need a level of care that their kids can't provide. It sucks, but there's not anything you can realistically do about it.Some people, however, are simply so self-centered and arrogant that the idea they may one day need help from the kids they treated, or are actively treating, like shit never occurs to them. Even when confronted with the results of their actions, they still believe the people who refuse to kowtow to them are at fault.
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>>533800416>Hunter S Thompson picked 67SIX SEEEEEVEEEEEEN
>>533803370absolute clown dystopia lmao
>>533806144Always remember when they are old and dying you will still be middle age and you can fucking laugh in their faces.
>>533805641The ancient Greeks said humans were inhabited by a human soul, and a wild daemon(not the same as the Christian demon). Your demon is a wild animal, but the source of your power IRL. Your human soul has to learn to control it.This lines up perfectly with the modern understanding of the lizard brain being a wild animal, and your prefrontal cortex having to restrain it.
>>533801466Based and MAID pilled. That's what it should be for plus terminal diagnoses once you can't be self sufficient
>>533805641Also, yah a stroke can cause brain damage.
>>533807104*daemon is a wild animal
>>533799503At the root of every person who has been abandoned by their family two answers exist: broadly, the truth always falls between them>a tragic set of circumstances that make their family unable or no longer present to care for them>they were a really shitty parent and their kids want nothing to do with themI can't think of hardly anyone my age who has a healthy relationship with their parents. There is some insane alienation in there; it's usually our grandparents we are closer to or have more positive associations with.There are reasons for this and I don't think if you lived life enough I really need to spell it out.Shit's fucked.
>it's going to happen to a lot of usBOLD OF THIS REDDITOR TO ASSUME ANY OF US WILL RETIRE
>>533801466>Anyone who doesn't kill themselves shortly after a dementia diagnosis is a selfish coward.> not taking a ceo or politician with you to the grave with youI shiggy diggy
>>533806784>>533800416BAT COUNTRY
>>533800452shit I guess my mom is going to die in her own filth then.
just uncircumcise me and maybe I'll give half a shit about those fucking vermin
>>533800238Well also, that generation was responsible for raising the boomers. They are not blameless
>>533806144Jesus. Did you at least land on your feet somehow?
>>533802733Date a brown chick for a while and eventually she'll tell you how every girl in the family got sexually abused by grandpa at a young age.
I took care of my father for 10 long years. From 19-29. I had to drop out of college because we couldn't afford a nursing home for him for the care. It basically ruined my life, but I hold my head high in the end. I don't wish it on my worst enemy. Literal fucking hell. The shit that I saw, what he became, what I had to do to care for him. My mom worked full time to keep us afloat since she woulda made more money than me.10 fucking years man. I just graduated college at 33 while working full time. Graduated into one of the worst job markets for tech in history. I could have been anything...
>>533807895Sorry to hear it, bud. At least you did what was right.
>>533799503You literally can't care for someone with dementia unless you drop everything you are only do and only care for them 24/7. You couldn't even go to the grocery store. My dad had that shit and he absolutely needed to be in a facility. It was hard but we went to see him all the time. Shit sucked miss you dad.
>>533799503You did that, I am taking care of my family. Always rich or at least wealthy people that let their family rot. Poor people, all they have is money. >>533807895Good on you, now you have a chance that your kids will actually take care of you.
>>533800416My dad bit from dementia at like 72 after diagnosis 2 years prior. Fucking brutal man. I'm toast.
TBD
>>533803370isn't that just the batman meme? ("Where are they?!")
>>533807397BATTY BOIIII
>>533799503Dementia is fucking horrible. My grandma died with it last year. My aunt was living with her taking care of her in the early stages but eventually she needed 24/7 care and had to be put in a home.She lingered there for SEVEN years and by the end she was basically a vegetable. My mom would visit her every week but after 2 or 3 years she forgot even her own children and would just stare at you looking confused.This care home cost thousands of dollars a month too. Luckily my grandma had her mortgage fully paid off so they were able to sell her house to pay for it when she went there.But it was fucking horrible - paying thousands of dollars a month to keep her alive in this undignified vegetative state There's a theory that dementia is "type 3 diabetes" - the brain develops insulin resistance and can't use glucose for energy and starts to degrade. I'm trying to get my mom to cut out sugar and processed goyslop to reduce her risk.She had 5 siblings and my grandma's dementia was still a big burden for them. I'm an only child I can NOT deal with it if she gets dementia I have my hands full just taking care of my own shit.I'm skeptical of MAID because it's 100% a slippery slope (and probably targeted at straight white males because... Canada...) but I think a dementia diagnosis is one of the few cases where it's justified
>>533806144super villains and career criminals get started with less shit than this in their backstory, it's so possible too that I don't think you're LARPing
>>533807895I took care of my parents too at the same age. It was frustrating but I knew it was the right thing to do. I've been held back in life because of it, too far behind all of my peers to ever be a success in anything. Been a loser by all measures. But if you're not going to be there when your parents need you the most, then you're not a man at all, nor are you any type of successful person. As the years went on, I'm happy I made the choice. You should be too.
>people with their own responsibilities and people to take care of aren't able to provide 24/7 care to geriatric zombies??Elderly people use to have expectations placed on them, now the overwhelming majority are utterly worthless. Maybe they should've actually raised their kids and grandchildren instead of watching TV and getting fat.
>>533801466The problem is people with dementia are too impaired to realize they have dementia. They think everything's fine and other people are the problem for noticing their cognitive decline/not going along with their delusions.By the time you get diagnosed with dementia you probably won't have the self awareness to take the appropriate course of action
>>533807895Your parents ruined your life. Boomers are scum.
>>533802733>it's funny that almost no old people needed to be locked away for that from greatest gen and priorThats because theyd be dead from their bodily ills before their mind went to shit. Now theyre on a bunch of pills and surgeries and so on that keep the body alive, but the mind is dead.
Sometimes it's the level of care needed. In other cases, it's sheer convenience. Fuck that shit. I'd rather die of natural causes at home than have my life prolonged in a "nursing home" prison. Boomers? Idk, man. I think they'll reverse mortgage to buy some sort of cruise retirement home package where they get tossed in the sea at the end, but it's a boomer party until then. I don't think their kids will take care of them in a lot of cases. My boomer dad died of lung cancer, no nursing home but about a week in ICU before he died. I was homeless in the months leading up to his death living in a barn, and he needed help around the house and offered to let me move in to take care of him. I just simply couldn't stand the guy; always looking for a loud argument, always nasty shit to say, wild accusations, etc. I couldn't stand the guy enough to move in and help him around the house when he was dying and I was homeless. I'm sure there are/will be many such cases. So many of the boomers are just awful, wicked people when it comes to their kids.
>>533808889can confirm, whne it's diagnosed it's too late for the patient to do anything about it. got an old fella near me that is on his way out quickly, not long after being diagnosed with dementia. worst thing is that he's looking after his non-dementia mother in her 90's, insane situation
>>533809010Nah I think dementia is way more common now because of goyslop.Sugar + seed oil induced metabolic problems
>>533799503>let their parents rot in nursing homesneverI'd even get a job to prevent this
>>533799503Because once your brain is not functional anymore you should be put down, in any era of history you would simply be left to die.
Died the way she raised her kids.Pissing themselves in fear, poetic justice for the boomer.
>>533809098Sometimes it's unavoidable. My grandma fell and broke some bones. My aunt was living with her looking after her. But a social worker at the hospital said she needed 24/7 medical care. Basically government mandated they either get a live in nurse or send her to a care home.Honestly I think it would've been better if she'd just died when she fell instead of recovering then living the next 7 years with dementia being a burden on everyone.
>>533800452People seem to forget that your children are more important than you.
>>533809015>I couldn't stand the guy enough to move in and help him around the house when he was dying and I was homeless. I'm sure there are/will be many such cases. So many of the boomers are just awful, wicked people when it comes to their kids.Dont worry anon, my dad's so hard to deal with my brother seems to have chosen 2+ years in jail versus dealing with him, kek.As someone who was left a loaded rifle to shoot themselves with, and then given a plane ticket and 300$ when I declined, I sympathize heavily. Boomers literally refuse to teach you how to use guns because you want to learn how, then expect you to shoot yourself and act surprised when you dont.
>>533799503My mother spent most of her time lying, belittling, gaslighting, and being emotionally cruel. Most of our lives were dominated by trying to tiptoe around Dad and try to avoid one of his tantrums. I'm closer to death than birth now and in all this time I've not had a single real conversation with them about anything substantial, talking to one is like talking to a stranger in an elevator. People have a great difficulty understanding that their parents aren't like mine and mine aren't like theirs, and when I seem spiteful towards one of them it isn't because they were Leave it to Beaver quality and I just decided to feel this way to be an asshole. It doesn't fall out of the sky.
>>533809303Oh, anon you dont know about the boomer drop trick?Take them in to redo the will and cut 5 more people in, then she "has a fall" and has to be sedated and put down?Seeing how hard my homie got fucked on his inheritance bag after being the only one to give a shit for the last 5-8 years of their life and then having to renovate the house they stole from him , to sell so they can all "take a cut" with their boomer drop trick leaves a very bad taste in ones mouth.Eye opener for me.Tldr his kids got fucked out of a house and wont be homeowners at 18, thusly forcing them to bootstraps, forever.
>>533808752Interesting theory. Will do further research. Since I've slipped and others notice if it gets weird I'm going on a hike in serious wilderness and let nature make it's choice.
>>533802548>The stupid daughter should have taken her in.Yeah you should leave your dementia addled boomer alone in your home while you're at work. She probably won't take your car out or burn the house down.
>>533809303It's usually the bones break and the fall happens, especially with the hip.
Classical Greek and Roman medical texts seldom mention dementia, although elderly ailments of other kinds are described. It is quite likely that dementia has more to do with modern lifestyles than anything.
>>533809334Truth. My children weren't brought here to care for me. If given a terminal diagnosis they won't know at all. No funeral just off to cremation. If they happen to call they will be told but only after it's all taken care of.
>>533799503>Nowadays This has been a thing for decades, ragebaiting fag. Most Americans don't want to take care of their parents.
>>533799503just off yourself at that point. If you are just sitting in your room in your own filth waiting for you relatives to come visit then surely death would be preferable.
>>533807722We need to have an open and honest conversation about how hard boomers preyed sexually on kids, I spoke out about it and it caused a Hiroshima level boomer meltdown, that in turn caused a chain of events that now people are like"Oh, it all makes sense now."One observation i have, is that people who are abused and conditioned to keep quiet about it will never raise a hand against the people who wronged them, but are the first to hurt a child and gleefully tell them they deserve it because of what someone else did.Also just by talking about it and being open, two women have came forward and pointed the finger at boomers who raped them as kids or diddled them.
>>533809503Ah I don't think that was my case.My aunt was already a multimillionaire. Inherited from her deceased husband. She had more money than she knew what to do with.My grandma was very stubborn. Always wanted to be independent and hated taking help from others. They tried to keep her away from the stairs or at least have my aunt assist her walking up and down them but she was in denial about her declining abilities and would use the stairs behind my aunt's back all the time.Which makes her dementia even worse I'm sure she would've opted for MAID if she were in her right mind and could see what a burden she'd turned into.
>>533809831realistically they're too impaired to do thatunderstanding the context in which you find yourself in requires active mental processing that they don't havehaving dementia is probably a long string of confusing nightmares
>>533800416>Hunter S Thompson picked 67He's roaming the lower astral these days. He's mellowed out quite a lot since his living days. Although I cannot describe him much beyond his appearance (he really does prefer the aviator style sunglasses and hat), he acts like a product of his time.He will be recycled in a few thousand years. There are no lessons for him to learn there, or here.
>>533800452my mom was a single mother piece of shit alcoholic who never earned above minimum wage and i still moved back to take care of her in her older age. idk what kind of psycho could just let their loving parent suffer like that. more hylic behavior 4 sure.
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>>533802761No, it was not. We used to take care of our elders. I worked in that awful field, you have no idea what you are talking about. >The shift toward institutionalized care in the US was largely driven by federal policy changes that began in the 1930s. The 1935 Social Security Act inadvertently created the modern nursing home industry by prohibiting payments to residents of public almshouses, forcing the elderly into private facilities. >Following World War II, the 1954 Hill-Burton Act provided grants to build nursing homes modeled after clinical hospitals, while the 1965 creation of Medicare and Medicaid established a permanent financial foundation for these institutions. This transition was further accelerated by the 20th-century trend of urbanization and the entry of women into the workforce, which dismantled the traditional multi-generational household and moved elderly care from the family home into professionalized, government-funded settings.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK584647/https://www.americanscientist.org/article/the-evolution-of-the-nursing-homehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK217552/
At least if you have kids you have a chance of one taking care of you. #childfree Redditors and cat moms are going to understand why the "wine aunt" is always so miserable and lonely.
>>533810669you will not be able to provide enough to justify to your own children why you brought them into this prison planet existence. you will also be forgotten in the african nursing home
Geriatric fucks like this "live" for the sake of not being dead. They're not there mentally or physically, but are just cognisant enough to be subconsciously terrified of an unknown eternity. There's no grace or decorum in inconveniencing everyone around you just so you can live one more day as a delirious zombie.No surprise people don't want to deal with them
>>533799503I have been helping my grandma, driving her to appointments and just being around her, I pray that I die before I am 70. I will never inflict myself on another human when I am old if I have any say in the matter. The Eskimo had it right, send them off on an ice float.
Not to be crass but people are supposed to fucking die at some point. Cholesterol medicine and shit makes boomers live indefinitely. My parents have never once cared about their health and are doing well in mid 70s, no seemingly huge problems
>>533811654I believe we need to come up with the concept of a death quest where younger people contribute to send older people on a cool adventure and then at the end you dose yourself.
>>533811786>Cholesterol medicine and shit makes boomers live indefinitelyQuite the opposite. There's a link between statins and dementia. And they don't really reduce the risk of heart disease
>>533800452Why do you hate jews?
>>533810107>loving
>>533811910Statins are statistically the most important drugs of all time. Stop believing random shit and ask a cardiologist
>>533812250(((Drugs))), no thanks kike. I'll stick to weed and tobacco.
>>533811910A lot of dementia is actually the result of medications you don't really need and which just harm people.
>>533807895I'm sorry, but I fully believe that your father ruined your life. Your youth was spent on taking care of someone who had lived longer than he was naturally meant to live, and now you have to dig yourself out of deep shit>It'll happen to you tooI'm fully prepared to eat a bullet when I get old and start to lose my shit
>>533808889>>533809030Is this really true? My grandpa had Alzheimers, so I have first hand some experience with dementia. It was fairly slow progressing. When he got diagnosed, he was still himself. Sure, he was impaired in other ways - got lost once (this actually prompted the investigation and eventually diagnosis), would forget things, etc, but he was still able to make decisions and knew what he was doing for the most part. I never see him reach end stage because he died years later from an unrelated infection. I suppose its different for others. I'm aware that it can progress at different rates, and some patients get diagnosed late because they dont have close family that know the signs. In either case, if I have the mental capability to kill myself, I will absolutely do it. There is no way I am letting myself decline like that, and burdening everyone around me.
>>533799503Its impossible to care for the elderly as an amateur with a full time job.
>>533799503My boomer parents deserve this fate.
>>533809015My dad was like this. But he managed to fuck over the family so hard that one of my brothers wouldn't even forgive my mum for his bullshit, even though she was on the recieving end of it too. So when my mum got dementia it was only me caring for her and trying to make everything work. Certain types of old boomers are genuinely evil, but either that evilness passes down or people can't get over their trauma enough to realise we were all victims too. That's the worst thing about all of this for me, it's not just one broken boomer but a whole broken family, sometimes especially the kids. The only way to end it is just to be brave enough to be the one who ends it. I hope you are doing better in life now anon.
>>533799503They are spoiled brats if they expect us to take care of themThey need to learn to be adults and take care of themselves
>>533813873Tell them no, just once and see how they react.
We shouldn't live past about 80 or so. Not with our current aversion to cultivated stem cell rejuvenation. Healthy years are more important than total years, and once the healthy years are over it's time to go out fighting against those who are making the world worse
When you reach the point where you can't even physically kick the bucket maybe it's time to die. Ideally a bit before that stage.Giving the government power to kill old people or mandate death to those who wish it is also a big can of worms. Ultimately if people want to die that's a case by case basis but you can't let the government decide that.Boomers in general don't really have a strong connection with God, they may appear traditional but it's more of a natural aversion to change than love for the Lord. Which leads to them clinging on as long as possible. If it's my time to go I go, this world isn't worth clawing and grasping on to.Anyway as anons pointed out in this thread it's more a symptom of the times we live in, sad but predictable. Family united nuked, hyper individualism, vanity gerontocracy manifest. Enjoy the fruits from seeds you planted.
>>533799503it's not easy to sit in the same room with your mom or dad when they are drooling and shitting their pants.
>>533814059(you)
>>533813966They already know that I won't15 years ago, I was trying to pay for college by myself because both of my parents declared bankruptcy because of the divorce they went through. I had to work full time as a pizza driver and full time school. They were both pissed that I was 18 and didn't have some big important job and able to move out. They claimed that I wasn't trying to look for an important job and that my handshakes weren't firm enough and I didn't look the manager straight in the eye. They declared that I was a loser and kicked my out. I was homeless for a year while still trying to go to school. I never froze to death and starved several times. A great guy took pity on my and gave me my first start at a great career. I has finally able to live a normal life. My parents wanted to reconnect because they wanted to save face from the rest of the family. It took me awhile but I started being around them again. But I never forgot what they did and they know that I am still mad at them. They chosen their fate.
>>533811823Isn't that that old Japanese tale of taking old parents up a mountain so that they can die alone up there?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/UbasuteThere we go, that.
>>533799503We're just returning the favor with a token of our gratitude, after 12 years of public school it's the least we can do
>>533799503https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wTqb3jcZAhk
>>533799503Because the parents are boomers, what more reason do you need?
>>533813269I dated a girl whose grandpa was gone from Alzheimer's, he had a moment of clarity one day and wrote an extremely short note saying he loved everyone and then shotgunned himself. You literally don't know what is going on. Your brain is a lossy system, its entire principles operate around having incomplete data. For all we know reality is different than what we're experiencing right now. I just made myself uncomfortable
>>533799503why not? they're the ones that let women ruin everything
>>533808752>There's a theory that dementia is "type 3 diabetes" - the brain develops insulin resistance and can't use glucose for energy and starts to degrade.i read about this theory, and i'm very certain that this vulnerability is genetic. i don't think diet would have any impact on it.
>>533799786>Prim and proper Frenchman No such thing. They are all dogs.
>>533799503well thats what grandma gets for voting to give the future to women and niggers who dont build anything
>>533799503Boomers deserve it. They took advantage of the best economy in the history of the world and then pissed it all away leaving their kids and future generations with nothing while repeating the same cliche phrases of boot straps and hard work. I've been plotting to put my parents in a home since they've been pissing me off with unrealistic demands and 0 explanations since I was 10. Every time they did something completely unreasonable, every time they told me I wasn't "trying hard enough" to get a job at 18 even though I spent 8-10 hours every day for 2 months job searching and applying, when they bought my younger sister a brand new $30,000 car for her 16th birthday but didnt even allow me to get my learner's permit until i was 18 and forced me to get a job to buy some piece of junk car, the fact that they blew all their money on pointless shit and barely have anything for their own retirement let alone anything to leave for me and my 2 siblings, and many more examples. The second my parents retire I'm putting them in a fucking home and I won't feel a shred of guilt. Asshole parents deserve it, they aren't owed any respect because they happened to have unprotected sex and were too religious to abort.
>>533814601We are kindred spirits
>>533808752>There's a theory that dementia is "type 3 diabetes"my mom is an RN and nurse educator and has given talks on this very topic, it's extremely plausiblealso, the new GLP1 drugs were never tested on people with diabetes who had been on insulin long termwhen they first came out my mom was working as the head nursing coordinator for a care home for elderly nunsthe head doctor put basically all of them on that shit as most were very overweight/diabeticmany of them immediately developed severe dementia/cognitive disorders, and stopping the drugs did not stop the onset of issues, and a bunch of them died weeks after starting them
terrible, take care of your fucking family, fucking boomers
>>533807895Why are we doing this to our families? We have to come to terms with letting go
>>533802530boomers aren't 90
>>533799503Because the parents were emotionally distant and possibly physically abusive and failed to properly create an environment in which their children would want to live with them beyond 18/21.
>>533814697My dad literally fell for the "sell your house and spend retirement traveling in a camper van!" meme. So the one thing he could have left his family, gone. My mom still rents and somehow finds a way to spend 80k a year (her salary) and be 400k in debt living alone in a 1400 a month apartment.
>>533814115you're a filthy fucking arab, you have no business talking about white nations, just because you believe in the magical kike doesn't make you white
>>533815194What are you on about Nigel, Arabs generally believe in the caravan raider sex pest prophet not Jesus. Denmark's been Christian for a thousand years give or take, far as I'm aware my heritage is caucasian from here back to Adam.
>>533799503It#s the end result of a decades long psyop to turn families against each other and break one of the most fundamental and basic group structures we know and lived with for thousands of years.
>>533800416My neighbors are 85 and go to the gym and church every day
>>533799786> violent> rapist> alcoholic> frenchwhen a person reaches that level of neurologically broken, it was nature's method that they'd run off into the woods like an idiot, get lost and then either, die of exposure or to a predatory animal.don't be surprised if the staff drug his last meal and gas him while he's unconscious.
>>533811910This
>>533814115> Boomers in general don't really have a strong connection with God, they may appear traditional but it's more of a natural aversion to change than love for the LordTruthnuke
>>533799503To be fair, my parents will deserve this fate.They deserve it now, and they have maybe another decade or two until they really can't care for themselves, and then they will go in the nursing home. They simply didn't care to show respect for their children. How can you expect people you disrespect for decades to care for you when you can do nothing for them but be a burden? Not even a kind word?It's really fucking sad actually. My children and my nieces and nephews won't know their grandparents. They're deprived, and it's not the fault of me or my siblings.Boomers raus.
When I get to that age, cover me in weapons and drop me in a target-rich environment like india, africa, smell aviv, china, or mexico.
>>533799503>She really believed she was in dangerbecause she was, dumb retarded nigger redditor. they do not help people in a nursing home. they drug them until they are basically comatose and then provide the minimal amount of care that prevents them from immediately dying. nursing homes are basically obfuscated medical assistance in dying.
1pbtid garbage thread
It's pointless to do anything else and, even when she's in her own bedroom, she thinks I am hiding the house in her closet and will throw everything out the window to find the house. Mom doesn't even remember my name anymore and, when she's off her brain pills, she just defaults to throwing fits and destroying the house until the TV changes to her only movie, some PBS zoo show. When she was still in the house I'd throw on a DVD and have it set to autoplay, then I just loaded up a thumb drive with everything and set it to shuffle/autoplay/loop. This was enough to get her to shut up. She's only awake maybe 4 hours in a day, from 4 - 8 am. At this point I just lie about everything. Telling her that all her horses passed away (and have been for a long time), that cal fire didn't save grandpa's ranch, or that dad still hates her doesn't buy anything. There's no point in mentioning her money, because she can't even add 2+2, even though she's a multi millionaire now. No point in mentioning college because she always thought college was/is gay. We sometimes talk about grandpa's old cars that are still mothballed in her garage, but it's pointless when I, and my sisters, everyone has a Tesla now. Grandpa's car shop is worthless with ignition coils, ECMs and 1/2 impact wrenches. 0 people want it, despite trying to give it away for free it's always indian scrappers trying to take it for the metal.Their lives are over. If they had a life it was coming home at 6 to have a cigarette over dinner while watching Jeopardy! That's how grandpa went. It's how grandma went. It's how mom will go. This is what boomers wanted.
>>533799503We can't afford to take care of boomers who turned the world to shit. I've seen dementia and it's ugly, it's a literal daily struggle that will age you and you cannot leave them unattended at all, you have to give up your life, your job and all of your free time. You can't even sleep because they will get up in the middle of the night and try to wander off. They'll destroy things, they'll make up the wildest shit imaginable, they'll confuse their lives with anything they see, including the most unrealistic shit on tv. God forbid you let them watch the news dooming about shit 24/7.
>>533800452This is close to the solution.You need to build large *communal* families - living together in a homestead or compound.>Many members residing the same location, not nearby, or in the same town. In the same home, you need to see and interact with them constantly to form proper bonds.>Household decision-making centralized leadership under a patriarch, or a few coordinating patriarchs.>All male members work and contribute resources to be spent on the maintenance and furthering the family's prospects.>All women share the burden of raising children, tending to the elderly, and keeping the homestead in order.>Marriage engagements are arranged and overseen by parents and family patriarchs. An important, existential matter, required to perpetuate the family.
>>533799503I not only disowned my parents, I also wrote them each a detailed letter explaining why they are such colossal cunts. Would recommend. Have not missed them once since I did it.Fun fact: some people are cunts2nd fun fact: some of those cunts have children3rd fun fact: blind loyalty is for dogs. If your parents are cunts, ghost them
>>533799503I read a story like that, and I can't help but wonder what kind of mother she was to have 6 kids and none of them give a shit about her in her old age. She might have been a complete bitch of a bad mother to all her kids when she was younger, and so they tossed her ass in a nursing home and forgot about her to be rid of her.
>>533799503i heard the eskimos have a tradition of letting their elders die in the snow, the elder says bye to the tribe and walks off into the tundra and freeze to death, the reason being they had become a dead weight and a burden to the tribe, where resources are very limited. i agree with that principal, if youre fucked from old age you shouldnt waste your childrens time and resources trying to prolong your life like some faggot, theres no honour in that
>>533817431Having a job with this sort of person is very difficult. I got to be on site ready to work at 5 am. Mom is already up at 4, we only got one bathroom, so I have to be done by 345 before meltdown 1 happens. I leave her toothbrush, clothes and breakfast out. I call at about 10 and she says everything is great. I come back at 4-5 pm and the house is a mess, she's either not wearing pants or still in her nightgown, food has been thrown all over the floor, microwave door (auto child lock) has been broken off again, and she's on the telephone which AT&T disconnected years ago. I ask her why she isn't using her iphone and it's because it can't make Verified calls using the phone network, so anything she says on it is a lie and corrupt her.So by this point I'm getting all three of her meals squared away, cooked and done before I walk out at 4 am. So I'm up at 3 am for a job that starts 2 hours later, that runs for 10-12 hours. I come home, and there's cops everywhere. Mom opened the gate so the dog ran out, so she ran out, and yelled at the first person she saw: some kids playing in their driveway. At this point the court forced her to get evaluated, and would have taken it all away if not for the trust I made after her first bad eval. Court was mostly her yelling at cops and calling them niggers, even though she was never racist. Dad was called and he thought it was the funniest shit ever and that lying bitch deserved it. The judge gave up and let me chose where she'd stay. After her mandatory facility time ended, taking her home is pointless because she'd just do it all over again. Everyone else in her floor is the same way with the same story. They get their pills twice a day, 2-3 bathroom breaks with their meals and a comfortable place for the machine to work them. Most of them are also on dialysis and oxygen machines. That's what the soda and tobacco jews do to humans. There is outside TV but only the 3 main channels.
>>533799503nice try boomer kike..
>>533799503Had my parents not robbed me to fund their new partners after divorcing, I’d have plenty of space
>>533800452whaaaaaaaaaaaat? I thought kicking out your kids at 18 and charging them rent from 16-18 to teach a lesson then waste all savings and sell off all property so there is nothing left to inherit for those few cruises.
>>533799503Why not give dementia patients like this amazing drugs so they have good life quality feeling absolutely amazing for last couple years before they pass
>>533808791>usa flagMore developed civilizations do not even allow this. America did by mistake, and boomers abusing this injustice get very arrogant about it
>>533818101That would cost money. What are you, some kind of antisemite?
>>533799786Have you notice how hispanics and Indians don't have this issue because their families support eachother instead of being individual snow flakes?
>>533818204>Have you notice how hispanics and Indians don't have this issue because their families support eachother instead of being individual snow flakes?I wished I saved that one vid of the old grey-bearded Indian man getting raped up the ass by a younger jeet to show you how shitskins "take care" of their elderly.
>>533810107I guess you're too stupid to understand the difference between your mother and a typical boomer, dumb fag. I bet you trooned out too. most boomers had it all, large houses, multiple cars, padded bank accounts and they gave nothing to their children, and many left their children a debt to deal with after dying. growing up with poor mother who is an alcoholic but was relatively still there for you is a different story, retard. also you might wanna proof read your shit before posting, dumb tranny>my mom was a single mother piece of shit alcoholic>loving parent
>>533802274> 12 grand a month in a nursing homeThat's the sucker rate they use to spend down your estate if you have dementia and your kids leave you to rot. Normally you spend down your estate with gifts / charitable donations, declare yourself indigent, then Medicare + Social Security pays the nursing home whatever they negotiated. Minus some small boomer allowance which the nursing home confiscates if it goes above a certain amount.
>>533814115The immorality move violates others, as it requires you consume too much of other people to prop yourself upGodless villains in fiction end up “consuming souls” or something like this to handle this logic.
>>533818386*immortality
>>533814115one solution is to live in a 2 story house with stairwells so grandma/grandpa can take advantage of them when they feel it's time to go.
It's what they get for neglecting quality time with their own children, for being overbearing retards who always demanded shit yet never explained anything. For thinking never explaining anything and letting their kids figuring it out on their own in our quickly degenerating country was preparing them for life and a valuable lesson.
>>533799503>atomizes the family>parties on cruise ships like cunts while their children break their backs 7 - 5>collectively made world shite and pulled the ladder behind them>at get together - Just pull yourself up by the bootstraps, back in our day...nah I don't know why they would be dumped in nursing homes to wither away
>>533808279>Good on you, now you have a chance that your kids will actually take care of you.What kids? He had to waste his entire life taking care of his boomer father. He has no finances, no prospects, nothing good on the horizon, no friends, no reason to wake up in the morning other than his mother isn't dead yet.Do you think he'll just happen to find a wife who loves emotionally ravaged unskilled poor unexperienced middle aged men and start a family with her?
>>533808791It's a common story in America. The average American doesn't give a fuck about their parents not their children unfortunately.
>>533799503If children don't act the way their parents expect them to, it is entirely the parents' fault
>>533813269When most people say 'dementia' they're usually talking about fast onset varieties. Alzheimer's is a specific type of dementia where you can get a high confidence diagnosis way ahead of time.I had one grandmother with Alzheimers who was diagnosed 15-20 years before she died and another who developed severe dementia after a UTI and went from fairly cogent to completely out of her mind in under a week.
>>533799503Yes, that's very sad.Now let's see how she treated her own kids.>oh you're 18 now, you gotta leave the house>yeah go find your own place to stay, pay rent or something>what you don't have a job yet? well hurry up find one then! god, kids these days, you're all so lazy>no I'm not gonna help you out, go work 40h a week and study 20h a week and figure out how to pay taxes and bills yourself it's good for you>you need to learn how to be independent you see, I'm actually doing this all for you, this is helping you>40 years later>wh-why am I all alone? where am I?>where are my children? why aren't they here with me?>I don't understand, didn't we all use to live in this big house together?>what changed? why did it stop? I just don't understand...
>>533813269My Opa had a stroke that turned him near-vegetable and he was non-communicative for a while, one day they sat him in front of a history program on medieval Europe (one of his interests) and suddenly he started speaking nonstop history trivia albeit in a muddled stream-of-consciousness way. He could do the same with chemistry, in which he had a doctorate. Died a couple years later.
>>533817894I want you to know that I appreciated reading this. My parents are getting old and will maybe get to this point.
>>533799503I don't give a shit about my prick dad but I'd never put my mother in one
>>533800452That helps, but does not ensure anything. You don't know into what the world molds your children into. It just has to be accepted, that you can end up alone and miserable, even if you lived a life where you were positive influence to your surroundings.
>>533799503>weWhy do they always do this? There is no "we." My parents were nice parents, I won't throw them in a retirement home. The boomers who kicked out their kids at 18 telling them to pick themselves up by the bootstraps? Lol they better not be surprised if their kids drop them off in a retirement home.>>533799786>some of them actually need around the clock care if they suffer from dementia/alzIdk how many would be able to handle that even if they love their parents. Sounds very taxing
>>533799786Just read the greentext. Yeah not a chance I'd want to take care of someone like that, into the nursing home they go
>>533818288i thought that jeet was getting revenge for the old fuck raping him as a kid. according to some anon, so grain of salt
>>533807394Will you?Yeah that's what I thought so stfu
>>533808332I fear that diease. What even causes it? The brain simply too old and disintegrating?>>533808752Weird. Know someone old who seems forgetful idk if dementia or alzheimers or simple forgetfulness but this rise in various diseases, illnesses, and cancers freaks me out.
I've lucked out and my grandparents are still in pretty good shape around 90, so I only have to help them a little bit. I think at this point when they do eventually start to decline for good, it won't drag on too long. It'll be over quick. I can only hope the same proves true for my parents too, cause I know damn well my brothers won't do shit for them, and it will all be on me. And it's not that I mind all too much helping my family out like this, but what does sting is knowing that I can only hope I manage well into my own old age because there will likely be absolutely no one there for me
>>533799786>keeps trying to climb into other female patient beds to have sex with them>>somehow stole alcohol from a loced cabinet (they have a minibar at the end of the month)>>keeps leaving food on people's chairs so they sit on it>Now this dude used to be the most prim and proper frenchman ever and dementia has made him lose all inhibitionSounds like a fun loving kinda guy
>>533809548>Since I've slippedCan you go into more detail? Like is there is something you noticed off about yourself? Have you been diagnosed?>>533809652I would not be surprised by that. Older gens seem obsessed about feeling useful to society generally by having a job. They retire and it looks like so many go depressed. Odd as I'd be happy to never have to work again. Perhaps something mental is causing the issue? Or perhaps desiring a life where they feel useful even if its simply moving some item off a conveyor built in a factory. Or perhaps they need some form of mental stimulation ie multiplayer video games or those old people community centers
>>533799786My grand father died at 91 from the cough while he had Alzheimer, he had some symptome for a few years but he had to be place shortly after he was 90.He was expelled from the first place because he tried to escape several time (he was in really good shape for a 90yo and physically didn't look like an Alzheimer patient so visitor wiuldn't be suspicious), one of those time he was apparently plotting an escape with someone else just to go buy bread to a bakery.The other reason is that he decided to dismantle fire alarm because "they had an issue".
>>533808752>Type three diabetes.Interesting. I will now research that.
>>533799503My grandmother lived in her house until she passed away. Last year, I received a cheque for 37 thousand dollars, which really helped. Now I’m getting about 7 thousand more. I love you, Nan, I miss you.
>>533800452As long as you have control of your money no one will fuck with you. I plan to be active until I no longer can. Never give away control of all your assets
>>533807895It was the right choice. Though something you said makes me suspicious, did your dad's dementia result in him becoming violent or maybe a constant runner out of the house when you're not looking and you have to wrangle him in for his own safety? I probably have some point where if this happened to me I'd consider a nursing home, violent dementia like the other anon was talking about in the thread. I could not handle that, I do not care if we are related that crosses a line I cannot handle for a decade straight, into the nursing home you go. The risk is simply too high if someone ends up violent in their dementia state. The extreme level of stress would make me age fast and probably shorten my lifespan too
>>533820708>taking care ofAre you kidding, with a roommate like that we'd be going out painting the town red every night.
>>533802220weak. No excuse
>>533799503Tough call. On one hand, nursing homes are godawful dens of abuse, and no one should be forced out of their own home. On the other hand, I would hate to be a household burden if I couldn't manage without help like a lot of these old fuckers who stop caring for themselves and need other people to do it for them. You do everything you can for them until they're your whole life and it still isn't enough. Am I going to get in trouble from social services because grandpa decided he's going to start shitting himself because it's easier than having to fucking move until he decides it's a great day for molesting his nieces at which point he moves at the speed of sound and I have to keep an eye on where the fuck he went and who the fuck he was after at the time? I am not, I'm going to put him somewhere where he can molest nurses and shit himself until he dies because that's the life he chose old fucking retard such a healthy old age of one hundred wasted on a lying lazy WWII vet fuckwad shitalian who let it all rot because he enjoyed other people cleaning his ass holy fuck even his wife almost broke his jaw once for that shit
>>533807895>10 fucking years man. I just graduated college at 33 while working full time. Graduated into one of the worst job markets for tech in history.Don't worry, the tech industry has been almost impossible to get into since the 2008 crash (I graduated back then).Everyone just lives in a fantasy world where it's just gotten bad in the past few years.
;_; tfw unlikely to have a wife and kids. What happens to people who are single, no wife, no kids, in old age, and end up with dementia or alzheimers? Do you just end up homeless?
>>533810024I want to believe this
>>533821174Honestly this if you have long term care insurance and an actual estate. If you're just some dipshit with a house and a 401k, you're pretty much at the whim of fate without kids.
>>533800416Just lift weights. Having a good core strength is the key to living a long healthy life. Jogging and other cardio is also good, but only in moderate amounts, you need a good stable foundation to allow other parts of your body to keep up. Studies have shown that old people who have kept up with lifting are much less likely to break bones upon falling. This also lets then keep moving and going out, leading to healthy social life and keeping the brain active.Genuinely the only thing I fear is losing the brain lottery snd having my brain turn to mush thanks to Alzheimer's or other form of dementia. If I get that diagnosis then I will be checking out.
>>533799503Every gen above millenial deserves the least amount of grace when it comes to aging. They themselves treated aging with little grace.
>>533806144Sounds about right
>>533801475Obviously by partial staying at home because without your wife's pay you couldn't afford the house you're living in.
>>533799503There are good nursing homes. Try a small town where everyone knows everyone. They can't get do bad things like they can in the city, because everyone knows everyone and word would get around. My dad was well taken care of by people who actually cared and shed tears with us when he died.
>>533821655By the time millennials retire probably, or they throw you in the suicide booth and pop a quarter in the slot. Boomers get free assisted living / nursing home on Medicare if they're indigent.
>>533799503This thread is a government psyop meant to encourage support for government-funded assisted suicide.
>>533799786What the fuck?!?!I was planning on to take caregiving courses to applybfor a visa in USA.I guess Ill stay in my comfy job with little salary.
This is what happens when you sell your children's future for short term feel good politics.Hope the 5 dollar mcdonalds meal for 30 years was worth dying cold and alone. Gen X and Millennials will share the same fate.
>>533799503Yes because they didn't invest in their kids. There was a whole generation of retarded parents driving Teslas while their kids can't afford a home.An investment in your children is an investment in yourself. Those are the fucks that will bury you and make sure you die with dignity.The Jews figured this shit out a long time ago. Whites are incredibly dumb for kicking out their kids without teaching them shit.
>>533821655>What happens to people who are single, no wife, no kids, in old age, and end up with dementia or alzheimers?You die alone in your house
>>533806144my parental scenario was opposite but never the less same selfishness in boomer attitude . I got a well paying professional job about 3 months after graduating college on full university scholarship (meaning they barely paid for anything) then bitched to me because they were expecting me to live back at home for 3-4 years and pay them baord. jokes on them. when my share of house rent was just 20% of my takehome. houses were so cheap to rent back in 90s I got 2 bedrooms in a 4 bed house with another professional housemate. full rent was $160 pw in a great street in a good location and fully furnished except beds, included yard (mowing). The previous tenant was a doctor so it was all nice and well cared for place. Even the couch setting was brand new. It was a no brainer than living my 3 teenage siblings, taking the ladies home when needed and partying non stop.
>>533799503My grandma & grandpa both died at home surrounded by family and I'll be damned if my mother won't as well. I'm 40 and a millennial.
>>533822290Boomers deserve instant euthanasia when they reach 70
>>533822290I have a gun and a bullet ready for when age degradation starts setting in, not my problem.
>>533821865chinks will heal dementia by the time you're old
My great-grandma is 92 and she's steadily heading downhill. I think it was the stroke she had a couple years ago that did her in, as she was generally spry and active, as much as one could be at her age. My grandma takes care of her but I watch over her sometimes and it's genuinely heartbreaking to see her lose herself. She can still recognize me when she sees me, but she's always very confused and scared. I'll probably do the same with my mom when she gets on in her years, but I'll crack jokes about putting her in a home anyway.
>>533799786Knew a nurse that had a miscarriage because a crazy old bastard kicked her in the stomach.
>>533802321look at these senile retards. reminder that these old decrepit fuckers didn't even know how to use the internet until some one showed them how to on a smart phone. what a bunch of absolute niggers
>>533807895Imagine wasting your best years for some old dumb cunt who doesn't know what's going on around him. A worthy price! You did The Right Thing.What did you get out of it? What did your children get out of it?
>>533822290oh no junior, it's buckshot mouthwash for ol uncle anon, but not til after i've rustled my fill of jimmies on the internetand boy howdy do i love rustlin jimmies
>>533825073>life is about what you getyou'll get yours anon. your kind always do.
>>533825073t. loser with no family
>>533800544Checked.. Even though I know you're a fucking scumbag Jew (memefag). This is 100%. Boomers were so busy stealing from GenX and the Milennials that they thought they could just substitute by importing millions of jeets and assdeep's.Fuck boomers, they fucking deserve this and a long painful fucking death.. Utter cunts!
>>533807895You did the moral thing, but it cost you what should have been the best years of your life and all you have to show for it is the moral high ground. Your father should have known better and wanted better for you. It shouldn't be the way of fathers to leech off of their sons, whether maliciously or unintentionally.
>>533825123>>533825187You sacrifice your bloodline so that a demented old dumb cunt can be "comfortable". Great trade!
>>533820877everything is genetic and rarely environmental. if your folks had it theres a good chance you'll get it too. same with rare diseases and things like cancerenjoy
Based nurse Shaqu'ena.
>>533825674Nevermind him, think about his bloodline! His children!
All of this is entirely because of retards sperging over death, both the elderly and their family. >My 84 yar old grandma still had years to goAs you get older your body decays and breaks down, it gets harder to keep everything together and costs of keeping you alive increase exponentially. Notice I said keeping you alive, I ddid not mention your quality of life. You could spend 80-110 in a hospital bed barely conscious on constant pain meds and plugged into a bunch of machines and people would consider it a great thingneven though your quality of life was zero.There is no point in living if you have no future where life is livable. When you're young you live because it can be better, when you're old your shouldn't cling to life just because death scares you. I don't want to be like the dementia patient sceaming about being abducted ot smeariing their own shit in their hair, if you showed them that future when they were 40 they would ask to be shot at 60. I have adopted the idea that if I get to that point then I didn't take enough risks in life. Don't go full retard, but if you get older maybe think about taking more chances since you're going to die anyway. It actually made me appreciate the older boomers on motorbikes who wear faceless helmets. Young people should wear full helmets, but if your body is declining it's a brutal way to go if you crash, but you die enjoying yourself and skip the part where you decay in a carehome for years, soiling yourself, forgetting your family, etc.If you're still fully functional good to be safe, but if things decline just take more risks or have a set exit date to drop out sooner because your quality of life won't improve and thats the best scenario. Thankfully men in my immediate family seem to drop dead in their 70s from heart issues, atleast it's quick.
Sorry ma but you voted and continue voting for further degrading my life. Maybe if you didn't I'd have the money to build a grandmasuite, but instead you think we need millions of Indians to keep your pension. Do onto others as they do onto you.
>>533803368Boomers were born starting 1945. The oldest are past 80.
>>533799503I feel bad for my parents even though they have tortured me and tried to get me to kill myselfI'll probably get cancer soon and die before them in my 30s or kill myself anywayJust a miserable family
why didnt that retarded coffin dodger sort her life out rather than burdening her children? you don't suddenly wake up with dementia, you get diagnosed then have almost a decade to downsize and get care. no one wants to deal with a shitting jibbering pointless old cunt
>>533799503Previous generations let our multi generational communities and family rot into individualism. Between individualism and competition from foriegn labor not everyone can afford the time to keep older generations at home.
>>533799503My sweet Polish grandmother got abused by niggers the entire time she was in a nursing home. Then my parents died.Boomers don't get enough hate. Nobody say "lead poisoning" it was clearly cultural. Just sad and disgusting all around.
>>533826416Your Polish. It is destined that all of your kind to suffer in non-peaceful death.
>>533799503Most people are some variation of mentally ill because their parents loved working to earn money more than they could even tolerate spending time with their children to develope a strong emotional bond of mutual empathy.This is the human variation of a dog biting its owner
I appreciate the stories you all share, that's fucked for many of you but all I can do is pray you all have the strength to go on. I worked in a care home over 10 years ago, I still remember getting in trouble for staying and talking to the ones that had nobody to come see them. I held the nursing home brochure out to the boss, with the picture of the nursing staff talking to the residents and was like "this is me"
>>533801337Theres 30% non Germans currently living in germany
>>533809686You can live with dementia quite a long time if your next day is structured exactly the same as previous ones. I'm sure pre-modern life was predictable for the majority of us. It's when you break routines that it becomes obvious grandpa is demented. I remember a case where the kids had no clue until they noticed the dead and decaying horse in the stable that gramps had been feeding for weeks.
>>533799503"rot" in nursing homes? Those things costs thousands per month. It is a huge sacrifice to put your parents in one. The real version of letting your parents "rot" is doing nothing.
>>533826778Youre corny. Your job is wipe their ass and make sure they take their meds on time.Stop glamorizing it.
>>533821865There was a study done a few years ago that showed dementia can be reversed slightly and prevented almost entirely by walking barefoot outside.Possible explanations given were a strengthening of neural pathways involved with a well known yet complex task such as walking and the action of walking resetting the body’s nerve system which caused for some reason brain repair.
>>533827100Sitting in the tea room with people where it's just a job and they hate it is soul draining, they've got nothing going on mentally anyway. Got a lot more out of talking to the geezers and they appreciate the company, but it doesn't surprise me you'd say that.
>>533799503because society
>>533799503it's how she raised them. those six kids could easily pool their money for a personal nurse and have her living a their homes for a couple months a year.
>>533802178This sounds like what a prim and proper Frenchman would be doing while old, kek
>>533818204Motherfucker there are videos where Indians crowd around to watch a baby get eaten by a wild boar, what the fuck are you talking about?
>>533809347Im pretty surprised you didnt shoot him dead with the literal chekovs gun he handed you
>>533800060Controversial opinion but I don't believe these assholes are actually 'forgetting' much of anything.There's 50 year old dickheads who are mean and evil enough to outright lie in the most brazen way. And you think an 80 year old fart with massively increased sociopathy won't do even more lies? Bullshit.They just want to get their own way and think that lying will lead to it. That old bitch wanted to kill her husband but was too weak and pathetic to do it.
>>533817664>You need to build large *communal* families - living together in a homestead or compound.this conjures in my mind the film "midsommer" and how the community forces old people to jump off a cliff when they reach a certain age so they dont become a burden..
>>533800416Both sets of my grandparents hit 90 without going into a home or major dementia, rather daunting.
>>533807895Thank you Anon. He loves you. In Heaven, or before in better times. I don't know why this affected me so much but I'm crying just thinking about this while on a work break. I wish my Dad and I got along better.
>>533799786>some of them actually need around the clock care if they suffer from dementia/alz So they would die peacefully at home if they didn't have this "care"?
>>533799503if you put your parents in a home medicaid will rape you
>>533827884its only controversial and not down right retarded nigger babble because youre a child and havent seen your parents age
>>533799503They imposed the burden of consciousness upon us, then expect to be rewarded?
>>533829205>because youre a child and havent seen your parents ageNo, I came to this conclusion because I've seen them age you retard.They started as drunk assholes who lie, and as they get older they just get more drunk and lie more.The dumb bitch in the video probably chugged a bottle of shitty red wine, thought her husband was cheating on her because he posted a facebook meme, and tried to kill him.
As an ugly and gloomy dude that will not be able to get his own family, I really hope I die of a heart attack before reaching such state.Recently, a man that I knew died of a heart attack. He was 68. In the supermarke. ACK! He probably didn't even notice anything. No suffering, nothingLike that And honestly, if you think about i, it's not a bad way to go. I live alone and last year I broke my ankñe, and it was really uncomfortable dealing with that all alone. Imagine being in your late 70s or 80s. Fuck this life, man. Just a heart attack and let's be done with it.
the saving grace is no one on planet earth will be wealthier or has been wealthier then White millienials with good parents. You guys are making a lot mistakes in judging. 30s,40s dont matter. You need a 55+ to not be poor and afford healthcare. Almost every white millenial will be a millionaire, its not even stretch prediction. Boomers have 20 years left, long as you dont use medicard, should be inheriting a few hundred thousand to millions on average, for whites
>>533802449>some of them deserve itMANY of them deserve it. The only thing senility/dementia does is take away their ability to deceive people. My own mother was cruel and entitled beyond belief (she had a legitimately tough start to life, but never could get over it even though Dad pulled her out of poverty), but could always project that "sweet long-suffering old lady" air to fool people.Dementia just cracked the shell off the nut.
>>533799503this >>>533799786 >533800060>some of them actually need around the clock care if they suffer from dementia/alz >Elderly people with dementia need literal 24/7 care.My parents and I took care for my grandma, which had also physical issues and couldn't almost walk by herself anymore: I lived with her and was checking on her all day, from the moment I woke up to the moment I went to sleep, and my parents would come and switch with me so that I could sleep at least 6 hours...It was the worst period of my life. After a little more than 1 month like that, I was starting to have suicidal thoughts.We finally decided to put her in nursing home when she refused to drink and eat; once there, she had a drip on 24/7.
Taking care of the elderly is a 24/7 commitment. Any fucking moment they can accidentally fall and break something and then you have to be there to take them to the emergency room. Forget going on any extensive vacations or even really relaxing without that being on your mind. It does not get better when you talk to them and it becomes clear not only don't they have anything new left to tell you, they are misremembering or hallucinating things that never happened and now you have to decide between pointing that out to them, or simply nodding along with their yarn. If you and your siblings live close enough together than you can share the responsibility, great, but chances are you don't and unless you are some tightly knit middle eastern family-clan, taking care of grandma becomes a chore you pass around like a kid that has to go back and forth between divorced parents. Humans were simply never supposed to get as old as they now do. Do yourself and everyone you love a favor and die just before you become nothing but a depressing burden kept alive by nothing but long-past memories and a sense of duty.
>>533799503probably because the parents did the same to the child with public school and daycare and then pushed them out of the house first legal opportunity..
>>533799503One thing these sob stories never mention is that dementia causes people to degrade into paranoid, stupid, dumb, and very, very aggressive people. They are genuinely hard to get along with. They bite the hand that feeds them, often literally.
>>533829611>Humans were simply never supposed to get as old as they now do.i do home care, and you just summarized why we can never have white nations btw. You cant be rich as fuck, not have children and retire and LIVE 30 fucking years. I have seen 6 greatest, silent, boomers retire at 62 and are still alive or died at 93, 30 years out the workforce
>>533826796Ok, Benny Olsen.
My grandparents live with me and I would never put them in a home. But having to care for my poppy who has parkinsons and dementia along with my nan (who helps out a lot but is very limited due to her age) adds a lot more stress to life. My poppy is good most days but every once and awhile he turns into a totally different person and becomes a danger to himself.They took care of me growing up so I'll take care of them. But living like this for 4 years now has given me sympathy for families that put their elders in these homes.
>>533807895Lmao why didnt anyone around you advise you that this is literally suicide? You didn't give your dad 10 years, you signed away your whole life for him. Vampiric shit yo
>>533829848godspeed, this is coming for a lot of millennials thanks to modern medicine. In USA if you go the home route, they will just take all your money after your parent dies, no inheritance (thats their goal)
>>533799503>it is horrendous the way we treat old people!!!No its not, old people choose how to treat themselves. Life is a race, the human race. Either youre in this race all by yourself, or you run with your family. The boomers chose to run on ahead without their family. Big mistake. A skill issue if Im being completely honest.
>>533799503No time to take care of parents because they have to work multiple jobs to make ends meet.This is the world their parents built so it's a fitting end for them too.
>>533830096This. The boomers cant kick a dead horse. They should be happy they had a good run.
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>>533829741Sounds like my grandma: retired in her 50s, is 99 in two months, has been an ancient senior citizen "in her last year" for the last 8 years.
>>533799503Here's an updoot. Even though you haven't returned to this thread it has been very informative and now I hate my parents and grandparents!
>>533808752Btw wtf happens if you CANT pay for a home like this? Srsly. Clearly they can't take care of themselves. What if you just.. leave them in their houses? Idk, i guess my question is, what happens if someone within the family DOESN'T step up to take care of them or to pay the bill for it? Seems like this will be the engame for most boomers
>>533830415>What if you just.. leave them in their housesI guess then 6 months after they die alone in their flat the mailman discovers their body by the smell of their rotting carcass on a hot summer day.
>>533830096Interesting perspective I would agree with how you put it. That's accurate. But also many were incapable of showing their children love or they just weren't there, while they focused on their "careers" and own animalistic desires. Tough to be there in the end for people like that.
>>533799786The boomers belong in nursing homes, hopefully there is some smelly guy from Pakistan raping her during her baths.When you allow your children to live at home until they are married or have enough money to purchase their own home, then when you are old they take care of you. Otherwise they can learn to be independent too! Pull up your bootstraps granny.
You should be awesome to your NEET children and let them live in the basement for free as long as they want. Prisons and homeless shelters are way way nicer than nursing homes and that NEET child needs you more than you need them.
>>533801475it's not that hard, jist quit playing video games and watching tv for 6 hours a day
>>533799503>believing someone with dementiaDon't start doing this, it just makes life harder for both of you.
>>533799503Interesting topic, OP, despite it being from plebbit. I lament the fact we don't take care of our elderly in the West. Did the math recently for my own parents if they'd be in caring home for 5 years, it would cost me 270k and not be doable financially, nor would it to take care of them myself time-wise. Especially not with dementia, saw that with my grandparents. A declaration in their will for euthanasia in this case seems to be the only sensible option, but not legal here in Belgistan, and probably other countries too.
>>533799786The French are sluts, this guy was fucking everything that walked when he was young and hot. Hope he gets to bang some grannies before the end.
>>533831332your nation and almost every single other western socratic, hopes you put your parent in a home, in usa theyll come and take all your money when they die. Nations that dont have ownership dont need to pretend to do this. You still have it better then any eastern euro, russian or chink. White people just need to return to 3 generation households and theyre be no compliants. If gen x and millenials didnt have the adult and move out at 18, stayed at home instead, likely be no issue
the death of multi-generational households, death of the nuclear family, death of the community, and the death of nationalism are the biggest culprits. In the west, there is no social safety net, everyone is a wild west cowboy out on their own. You made the sandwich, don't be surprised when it tastes like crap.
>>533832346It makes sense from a macro view if you actually believe letting humans run around free range will net you more profitable ideas you can exploit but I think we're beginning to see that system fall apart, not because it doesn't work but because so many socialist policies have been implemented that it's not actually a free range experiment it's another socialist hellhole
>>533799503>he's never cleaned up piss every morning. Euthanasia should be dignified but you can't trust this god damned demon world so everyone spitefully lives in hell for 20 years at the end of their lives. AND ITS A GOOD THING
>>533799503anon i?
>>533830415>wtf happens if you CANT pay for a home like thisThat's why Western countries are pushing euthanasia more and more. Especially because of the inverted demographic pyramid.In my family my grandparents generation had five to seven kids. My parents generation had one or two. My generation is having one or zero.When my generation (millennials) reaches retirement age it's going to be a big problem. Western governments' "solution" seems to be infinity Indians but that's not going to work that's just going to turn everywhere into the third world.All this because women just HAD to go to college, work and be allowed to no-fault divorce. Fuck having a sustainable birthrate or stable families or communities that's all patriarchal oppression or something
>>533830415The state appoints someone to manage your affairs, what happens then is all of your assets are sold off and placed in a trust to cover care fees until your death, where any remaining funds are claimed by next of kin or the government. If there isn't enough, there are welfare programs to cover it at taxpayer expense. All that said, this nets you the cheap care options, and it's not a good way to go even currently, it will be worse in the decades to come.
>>533818204Using the two races with the highest amount of in family molestation was a bold choice.
>>533809410Holy shit are you me?>I've not had a single real conversation with them about anything substantial, talking to one is like talking to a stranger in an elevator.Never thought about my parents in that way but i see not that its true.Thanks for showing me some perspective.
>>533835674Yeah I think my entire family are NPCs. I've always loved reading about history, philosophy, religion, science fiction, current events, "conspiracy theories"... I try to talk about it with them and I just get a blank stare.They seem only interested in completely mundane topics. A new car they bought or what restaurant they went to recently or muh sportsball. Even extended family gatherings are painfully boring because they're all like that.
>>533799503>dementia>recognises her granddaughter even though she has never visited and probably looks vastly different than the last time they metuh huhthis is a fake story
